What Will You Tell Your Children?

[sxycherrypie]

KiraSage I have read all of your posts and it seems like to me that you absolutely despise camming.I understand the doing hat you have to do thing but if you do not like camming and not having fun doing this then you can easily find a couple part time jobs which is what is mostly out there nowadays waiting tables serving drinks and all of that stuff. Your posts have also been inconsistent with the other things you have been saying. I do what I have to do yet if my child was in that situation and was camming I would be angry and disappointed.Yes I know it is not our dream to know our child cams (if they do in the future of course) and of course we all will be a little disappointed but we should be proud of them doing what they need to do to make ends meet.Unless they are actually prostituting and selling drugs then that to me is a problem lol Id rather them cam that doing those.

 

[Anonymous]

KiraSage I have read all of your posts and it seems like to me that you absolutely despise camming.I understand the doing hat you have to do thing but if you do not like camming and not having fun doing this then you can easily find a couple part time jobs which is what is mostly out there nowadays waiting tables serving drinks and all of that stuff. Your posts have also been inconsistent with the other things you have been saying. I do what I have to do yet if my child was in that situation and was camming I would be angry and disappointed.Yes I know it is not our dream to know our child cams (if they do in the future of course) and of course we all will be a little disappointed but we should be proud of them doing what they need to do to make ends meet.Unless they are actually prostituting and selling drugs then that to me is a problem lol Id rather them cam that doing those.

I don't mean to sound bitchy (by the way I'm typing) but I've mentioned in my posts that I do not hate camming, if I hated it I wouldn't do it, and I started camming because I didn't want to struggle anymore. I cam because I'm done working 2-3 jobs just to pay for the cost of living among other things I have to pay for, being in a rut, not being able to move forward in life because of lack of money and time. Camming changes all of that, it's completely changed my life. It's not what I necessarily want to do, but that's life. And just because there are other things I would rather do (and can't because it does nothing for me financially) doesn't mean I don't like camming. It just means there are things I like more.

It's hard for me to be fake (clearly since I'm being honest and getting attacked for it) so I think if I really hated camming then members would notice, I wouldn't have made friends on here, and my camscore wouldn't be at 5000 after being here for like 3 months.

 

[Jupiter551]

When you bring children into the mix though, be prepared to be confronted with your inconsistencies. Asking about things they don't understand is what kids do ("why? why? WHY?"), and often adults don't like it because we're forced to examine our leaps in logic. For example, "we do it, and everyone else does it" isn't a very sound argument.

Lol about kids, that is SO true

 

[Jupiter551]

You would be surprised to how deep some companies can dig to find out things like you camming. There IS a chance they will find out. If the job you want to do will look at it so negatively, should you really be camming in the first place???

Lol if a red-blooded male found out his foxy new employee used to get naked for a living, he's not going to fire her, though he may spend a lot of time on google trying to find videos :mrgreen:

 

[sxycherrypie]

KiraSage I have read all of your posts and it seems like to me that you absolutely despise camming.I understand the doing hat you have to do thing but if you do not like camming and not having fun doing this then you can easily find a couple part time jobs which is what is mostly out there nowadays waiting tables serving drinks and all of that stuff. Your posts have also been inconsistent with the other things you have been saying. I do what I have to do yet if my child was in that situation and was camming I would be angry and disappointed.Yes I know it is not our dream to know our child cams (if they do in the future of course) and of course we all will be a little disappointed but we should be proud of them doing what they need to do to make ends meet.Unless they are actually prostituting and selling drugs then that to me is a problem lol Id rather them cam that doing those.

I don't mean to sound bitchy (by the way I'm typing) but I've mentioned in my posts that I do not hate camming, if I hated it I wouldn't do it, and I started camming because I didn't want to struggle anymore. I cam because I'm done working 2-3 jobs just to pay for the cost of living among other things I have to pay for, being in a rut, not being able to move forward in life because of lack of money and time. Camming changes all of that, it's completely changed my life. It's not what I necessarily want to do, but that's life. And just because there are other things I would rather do (and can't because it does nothing for me financially) doesn't mean I don't like camming. It just means there are things I like more.

It's hard for me to be fake (clearly since I'm being honest and getting attacked for it) so I think if I really hated camming then members would notice, I wouldn't have made friends on here, and my camscore wouldn't be at 5000 after being here for like 3 months.

Alright I think I understand you now. I was trying to get what you are trying to say cause sometimes our words do not come out right.=D

 

[Anonymous]

You would be surprised to how deep some companies can dig to find out things like you camming. There IS a chance they will find out. If the job you want to do will look at it so negatively, should you really be camming in the first place???

Lol if a red-blooded male found out his foxy new employee used to get naked for a living, he's not going to fire her, though he may spend a lot of time on google trying to find videos :mrgreen:

Do you think it's possible to sue a company for firing you based on something like that?? lol

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

You would be surprised to how deep some companies can dig to find out things like you camming. There IS a chance they will find out. If the job you want to do will look at it so negatively, should you really be camming in the first place???

Lol if a red-blooded male found out his foxy new employee used to get naked for a living, he's not going to fire her, though he may spend a lot of time on google trying to find videos :mrgreen:

Do you think it's possible to sue a company for firing you based on something like that?? lol

I doubt you could make much of a case. There are many stories of ex (meaning no longer in the industry) porn stars being fired from other jobs due to their past. If you are afraid of this repercussion then I suggest never doing it in the first place.

 

[BustyJules]

Hmmm back to the question.

I have custody of my 15 year old sister and I have my own 4 year old daughter. My sister knows I cam and I've been honest since she came to live with me a few months back. I feel she is old enough to understand (Which she does) and I don't regret she knows. However I do believe in keeping some stuff to myself, Like for example I do NOT say "Hey I'm gonna go do a shower show and fuck myself with my toy so if ya gotta pee go now" or "OMG I just had my first squirting experience on cam". If I need to occupy a room, I simply say "J I need to go in there and work, Please be quiet and if you need me text or knock". It is kinda like Don't ask, Don't tell.

I will also tell my daughter when she is old enough to understand. It may be at 15 or it may be at 18, I cannot say for sure now. As for as either of them camming, I say if they are 18 and want to cam then they should go for it! As long as they are happy and not doing anything illegal, Who am I to judge?

 

[Whisperly]

I was raised with a complete lack of openness from my parents about any aspect of sexuality. School (both primary and the secondary private Christian School I attended during my teens) attempted to teach me about sex but failed on their arses. I was curious and wanted to know more, so I bought a book on Sex Ed from WHSmiths when I was 11. (I'll never forget the look on the sale assistants face as I put it on the counter!)

The Christian School turned out to be bent on emphasizing things like STDS and sin. If not for that book, I'd probably have come away from sex ed being somewhat terrified of sex.

I won't go into excessive detail about this, but my partner (with whom I hope to have children with one day in the distant future) was raised by an escort who took in-calls in the same house she raised her boys, and yet completely left them in the dark about what she was doing. Many, many lies were told; they were confined to the house out of her fear until they were in their teens, and a lot of truths emerged through household discoveries my partner found and.. heard.. as a child. To this day I find it hard to digest without feeling physically sick.

If I am still even camming by the time I have children, I will play it by ear when it comes to disclosing information to my them about what I do, but when I feel they can grasp it, I will explain it to them with exactly what I missed out on when I was a child: the harmless honesty of what sex and sex work actually are. And I am nothing but proud of what I do: I make people happy. I brighten people's days and nights. The sexual element doesn't and shouldn't detract from that or invalidate this. I don't understand why, the moment something becomes erotic, it becomes negative, shameful, or ought to be swept under this carpet of faux-moral bullshit.

I firmly believe that talking about sex is ONLY EVER harmful or immoral when it is shrouded in deceit, mystery, shame, guilt and lies. Those things have no place in any relationship I will have with my children. I want to bring them up in an environment in which being curious, inquisitive and freethinking are traits to be encouraged and rewarded.

 

[caireen]

You are all taking everything I'm saying totally out of context and putting words in my mouth.

I never said that I was uncomfortable taking my clothes off. Stripping was something I did that I can say I fucking despise and made me miserable even though I was rolling in dough - lo and behold am I still doing it? No, because I hated it. I don't plan to stop camming anytime soon.

I basically said that if I could choose between camming and my previous job (if I were making the same amount of money) then I would choose my previous job. I enjoyed working at an actual place where I could make friends, meet people, be myself as in wear regular clothes and not lingerie, not be naked, etc. But unfortunately it wasn't financially stable. Ah mah gah, this is so difficult to comprehend...

I like camming but I feel the same- if I could make as much money serving in a bar I would do that.

 

[LiciousLily]

I'm not going to tell my children. I don't feel it's necessary for one's children to know everything their mother or father did before they were born. And not because I am ashamed, but because society is close-minded. And I am not some huge famous pornstar, or will I be. . so I really am not scared that when I have children in years and whem they will be of age that their peers will be looking stuff up on the net that my solo webcam shows will be widespread on the net.

 

[LadyLuna]

My point is that if I had parents who raised me properly, gave me financial advice, allowed me to go to college, then right now I wouldn't be paying off debt and would most likely have a job where I'd be earning the same amount that I'm earning camming; therefore I wouldn't be camming.

My dear, I just love your naivete.

Yes, I was in foster care, but at the age of 13 I was adopted by a family. They taught me finances. They paid for most of a college education that left me with $15,000 worth of student loans debt, and a useless Bachelor of Arts in Mathematics when I discovered that I wasn't going to be a teacher after all.

I would rather be teaching, but I'm not suited to it. So I'm camming. But it has nothing to do with my parents. They encouraged me, and were baffled by my lack of interest in having money or material items. I saved every penny up until college, then spent every penny on college until I graduated. Then I spent every penny attempting to survive, with any spending money going towards things that would keep me sane in an insane world.

The economy is really really bad right now. My roomate has an associates degree in network administration, and can't find a job anywhere for shit. He can't even find a minimum wage job to help me with the bills. So don't say that if you could've just gone to college you'd have a different job. You don't know that.

My parents gave me every opportunity they could. Mom still feels guilty that I'm struggling every day, but it's not her fault the economy failed me. So yes, do make sure they have every opportunity possible, but don't expect anything.

Also- I might have checked it out because I had no better options, but now I'm convinced there are no better options for me.

 

[Anonymous]

My dear, I just love your naivete.

Yes, I was in foster care, but at the age of 13 I was adopted by a family. They taught me finances. They paid for most of a college education that left me with $15,000 worth of student loans debt, and a useless Bachelor of Arts in Mathematics when I discovered that I wasn't going to be a teacher after all.

I would rather be teaching, but I'm not suited to it. So I'm camming. But it has nothing to do with my parents. They encouraged me, and were baffled by my lack of interest in having money or material items. I saved every penny up until college, then spent every penny on college until I graduated. Then I spent every penny attempting to survive, with any spending money going towards things that would keep me sane in an insane world.

The economy is really really bad right now. My roomate has an associates degree in network administration, and can't find a job anywhere for shit. He can't even find a minimum wage job to help me with the bills. So don't say that if you could've just gone to college you'd have a different job. You don't know that.

My parents gave me every opportunity they could. Mom still feels guilty that I'm struggling every day, but it's not her fault the economy failed me. So yes, do make sure they have every opportunity possible, but don't expect anything.

Also- I might have checked it out because I had no better options, but now I'm convinced there are no better options for me.

Naive? :lol:

Your situation is a totally different scenario.

A) I couldn't go to school because I couldn't get financial aid because my parents refused to give me their info. Here you need your parents income and tax info for financial aid until you're 23. I would have had everything covered and went to school for free.

B) There has been a series of events that put me in debt because of my parents and because of other family members. If I had a smooth life, I would be able to live with a mediocre job. Plenty of people do. I'm not materialistic, I don't need a lucrative income so that I can spoil myself. I have obligations that require a more substantial income in order for me to live comfortably (Comfortably, as in pay my bills on time while paying off bills while buying things I need). The past couple of years I have lived in empty apartments besides a bed, depended on food stamps to eat, worked 2-3 jobs at once, etc, none of that would have occurred if it wasn't for my family's psychotic escapades.

C) This goes to you and every other know-it-all: You are completely without clue, so please don't act as if you know what you're talking about.

 

[Anonymous]

C) This goes to you and every other know-it-all: You are completely without clue, so please don't act as if you know what you're talking about.

What is it with you lately and some of your posts? There was no reason to be rude to LadyLuna. She's known for her intelligent posts, however she's never struck me as the "know-it-all" type.


Also, it's kinda lame to blame your parents for you camming. Sorry to hear that you're not happy with the way you were raised, but as adults we have to take responsibility for our actions, and not go through life using the "Well if my parents had blah, blah, blah" excuse.

 

[Anonymous]

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And again: My parents put me in financial debt - therefore I need a lucrative job to live a normal life. Working the maximum amount of hours at minimum wage jobs doesn't cut it - I've done it for way too long. What actions are you speaking of? Clearly you're just skimming through my posts and not actually reading them.

 

[Anonymous]

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And again: My parents put me in financial debt - therefore I need a lucrative job to live a normal life. Working the maximum amount of hours at minimum wage jobs doesn't cut it - I've done it for way too long. What actions are you speaking of? Clearly you're just skimming through my posts and not actually reading them.

Oh, I've been reading your "Woe is me" posts. I felt like commenting because I was very surprised to see you talking to LadyLuna that way. She's sweet, and she's one of the two people on here who actually showed any concern when I had the fire two months ago.

Basically, you said that you're camming because your "parents didn't raise you right." Sorry, but that statement just rubs me the wrong way, and it makes me wonder how you feel about the rest of us cam girls who actually ENJOY our jobs.

Sorry to hear about the financial debt though. That really sucks.

 

[Anonymous]

^
And again: My parents put me in financial debt - therefore I need a lucrative job to live a normal life. Working the maximum amount of hours at minimum wage jobs doesn't cut it - I've done it for way too long. What actions are you speaking of? Clearly you're just skimming through my posts and not actually reading them.

Oh, I've been reading your "Woe is me" posts. I felt like commenting because I was very surprised to see you talking to LadyLuna that way. She's sweet, and she's one of the two people on here who actually showed any concern when I had the fire two months ago.

Basically, you said that you're camming because your "parents didn't raise you right." Sorry, but that statement just rubs me the wrong way, and it makes me wonder how you feel about the rest of us cam girls who actually ENJOY our jobs.

Sorry to hear about the financial debt though. That really sucks.

:lol:

I had to elaborate on what I originally posted because a lot of people didn't understand what I meant by it. I guess explaining something in more detail so that you can understand, equals "woe is me"...

 

[Anonymous]

I guess explaining something in more detail so that you can understand, equals "woe is me"...

I was referring to how you keep bringing up your parents, and in an earlier post (may have been in another thread) you said that camming is a result of your parents not "raising you right."

And you really don't have to explain anything in more detail...especially since I don't recommend telling too much of your personal info on this forum.

 

[Anonymous]

I guess explaining something in more detail so that you can understand, equals "woe is me"...

I was referring to how you keep bringing up your parents, and in an earlier post (may have been in another thread) you said that camming is a result of your parents not "raising you right."

And you really don't have to explain anything in more detail...especially since I don't recommend telling too much of your personal info on this forum.

I do not keep bringing up my parents. I was elaborating on what I originally posted because some people had snot-nosed presumptions based on 1 thing I said, which was:

"Instead, I would raise them to have better opportunities than what I had, so that they wouldn't have to resort to something like this"

That little statement started all of this pathetic drama. I should have just ignored the presumptions and let people think what they want to think. Because even after explaining MORE than enough, these chicks still don't get it. I seriously feel like I'm being trolled; that's how fucking pathetic this is.

I don't give personal info on this forum. What is anyone going to gain by knowing the feeble amount of info I've talked about... Who really gives a shit? ...apparently you chicks seeing as how you keep going on and on about it...

 

[LadyLuna]

^
And again: My parents put me in financial debt - therefore I need a lucrative job to live a normal life. Working the maximum amount of hours at minimum wage jobs doesn't cut it - I've done it for way too long. What actions are you speaking of? Clearly you're just skimming through my posts and not actually reading them.

I was responding to your statement where you said that if your parents had sent you to college and given you financial advice, you wouldn't be in this situation. Obviously, those things were not the main reason for the situation you're in. Apologies for misinterpreting the situation. ^_^

I really hate the stories I hear about parents getting their kids in debt and ruining their credit before they're even 18. I think that's a fucked up thing for the parents to do. Stealing from their kids is counter-productive. After all, it's supposed to go from the parents to the children, not the other way around.

Honestly, I understand the resentment. My dad taught me never to get into debt, then forced me to get student loans. If I'd known he would force me to get student loans, I would've chosen a cheaper college. But when he said he'd pay everything I couldn't, he was including student loans in what I could pay.

Sometimes I'm tempted to tell them to get their money back from him.

 

[caireen]

Do you think it's possible to sue a company for firing you based on something like that?? lol

I doubt you could make much of a case. There are many stories of ex (meaning no longer in the industry) porn stars being fired from other jobs due to their past. If you are afraid of this repercussion then I suggest never doing it in the first place.

moving away from drama!

i think there is a big case. it's in TOTAL violation of a person's rights to have their employment terminated because of what they've done in the past if it's legal. obviously there is more of a case against past adult workers if their new job requires some sort of public image to be upheld. but generally i'd imagine that the company firing an employee would have to make a good argument that that workers past negatively impacts their ability to perform in their new job. just because certain porn stars have lost jobs doesn't mean that other adult workers wouldn't be able to be successful in suing/winning a case.

 

[schlmoe]

Do you think it's possible to sue a company for firing you based on something like that?? lol

I doubt you could make much of a case. There are many stories of ex (meaning no longer in the industry) porn stars being fired from other jobs due to their past. If you are afraid of this repercussion then I suggest never doing it in the first place.

moving away from drama!

i think there is a big case. it's in TOTAL violation of a person's rights to have their employment terminated because of what they've done in the past if it's legal. obviously there is more of a case against past adult workers if their new job requires some sort of public image to be upheld. but generally i'd imagine that the company firing an employee would have to make a good argument that that workers past negatively impacts their ability to perform in their new job. just because certain porn stars have lost jobs doesn't mean that other adult workers wouldn't be able to be successful in suing/winning a case.

Like Lydia said "I doubt you could make much of a case". Let's not get carried away here, no one has the "right" to a job. I'm no lawyer, but for past jobs I have a lot of experience and training on EEOC and state UI policies and procedures.

Here in the States, unless you have an employment contract or are in a union, in most cases, you are an "At Will" worker. Meaning you work "at the will" of the employer. Your job can be terminated for any reason. The best you could look forward to is UI (unemployment insurance).

Discrimination in hiring and termination is very difficult to prove. Even the people who are successful have a long road ahead of them, 5-10 years is not uncommon. Also, in a discrimination claim, you have to be in a "protected class". I do not believe that sex workers (or exes) are considered a protected class.

I remember a few years ago, this young woman was denied a state teaching certificate because she posted FB pictures of her drinking at a party. Nothing nude/sexual, or even blatantly poor taste. IIRC, she was drinking out of a solo cup, not even showing that it was alcohol.

I'm not saying it's fair, it's just "the way it is". Especially in this day and age, with the poor economy, employers are looking for a reason not to hire you as there are so many applicants for each opening.

 

[Anonymous]

Who really gives a shit? ...apparently you chicks seeing as how you keep going on and on about it...

Nope, I've got enough on my mind right now than to really give a shit about this back and forth nonsense. This ain't the 10th grade...lol. So anyway.....

Happy Christmas Eve, everyone! :-D

 

[Anonymous]

I was responding to your statement where you said that if your parents had sent you to college and given you financial advice, you wouldn't be in this situation. Obviously, those things were not the main reason for the situation you're in. Apologies for misinterpreting the situation. ^_^

I really hate the stories I hear about parents getting their kids in debt and ruining their credit before they're even 18. I think that's a fucked up thing for the parents to do. Stealing from their kids is counter-productive. After all, it's supposed to go from the parents to the children, not the other way around.

Honestly, I understand the resentment. My dad taught me never to get into debt, then forced me to get student loans. If I'd known he would force me to get student loans, I would've chosen a cheaper college. But when he said he'd pay everything I couldn't, he was including student loans in what I could pay.

Sometimes I'm tempted to tell them to get their money back from him.

Also I have no bad feelings towards you or anyone on here I just get frustrated.

That really sucks that your parents made you get student loans. I never wished that my parents paid for me to go to college, because I have a ton of friends who were put through school by their parents and none of them understand what it's like to be financially independent, even after graduating school (the type of kids whose parents either gave them their "old" car when they turned 16 or bought them one, loans co-signed by parents, got their parents extra furniture when they moved out, etc) Life handed to them and they all take it for granted.
All my parents had to do was give me their tax and income information, so I could apply for financial aid, and I would have gotten grants that I wouldn't have had to pay back. NOW that they're being compliant, I'm passed the age cut-off where I don't need their info. Lol so now I have to get loans and whatnot. It makes me want to bang my head against a wall.
But yeah. Camming has definitely made my life easier and changed a LOT for me. I originally was saying that if I had kids, I would try to help them as much as possible so that they wouldn't have to struggle or NEED to have a 'different' kind of job.

 

[Jupiter551]

Like Lydia said "I doubt you could make much of a case". Let's not get carried away here, no one has the "right" to a job. I'm no lawyer, but for past jobs I have a lot of experience and training on EEOC and state UI policies and procedures.

Here in the States, unless you have an employment contract or are in a union, in most cases, you are an "At Will" worker. Meaning you work "at the will" of the employer. Your job can be terminated for any reason. The best you could look forward to is UI (unemployment insurance).

Yeah US you can fire or promote someone for whatever reason (or lack thereof) you like, UK, Canada and Australia you'd likely be guilty of Wrongful Dismissal if you terminated someone without notice/benefits for a reason that wasn't directly related to misconduct or the performance of their job.

 

[Poker_Babe]

This question reminds me of a friend of mine and how she is with her daughter...
Ever seen Michael Jackson's music video "Thriller"? (I'm sure everyone here has at one point in time.) Well you know the girl in that video... the one running away from Zombie Michael Jackson...

That's my friend, Ola Ray. Ola Ray was also Playmate of the year back in the 80s and has been very active with Playboy ever since.

Anyways years back, when I hung out at her house for the first time, she was showing me this very nice hardbound addition playboy book that was nothing but photos of nude models. Well as we where looking at it, her (then) 4 year old daughter comes right up to us, curious of what it was we were looking at and what it was we were discussing. Acting on gut reflex I quickly close the book, and move it away from her child. I'll never forget the most bewildered look that came over both of their faces when I did that. Ola says to me, "why'd you close up the book like that?". Then I told her that I thought her daughter wasn't supposed to see it. She then laughed at me and said that her baby has been seeing Playboy magazines, models, nude photos, etc... ever since she was born. It's never been hidden from her, and that she was used to it.

The point I'm getting at here is, that I learned something from Ola that day... Nude modeling, was a part of her career. She didn't see anything wrong with what she was doing. I'm sure most people would be of the opinion that exposing her daughter to the Playboy environment would be inappropriate, but she didn't care what other people thought. She saw nothing wrong with nude modeling, and would even support her daughter 100% if that was the path she decided to go down when she became an adult.

So lead by example, if you feel that there is something wrong or immoral with the line of work you do, and wouldn't want your child to do it... then you shouldn't do it either. Everyone knows that the old "do as I say, not as I do" line is a major cop-out and doesn't cut it.

But if you feel that there is nothing wrong with what you do for a living, then who cares if your kids "googles" your name some time in the future and happens upon your Playboy spread. So what if "others" make you feel like it's something you need to be ashamed of. If you truly believe that there is nothing wrong with what you do, you will have nothing to hide from your kids.

At least that's my :twocents-02cents:

 

[RainbowBryte]

You would be surprised to how deep some companies can dig to find out things like you camming. There IS a chance they will find out. If the job you want to do will look at it so negatively, should you really be camming in the first place???

Lol if a red-blooded male found out his foxy new employee used to get naked for a living, he's not going to fire her, though he may spend a lot of time on google trying to find videos :mrgreen:

Do you think it's possible to sue a company for firing you based on something like that?? lol

If it looks bad on the company im pretty sure they can fire you, when I was 18 I worked for HR Block, I got an underage drinking the one night, the town I lived in was super small and had a police report section in the local paper, I was in it for the underage and was fired two days later because they said it looked bad on them. Course those were criminal charges not strippin on the interwebz, lol, but still......... Some people told me I might be able to sue but I'm not sure I never pursued anything or even checked it out, was just like fuck that crap minimum wage job :-D But I figure HR Block is a huge company and probably knows there legal shit enough to avoid dumb mistakes they could be sued for, but who knows lots of large companies are fucking up nowadays out of greed and assholishness. Also sorry for all the cursing but this is an adult site so I figure if you can handle tits an ass you can put up with my potty mouth :twocents-02cents:

 

[RainbowBryte]

When they ask about your job? I get asked this question a lot. Usually in a rude way. Curious about your answers! xo

K guess Im answering the question what DO you tell your children more than what WILL you tell your children :-D No idea what I will tell them when they are older and smarter.

My children are 8 months, 4, 5 (stepdaughter), and 6. They have no idea what I do and actually think I am still working the job I worked before I started camming just now I dont work during the day I work after theyre in bed . No idea what I will say when they get bigger but for now lieing works, they are much too young to undestand this sort of thing anyway.

I had some idiot premium come to my room the other night. He heard that I was a MILF I told him I had a few kids infant to kindergarten age, he was like "what do they think your doing when your on cam" WTF I cam late at night, my kids dont even know what a webcam is, lol, they think I'm sleeping or at my old job while they are sleeping. I told him they have no idea I cam and I have a lock on my door so they can never walk in. Than to top it off he was like "so did you manage to get them lots for Christmas or are they gonna do without since you dont have much cash" I'm like fucker I make like 3,000 a month working part time and my bills are less than 1100 a month (live in a very cheap area in a small town, 625 for a 3 br with garage and some utilities included fuck yeah who is he to assume I'm poor, plus my fiance has a job and we share expenses. It really got me a bit fired up that night, lol

 

[Jupiter551]

Than to top it off he was like "so did you manage to get them lots for Christmas or are they gonna do without since you dont have much cash" I'm like fucker I make like 3,000 a month working part time and my bills are less than 1100 a month (live in a very cheap area in a small town, 625 for a 3 br with garage and some utilities included fuck yeah who is he to assume I'm poor, plus my fiance has a job and we share expenses. It really got me a bit fired up that night, lol

I'm sure there are a lot of guys who would rather believe most camgirls can't even pay their rent, than admit to themselves the person they look down on and treat like crap is probably making more money than they are. Too confronting for their ego.

 

[RainbowBryte]

Than to top it off he was like "so did you manage to get them lots for Christmas or are they gonna do without since you dont have much cash" I'm like fucker I make like 3,000 a month working part time and my bills are less than 1100 a month (live in a very cheap area in a small town, 625 for a 3 br with garage and some utilities included fuck yeah who is he to assume I'm poor, plus my fiance has a job and we share expenses. It really got me a bit fired up that night, lol

I'm sure there are a lot of guys who would rather believe most camgirls can't even pay their rent, than admit to themselves the person they look down on and treat like crap is probably making more money than they are. Too confronting for their ego.

There have been nights recently that ive bitched about being a broke ass bitch cuz of christmas, but damn thats cuz my kids arent doing without this year, bought so much that im a broke ass bitch, lol, bought tons of my little pony toys and barbies (etc. random girl shit, lol) and even a video game system and tons of games, lol, guess he could have heard me talkin with one of my regs one night who couldnt tip telling them I understand how broke christmas leaves us, but yeah so fucked up he assumed i was poor (funny i was poor till I started cammin), was the first time I ever noticed him in my room though so Im kinda sure he never heard me joking with my regs about being a "broke ass bitch" since I went Christmas shopping

One really funny thing about the guy after he heard how many kids I have before asking financial and personal questions he was like " I was thinking about taking you private but now that I know your "situation" I would feel too bad disrespecting you" WTF wouldn't freeloading in my room and asking dumb questions be more disrespectful than putting money in my pocket by taking me prvt. lol. not sure what some of the guys on MFC are thinking, lol

I never said that I was uncomfortable taking my clothes off. Stripping was something I did that I can say I fucking despise and made me miserable even though I was rolling in dough - lo and behold am I still doing it? No, because I hated it. I don't plan to stop camming anytime soon.

I basically said that if I could choose between camming and my previous job (if I were making the same amount of money) then I would choose my previous job. I enjoyed working at an actual place where I could make friends, meet people, be myself as in wear regular clothes and not lingerie, not be naked, etc. But unfortunately it wasn't financially stable. Ah mah gah, this is so difficult to comprehend...

Sorry bout my million posts one after another but I'm a lil drunk and trying to get more active in the forums since most of u are fuckin awesome , reading over shit for the first time really and keep feeling the urge to comment on things Hope you guys arent mad if I double post and such

I love camming but the whole thing you said about working at a place where you can meet people and make friends, I totally agree with that part since I quit my job it seems my life revolves around my regs and camming and small amounts for my guy and kids, I do sometimes wish I had adults to talk to besides horny men and my fiance but with kids I guess I dont get out much. Of course at the same time there are jobs that Id make the same amount of cash (maybe im not educated enough for them but camming is fun to me and I can do my hair how I want tat my body get piercings and no one gives a fuck) so I like that I can be myself and I love being able to set my own schedule and have tons of fun at work, but i do feel pathetic at times when i realize that besides my kids and fiance the main people I talk to are my regulars, they are awesome but I am weird about the fact that Im getting close with some of them if that makes sense