Well, you know what this is about bythe subject line.
I often read gow critical the models are of the authenticity of these relationships and I'm not saying they are off base, I'm just curious as to models' thoughts on my relationship.
I have visited cam sites for years. I've had friendships, I've seen how the game is played, I've read the forums, I've been an active tipper and an active member of my favorite models' rooms and sure, I've been played too. I've heard all of them. My mother's in the hospital, the studio won't pay me, I need to pay my rent, blah, I need money for the dentist, blah, blah.
So, for the most part when you first enter into a relationship, obviously trust is what's tested the most here. The guys are worried the models are just looking for their money and the models are just worried that the guys want to see them naked, fuck them or harm them.
Legit concerns.
I've been scammed by a Romanian, so I've seen that side. So, here is my situation.
My go-to sites were always MFC and LJ.
I was curious about Cb and tried it. Much different than other sites, especially LJ.
I met a Colombian model and hit talked to her in private. I didn't ask her to take her clothes off, just wanted to talk. I was recently divorced and I guess I just needed someone to talk to. She gave me her whatsapp and we began talking every day. She has never asked me for a dime, although she is a pretty successful model. Has never given me any kind of sob story. We have video called. She has told me about her kids. She has shared family photos. We have talked about the highs and lows of life. We have been talking for 14 months. Whenever it's slow on the site and I ask her how it's going there, she'll say it's bad and then write ha, ha, ha. I visit her room from time to time just to show her support and talk to her, but I'm pretty satisfied with talking to her off the site. She is very intelligent and just graduated from University last year. She was very excited to send me a pic of her degree and I have to say, that made her 10 times more attractive to me. She is super responsible and the way she is with her kids also makes her more attractive to me.
Like I said, I'm not in her room every day, but when I am, she has made me a moderator. I'm actually a horrible mod, because I don't stay very long and hardly talk to the guys, but she made me a mod, so I put a few gifs up and encourage guys to tip from time to time, but mostly, I'm just there to talk to her and see how it's going and I keep an eye on how much she's making to make sure she's good. I tip every once on a while to get other guys going, but I'm never putting myself out. If she has a bad week and she's stressing over bills, I will offer to help but she always says no because she's too proud to take it and that I need it.
She's usually naked and she'll play in public and has an occasional private. She has her regulars too, but to me, I know the deal and I am not jealous at all. I'm very secure with myself and not judgmental at all. I get pissed when guys don't tip or are rude, because we both look at it as her job, but I bite my tongue, knowing this is how it goes and also that she us tough enough to handle it. She also legit likes the site and does a nice job promoting her onlyfans stuff too and I'm really proud of her and try to support her successes as much as possible. She does well enough to pay for her apartment and her own studio space and uses her degree to market other models. She's super impressive.
So, that's our dynamic. We have both said we are in love with the other and both refer to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. We talked about me visiting and I asked if she wanted me to get my own place or stay with her and she said to stay with her, which surprised me given her kids and no matter what our expressed feelings are, I'm still a guy she hasn't met in person.
Well, I went to see her at the end of January for eight days, but the week before she was having reservations about me staying with her and the kids so we agreed for me to stay in an apartment, which I totally understood and was cool with.
We found a place together online near her studio and she was very active in helping me.
I flew there, she picked me up at the airport and that night, I had dinner with the kids, her Mom and younger Sister. I am very family oriented and her introducing me to her kids was a huge gesture, but they did think I was a friend, while her Mom and Sister knew otherwise, but I was still thrilled. Next day, shopping for school supplies and another family dinner. This may sound boring, but I loved every second of it.
I did not see her the next three days, which was frustrating, but I've been in her shoes with a long distance girlfriend up to visit and not seeing me all day while I worked. I also didn't have kids to see or a marketing job after her online job, so I get the time constraint and I respect her work ethic and ambition.
Anyway, went birthday shopping for her oldest and was at his birthday party, which was just us and her mom and Sister. When we were driving to the airport, I expressed that I would have liked more communication, but I'm also chalking it up to a pretty big age difference. We didn't have sex, which was fine with me, since she was making sure that I wasn't a psychopath or just there to fuck her. We also talked about coordinating vacation time next time and maybe going somewhere together. We talked about possibilities of one of us moving and although she likes Colombia, she knows the money is shit there and would like to move to the US. I see the lightbulb going off in your heads, but she has never asked me to help with paperwork, as she has already taken care of this for her and the kids and has not asked for money nor talked about marriage as a way to get here.
So, I totally trust her and sure, the language is a barrier, but I have four years of high school Spanish and two in college and weekly youtube learning sessions, so my Spanish is coming along. The only thing that bothers me is how short or maybe (as you have guessed from this post) how long my posts are to her when we talk. Certainly not a book like this, but I am big on communication and expressing myself and as far as she has told me, she doesn't have a problem with it and hasn't put a noose around her neck out of exhaustion as some of you may have by now. No doubt about it, she's hot, but, and you can believe this if you want or not, but I honestly love her personality, her intelligence, her drive, passion, ambition and sense of responsibility. And I'm an attractive guy, so I'm not constantly questioning anything or asking if this is real or not. She knows I'm not with her because or despite her being a camgirl. She could stop tomorrow if she wanted or do it until she's 80. I don't care. I don't judge her and just want her to be happy and at peace with how she lives her life and I don't care who knows what she does, but also respect if she wants to keep it private.
So, skeptics have at it! If this is all a ruse, then, hey, she got me, but I put all my effort into it as I would for anyone, who I felt earned it from me.
I often read gow critical the models are of the authenticity of these relationships and I'm not saying they are off base, I'm just curious as to models' thoughts on my relationship.
I have visited cam sites for years. I've had friendships, I've seen how the game is played, I've read the forums, I've been an active tipper and an active member of my favorite models' rooms and sure, I've been played too. I've heard all of them. My mother's in the hospital, the studio won't pay me, I need to pay my rent, blah, I need money for the dentist, blah, blah.
So, for the most part when you first enter into a relationship, obviously trust is what's tested the most here. The guys are worried the models are just looking for their money and the models are just worried that the guys want to see them naked, fuck them or harm them.
Legit concerns.
I've been scammed by a Romanian, so I've seen that side. So, here is my situation.
My go-to sites were always MFC and LJ.
I was curious about Cb and tried it. Much different than other sites, especially LJ.
I met a Colombian model and hit talked to her in private. I didn't ask her to take her clothes off, just wanted to talk. I was recently divorced and I guess I just needed someone to talk to. She gave me her whatsapp and we began talking every day. She has never asked me for a dime, although she is a pretty successful model. Has never given me any kind of sob story. We have video called. She has told me about her kids. She has shared family photos. We have talked about the highs and lows of life. We have been talking for 14 months. Whenever it's slow on the site and I ask her how it's going there, she'll say it's bad and then write ha, ha, ha. I visit her room from time to time just to show her support and talk to her, but I'm pretty satisfied with talking to her off the site. She is very intelligent and just graduated from University last year. She was very excited to send me a pic of her degree and I have to say, that made her 10 times more attractive to me. She is super responsible and the way she is with her kids also makes her more attractive to me.
Like I said, I'm not in her room every day, but when I am, she has made me a moderator. I'm actually a horrible mod, because I don't stay very long and hardly talk to the guys, but she made me a mod, so I put a few gifs up and encourage guys to tip from time to time, but mostly, I'm just there to talk to her and see how it's going and I keep an eye on how much she's making to make sure she's good. I tip every once on a while to get other guys going, but I'm never putting myself out. If she has a bad week and she's stressing over bills, I will offer to help but she always says no because she's too proud to take it and that I need it.
She's usually naked and she'll play in public and has an occasional private. She has her regulars too, but to me, I know the deal and I am not jealous at all. I'm very secure with myself and not judgmental at all. I get pissed when guys don't tip or are rude, because we both look at it as her job, but I bite my tongue, knowing this is how it goes and also that she us tough enough to handle it. She also legit likes the site and does a nice job promoting her onlyfans stuff too and I'm really proud of her and try to support her successes as much as possible. She does well enough to pay for her apartment and her own studio space and uses her degree to market other models. She's super impressive.
So, that's our dynamic. We have both said we are in love with the other and both refer to each other as boyfriend/girlfriend. We talked about me visiting and I asked if she wanted me to get my own place or stay with her and she said to stay with her, which surprised me given her kids and no matter what our expressed feelings are, I'm still a guy she hasn't met in person.
Well, I went to see her at the end of January for eight days, but the week before she was having reservations about me staying with her and the kids so we agreed for me to stay in an apartment, which I totally understood and was cool with.
We found a place together online near her studio and she was very active in helping me.
I flew there, she picked me up at the airport and that night, I had dinner with the kids, her Mom and younger Sister. I am very family oriented and her introducing me to her kids was a huge gesture, but they did think I was a friend, while her Mom and Sister knew otherwise, but I was still thrilled. Next day, shopping for school supplies and another family dinner. This may sound boring, but I loved every second of it.
I did not see her the next three days, which was frustrating, but I've been in her shoes with a long distance girlfriend up to visit and not seeing me all day while I worked. I also didn't have kids to see or a marketing job after her online job, so I get the time constraint and I respect her work ethic and ambition.
Anyway, went birthday shopping for her oldest and was at his birthday party, which was just us and her mom and Sister. When we were driving to the airport, I expressed that I would have liked more communication, but I'm also chalking it up to a pretty big age difference. We didn't have sex, which was fine with me, since she was making sure that I wasn't a psychopath or just there to fuck her. We also talked about coordinating vacation time next time and maybe going somewhere together. We talked about possibilities of one of us moving and although she likes Colombia, she knows the money is shit there and would like to move to the US. I see the lightbulb going off in your heads, but she has never asked me to help with paperwork, as she has already taken care of this for her and the kids and has not asked for money nor talked about marriage as a way to get here.
So, I totally trust her and sure, the language is a barrier, but I have four years of high school Spanish and two in college and weekly youtube learning sessions, so my Spanish is coming along. The only thing that bothers me is how short or maybe (as you have guessed from this post) how long my posts are to her when we talk. Certainly not a book like this, but I am big on communication and expressing myself and as far as she has told me, she doesn't have a problem with it and hasn't put a noose around her neck out of exhaustion as some of you may have by now. No doubt about it, she's hot, but, and you can believe this if you want or not, but I honestly love her personality, her intelligence, her drive, passion, ambition and sense of responsibility. And I'm an attractive guy, so I'm not constantly questioning anything or asking if this is real or not. She knows I'm not with her because or despite her being a camgirl. She could stop tomorrow if she wanted or do it until she's 80. I don't care. I don't judge her and just want her to be happy and at peace with how she lives her life and I don't care who knows what she does, but also respect if she wants to keep it private.
So, skeptics have at it! If this is all a ruse, then, hey, she got me, but I put all my effort into it as I would for anyone, who I felt earned it from me.
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8 days in colombia, no sex, end of January....i'm kind of curious what triggered the post now at the end of February?
It's reckless and dangerous, imo.
