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When I first joined MFC, I spent probably 75% of my tokens tipping for countdowns. Now I spend nearly zero. Why?

1.) Freeloaders.
In a room of 300 people you will typically have just a small fraction tipping for countdowns, but its tolerable because you can contribute with just ~25-50 tokens. But in a room of 20-30 people you will typically have just two or three, tipping hundreds of tokens to make the countdown. And then when it's made and the model starts to do a public show, hundreds of people rush into the room! I was the big ass sucker paying for the hundreds of people. 99% of the people aren't tipping, why should I? I'm sorry this isn't the model's fault, but it just seems very unfair.

2.) The alternatives are better.
a) Group shows, if you can get it started, has the advantage of not having to waiting 1+ hours in a model's room waiting for the countdown to finish (the freeloaders just jump from room to room o/c), there are no freeloaders, and you get more of the model's attention. I usually don't spend more than a couple hundred tokens in group, which is how much I'd have to spend (at least) to make a significant dent in a countdown.
b) Private shows are more expensive, but I find that it's worth it. The reason is, members can go back and re-watch privates later (so it's like getting your own customized video), whereas public show is over when it's over. I never record models in public chat.
c) Purchasing any merchandise - video, galleries, gifts, even PM privileges - all of them have some permanence. Once you have it, you have it. 90% of the public chat countdowns, you will never remember where your money went the next day, let alone the next week.

So why would anyone tip for a countdown? I see there as being two basic motivations
a) Some members have a one-off request for the model to do something. That's fine, but it's not my thing. But it's not really tipping for the countdown even though the model may count it toward the countdown.
b) Pure altruism. I see this as the only legitimate reason now. I like the model & I want her to make her countdown solely to make her happy. That's why I say "nearly" zero. But unlike the other ways of spending tokens, I don't consider this purchasing anything (except maybe affection in a fuzzy sort of way, or a way of getting attention in a chat room). It's almost more like a donation than an exchange.

It's a miracle the current system works as well as it does & it says a lot about the generosity of members & the social pressures we feel to tip and win the approval of our favorite models.

But essentially what you have here is a collective action problem (see: part 1 of The Logic of Collective Action, by Mancur Olson; public shows are non-excludable and non-rivalrous), which means the hard incentives can be drastically improved.

I think this can be addressed following way: There should be an option for a 'conditional tip'. That is, I will tip X amount if others tip Y amount. So let's say Abel goes into a room and says he will tip 100 if others tip 200. Then Cain goes into the room and says the same thing. Then I go into the room, I see that Abel & Cain have both pledged 100 each if I tip 100. I know my 100 tip will go x3 as far and get the model 300 tokens. I'm much more likely to tip. On the other hand, let's say I don't come along & Abel has to leave before the countdown is finished. This way he hasn't wasted any money, he simply withdraws his commitment. But his knowledge that he can withdraw his commitment if he doesn't get the show, makes him much more likely to commit to start with. Hence, a model that would never have made her countdown, makes it.
 
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Yeah, I didn't read the post, but wasn't this exact thread started a little while ago?
 
Nope, this is different.

Other thread was "why I don't ever tip or spend money on the site"

This is "why I don't tip for countdowns, but spend money on other things"

I was curious if it was the same, so I read it.

HA! Made the edit window!

There was Not Tipping for Coutndowns, a general discussion between members about why they don't tip for countdowns or why they do tip for countdowns, and about if it's weird for models to have to not count a certain member's tips for countdowns

And Why I no longer tip - one member's experience, where he claims that since it's possible to freeload on mfc, no one should tip again, and we point out that if no one tips again, none of the shows will happen, so you won't be able to freeload anymore.
 
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All I want to say is--if I was somehow convinced that the best way to enjoy cam rooms was to come up with an elaborate strategy to see the most flesh with the least effort, I'd quit going into rooms at all.

What's the fun of fantasy or community if you must first sterilize it, hang it out to dry, analyze it until your head hurts then create rules of conduct for yourself based completely on strategy and has nothing to do with human beings.

Whew! Just my opinion, but that sterile environment exists already and it's free! Just go to porn sites and watch all the free porn.

:mrgreen:
 
Maybe this is only true for a small percentage of MFC users, but many of my regulars enjoy public shows more than group or private shows. One of my regulars will say, "I'm happy to do a private, but I'd rather just tip your countdown and let you do a public show if you're up for it!"

Honestly, I enjoy public shows more than groups (my least favorite) and privates these days, too. Public shows are hectic and exciting! Lately I've been trying to make my public shows very interactive and loonnnggg, and I think my regulars enjoy the sense of community and the fast pace of the chat. It also makes a lot of them really happy to see my room count spike and to see new guys tipping. And high room counts and new tippers make me really happy, too! :dance:

:twocents-02cents:
 
A guy can tip 15 tokens toward a show that lasts 15-20 minutes rather than spending 1.5 minutes in group for the same amount. The more people participating, the cheaper it is for everyone.

Also, many members wouldn't join a group just to do something like an oil show for example.

To do a game or a wax show (example), having people tip for different things is less likely to happen when they're already paying per-minute. Having a reward when the goal is reached creates extra incentive to participate. This allowed more variety aside from stripping/masturbation shows.
 
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To the OP, I agree almost 100% with what you say.
I'd suggest reading the two threads Luna point out, mine was pretty interested before it got derailed thanks largely to me saying something stupid, and the other thread was also provocative . .
FWIW it is worth here is what I've learned after a month more or less not tipping for countdown.
The most important thing is there is a way variety of opinions on the the members and models side. So I am going make some generalization, but I know there are plenty of people on the other side

1.) Freeloaders. In general models don't care that much where their tips are coming from as long as they make their countdown, freeloader are part of My Free Cams and its not worth trouble worrying about. Among members (especially ACF ), I'd say there three distinct groups. Guys who simply don't buy enough tokens (<2ktokens/month) that matters if their tokens are counted. Guys who are really focused on making the models happy (typical only a couple models), and folks like you and I who feel like suckers when we spent $10,$20,$40, even $100 to see something that 98% saw for free.

2) Alternative aren't always better.
Groups seem like a logical alternative and many case they are. But what is clear is that for a lot of models groups don't work are more realistically they are hit or miss. Sometimes when you go into group you get twice as many tippers as you were getting public chat. Other times even with 200+ guys in the room only 3 are willing to join a group. The one type of model that seems do well is those who have been consistent with following MFC rules and not doing public cum shows. If members know the only way that are going to see a model naked, masturabate, do anal, etc is in group or private, it isn't uncommon to get double digit room counts and 20-30 minute groups and make 3000 tk plus tips. If on the other hand the model is inconsistent and one day does a public cum show and the next day wants to do a group, they often fail.
While there are plenty of good ideas to address the fairness issue including your proposal. There does not seem to be a organized demand on the part of models or members to change the system and so there isn't pressure on MFC to change. I am somewhat optimistic that the recent purchase of Streammate by porn giant Manwin may increase the competition on MfC, but I'm not holding my breath.

3.) How to not tip for countdown without being a jerk:
I have spent the last month trying to not to tip not for countdowns, while still supporting the models I like. With exception of a single model who I will tip for countdown it seems to work ok. FWIW, here are some of my strategies. As you mentioned buying videos, raffle tickets,PM privilege, and games all work. The challenge is what to do once you bought all of their content. Being smart about when you tip. I try to tip after they've reached a goal but before they establish a new topic. Or when they first get online, or my favorite is a tip after they have finished a show. There are also the borderline tips, like tipings for spanks, or tipings for shots. I do a bit of rationalization to convince myself that I'm not really tipping for a countdown, but realistically I basically am.

Anyway this seems to work for models with good camscore and decent >100 room counts. The big problems as you mention is the models with <2K cam score who seldom get more than 50 folks unless they are using a toy or even better two. :( A typical 2,000 countdown (even it is split 400 topless, 600 naked, 1000 cumshow) if there are ony 2 other tippers run 700 tokens which get very expensive. The system is pretty badly stacked against models in this situation, so I encourage them to consider group, which some will.
 
I think it should be mandatory for everyone to read the OP before commenting.
I can understand why you don't tip for countdowns. If you want to see a show, you may wait a significant period of time - and with some - never even see what you're tipping for as time will run out. Freeloaders are the bain of everyone's existence, but it's also how the site works and so its just a fact of life.

Why some may prefer a public show?
I know some prefer it as it costs them less than a group or certainly less than a private. Its a public contribution which is visible and remembered.
I know some enjoy it because they're being watched by the model who is essentially playing with them (and perhaps another 3-5 guys at the same time) and sending the some pvt messages whilst the hundreds of freeloaders are all just putting their drivel in chat (in other words, for those tippers it empowers them as lots of guys are drool over her while they know she's watching / playing with them and they get a kick out of it as "no-one else" is).
I know many prefer to slow build up that public shows tend to have. Perhaps a good while of dancing/stripping/flashes interspersed with chat and fun...which you don't get in group shows when people are watching those tokens. The lead up to a public show is what i imagine most people enjoy about the shows and not necessarily the show itself.

Personally I'm not that interested in public shows themselves per se - but the build up/ lead up can be a lot of fun. For me? If I was horny I'd just take them group or if I were suddenly rich enough to start chucking $100 around regularly, privates.

So I'd imagine it's the build up. Think of the build up + show as the total experience, and not just the show itself. However, I know that some get different kicks out of it for whatever empowering reason that they have :D So I present two or more alternatives than simple altruism or wanting to see something quick...
 
Wow, I clicked on this thread thinking it was that same thread from a while ago. LOL.
 
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I don't really tip for anything this days. I just kinda tip 10 and 20 tokens periodically if I'm hanging out in a room. If a countdown is going on and the model wants to remove those tokens from said countdown, that's cool. But I'd be tipping the same amount whether there was a countdown or not.
I think I've kinda reached the conclusion that cam girls provide a whole bunch of services and are many different things to many different members - I think as long as you're tipping them for something, it doesn't really matter what your tokens are specifically earmarked for.
I guess, ultimately, I'm tipping for the model's company. I don't do privates, but a lot of guys do. Same with groups. A lot of guys buy videos and pic sets. And for some, when they tip during a countdown, it's purely because they wanna see the model naked. And there's nothing that makes any of those motivations for tipping and better or worse than any other, ya know?
I think the point I'm trying to make is that it doesn't really matter what you tip for, so long as you tip for something. When you tip a model, those tokens all wind up in the same place regardless of whether they're for a countdown, a private, a group, or just her company :twocents-02cents:
 
This:
Alcon said:
the generosity of members

...is the only thing you said that matters to me. If you believe members to be so generous, then fucking be generous and quite yer goddamned bitching. True generosity is unconditional... it shouldn't matter if others aren't as generous as you.

Alcon said:
I was the big ass sucker paying for the hundreds of people. ...it just seems very unfair.
Welcome to the world, homey. Taxes. Auto insurance. Medicare. Unemployment Insurance. MFC. Deal.

Seriously, threads like this will only quit appearing when the cry-baby, bed-wetters of MFC's member population either realize that they are contributing to a social environment they enjoy or when they delete their accounts.
 
There are a few problems with group, though from both member and model standpoints.

From a member standpoint, it can be a pain if you're trying to get a group going and it never gets above 2 people in the queue. There are other issues I'm sure members are aware of, as well, and I dont have a ton of time, so I'll move to the model standpoint.

From a model standpoint, groups are often inconsistent and potentially inefficient ways to make tokens. There are many times a model will go group just to have it drop to 1-2 people in a matter of minutes. Unless a model can pretty much be guaranteed 5+ members per group for at least 10 minutes, most who have decided to do public shows have decided groups aren't worth it. They can make more, faster, in public. Now for the models like HiGirls said, who don't do public shows? Yeah, their groups can be good for bringing in tokens. Shy can get 20+ people in group for a good half hour. I've seen Spider_Lilly get over 30 people in group for a while. And some others.

But those are the exceptions, not the rule.

Some models live and die by groups/privates on MFC. Others get their income from public tips. It's different depending on the model.
 
Zoomer said:
I know many prefer to slow build up that public shows tend to have. Perhaps a good while of dancing/stripping/flashes interspersed with chat and fun...which you don't get in group shows when people are watching those tokens. The lead up to a public show is what i imagine most people enjoy about the shows and not necessarily the show itself.

Personally I'm not that interested in public shows themselves per se - but the build up/ lead up can be a lot of fun. For me? If I was horny I'd just take them group or if I were suddenly rich enough to start chucking $100 around regularly, privates.

So I'd imagine it's the build up. Think of the build up + show as the total experience, and not just the show itself. However, I know that some get different kicks out of it for whatever empowering reason that they have :D So I present two or more alternatives than simple altruism or wanting to see something quick...
YES! Yes yes yes yes oh god yes thank you Zoomer YES! Now that I've came...
I guess some models just sit around and do nothing during the countdown but not very many. From my own experience and what I've seen from other models, the countdown itself is it's own show. MANY models utilize that time to be entertaining and chances are, majority of the tips that went towards the countdown were actually tips for whatever joy she was currently bringing to the members.
I feel that any member who really enjoys MFC for what it is and also feels this way is either burnt out and needs a break, or it just plain on the wrong site.

Streamate is MORE than steady competition for MFC logistically. Earnings wise they may even be higher, the reason why they are not actual competition for each other is that they are NOT the same site. You want to see MFC become SM than go to SM! You don't like the vibe of SM and want to stay on the social porn mecca that is MFC? Then stop crying about fairness, suck up your quivering lip and be grateful for it's existence! The girl does something that makes you want to tip, then TIP! Don't stop and think about whether or not some freeloader has a smile fetish and just might be getting off on your hard earned smile!

You may not remember it next week? You can't take it home with you and keep it forever and ever and ever?
Next time I go out to eat I'm not gonna tip, you know why? Because I'm not going to remember that meal in 10 years and I don't get to keep the waitresses service forever and ever. I mean, if she comes to my house once a week and pours me my coffee... then maybe... Yeah. Sounds ridiculous right?

Freeloaders for the most part don't think! They just breath through their mouths and eat their cool ranch Doritos. By strategizing your disrespect for the models actual time she goes out of her way to give you every day you take it a step further into the selfish dick realm. "gimme gimme gimme but make sure it's more than everyone else."

I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you are more concerned with other, mostly silent members than the model who is on screen than you have a much bigger problem and need to step away.
 
JoleneBrody said:
YES! Yes yes yes yes oh god yes thank you Zoomer YES! Now that I've came...
I guess some models just sit around and do nothing during the countdown but not very many. From my own experience and what I've seen from other models, the countdown itself is it's own show. MANY models utilize that time to be entertaining and chances are, majority of the tips that went towards the countdown were actually tips for whatever joy she was currently bringing to the members.
I feel that any member who really enjoys MFC for what it is and also feels this way is either burnt out and needs a break, or it just plain on the wrong site.

Streamate is MORE than steady competition for MFC logistically. Earnings wise they may even be higher, the reason why they are not actual competition for each other is that they are NOT the same site. You want to see MFC become SM than go to SM! You don't like the vibe of SM and want to stay on the social porn mecca that is MFC? Then stop crying about fairness, suck up your quivering lip and be grateful for it's existence! The girl does something that makes you want to tip, then TIP! Don't stop and think about whether or not some freeloader has a smile fetish and just might be getting off on your hard earned smile!

You may not remember it next week? You can't take it home with you and keep it forever and ever and ever?
Next time I go out to eat I'm not gonna tip, you know why? Because I'm not going to remember that meal in 10 years and I don't get to keep the waitresses service forever and ever. I mean, if she comes to my house once a week and pours me my coffee... then maybe... Yeah. Sounds ridiculous right?

Freeloaders for the most part don't think! They just breath through their mouths and eat their cool ranch Doritos. By strategizing your disrespect for the models actual time she goes out of her way to give you every day you take it a step further into the selfish dick realm. "gimme gimme gimme but make sure it's more than everyone else."

I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you are more concerned with other, mostly silent members than the model who is on screen than you have a much bigger problem and need to step away.
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I would like a bit of clarity:

Alcon, do you not tip during a countdown?

If you do tip during a countdown, do you tell the model not to include it in the countdown?

There is a big difference between "the reason I tip is not the countdown" and "none of my tokens go for the countdown", so I'm trying to figure out which it is for you.
 
LadyLuna said:
I would like a bit of clarity:

Alcon, do you not tip during a countdown?

If you do tip during a countdown, do you tell the model not to include it in the countdown?

There is a big difference between "the reason I tip is not the countdown" and "none of my tokens go for the countdown", so I'm trying to figure out which it is for you.

Option 1. Of course I don't mind if it gets put towards the countdown, unless I am trying to keep the model's clothes on :) Which has happened a couple of times.

A lot of good points have been made above.

In retrospect, I should have made this more about how the system can be improved. There is a lot of upside here, I think. Because we ignore those 99% freeloaders now, but some of them would participate under a commitment system. In the Logic of Collection Action, Olson lays out three types if groups, Privileged Groups (they would pay for the whole countdown irregardless), Intermediate Groups (tipping members in small rooms), and Latent Groups (everyone in large rooms). The Latent Groups would benefit the most from organization, and this is where almost all freeloaders are.

Under a commitment system, I see basically a separate bar at the side of the screen that shows who has made commitments and to what size, like a thermometer. Any member can add or remove commitments at will. It just opens up another way of reaching the goal, so you can reach it with 750 tokens + 750 commitments, vs. just 1500 tokens. No, I don't know how to make MFC change, but I really think this would encourage more people to spend money, so in theory it would benefit them as well.
 
I'm so fed up with members making these statements. Great, you don't tip for countdowns and would rather do groups. There are freeloaders, we all know that, we all know that they really bother some people, but does it really need to be declared?

Members get really annoyed when people tell them what to do with their tokens or even imply we might be telling them what to do. It is your choice how you spend your money, and your reasons, but it doesn't mean you have to go on about it all the time.

Mfc is how it is, yes there are freeloaders and it's really annoying if you're having to tip the whole countdown, but essentially the majority of models make more in public and enjoy camming more doing it that way. If you don't want to watch public shows and would rather go private or group, there are models who do that/prefer doing it that way, or go to another site like streamate, which is what a lot of the mfc models who got fed up with public/the freeloaders have done!

As much as it's interesting having a discussion, we literally just had a thread on this, if you'd done a tiny bit of research on acf you would have found it, as it was a pretty recent thread and was almost identical to this one. I also don't think pointing out there are freeloaders on mfc so you're not going to tip for countdowns and rather are going to go group is really worth a discussion, a lot of members do this, it might be new news to you, but for me at least it's pretty old.

We also ALL have our ideas on how mfc can be made better, including myself. There are lots of ways it could be improved to suit different people/different needs. There are millions of members who come on myfreecams every day. The site does work and is making money, what I would like to know is why your opinion is so important? You say you'd rather spend on groups, well they have groups available.
 
Before anyone goes all batty on me, I know it is *technically* a word, but even Merriam-Webster recommends NOT using it:

Irregardless originated in dialectal American speech in the early 20th century. Its fairly widespread use in speech called it to the attention of usage commentators as early as 1927. The most frequently repeated remark about it is that “there is no such word.” There is such a word, however. It is still used primarily in speech, although it can be found from time to time in edited prose. Its reputation has not risen over the years, and it is still a long way from general acceptance. Use regardless instead.

It's one of those things where you can be reading along, maybe agreeing with or at least respecting what a person has typed, then you bump into this word in their text and just lose all hope.
 
AmberCutie said:
Before anyone goes all batty on me, I know it is *technically* a word, but even Merriam-Webster recommends NOT using it:

Irregardless originated in dialectal American speech in the early 20th century. Its fairly widespread use in speech called it to the attention of usage commentators as early as 1927. The most frequently repeated remark about it is that “there is no such word.” There is such a word, however. It is still used primarily in speech, although it can be found from time to time in edited prose. Its reputation has not risen over the years, and it is still a long way from general acceptance. Use regardless instead.

It's one of those things where you can be reading along, maybe agreeing with or at least respecting what a person has typed, then you bump into this word in their text and just lose all hope.

I always use "regardless" irregardless of what Merriam-Webster have to say.

Wait :?
 
JoleneBrody said:
Next time I go out to eat I'm not gonna tip, you know why? Because I'm not going to remember that meal in 10 years and I don't get to keep the waitresses service forever and ever. I mean, if she comes to my house once a week and pours me my coffee... then maybe... Yeah. Sounds ridiculous right?
#freedomcoffee served in bed by a waitress? This should be a thing lol
 
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AmberCutie said:
Before anyone goes all batty on me, I know it is *technically* a word, but even Merriam-Webster recommends NOT using it:

Irregardless originated in dialectal American speech in the early 20th century. Its fairly widespread use in speech called it to the attention of usage commentators as early as 1927. The most frequently repeated remark about it is that “there is no such word.” There is such a word, however. It is still used primarily in speech, although it can be found from time to time in edited prose. Its reputation has not risen over the years, and it is still a long way from general acceptance. Use regardless instead.

It's one of those things where you can be reading along, maybe agreeing with or at least respecting what a person has typed, then you bump into this word in their text and just lose all hope.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ all dat is one of the many reasons Amber is a fav of mine. I feel the same way, you're saying something elegant and profound then mess up your/you're or other words like that and you're just a bone head lol
 
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Neudiin said:
JoleneBrody said:
Next time I go out to eat I'm not gonna tip, you know why? Because I'm not going to remember that meal in 10 years and I don't get to keep the waitresses service forever and ever. I mean, if she comes to my house once a week and pours me my coffee... then maybe... Yeah. Sounds ridiculous right?
#freedomcoffee served in bed by a waitress? This should be a thing lol
I do not disagree! :-D
 
mynameisbob84 said:
AmberCutie said:
Before anyone goes all batty on me, I know it is *technically* a word, but even Merriam-Webster recommends NOT using it:

Irregardless originated in dialectal American speech in the early 20th century. Its fairly widespread use in speech called it to the attention of usage commentators as early as 1927. The most frequently repeated remark about it is that “there is no such word.” There is such a word, however. It is still used primarily in speech, although it can be found from time to time in edited prose. Its reputation has not risen over the years, and it is still a long way from general acceptance. Use regardless instead.

It's one of those things where you can be reading along, maybe agreeing with or at least respecting what a person has typed, then you bump into this word in their text and just lose all hope.

I always use "regardless" irregardless of what Merriam-Webster have to say.

Wait :?


Regardless of your iregardlessness, Bob...I thought that was pretty darned :lol: I say this to you, with my kindest regards!
 
JoleneBrody said:
Freeloaders for the most part don't think! They just breath through their mouths and eat their cool ranch Doritos.

:( But...but...JJ?! I told you that I have a deviated septum. And I like the zesty kick that the cool ranch Doritos give my sinuses. If it's okay with you, I'm gonna make a change and switch to Breath Right strips. Aaaand I'll make the switch to Dorritos Jacked Smokey Chipotle BBQ. :handgestures-salute:
 
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