Can the past be removed from the internet

[wsb]

I have become close to a former Chaturbate model in "real life". She did adult work for about 10 years after becoming a single mum. The father of her child left her when he found she was pregnant, met another woman and emigrated. He has never been involved in her son's life. So she took to camming for purely financial reasons.
She is no longer a model and gave it up out of respect for me. We are getting married next year and she wants to put her "sordid dirty past" (her words) behind her.
None of her family or friends know about her former work (including her son) and neither any of mine (including my son - he lives with me). We will be a family of 4.
The biggest problem we have is there are hundreds of photos and videos of her all over the internet and she wants rid of them (as do I - I am being honest here).
So my question is, is there a way to rid these from the internet?
Her biggest fear is one day someone will recognise her.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

Not really, but you can mitigate it somewhat.

Pay for a dmca service that will search these out and send take down notices- they will also delist anything that can’t be pulled down.

Unless she has identifiable tattoos, or something like that, small changes to her appearance can help with facial recognition searches in case anyone ever runs one on her.

If she wears glasses, changing the frame type. If she didn’t wear glasses, starting wearing them. Hair color and style change.

The next thing to do is to run her face through facial recognition sites- and see what pops up. Especially those that focus on porn.

Consider putting more regular photos of her online in various places, this will help any face recognition searches find more recent stuff and ideally bury the older stuff.

If you want to get a bit more extreme, small facial changes provide reasonable deniability. A nose job for example.

If the nose is visibly different + different hair.. you could claim she’s a different person.

Bottom line though… unfortunately yes it is forever. All you can do is really mitigate it as much as possible at this point.

 

[cbhours]

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You left out opting out of the facial recognition sites.

 

[sexyycamboyy]

I have become close to a former Chaturbate model in "real life". She did adult work for about 10 years after becoming a single mum. The father of her child left her when he found she was pregnant, met another woman and emigrated. He has never been involved in her son's life. So she took to camming for purely financial reasons.
She is no longer a model and gave it up out of respect for me. We are getting married next year and she wants to put her "sordid dirty past" (her words) behind her.
None of her family or friends know about her former work (including her son) and neither any of mine (including my son - he lives with me). We will be a family of 4.
The biggest problem we have is there are hundreds of photos and videos of her all over the internet and she wants rid of them (as do I - I am being honest here).
So my question is, is there a way to rid these from the internet?
Her biggest fear is one day someone will recognise her.

It's very difficult to wipe out all previous data, considering she worked for about ten years, it's a long time .. DMCA services can take down majority of stuff but it's still hard to say they can wipe out total record.

There is no easy way out if this situation but my advice is to talk through and take at least your children in confidence .. even if they hear from anyone later on, they can absorb it. Since she has left the work, so it will be easy to explain things to both of your children, I'm assuming they must be teen agers, that she only worked out of necessity and nothing else. Also, this generation is more open to these things than say twenty years ago .. many people working in adult industry switched to main stream media and people accepted them .. so I hope you can manage it in this way.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

You left out opting out of the facial recognition sites.

Thank you yes this is also important