I found that being "out" about camming has really helped me choose my friends well. Sex work is important to me and you can tell right away whether or not someone has bigoted or archaic ideas about women.
It is tiring physically and emotionally. But for many of us who depend on a consistent schedule to visit with our regulars on cam, it's a really scary thing to take a break or vacation. It is a fickle, fickle business, and being out of your routine can be devastating. Losing regulars and missing out on the potential to make new ones sometimes is too much of a risk to go on holiday.Only a newcomer to the world of Webcamming, but one thing this holiday season has wondering how and when does a cam girl decide when to take a holiday most of the cam girls i have seen are extremely hard working and seem to work long hours but surely this must be tiring both physically and emotionally?
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I am thinking of doing my first ever raffle on MFC soon. I was wondering what a reasonable price for a ticket would be? For say a Skype show or custom video. in the past I've not kept a schedule and cammed quite irregularly so i am wondering if it will be more beneficial to price lower for a ticket or not.
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^^ SO TRUE. I'm open about it, except with family because I figure there's no point in mucking through that conversation unless I absolutely have to. When I first started, I had a couple friends tell me I'm "better/smarter than that" to which I asked how the hell my intelligence and good nature have anything to do with my enjoyment and expression of my sexuality, but since I've become more confident and cut off a lot of those "concerns" straight from the gate, I've been much more positively received for my current chosen line of work.
So much great info, thank you all for your contributions. I've been camming for the better part of the year, and I definitely needed to hear a few things again, especially about consistency.
The advice I can offer newbies is this:
When your "new model" status runs out, your pay is going to take a hit for a hot minute. That's reality. DON'T GIVE UP! Push through that period with a little grace and it won't last long, you'll have good nights again. My first week or two were incredible on SM, and then I had a week of pocket change that discouraged me so deeply that I didn't work much for a long time after that. Now, I've had to try to build up all over again and missed out on a lot of great connections I had begun to foster when I first started. Expect the not-new drop and find ways to motivate yourself to keep going.
What's this about new model status dropping? I didn't know that happened. I'm worried now lol xxI know most models on here are on token based sites but for those of us on private based i.e. streamate, jasmine(are there others?), do you guys have advice for us. I started on chaturbate which is a completely different vibe and people like to be entertained it seemed but streamate is totally different. I make more money but my earnings have dropped since my new model status left but I still make more than I did on cb. How do you keep people in your room and get more privates?
Oh and thank you for making this thread. It's super helpful!
Congrats xxToday I took the advice here, and grabbed my broadcast by the balls! I let them know I wasn't here to chat, that I was there to make my goal for us all. I stepped a little out of my norm, and today was successful. It wasn't perfect, but it was a good day!! Thanks everyone!!