Would it be ok to visit a model as a surprise?

[schlmoe]

If you have to stalk out her whereabouts, you are not her friend. Friends don't do that. Friends don't cross that line. The constructs of your friendship are ONLINE ONLY...otherwise she would have invited you to come over and hang out with her. But she didn't. So you need to seriously check yourself before you find yourself sitting on the inside of a jail cell.

This is Russia we are talking about. If he escapes with his life after outrunning/out dueling her boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/manager/pimp and/or the other 12 Russian camgirls she works with, there are only 3 possibilities of where he will end up:

1) Vat of acid in an unused tunnel of the Moscow Metro

2) Vat of acid outside of a gulag in Siberia

3) Bones being fought over by grizzlies/tigers and/or inmates at that Siberian gulag.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

This is a great reminder on why security is so important... who knows what whack job is out there, infatuated with you so much that they would show up uninvited.

So true, so true...

I doubt OP's muse needs to worry quite as much as an independent model might, mainly because she probably has someone else worrying about security at her place of employment.

Clearly this is a troll thread. But the image of a love-blind American loitering outside a webcam studio in St. Petersburg for an hour (holding flowers and a box of chocolates, no less ) is a hilarious one.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

This is Russia we are talking about. If he escapes with his life after outrunning/out dueling her boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/manager/pimp and/or the other 12 Russian camgirls she works with, there are only 3 possibilities of where he will end up:

1) Vat of acid in an unused tunnel of the Moscow Metro

2) Vat of acid outside of a gulag in Siberia

3) Bones being fought over by grizzlies/tigers and/or inmates at that Siberian gulag.

You forgot one. Most likely he'd get into a car wreck on the way there. (yes, i watch russian car crash videos on youtube)

 

[Magnolia]

You people don't understand how friendly we are with each other. She told me she lives in St Petersburg. And yes I know all about her life. She is going to college right now studying languages. Her main language is Russian of course but she speaks almost perfect English too. She tells me about her real life problems with her friends and stuff and we talk about them. I'm not just some random creepy that she doesn't know

Get. Professional. Help.

 

[mynameisbob84]

 

[JoleneBrody]

You people don't understand how friendly we are with each other. She told me she lives in St Petersburg. And yes I know all about her life. She is going to college right now studying languages. Her main language is Russian of course but she speaks almost perfect English too. She tells me about her real life problems with her friends and stuff and we talk about them. I'm not just some random creepy that she doesn't know

These are all things I openly talk about with my frands, who would all have a baseball bat lodged in their anus if they showed up at my door unannounced.
Don't be a fucking idiot. Ask her for permission and be honest about tracking her office down so she can make an informed decision how to proceed.

Again.
DONT. BE. AN. IDIOT!

 

[ThePrincessLuxy]

This has to be a troll post. Nobody is REALLY this stupid.

 

[EspiKvlt]

Everything you described, OP, are things I talk about to ALL my friends - MFC or otherwise. It isn't deep.

 

[Mila_]

FANTASY

OP gets off taxi with a bouquet and some chocolates and waits patiently at model's office building door

Model comes out of the door fresh as a daisy and smelling like roses, her nipples erect in the cool russian autumn breeze. She locks eyes with him, and cannot hide her excitement, she can't believe how courageous OP is going all the way across the world just to meet her. It must be true love!

OP runs towards model, model runs towards OP, they hug and kiss and the rest is history!

REALITY

OP's taxi doesn't speak english and OP doesn't speak russian. The Google Maps address he got is not in cyrillic so the taxi driver can't find the address and drops him a mile away from her actual office. OP walks a mile under the rain, arrives at the building an hour later, completely soaked, and looking like a vagrant.

The building's security guard sees him loitering and asks him what the hell he is doing there like an idiot. OP provides the name of his model "friend" but nobody in the building goes by that name. "Strange, I wonder why my friend would lie and give her office a false name" OP thinks to himself.

The security guard tells him he has to wait across the street, he cannot have people loitering in front of the office building like that. An hour later and no sign of the model. OP's legs are getting tired. He has a very expensive roaming service, and he uses to see if she is still on cam. She is not on cam and she logged off 20 minutes ago. He thinks she surely is getting dressed and will be out the door any minute now.

Hours pass and model never walks out of the building. OP's legs start to give. The flowers are a mess, he ate the chocolates, it is becoming obvious he is going to have to make a decision real soon: go back to the hotel or sleep on the sidewalk.

Some 3000 dollars and a 10 hour flight later and OP finds out the model didn't even live in St Petersburg after all, she was lying about her location, and OP was wrong about the studio she worked in, it was all a very stupid mistake. But hey, there is a new model from Romania he has his eyes on.

 

[Issa]

This has to be a troll post. Nobody is REALLY this stupid.

Oh, I've met some dudes that are this deluded. We call them mentally unbalanced stalkers, and they can get terrifyingly creative in their harassment. So, for the sake of this poor girl--who may well not exist, but on the off chance she does deserves our attempt at protection--OP:

She's not your friend.
She's definitely not your girlfriend.
She doesn't want to meet you.

You're a stalker.
You're a creep.
You're deluded.
You need help.

And, most importantly, you need to leave her alone.

 

[Magnolia]

FANTASY

OP gets off taxi with a bouquet and some chocolates and waits patiently at model's office building door

Model comes out of the door fresh as a daisy and smelling like roses, her nipples erect in the cool russian autumn breeze. She locks eyes with him, and cannot hide her excitement, she can't believe how courageous OP is going all the way across the world just to meet her. It must be true love!

OP runs towards model, model runs towards OP, they hug and kiss and the rest is history!

REALITY

OP's taxi doesn't speak english and OP doesn't speak russian. The Google Maps address he got is not in cyrillic so the taxi driver can't find the address and drops him a mile away from her actual office. OP walks a mile under the rain, arrives at the building an hour later, completely soaked, and looking like a vagrant.

The building's security guard sees him loitering and asks him what the hell he is doing there like an idiot. OP provides the name of his model "friend" but nobody in the building goes by that name. "Strange, I wonder why my friend would lie and give her office a false name" OP thinks to himself.

The security guard tells him he has to wait across the street, he cannot have people loitering in front of the office building like that. An hour later and no sign of the model. OP's legs are getting tired. He has a very expensive roaming service, and he uses to see if she is still on cam. She is not on cam and she logged off 20 minutes ago. He thinks she surely is getting dressed and will be out the door any minute now.

Hours pass and model never walks out of the building. OP's legs start to give. The flowers are a mess, he ate the chocolates, it is becoming obvious he is going to have to make a decision real soon: go back to the hotel or sleep on the sidewalk.

Some 3000 dollars and a 10 hour flight later and OP finds out the model didn't even live in St Petersburg after all, she was lying about her location, and OP was wrong about the studio she worked in, it was all a very stupid mistake. But hey, there is a new model from Romania he has his eyes on.

ACF Best Post 2k16

 

[EllaGray]

I burst out laughing and then nearly had a panic attack reading this. It doesn't matter how much you spend, how much you know her, hell it doesn't matter if she has a copy of your real ID and you social security number to verify who you are...DO NOT SHOW UP UN-ANNOUNCED.

Unless you are expressly invited, stay the fuck away.

 

[yummybrownfox]

You people don't understand how friendly we are with each other. She told me she lives in St Petersburg. And yes I know all about her life. She is going to college right now studying languages. Her main language is Russian of course but she speaks almost perfect English too. She tells me about her real life problems with her friends and stuff and we talk about them. I'm not just some random creepy that she doesn't know

Stop trying to justify your stalker behavior. What "us people" are trying to tell you is that it doesn't matter how friendly y'all are to each other. If she hasn't flat out invited you to her home, then your creepy ass has no business showing up there as a surprise. Then you'd have to explain how you even found out her address. DUH. Yeah, surprise alright...surprise when your creepy, boundary-crossing ass gets a bullet in the chest. Don't make this 'stalking the model you think you're in love with this week' thing a habit, or you could be the one to wind up dead...getting your ass kicked...or in jail. People need to be able to feel safe in their own homes, and I know I would not feel safe having some weird, creepy fuck at my door acting like a fanboy.

Do you think your story is gonna end up like the "I married my stalker" chick?

 

[hollyreynolds]

This is literally my nightmare. If it isn't a troll post and you haven't got the hint: don't fucking do this and see if your work covers a psychologist.

 

[yummybrownfox]

Now I'm curious what this dude would actually do once he got there, and the model is screaming at him to get the fuck off the property and leave her alone. Would he cooperate and leave? Would he stand there - on the other side of the slammed door - trying to "reason with her" as she's on the phone with 9-1-1? OMG...

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

Having spent some time in St. Petersburg in November, I'd highly recommend you wait until winter to go. I hear the weather in Jan and Feburary in St. Petersburg is even lovelier than Nov.

Although the camgirls may disagree, I think the only thing that would delight them more than random internet dude showing up at the front door, would be the same guy showing up naked.

Real Russia men prove their manhood by swimming in winter in Russia and spending time out in the winter naked. Just Google Putin speedos if you don't believe me. You probably should take a lightweight trench coat to avoid being arrested for indecent exposure before you finally get a chance to show your love for her.

Please let us know prior to going so I can prepare your entry for next year's Darwin awards.

 

[RebelleHart]

Detective Rebelle is on the case!

My hardened instincts scream, "Troll", but during my investigation, I located this quote from this here thread about personal communication with regular tippers:

Yes. that's the main thing I look for in a cam girl. If I just want to see sexy things ill watch porn. I want to be friends with them too. I made good friends with a cam girl once and she actually told me her first and last name and the country where she lived so I could send her money directly via Western Union. Because she only got to keep like 15% of my tips, so I expect she made a ton of money off me keeping 100%. So yes it's better for you and your fans if you talk to them like real people

On the off chance OP is serious, this model is the "But other models let pay them this way all the time" model all those members try to convince us of and I worry for her personal safety. I can only find pirated clips for Tistaray (Tista Ray?) but I'm wondering if we should warn her?

 

[Lexi Emerson]

Alright so I hate guys asking if we can meet but in this case, just ask her if you seriously think she would be okay with it. I can PROMISE you she will say no and then you have your answer. If you seriously think your connection is that strong and she'd be okay meeting in real life, don't fucking just show up because even if she was okay with meeting she won't be okay with you just magically appearing there with no notice.

But seriously, she won't want to meet. Our job is to be nice. She may really like you as a friend but ON THE INTERNET.

 

[ihearttistaray]

Detective Rebelle is on the case!

My hardened instincts scream, "Troll", but during my investigation, I located this quote from this here thread about personal communication with regular tippers:



On the off chance OP is serious, this model is the "But other models let pay them this way all the time" model all those members try to convince us of and I worry for her personal safety. I can only find pirated clips for Tistaray (Tista Ray?) but I'm wondering if we should warn her?

Warn her that one of her friends might meet her? Are you serious? And no that was a different girl, she was also from Russia though. I even have that girls cell phone number, and talked to her with Whatsapp. I sent her about $100 a week too with Western Union. But she quit as a cam girl so I didn't really talk to her after that.

 

[CasseLove]

Warn her that one of her friends might meet her? Are you serious? And no that was a different girl, she was also from Russia though. I even have that girls cell phone number, and talked to her with Whatsapp. I sent her about $100 a week too with Western Union. But she quit as a cam girl so I didn't really talk to her after that.

Exactly, warn her one of her friends is visiting. As mentioned it's rude to show up unannounced. So please just let her know ahead of time.

 

[RahqZee]

I 1000% don't believe this, simply because I don't believe that someone this out of touch with reality would have a job that enabled them to send a cam girl $100/week, let alone pay for a flight. No freakin way.

 

[ihearttistaray]

Exactly, warn her one of her friends is visiting. As mentioned it's rude to show up unannounced. So please just let her know ahead of time.

I thought about asking her about, but I want it to be a surprise. It's still a ways off before my vacation so I might end up telling her. I'm not sure yet

 

[ihearttistaray]

I 1000% don't believe this, simply because I don't believe that someone this out of touch with reality would have a job that enabled them to send a cam girl $100/week, let alone pay for a flight. No freakin way.

I'm not "out of touch with reality" you don't know anything about the girl. Maybe you run your web cam shows differently than her and that's ok, but she is friends with some of her fans. And that's only like $400 a month. That's not really a lot in Kentucky. I guess it's probably more than I should spend. I paint cars for Lexus and they pay a lot. The money really isn't a issue

 

[RahqZee]

I'm not "out of touch with reality" you don't know anything about the girl. Maybe you run your web cam shows differently than her and that's ok, but she is friends with some of her fans. And that's only like $400 a month. That's not really a lot in Kentucky. I guess it's probably more than I should spend. I paint cars for Lexus and they pay a lot. The money really isn't a issue

Awww. Sure thing, little buddy. Go get 'er.

 

[JoleneBrody]

If you're so damn sure of yourself, why the fuck is this thread even here?

Two pages of people, both models and members, telling you this is a VERY bad idea just for you to ignore everyone and insist you know best?

Then don't ask.

 

[Lexi Emerson]

I'm not "out of touch with reality" you don't know anything about the girl. Maybe you run your web cam shows differently than her and that's ok, but she is friends with some of her fans.

You literally came and asked if you should do this. Why are you arguing when MANY of us from the industry are telling you this is a big no. You don't just show up announced. I don't know a single model who would be okay with this no matter how close you are to them. I am very good friends with my members and I would never be okay witng them just showing up. Ever.

You asked, we answered. Don't do it.

Edit: Jolene just said what I was getting at. Oops.

 

[ihearttistaray]

If you're so damn sure of yourself, why the fuck is this thread even here?

Two pages of people, both models and members, telling you this is a VERY bad idea just for you to ignore everyone and insist you know best?

Then don't ask.

Actually I was on Reddit asking about the police in Russia and if they would bother me if I did this. Because I don't speak any Russian and she doesn't work anywhere near a tourist attraction, so I would stand out big time. So I am a little worried the police will come up to me asking me what I'm doing. I am super scared to get in trouble with the police in a foreign country Someone on Reddit said I should ask on here, otherwise I wouldn't have even posted.

 

[justjoinedtopost]

Just for fun, ran your plan by a model who worked in a house with other web cam girls (not her home) for a company that hired girls. She claimed to be from Russia (she wasn't). Speaks five languages. Met with two of her fans, so I know she is open to the idea.

So what did this young lady think about the idea of being confronted by an unannounced regular bearing gifts of flowers and chocolates, hoping to get a hug outside her studio before she could get inside and have that door lock behind her?

Spoiler

Don't be a fool, sir. Let go of this asinine "surprise visit" idea. Enjoy your upcoming vacation.
http://dejavu.com/club-locations/deja-vu-showgirls-lexington/
(conveniently located near two Waffle Houses)

 

[BobbyB]

Actually I was on Reddit asking about the police in Russia and if they would bother me if I did this. Because I don't speak any Russian and she doesn't work anywhere near a tourist attraction, so I would stand out big time. So I am a little worried the police will come up to me asking me what I'm doing. I am super scared to get in trouble with the police in a foreign country Someone on Reddit said I should ask on here, otherwise I wouldn't have even posted.

I would say go for it.
Normally Russians can take care of themselves quite well, no problem for them to deal with any issues.

Please report back how it went and don't forget to post before / and after pictures of you , I mean how you look before you met her and how you look after you met her....



The last one ended up like this:

Spoiler: dead? (spoiler added by Amber since Bobby didn't think to have the courtesy to do so...)

 

[ihearttistaray]

Just for fun, ran your plan by a model who worked in a house with other web cam girls (not her home) for a company that hired girls. She claimed to be from Russia (she wasn't). Speaks five languages. Met with two of her fans, so I know she is open to the idea.

So what did this young lady think about the idea of being confronted by an unannounced regular bearing gifts of flowers and chocolates, hoping to get a hug outside her studio before she could get inside and have that door lock behind her?

Spoiler

View attachment 65503

Don't be a fool, sir. Let go of this asinine "surprise visit" idea. Enjoy your upcoming vacation.
http://dejavu.com/club-locations/deja-vu-showgirls-lexington/
(conveniently located near two Waffle Houses)

Very interesting that they would lie and say they are from Russia. But in my case I know for a fact she is in Russia. I talk to 4 girls that work in that same house right now, I can tell because sometimes they use the same room. And the girl I was talking about in my last post, that gave me her name and city so I could pay her with western union was one of them. She would go to work, and I would send money to her in St Petersburg, and I would get emails that she picked it up.

Also why did you pick Lexington? I don't remember saying what city I lived in