I'm not your target audience, but, I would hope someone would date me with shaved balls (tried the pubes above but got a bunch of red bumps and it felt weird against my boxers). Sometimes I'll shave my armpit hair if it gets out of hand like sticking out, but, again, uncomfortable.
Some of those hairs on my balls were getting longer than my penis (which is kind of embarrassing to admit).
When i was younger I shaved my arm hair for some reason---bad idea. I don't know why I did that.
I did date a girl once and she let her leg hairs grow out (we were trying to be free and hippie) and it wasn't a bad thing. She was great.