Would you ever meet a guy that you have known for a month and cam with him?

[JoleneBrody]

Yeah whoa whoa calm down here. "Many" is a true statement because "many" means different things to everyone and is not the same as "most" or "majority".
Bob isn't shitting on a whole age bracket, he's just defending someones work at dominoes as legitimate work deserving of respect.
I have no idea why anyone would be attacking him for defending any type of job of one deserving of respect.
We camgirls should fudging understand that one.

He's not asking we all pat him on the back for having a job, just that we maybe don't spit on him for the type of job.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Many is still way off.

I live in a college town, surrounded by 20 somethings and we're all working our asses off. A very small percentage of people at that age don't work. Hell, by then, a lot of people have already graduated with their bachelors degree. No one's sitting on their ass twiddling their thumbs.

All I'm saying is no 22 year old should get a pat on the back for just having a job. Who the fuck is 22 and not working? Because I'm not seeing these people anywhere.

How many is "many" to you?

http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/feb/22/youth-unemployment-jobless-figure

Half a million to me, would classify as "many". Maybe to you, it wouldn't, but all of this is really besides the point. You seem to be offended because you've inferred from my post that I feel people your age aren't hard-working. That's not the case. I've re-read my post and don't feel that I implied that at all, but if it makes you feel better, I apologise if I did. The part of my post that you've honed in on is a smaller part of a larger point; a job is a job. Judging somebody for working at Domino's is just as wrong as judging someone for working on a cam site. Regardless of their age.

 

[Poison_Ivy21]

How many is "many" to you?

http://www.theguardian.com/society/2015/feb/22/youth-unemployment-jobless-figure

Half a million to me, would classify as "many". Maybe to you, it wouldn't, but all of this is really besides the point. You seem to be offended because you've inferred from my post that I feel people your age aren't hard-working. That's not the case. I've re-read my post and don't feel that I implied that at all, but if it makes you feel better, I apologise if I did. The part of my post that you've honed in on is a smaller part of a larger point; a job is a job. Judging somebody for working at Domino's is just as wrong as judging someone for working on a cam site. Regardless of their age.

Okay, but that article is citing European stats, from what I can tell. That's what's going on in the UK. The US youth unemployment rate is currently 10.50% and the lowest it's ever been was 7.80% in 1956 and the highest was in April of 2010 at 19.50%. So really we're not doing that terrible. After all, full employment is undesirable for the economy.

My point is, that having an entry level job at 22 is nothing worth pointing out. That's the bare minimum, and I'm saying this as someone who's doing the bare minimum as well. Pocket Sand was right. He's 22 with a job, and so am I, whoopdeedo? I know a shit ton of people my age busting ass, doing a million more things. Going to school, extra curricular activities, working job(s), getting into masters programs, all kinds of shit. That's the kind of stuff worth pointing out, not just having a job. Pretty much everyone has to work, doing that's not really an accomplishment.

We're not in France where youth unemployment near 50%. That's a different story.

 

[caireen]

Okay, but that article is citing European stats, from what I can tell. That's what's going on in the UK. The US youth unemployment rate is currently 10.50% and the lowest it's ever been was 7.80% in 1956 and the highest was in April of 2010 at 19.50%. So really we're not doing that terrible. After all, full employment is undesirable for the economy.

My point is, that having an entry level job at 22 is nothing worth pointing out. That's the bare minimum, and I'm saying this as someone who's doing the bare minimum as well. Pocket Sand was right. He's 22 with a job, and so am I, whoopdeedo? I know a shit ton of people my age busting ass, doing a million more things. Going to school, extra curricular activities, working job(s), getting into masters programs, all kinds of shit. That's the kind of stuff worth pointing out, not just having a job. Pretty much everyone has to work, doing that's not really an accomplishment.

We're not in France where youth unemployment near 50%. That's a different story.

People from all over the world are on this forum, not just people in the US. Even people in France. I'm pretty sure Bob is in the UK. So.. his "many" is still right.
(And for the record, I have had more than a few 22-ish year old regulars from the US that don't have jobs. I know because they constantly brought up how broke they were because they were unemployed and couldn't tip, while also mentioning how much it sucked to live with their parents at 22 or 24).

 

[mynameisbob84]

Okay, but that article is citing European stats, from what I can tell. That's what's going on in the UK. The US youth unemployment rate is currently 10.50% and the lowest it's ever been was 7.80% in 1956 and the highest was in April of 2010 at 19.50%. So really we're not doing that terrible. After all, full employment is undesirable for the economy.

My point is, that having an entry level job at 22 is nothing worth pointing out. That's the bare minimum, and I'm saying this as someone who's doing the bare minimum as well. Pocket Sand was right. He's 22 with a job, and so am I, whoopdeedo? I know a shit ton of people my age busting ass, doing a million more things. Going to school, extra curricular activities, working job(s), getting into masters programs, all kinds of shit. That's the kind of stuff worth pointing out, not just having a job. Pretty much everyone has to work, doing that's not really an accomplishment.

We're not in France where youth unemployment near 50%. That's a different story.

I feel like we're moving further and further away from the point I was trying to make. Let's pretend I never used the word "many" and let's pretend I used the word "some" instead. It doesn't change my point, but it means we can at least move past this fixation on whether or not there are 22 year olds out there without a job.

To the point of the part of your post that I bolded, my problem with what Pocket Sand posted isn't that he wasn't bending over backwards to give the OP a congratulatory reach-around for having a job at 22, but rather that he took aim at his specific occupation. Once again, and I don't think I can communicate this in any simpler terms, there's nothing wrong with working a job that others might not deem glamorous. I'm not saying that people who work for Domino's should be singled out for special praise, I'm saying that they shouldn't be criticised for working a job that isn't seen as desirable. That's what Pocket Sand was doing, that's what I disagreed with.

 

[pocket sand]

Making mountains out of molehills here people. Just to be clear, wasn't insulting or figuratively spitting on (lol oh geez) any Domino's employees. All I meant was that he should be more focused on improving his career choices at 22 and less worried about trying to guilt trip people into sleeping with him. If I was 22 and only working at Domino's, I'd be using all that free time to try to open up as many possibilities as I could. I feel like it's solid advice. No disrespect was intended. I don't feel like it's insulting or disrespectful to assume (or infer from his post) that a 22 year old doesn't want to work a low paying job the rest of their life.

 

[JickyJuly]

I think people in the early 20s should be working in restaurants or slinging pizza. It's fun, and it builds character to have a crappy job. I feel sad for the teenage wieners who think they're too cool for mopping floors and rolling silverware. They're missing out. OP needs to keep working at that shit job until his entitlement level comes down a few notches. The only good thing he mentioned about himself is that he's working that job.

Totally judging him for the teddy bear though. Impossible not to. Ditch the bear. Ditch the entitlement. Keep being a pizza hero. Get those tips man!

 

[SaffronBurke]

I think people in the early 20s should be working in restaurants or slinging pizza. It's fun, and it builds character to have a crappy job. I feel sad for the teenage wieners who think they're too cool for mopping floors and rolling silverware. They're missing out. OP needs to keep working at that shit job until his entitlement level comes down a few notches. The only good thing he mentioned about himself is that he's working that job.

Totally judging him for the teddy bear though. Impossible not to. Ditch the bear. Ditch the entitlement. Keep being a pizza hero. Get those tips man!

Plus those are the jobs where you can show up high/drunk and nobody gives a shit, as long as you're not driving. Every server I worked with drank on the job, too.

 

[Badj3u]

You're going about this all wrong. You can't go "find a camgirl". We are not a commodity you can purchase or find to have and to do with what you please. Most camgirls are extremely secretive and for good reason. There is a ton of risk involved for a girl to cam with some random guy (whether he's a mod, a huge tipper, or none of the aforementioned) and on top of that, agree to cam with him. There is an incredibly slim chance you will find a girl to cam with through a camsite. Most of those girls cam solo for a reason, and/or have relationships with people outside of their public camming persona. Your odds are better if you find a girl in real life that has expressed an interest in couples camming (tough I know, because of the secretive nature of this career path). If you had a girlfriend and camming was something you watched together, and you both agreed you'd like to try your hand at it, then you'd have something here. Just wanting to cam with a girl is a fantasy. I'm sure everyone wants that. But even as a camgirl myself, it's pretty tough to just get another girl to come over and broadcast with me. The industry is a lot more complex on a business level and on an intricate personal level as well. This is a type of work that deals with the performers' emotions. It is also something that could very well impact the way the rest of your life turns out. Many people are ousted as adult performers and shamed for it, making it incredibly difficult to get a job doing much else. I think you need to take some time to ponder this fantasy of yours on a level you may not have quite touched on before.

you read my mind that's exactly what i was going to say

 

[yummybrownfox]

No, simply because I'm not interested in camming with anyone. I prefer to be solo. But besides that, I'm skeptical as fuck. That can sometimes be a good thing, and sometimes be a bad thing. Lol.

I'm not a killer or or any of that shit. I'm a normal 22 year old boy

Correction: You're a man...not a boy. LOL at the "I'm not a killer or any of that shit" line. I believe you, but it's probably best to keep that line out of your "Why you should work with me" pitch.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Okay this is total fucking bullshit. Who are these 20 somethings that you know that just don't work and skate by on their parents dollar?

When I was 20-something, I briefly dated a guy a few years younger than me, who did nothing but sit around playing XBox 360 all day and smoking cigarettes. He got away with it because he was living in his parents' gorgeous home. I remember when I had applied for a loan (to help with daycare costs) and was approved. His response was "Great! Now can you go back there and try to get another loan so I can get a car?"

 

[laka]

This is the first forum I've viewed on this site... I hope they all aren't this angry and aggressive... lol.

 

[EmelieSky]

I have lots of teddy bears and other animals. They are the perfect souvenirs. I know when I got everyone, including the ones from my childhood. I actually have a rhino on my stomach right now

(Also: no. Would never even meet someone.

And the world is bigger then the US. )

 

[pocket sand]

Totally judging him for the teddy bear though. Impossible not to. Ditch the bear.

Yeah seriously, how could you not? I'm sure some will disagree but I don't see anything wrong with judging people for certain things, human nature, we all do it on some level. If you think a guy working at Dominos is a smelly cootie having loser, yeah you're a fucking dick dude. If a woman meets him and finds out he is working at Dominos and has zero ambitions besides that, nothing wrong with judging this as unattractive or as a turnoff/deal breaker. Doesn't make her a snob or any other stupid shit, means she has good judgement in my eyes.

I'm assuming way too much here but feel like it has to be pretty accurate. Dude is probably doing the bare minimum to make ends meet and spending all his free time jacking off online in some form. Which is fine if this is the case, you do you fella, follow your bliss and all that good stuff. Just don't expect women to be throwing themselves at you whenever you do get over or take care of whatever it is that is preventing a 22 year old from meeting new people every weekend. Will have nothing to do with a lack of balls(well, I'm sure a pretty convincing argument about the lack of balls on his part could be made) or whatever other garbage people can come up with to tell themselves. Bet dude bailed as soon as he realized his entitled, woe is me, I'm totally not a murderer guys, honest! schtick wasn't going to be met with a mothers nurturing bosom.

Classic lazy millennial behavior here folks, tuck tail and run from any hint of dissent or confrontation. Tap a few buttons and run to the welcoming arms of others suffering the same imaginary plight you are and whine about how unfair and unjust life is. I wonder if the op was able to find other entitled, very often self described nice guys that spend most of their time in imaginary zones, to empathize with.

You want to believe it's parody or satire when reading it but I don't, I don't know man. Felt like I should be giving the post a fedora rating after reading it.

 

[shylurkerdude]

Will have nothing to do with a lack of balls(well, I'm sure a pretty convincing argument about the lack of balls on his part could be made) or whatever other garbage people can come up with to tell themselves.

Not sure about everybody else but when I'm checking out rooms, the model lacking balls is a very big plus for me!!!!

 

[CrazyCatLady]

Ahahahababhahahahahahah!!!!