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Both of these have been talked about in older threads but

Mentioning prior tips to somehow justify freeloading. "Can't tip today sweety(annoying) but don't forget I gave you 100 tokens a few months ago" and kinda similar "Loved that pvt show that I got from you forever ago".

Negotiating for anything/asking the model to lower her rates. Tackiest shit ever. Model probably hates you(idk if this is true but I know I would) when you do this.
 
Yesterday when i was in a local version of a Waffle House restaurant, in walks a middle aged woman and a really big guy (very heavy set). He starts to complain about the decor at the door. People can sit anywhere they want right away. So they choose a table in the middle of the place because all the booths are near the walls and it's already too cold in the place. They announce this to the restaurant. Then proceed to gripe about the small town in general (at this point i'm guessing they're not from here). They go to order food and grill the waiter about several dishes, what ingredients, how are they cooked, what kind of oil is used for frying, etc.. They finally decide on a meal that comes with onion rings. Guy asks if they are good onion rings, and if they're not can he send them back and get an order of fries instead. Then when he gets them he looks at them derisively and says 'THAT'S what passes for an order of onion rings in this state?'

As you can tell his annoyance continued throughout the whole meal. And his annoying everyone else in the place. The whole time I'm thinking, this is what a fucking MFC beggar looks like in real life!
:violence-pistoldouble: :whax:

I did have fun though. When I went up to pay I asked the waiter, in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, 'Are you a betting man?' He said yes. So I held up a $5 bill and asked him if he'd like to 'Bet that idiot in the middle table doesn't leave a tip?' He declined to bet me. :lol: I got out of there quick after that. :cool:
 
JerryBoBerry said:
Yesterday when i was in a local version of a Waffle House restaurant, in walks a middle aged woman and a really big guy (very heavy set). He starts to complain about the decor at the door. People can sit anywhere they want right away. So they choose a table in the middle of the place because all the booths are near the walls and it's already too cold in the place. They announce this to the restaurant. Then proceed to gripe about the small town in general (at this point i'm guessing they're not from here). They go to order food and grill the waiter about several dishes, what ingredients, how are they cooked, what kind of oil is used for frying, etc.. They finally decide on a meal that comes with onion rings. Guy asks if they are good onion rings, and if they're not can he send them back and get an order of fries instead. Then when he gets them he looks at them derisively and says 'THAT'S what passes for an order of onion rings in this state?'

As you can tell his annoyance continued throughout the whole meal. And his annoying everyone else in the place. The whole time I'm thinking, this is what a fucking MFC beggar looks like in real life!
:violence-pistoldouble: :whax:

I did have fun though. When I went up to pay I asked the waiter, in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, 'Are you a betting man?' He said yes. So I held up a $5 bill and asked him if he'd like to 'Bet that idiot in the middle table doesn't leave a tip?' He declined to bet me. :lol: I got out of there quick after that. :cool:

What kind of person goes to Waffle House for fine dining? You go there for their blueberry or pecan waffles.
 
JerryBoBerry said:
Yesterday when i was in a local version of a Waffle House restaurant, in walks a middle aged woman and a really big guy (very heavy set). He starts to complain about the decor at the door. People can sit anywhere they want right away. So they choose a table in the middle of the place because all the booths are near the walls and it's already too cold in the place. They announce this to the restaurant. Then proceed to gripe about the small town in general (at this point i'm guessing they're not from here). They go to order food and grill the waiter about several dishes, what ingredients, how are they cooked, what kind of oil is used for frying, etc.. They finally decide on a meal that comes with onion rings. Guy asks if they are good onion rings, and if they're not can he send them back and get an order of fries instead. Then when he gets them he looks at them derisively and says 'THAT'S what passes for an order of onion rings in this state?'

As you can tell his annoyance continued throughout the whole meal. And his annoying everyone else in the place. The whole time I'm thinking, this is what a fucking MFC beggar looks like in real life!
:violence-pistoldouble: :whax:

I did have fun though. When I went up to pay I asked the waiter, in a loud enough voice for everyone to hear, 'Are you a betting man?' He said yes. So I held up a $5 bill and asked him if he'd like to 'Bet that idiot in the middle table doesn't leave a tip?' He declined to bet me. :lol: I got out of there quick after that. :cool:

That's the kind of asshole that complains about getting hanged with a new rope.
They should be happy that they were the first.
 
PunkInDrublic said:
Mentioning prior tips to somehow justify freeloading. "Can't tip today sweety(annoying) but don't forget I gave you 100 tokens a few months ago" and kinda similar "Loved that pvt show that I got from you forever ago".

Also, the doods who feel the need to bring up previous tips when another member drops a particularly large tip-bomb.

"Hey, nice tip, man. I tip like that when I can. Hey, _____, remember when I tipped you 5000 tokens on your birthday? Yeah, I like to take care of you, bb"
 
mynameisbob84 said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Mentioning prior tips to somehow justify freeloading. "Can't tip today sweety(annoying) but don't forget I gave you 100 tokens a few months ago" and kinda similar "Loved that pvt show that I got from you forever ago".

Also, the doods who feel the need to bring up previous tips when another member drops a particularly large tip-bomb.

"Hey, nice tip, man. I tip like that when I can. Hey, _____, remember when I tipped you 5000 tokens on your birthday? Yeah, I like to take care of you, bb"
*head, desk, head, desk*
I used to know one of these... that mother fucker!
 
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schlmoe said:
1. Members begging for tips, spamming her content, etc. I have no problem with the model saying things like: "tip if you like me"; "tips keep the show going"; "we have {insert time limit} to make countdown"; "hey, I have content for sale". Dudes, it's just not YOUR job. And while you're at it, stop acting all ragey when you think tipping is slow. If you think tipping is slow, throw out a few 10-20 token tips, but leave out the public tip note admonishing the room for their cheapness. :twocents-02cents:

This is one that has been very annoying to me a lot lately. One of my favorite models has a regular that does this. He is one of her highest tippers consistently every month so I can see how, even if she didn't like it when he did this, might not admonish him. However, it's very annoying when all it seems he ever posts are comments about people freeloading, not tipping, or asking her to read his PM. He rarely participates in general chat other than to "yell" at the room for slow tipping. Honestly, if I didn't like the model so much, it would be enough to make me leave when he is in her room (And sometimes I do). I am a regular and tip when I'm there, so technically, he isn't talking to me, but it's still very annoying. I like relaxed fun, not some online douche wrecking my boner.
 
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ILikeUonTop said:
schlmoe said:
1. Members begging for tips, spamming her content, etc. I have no problem with the model saying things like: "tip if you like me"; "tips keep the show going"; "we have {insert time limit} to make countdown"; "hey, I have content for sale". Dudes, it's just not YOUR job. And while you're at it, stop acting all ragey when you think tipping is slow. If you think tipping is slow, throw out a few 10-20 token tips, but leave out the public tip note admonishing the room for their cheapness. :twocents-02cents:

This is one that has been very annoying to me a lot lately. One of my favorite models has a regular that does this. He is one of her highest tippers consistently every month so I can see how, even if she didn't like it when he did this, might not admonish him. However, it's very annoying when all it seems he ever posts are comments about people freeloading, not tipping, or asking her to read his PM. He rarely participates in general chat other than to "yell" at the room for slow tipping. Honestly, if I didn't like the model so much, it would be enough to make me leave when he is in her room (And sometimes I do). I am a regular and tip when I'm there, so technically, he isn't talking to me, but it's still very annoying. I like relaxed fun, not some online douche wrecking my boner.
Put him on ignore. Do that with all the ones that annoy you. It makes life so much more peaceful.
 
Shaun__ said:
JerryBoBerry said:
Yesterday when i was in a local version of a Waffle House restaurant ....

What kind of person goes to Waffle House for fine dining? You go there for their blueberry or pecan waffles.

Or Meat Lover's scramble. Bacon, sausage, ham, eggs, onion, pepper, mushrooms and cheese all served over a bed of diced potato's. Mmmmm, good stuff.
 
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JoleneBrody said:
mynameisbob84 said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Mentioning prior tips to somehow justify freeloading. "Can't tip today sweety(annoying) but don't forget I gave you 100 tokens a few months ago" and kinda similar "Loved that pvt show that I got from you forever ago".

Also, the doods who feel the need to bring up previous tips when another member drops a particularly large tip-bomb.

"Hey, nice tip, man. I tip like that when I can. Hey, _____, remember when I tipped you 5000 tokens on your birthday? Yeah, I like to take care of you, bb"
*head, desk, head, desk*
I used to know one of these... that mother fucker!
The only thing worse would be if he confused you with a different model.
 
Sevrin said:
JoleneBrody said:
mynameisbob84 said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Mentioning prior tips to somehow justify freeloading. "Can't tip today sweety(annoying) but don't forget I gave you 100 tokens a few months ago" and kinda similar "Loved that pvt show that I got from you forever ago".

Also, the doods who feel the need to bring up previous tips when another member drops a particularly large tip-bomb.

"Hey, nice tip, man. I tip like that when I can. Hey, _____, remember when I tipped you 5000 tokens on your birthday? Yeah, I like to take care of you, bb"
*head, desk, head, desk*
I used to know one of these... that mother fucker!
The only thing worse would be if he confused you with a different model.
Bwahahahahahahaha oh geeze!
 
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Members that act like they can't control what they say because they're a dude annoy the shit out of me.

"I would love to suck on your tits. Haha, sorry, typical male response!"
"Oh god, I want to be fucking you! Oops, sorry, just being a typical male!"

Blow me. Srsly.


Just to be clear, the statements don't bother me (for the most part), but adding "sorry, typical male" to everything does.
 
sv89 said:
The guys that make fun of you if you don't want to tip, they equate not tipping with being broke.
Well. If you don't enjoy the model enough to tip her anything, then why are you still in her room? :think:
 
I like the model but I like saving up money, and I dont want to get addicted to tipping, mfc designed the tip system to be addicting.
 
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AllisonWilder said:
Members that act like they can't control what they say because they're a dude annoy the shit out of me.

"I would love to suck on your tits. Haha, sorry, typical male response!"
"Oh god, I want to be fucking you! Oops, sorry, just being a typical male!"

Blow me. Srsly.


Just to be clear, the statements don't bother me (for the most part), but adding "sorry, typical male" to everything does.
I guess it's different on MFC. They will make a jerky statement, and end it with "lol" or the laughing emote.

"Hey, isn't it time for the free show, lol"
"I'd like you to stick that [finger, toy, wine bottle, etc] in your ass, lol"

and so on...
I always read what those dudes are saying as "I can be a jerk as long as I put the "lol" at the end. THAT makes it OK."

Allison, we should make a poll to see which one is more obnoxious...lol (added for sarcasm, lol)
 
schlmoe said:
I always read what those dudes are saying as "I can be a jerk as long as I put the "lol" at the end. THAT makes it OK."
I need to make an emote of that so it can just be posted every time that happens.
 
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sv89 said:
I like the model but I like saving up money, and I dont want to get addicted to tipping, mfc designed the tip system to be addicting.

It's also designed that way so the folk who work on the site get paid, yo. While I would never tell you how you should be spending your money, and while you're under to obligation to tip (MyFreeCams, yadda yadda), I'm of the belief that if you're sufficiently entertained/titillated by a model to the point where you want to visit her room with any regularity at all, you should at least tip something, as and when you can. I like music, and I like saving up money, but that wouldn't justify me downloading hours of music without ever paying for it, ya know? :twocents-02cents:
 
JerryBoBerry said:
schlmoe said:
I always read what those dudes are saying as "I can be a jerk as long as I put the "lol" at the end. THAT makes it OK."
I need to make an emote of that so it can just be posted every time that happens.
YESSSSS! DOO EET! :lol:
 
sv89 said:
I like the model but I like saving up money, and I dont want to get addicted to tipping, mfc designed the tip system to be addicting.
The tip system is not addicting, but the models sure are!
 
mynameisbob84 said:
sv89 said:
I like the model but I like saving up money, and I dont want to get addicted to tipping, mfc designed the tip system to be addicting.

It's also designed that way so the folk who work on the site get paid, yo. While I would never tell you how you should be spending your money, and while you're under to obligation to tip (MyFreeCams, yadda yadda), I'm of the belief that if you're sufficiently entertained/titillated by a model to the point where you want to visit her room with any regularity at all, you should at least tip something, as and when you can. I like music, and I like saving up money, but that wouldn't justify me downloading hours of music without ever paying for it, ya know? :twocents-02cents:

I only have paypal,so when I offer to send money on paypal, most models refuse.
 
sv89 said:
I only have paypal,so when I offer to send money on paypal, most models refuse.
Paypal offers not only credit cards but also free Debit cards linked to your accont that work on mfc. I have both and have successfully tested them by purchasing tokens.

Congratulations. Your problems are solved. Now you can buy tokens directly on mfc to properly tip the models.
Click here to get yours today! https://www.paypal.com/us/webapps/mpp/debit-card
 
sv89 said:
I only have paypal,so when I offer to send money on paypal, most models refuse.

Too many reasons NOT to use or accept paypal on adult sites or for adult transactions. Do a search here on this forum for explanations.

Alternatives:

1-get a *free* paypal debit card

2-You don't want to be traced? Take some of your paypal money (or any of your money) and get a Visa/Mastercard. You can get either the *Debit* (reloadable) or the *Gift Card* varieties. Both are cheap enough, and combine that with a disposable email your privacy is insured. Your bank account is insured also, as using one these your bank account can't be hacked or double charged. *get $10 or $20 gift card, buy tokens, throw gift card away* Easy-peasy :)
 
:? What grown man doesn't have at least a debit card? You can't pay at the gas pump with paypal...
Sorry but I'm calling B.S.
If you don't want to tip for your entertainment, maybe you should find entertainment that isn't working for tips?
 
JoleneBrody said:
:? What grown man doesn't have at least a debit card? You can't pay at the gas pump with paypal...
Sorry but I'm calling B.S.
If you don't want to tip for your entertainment, maybe you should find entertainment that isn't working for tips?

I'm actually thinking we might have a trooooooll! :dance:
 
KayleePond said:
JoleneBrody said:
:? What grown man doesn't have at least a debit card? You can't pay at the gas pump with paypal...
Sorry but I'm calling B.S.
If you don't want to tip for your entertainment, maybe you should find entertainment that isn't working for tips?

I'm actually thinking we might have a trooooooll! :dance:
He's not insulting anyone, I think it's just a regular freeloader. Who didn't realize before signing up here that this forum is actually pro-models and anti-freeloaders.
 
AllisonWilder said:
Members that act like they can't control what they say because they're a dude annoy the shit out of me.

"I would love to suck on your tits. Haha, sorry, typical male response!"
"Oh god, I want to be fucking you! Oops, sorry, just being a typical male!"

Blow me. Srsly.


Just to be clear, the statements don't bother me (for the most part), but adding "sorry, typical male" to everything does.

If I were a man I would be insulted by the notion that I couldn't control my sexual urges and act like a civilized human being around women. Why do guys make this excuse for themselves and other men? So stupid.
 
JoleneBrody said:
:? What grown man doesn't have at least a debit card? You can't pay at the gas pump with paypal...
Sorry but I'm calling B.S.
If you don't want to tip for your entertainment, maybe you should find entertainment that isn't working for tips?
It's highly likely that it's BS, and most of us here are very familiar with the *paypal* excuse, and maybe he is a troll/freeloader/etc. but...

I don't want to make a big thing, but let me tell you from a member's viewpoint (or at least mine). I am extremely paranoid about using my CC/Debit card online. Theft/double charges/sketchy web transactions are rare, but they do happen. They do happen even at a "brick & mortar" operation. Look at the Target and Neiman Marcus (et al) fiasco that happened over the 2013 holiday season. The difference for me is if there is a problem, I can go to Target in person and yell/beat my fists on their counter. We all know how responsive MFC isn't when it comes to member support (I have no experience in emailing them about CC questions, maybe it's different for that).

My point is, on my 1st few visits to MFC, I sat on my wallet due to this paranoia. I did get over it, but I did it in a roundabout way. I have 2 bank accounts at 2 different banks, I keep a minimal account balance ($10 or less) in one of them. Before I make any online purchase, I'll do an online bank transfer from the main account to the secondary account. If I'm going to buy the $75 token package, I'll do a $80 transfer beforehand. I use the secondary account for all my online purchases: ebay, amazon, MFC, etc. Yeah, I'm probably being a little extreme, but don't knock me too hard. You girls want to protect you're name/location, I want to protect my money. :mrgreen:

But this isn't the only reason members might be reluctant to use their debit card: married dudes, dudes afraid their bank will snicker at them (this is real for some dudes), and more. Yes, these can be just "another excuse" to freeload.

I have found that instead of arguing, I have more success by eliminating excuses and closing loopholes. Look at my and Jerry's responses and then look at yours. If he is a freeloader/troll, he will not have an answer for our response. However he may be tempted to insist he is not broke, a freeloader, or a troll. You certainly have the right to feel that way, and you have certainly "seen it all". In this particular case, Jerry and I may not have seen it all, but we have seen a lot!

Please give me 5 minutes to get my asbestos suit on before the flaming begins :mrgreen:
 
schlmoe said:
JoleneBrody said:
:? What grown man doesn't have at least a debit card? You can't pay at the gas pump with paypal...
Sorry but I'm calling B.S.
If you don't want to tip for your entertainment, maybe you should find entertainment that isn't working for tips?
It's highly likely that it's BS, and most of us here are very familiar with the *paypal* excuse, and maybe he is a troll/freeloader/etc. but...

I don't want to make a big thing, but let me tell you from a member's viewpoint (or at least mine). I am extremely paranoid about using my CC/Debit card online. Theft/double charges/sketchy web transactions are rare, but they do happen. They do happen even at a "brick & mortar" operation. Look at the Target and Neiman Marcus (et al) fiasco that happened over the 2013 holiday season. The difference for me is if there is a problem, I can go to Target in person and yell/beat my fists on their counter. We all know how responsive MFC isn't when it comes to member support (I have no experience in emailing them about CC questions, maybe it's different for that).

My point is, on my 1st few visits to MFC, I sat on my wallet due to this paranoia. I did get over it, but I did it in a roundabout way. I have 2 bank accounts at 2 different banks, I keep a minimal account balance ($10 or less) in one of them. Before I make any online purchase, I'll do an online bank transfer from the main account to the secondary account. If I'm going to buy the $75 token package, I'll do a $80 transfer beforehand. I use the secondary account for all my online purchases: ebay, amazon, MFC, etc. Yeah, I'm probably being a little extreme, but don't knock me too hard. You girls want to protect you're name/location, I want to protect my money. :mrgreen:

But this isn't the only reason members might be reluctant to use their debit card: married dudes, dudes afraid their bank will snicker at them (this is real for some dudes), and more. Yes, these can be just "another excuse" to freeload.

I have found that instead of arguing, I have more success by eliminating excuses and closing loopholes. Look at my and Jerry's responses and then look at yours. If he is a freeloader/troll, he will not have an answer for our response. However he may be tempted to insist he is not broke, a freeloader, or a troll. You certainly have the right to feel that way, and you have certainly "seen it all". In this particular case, Jerry and I may not have seen it all, but we have seen a lot!

Please give me 5 minutes to get my asbestos suit on before the flaming begins :mrgreen:
Your point is good but completely unrelated to this situation and therefor pretty pointless.
I'm not going to light you on fire today, but I will point out that all of your points are about a person being afraid to use his card online, and there was zero mention of that in his post.

He actually specifically said he doesn't not like to tip because he prefers saving his money. I'm only working off of the facts here.
Then again I am also a believer that if you are so paranoid about using a credit or debit card on a site like MFC, but are not interested enough in exploring the alternatives yourself (which any reasonable human who actually WANTS to tip would) then again... you probably shouldn't be spending time on a site like MFC.

Sorry you didn't like my response but mine was a little more seated in reality than yours.
 
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