When your asked to do Age-play

[kupido]

Please no judgement on this thread. Most vanilla cam models have been asked to do ageplay. What is the youngest you guys have been requested to do and did u fall thru with it? I know it is all roleplay, but have any of you guys actually got in trouble for= doing ageplay for private shows on mfc/chatur/cMD/streamates/etc?

 

[Dan Epstein]

I’m no expert, but an underaged play, by most compliance parameters equals at least a temporary ban, last I know. It has a lot of controversy combined in it, from consent, to the indulging of illegal conduct by simulating it.
I’d consult Punker Barbie for instance, prior to scheduling an age play performance.
I was never here

 

[alexa_voltage]

Every cam site I know of would ban you or suspend your account for acting under age. You have to play a role of someone over 18. Even with ageplay. I have heard about plenty of models getting banned, especially on chaturbate. I have never been introuble myself though cuz I dont do it.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

I've been asked to do it, I'm ok with doing it as it's a bit of a weird turn on for me (though I also find it a little worrying as I don't know the reasons for being asked) I've gone along with it a few times when I first started camming, though nothing very specific. Honestly if it's a service you want to offer I'd go onto Skype. It's not worth the risk of being banned.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Any age that is underage (<18) is not allowed by any cam site.

 

[Emberblaze]

Any age that is underage (<18) is not allowed by any cam site.

This.

Also it's also actually illegal in some countries and can fall under child pornography laws even though the model is over 18.

 

[Violet Dawn]

When I was thinner I was asked to do age play about 3+ times an hour when I was on Streamate. It was probably 1 in 3 talking potential customers asked me to do age play.

Now, typically guys don't outwardly say it, but when they ask me if I do "roleplay" I know they're either going to ask for that or incest. And now it's probably at least once an hour. I think the fact I have much larger boobs now typically makes them not ask.

Have I ever done it? No. My first ever job I accepted was age play related but the guy didn't tell me until after he paid. And I tried going with it but I was too uncomfortable with it and he apologized and said I could keep the money. I guess he had the money to trap girls in jobs without telling them prior what he was paying for.

The youngest I've ever been asked to play? Usually they don't actually tell me, but the youngest I've ever been asked about was probably 6, or 4? (the first guy, wanted me to tell him stories of me being beaten with a belt at 4) On cam though, I never get asked to play below age 12. It's kinda hard to have boobs and fake something lower than that. I still say no, and most guys typically understand or get uber offended and leave.

In the past, when I was asked to do it literally almost every other request a LOT of guys got butthurt when I simply just said no. They'd say things like "Oh, you have a cupcake blanket so." Or "Well you have a pink stuffed animal in the background, so you kind of look like a little." I used to love pink and cute things. Always wore cute things and pink. These guys kind of ruined that for me. Being told constantly how I am definitely a little (when I'm most CERTAINLY not) kinda ruined the pink aesthetic and shabby chick furniture I had.

But I still said no, firmly. And I will always say no, firmly.

I don't have anything against age players, but I find great disgust with people trying to force it on me because I was small and had a cute kawaii face.

 

[Natalie_Lavender]

I actually had this happen tonight. Through tip notes in public chat. It started off innocent dirty talk, but then when he mentioned using baby wipes & a diaper I told him “that is off limits and not anything I’m going to indulge in”. He politely excused himself from my room.

 

[kupido]

Thanks all for your helpful reply. The reason I asked was because I recently did ageplay in a private show. At the moment I thought it was okay since it was just pretending and it was DD/LG. But then the viewer wanted me to say all these underage things to him and it made me very uncomfortable. So afterwards I did not feel right about it at all... did some research and found the same things you guys have told me now. Now I know and never again. D: sniff sniff

So comes my next question... How do you guys prevent DDLG fetish from becoming underage play? There are so many scenarios and even appearance/dressup factors that always seem to imply some sort of ageplay, I would think it is hard...

 

[AudriTwo]

I think the loophole is you can dress younger, just can't talk about your age.

 

[Dan Epstein]

“I’m a high school granny over 18” always worked for me, it’s niche enough to be fetish and old enough to be legal
Seriously now, I second Audri.

 

[Emberblaze]

I think the loophole is you can dress younger, just can't talk about your age.

This.

But some guys will just ruin it because so many of them are legit pedos and will say awful shit or ask you to say awful shit.

If you really want to do the DDlg fetish, clips might be the way to go. That way you have full control over making sure you are catering to DDlg and not actual pedos. Then you don't have to worry about some guy typing out really awful/illegal things. You can just play the young and naive but still 18 year old girl.

 

[Violet Dawn]

Thanks all for your helpful reply. The reason I asked was because I recently did ageplay in a private show. At the moment I thought it was okay since it was just pretending and it was DD/LG. But then the viewer wanted me to say all these underage things to him and it made me very uncomfortable. So afterwards I did not feel right about it at all... did some research and found the same things you guys have told me now. Now I know and never again. D: sniff sniff

So comes my next question... How do you guys prevent DDLG fetish from becoming underage play? There are so many scenarios and even appearance/dressup factors that always seem to imply some sort of ageplay, I would think it is hard...

You cannot fully prevent it. Guys are gonna think what they want to think, sadly.

The only way I can see fully preventing it (and even then some will still try) is to act the exact opposite of a child. I've considered that but wearing real adult women clothes and never wearing tank tops or T shirts just really isn't my thing. Men childize way too many articles of clothing, including clothes children definitely shouldn't be wearing.

 

[tekwolf]

Years ago there was an incident regarding ageplay. The model was ask to act and dress like a minor she did the pvts were long.
Then 1 day the member during the pvt opened his webcam for the model and she witnessed how he was having sex with his 6 year old daughter. This was in the early days of the camming sites and from what i heard they started the no underage roleplay rule and the site it happened on got shutdown for it. The performer never performed anymore and had a very bad mental blow by it further i don`t know .
It is what was told to me by an admin i know so better don`t risk it to go below 18

 

[SaffronBurke]

This.

But some guys will just ruin it because so many of them are legit pedos and will say awful shit or ask you to say awful shit.

If you really want to do the DDlg fetish, clips might be the way to go. That way you have full control over making sure you are catering to DDlg and not actual pedos. Then you don't have to worry about some guy typing out really awful/illegal things. You can just play the young and naive but still 18 year old girl.

This is the best approach for any fetish where you're concerned about people pushing your boundaries. If you only do it in clips and not live, it's much less stressful and, while people can request videos that fall outside your comfort zone or the rules/laws, it's much easier to decline a custom video than it is to juggle your boundaries while streaming.

 

[MiaJay13]

Well this topic has thoroughly disturbed me.

 

[kupido]

Wolf ,that is just horrible... D: I never ever wanna encourage underage play but I find I like the dd/lg fetish. Thanks for all the informative help that's helped clarified this for me, everyone.

 

[BiancaBaker]

Thanks all for your helpful reply. The reason I asked was because I recently did ageplay in a private show. At the moment I thought it was okay since it was just pretending and it was DD/LG. But then the viewer wanted me to say all these underage things to him and it made me very uncomfortable. So afterwards I did not feel right about it at all... did some research and found the same things you guys have told me now. Now I know and never again. D: sniff sniff

So comes my next question... How do you guys prevent DDLG fetish from becoming underage play? There are so many scenarios and even appearance/dressup factors that always seem to imply some sort of ageplay, I would think it is hard...

I straight up say "I will NOT play under 18" .. I mean really that should cover it.

 

[Sansa_Shane]

I have never been asked to do an underage play and I know why: my pussy is hairy, I don't have any dolls / big stuffed toys / unicorns at my background. My fetish is pantyhose and this lures people who mostly ask for dom/sub role play.
But one time there was a guy with whom I played domination and submission in private show for pretty long time and when he suddenly asked me to punish his little brother (who was 8) with a dildo I suddenly felt nausea and asked him to stop. That was unexpected. Everything started as a normal adult-to-adult play and I was not ready to proceed in that fantasy. Yep, it was all ruined for him and he left.

 

[OohOlivia]

Years ago there was an incident regarding ageplay. The model was ask to act and dress like a minor she did the pvts were long.
Then 1 day the member during the pvt opened his webcam for the model and she witnessed how he was having sex with his 6 year old daughter. This was in the early days of the camming sites and from what i heard they started the no underage roleplay rule and the site it happened on got shutdown for it. The performer never performed anymore and had a very bad mental blow by it further i don`t know .
It is what was told to me by an admin i know so better don`t risk it to go below 18

This actually made my stomach drop. People are messed up. There’s a difference between fantasy and actually acting it out

 

[Sophiestique]

long ago when i started camming, probably like 8 years ago, had a member on a site that had a huge fetish about small girls, adopted that are himiliated by step borthers. at start wasnt anything sexual. I was new on camming, ofc i liked the very long privates and i was doing it just not mentioning the age. in time he started being demanding and asking for more and more perverted stuff. was nice to make 150-200$ in less than 1 h... but that was getting my brain so tired i wasnt really able to cam again for 2-3 hours. after i figured how camming works and was doing good money i started to refuse him. he was kinda harrasing me on all sites i was camming on. i even quited 2-3 of them to just avoid him. beside the privates he seemed a perfectly aware that his fetish was so wrong, and told me hes doing it as a story to not be tempted to do it in real. even after years when i came back to the original site he found me and he was still into it. After that i never did it again, and i directly ban anyone that starts with "you look underage", "you look like my sister" or dad stuff.

 

[Shhhamrock]

I’ve never been asked to age down and I have no interest in doing so. I’m sure my body type helps weed that out. As with any fetish and really any time you are acting as a provider, you need to keep in mind not just the rules but the emotional consequences of what you’re engaging in.