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Bragging about twitter followers when like only 10 percent have ever been active, shit is never not hilarious.

Having no hobbies or interests besides porn and camming. Boring to try to talk to these people.

Begging everyday. Sometimes camgirls forget or don't realize how huge of beggars they come across as. I get that begging and being kinda pathetic is a big part of being a camgirl for some and it works but ugh, so classless.

Models that act like women are all pathetic victims that blame everything on men because women are so weak and pathetic that they can't be held accountable for their actions and it is way easier to just blame everything on men.

Grown women acting like freshman in high school on the internet.

Non nude models acting better than nude models.
 
JimsX said:
PunkInDrublic said:
Non nude models acting better than nude models.


Yes. So much annoying.

There is a pair of sisters who cam on MFC. One is a nude model, the other is non-nude. The non-nude model periodically talks shit about nude models. Well one night they are camming together, and someone in the NN models room asks why she doesn't get naked. That wasn't totally awkward. No siree. Not at all.
 
There are 76 pages of this, and it has been forever since I've been here, so I'm going to throw this one out again. It's fairly MFC specific, I guess, I don't really frequent any other sites, but here it is.

Minimum tip limits. If you don't want my nickels, you're not getting my dollars. I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with not having minimum limits. A lot of this other stuff, it's just not a model I would want to hang with anyway. But if I have decided to tip tip and you don't want my tokens unless I meet a certain threshold? Screw you. I'm out. I'll take my tokens elsewhere. Good luck.

That may have been a bit harsh, but that's how I feel.
 
RogueWarrior said:
There are 76 pages of this, and it has been forever since I've been here, so I'm going to throw this one out again. It's fairly MFC specific, I guess, I don't really frequent any other sites, but here it is.

Minimum tip limits. If you don't want my nickels, you're not getting my dollars. I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with not having minimum limits. A lot of this other stuff, it's just not a model I would want to hang with anyway. But if I have decided to tip tip and you don't want my tokens unless I meet a certain threshold? Screw you. I'm out. I'll take my tokens elsewhere. Good luck.

That may have been a bit harsh, but that's how I feel.


That reminds me, a few days ago i tipped someone my last few tokens and in the process a thing popes up that said something like "are you sure you want to tip 4 tokens? Some models find these small tips offensive" or something like that. Couldn't help but thinking if she finds me giving ALL my measly tips to her offensive, she can suck it.

Idk if it always says that with small tips, but I can't say I've seen it before...
 
Johndoe91 said:
RogueWarrior said:
There are 76 pages of this, and it has been forever since I've been here, so I'm going to throw this one out again. It's fairly MFC specific, I guess, I don't really frequent any other sites, but here it is.

Minimum tip limits. If you don't want my nickels, you're not getting my dollars. I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with not having minimum limits. A lot of this other stuff, it's just not a model I would want to hang with anyway. But if I have decided to tip tip and you don't want my tokens unless I meet a certain threshold? Screw you. I'm out. I'll take my tokens elsewhere. Good luck.

That may have been a bit harsh, but that's how I feel.


That reminds me, a few days ago i tipped someone my last few tokens and in the process a thing popes up that said something like "are you sure you want to tip 4 tokens? Some models find these small tips offensive" or something like that. Couldn't help but thinking if she finds me giving ALL my measly tips to her offensive, she can suck it.

Idk if it always says that with small tips, but I can't say I've seen it before...
It always says that with tips from 1 to 4 tokens unless you use the /tip command.
We can't turn it off.
 
RogueWarrior said:
There are 76 pages of this, and it has been forever since I've been here, so I'm going to throw this one out again. It's fairly MFC specific, I guess, I don't really frequent any other sites, but here it is.

Minimum tip limits. If you don't want my nickels, you're not getting my dollars. I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with not having minimum limits. A lot of this other stuff, it's just not a model I would want to hang with anyway. But if I have decided to tip tip and you don't want my tokens unless I meet a certain threshold? Screw you. I'm out. I'll take my tokens elsewhere. Good luck.

That may have been a bit harsh, but that's how I feel.

In my pre-acf wanderings, I've run into a few minimum token requirements. A 10-token minimum makes me say to myself, "Oh, I guess not, then," and my tokens timidly wander on over to the next model, and I couldn't tell you who had the low minimum. A 100-token minimum, on the other hand, will have me grumping about how greedy that seems as I irritatedly find someone else to watch. Now, though, I just scan the page, find a lady from here, and watch and tip my friends.
 
RogueWarrior said:
There are 76 pages of this, and it has been forever since I've been here, so I'm going to throw this one out again. It's fairly MFC specific, I guess, I don't really frequent any other sites, but here it is.

Minimum tip limits. If you don't want my nickels, you're not getting my dollars. I'm sorry if you have had bad experiences with not having minimum limits. A lot of this other stuff, it's just not a model I would want to hang with anyway. But if I have decided to tip tip and you don't want my tokens unless I meet a certain threshold? Screw you. I'm out. I'll take my tokens elsewhere. Good luck.

That may have been a bit harsh, but that's how I feel.

Not harsh.. must agree on that one.

I am a weirdo and I LOVE the tip sound, so even if someone throws 1 toke at me it makes me smile. Obviously if someone tips 1 toke and then asks for a flash that becomes a bit silly and it can be considered offensive but most peps who do tip that low, also tip higher when they can and most importantly 1+1=2. :mrgreen:
 
When a model says she'll do something and then never does it.

I tipped a MFC model over 3 months for content, which she said she'll do, and I have yet to receive. I try messaging her every couple of weeks, just to remind her, but she never replies back and I'm pissed off. I even tipped more after a month to speed up the process and still nothing.
 
When a model says she'll do something and then never does it.

I tipped a MFC model over 3 months for content, which she said she'll do, and I have yet to receive. I try messaging her every couple of weeks, just to remind her, but she never replies back and I'm pissed off. I even tipped more after a month to speed up the process and still nothing.

This^^
After waiting a month for my raffle winnings I sent an MFC mail asking about it. I was told to go fuck myself, called an asshole and told to cease and desist. I know that tips are a gift but why have raffles if you don't pay up? I guess I fell into the shady model trap.
 
Xeibriz said:
When a model says she'll do something and then never does it.

I tipped a MFC model over 3 months for content, which she said she'll do, and I have yet to receive. I try messaging her every couple of weeks, just to remind her, but she never replies back and I'm pissed off. I even tipped more after a month to speed up the process and still nothing.

This^^
After waiting a month for my raffle winnings I sent an MFC mail asking about it. I was told to go fuck myself, called an asshole and told to cease and desist. I know that tips are a gift but why have raffles if you don't pay up? I guess I fell into the shady model trap.

I hate this, it gives us a bad name - I currently have a "friend", one of my guys from MFC on my snapchat, and as of yesterday he is no longer going on MFC because a certain model didn't follow through with something he had paid her for.. he was very upset, felt ripped off and scammed and now because of her, the girls he tends to visit and talk to won't be seeing any more of him..
 
YelloMit said:
When a model says she'll do something and then never does it.

I tipped a MFC model over 3 months for content, which she said she'll do, and I have yet to receive. I try messaging her every couple of weeks, just to remind her, but she never replies back and I'm pissed off. I even tipped more after a month to speed up the process and still nothing.

I did that with a custom and a model for four months before I wrote it off. She kept telling me it was done and then finding various ways to not send it. The one I found the most amusing is when she sent me a custom that was someone elses. Followed soon after by sending me her shortcut link to dropbox from her desk top. It's a shame, I find her super hot but after four months I felt like a fucking dumbass.

Another model whose room I'm probably not going to go into again has been dragging about it. If I up my nagging from once a week to more often the custom will get done after a month or two. But that's tiresome. I'm not gonna ask a model every time I see them if the custom is done. I come to MFC for fun and a good time and being a nag isn't fun. It's a shame in this case because this model was interested in some of the same kinks I was so it produced some really hot customs. But between the delays and the overall vibe in her room just being in the shitter, I've written off the last custom order from her.

Thankfully most of the models I've interacted with have been really good about being prompt with their customs. Most of the time I've gotten them within a few days to a week later. Which is totally reasonable. Customs take time to produce. They may or may not require a script, some prep work, and editing. I know some guys probably expect them next day but that's an unrealistic expectation.
 
I get the feeling that maybe these ladies don't like doing customs. If that's the case, they really shouldn't offer them. I'm not fond of doing them myself - I prefer shooting my own ideas, not someone else's - so I'm very picky about what customs I will actually agree to do. In the past, I've ended up dragging my feet and leaving it till the last minute - if I said it would take 7 days, I wind up shooting it very late on day 6 night, edit and upload/send it in the morning. After being disappointed with myself for putting them off for so long, I no longer do customs unless it's something that I'm actually excited about doing.
 
SaffronBurke said:
I get the feeling that maybe these ladies don't like doing customs. If that's the case, they really shouldn't offer them. I'm not fond of doing them myself - I prefer shooting my own ideas, not someone else's - so I'm very picky about what customs I will actually agree to do. In the past, I've ended up dragging my feet and leaving it till the last minute - if I said it would take 7 days, I wind up shooting it very late on day 6 night, edit and upload/send it in the morning. After being disappointed with myself for putting them off for so long, I no longer do customs unless it's something that I'm actually excited about doing.

This has been my experience as well. Even if the guy is super nice and the custom isn't hard, sometimes I build it up and procrastinate it. The longer I procrastinate doing it, the more anxious I get about it - especially if it's past the agreed upon time, or if we didn't agree on a time and he says "hey, how's the video coming?", that just makes me more stressed about it. Inevitably when I do make the video, I feel hugely relieved but embarrassed that it took so long and it is never, ever as hard as I build it up to be. Now I just take customs from regulars or videos that I am super stoked on making/sound super simple, and things flow a lot smoother.

Not at all to excuse or justify girls who take the money and run - that's definitely not okay. But just wanted to agree with Saffron, they probably don't like doing them and shouldn't offer them. I also think some models see the money and are like "yeah I'll totally do a 30 minute video and a one hour Skype" but then they get paid, money is in pocket, and they stop feeling the urgency to do the video/show.
 
GenXoxo said:
SaffronBurke said:
I get the feeling that maybe these ladies don't like doing customs. If that's the case, they really shouldn't offer them. I'm not fond of doing them myself - I prefer shooting my own ideas, not someone else's - so I'm very picky about what customs I will actually agree to do. In the past, I've ended up dragging my feet and leaving it till the last minute - if I said it would take 7 days, I wind up shooting it very late on day 6 night, edit and upload/send it in the morning. After being disappointed with myself for putting them off for so long, I no longer do customs unless it's something that I'm actually excited about doing.

This has been my experience as well. Even if the guy is super nice and the custom isn't hard, sometimes I build it up and procrastinate it. The longer I procrastinate doing it, the more anxious I get about it - especially if it's past the agreed upon time, or if we didn't agree on a time and he says "hey, how's the video coming?", that just makes me more stressed about it. Inevitably when I do make the video, I feel hugely relieved but embarrassed that it took so long and it is never, ever as hard as I build it up to be. Now I just take customs from regulars or videos that I am super stoked on making/sound super simple, and things flow a lot smoother.

Not at all to excuse or justify girls who take the money and run - that's definitely not okay. But just wanted to agree with Saffron, they probably don't like doing them and shouldn't offer them. I also think some models see the money and are like "yeah I'll totally do a 30 minute video and a one hour Skype" but then they get paid, money is in pocket, and they stop feeling the urgency to do the video/show.

I can totally understand the anxiety. And for the one who I waited four months on, she shouldn't have offered it. Her skill set didn't run to the kind of creativity that lends itself to customs. And upon reflection, I was a dumbass for expecting it. For the other, she's caught in a situation with multiple jobs and I'm guessing she's tired. She said she enjoyed other customs in the theme and I'm speculating it's a time/energy thing for her. It's a shitty situation so I'm just gonna write it off. It's not enough tokens for the drama. It's a shame because she did some really hot customs in the past.

And I'm totally understandable to the things I find sexy may not be the things other's find sexy. With any custom video I try to discuss the time frame for delivery, the contents, the length and expectations before hand. Having clear guidelines is helpful for everyone. Part of my job involves project management for bid based work and if you aren't clear about expectations up front then you pretty much guarantee a clusterfuck later on. If we agree to a week or two weeks then asking you two days in makes it clear it's unrealistic on my part. And I prefer a model be comfortable with the custom. I don't find people being uncomfortable particularly attractive so someone who is going through the motions does nothing for me. I've had models tell me that they weren't interested in doing a proposed custom and I'm okay with it. We worked out something else as the subject and it turned out super hot.
 
The custom content I wanted wasn't even a video, it was just a small photo set with a personalized sign. At first, I understood that it wasn't done straight away, because I know that MFC models have lives outside of webcamming, but she has only messaged me once in 3+ months saying that it would be done (that was within the first few weeks), but I haven't heard from her since then....

And I know she's been online, because I go into her room and PM her nicely about it and she ignores it. I messaged her a couple of times on twitter and nothing. MGF, and nothing. It sucks because I've been a fan of hers for over 3 years and now I don't know what to do. Not getting the content is one thing, but being ignored for months is what is REALLY pissing me off.

Being ignored is extremely rude in my books, especially since I don't deserve it.
 
Not really the model, more her room, but seems to fit in with a few of the more recent comments.

A month or so ago, a CB model was offering a vid of her group shows to anyone who tipped 25 tokens or more. Just put your email in the tipnote. I did, and never heard another thing about it.

Well about two weeks ago, she showed up online just as I was getting ready to call it quits for the night. I had spent all but 5 of my tokens, but I went to her room anyway. If I had known she was going to be on, I would have saved my tokens, but unfortunately a poor wretch in Bucharest was already using them to buy heroin.

I knew it was tacky and inappropriate before I did it, but I really liked this girl's shows; I asked “do you put a schedule of when you're online up anywhere?” in a 1 token tipnote. She ignored it, and the humiliation I felt was well deserved.

Now one of her mods that night was just over-the-top ridiculous. He repeatedly announced that he was in a crappy mood, and wouldn't be putting up with any nonsense. Every feet beg and lewd comment was followed by a snappy comeback from him. The guy was busy.

I figured what the hell. I asked him “can't find her schedule; when is she usually on?”. Nothing.

Then they began to announce “Anyone who tips 25 tokens or more will get a vid of tonights show. Put your email in the tipnote, she will send you the link.”

Lo and behold, a guy speaks up and asks about a previous show. Like me, he tipped, sent the email addy, and never heard another word. He wasn't out of line, he wasn't pissy; he was just asking what was up.

A mild back and forth followed. Or it least it was mild, right up until the guy pointed out to the mod “Look, I come in here and tip.”

At this point the mod decided to indulge in a little brand damage. “You think she cares? You guys come give her your money and she laughs. You suckers are putting her through college.” Those first two lines are paraphrased. The last is verbatim.

This girl has some cheap vids on her page, one of which I had bought. I can't see myself ever getting in a mood where I will watch it again. Left her room that night with a very sour taste in my mouth, even though the mod wasn't talking to me.

This experience (and this thread) have made me realize the importance of screenshots. Wish to god I had one.

tl;dr ModsGoneWild. TokensGoneElsewhere
 
justjoinedtopost said:
vid of her group shows

Typo. Not a group show. Perfection eludes me.
 
justjoinedtopost said:
I would have saved my tokens, but unfortunately a poor wretch in Bucharest was already using them to buy heroin.

I'm sorry that you had so much trouble with the model in your post, and you said it put a "very sour taste in [your] mouth." However, many of your posts include phrases like the bolded part above which hint that you already view camming/camgirls in a more negative light even before they prove how shitty or awesome they are. Yes, I understand that the phrase above was meant as a joke. I get it. "Har har, it's funny, let's make a joke that camgirls (specifically non-American, but not sure if that matters) are just wasting the tokens we fool members give her on drugs!"

If your sense of humor is to belittle and negate camgirls or your experiences while viewing cams, maybe you should just take a break from viewing them altogether. Yes, camgirls can be extremely shitty (like we've seen in this thread), but they can also be honest, friendly, jovial businesswomen. Perhaps some time away will help you feel less jaded towards the aspect?
 
I_Am_Iris said:
justjoinedtopost said:
I would have saved my tokens, but unfortunately a poor wretch in Bucharest was already using them to buy heroin.

I'm sorry that you had so much trouble with the model in your post, and you said it put a "very sour taste in [your] mouth." However, many of your posts include phrases like the bolded part above which hint that you already view camming/camgirls in a more negative light even before they prove how shitty or awesome they are. Yes, I understand that the phrase above was meant as a joke. I get it. "Har har, it's funny, let's make a joke that camgirls (specifically non-American, but not sure if that matters) are just wasting the tokens we fool members give her on drugs!"

If your sense of humor is to belittle and negate camgirls or your experiences while viewing cams, maybe you should just take a break from viewing them altogether. Yes, camgirls can be extremely shitty (like we've seen in this thread), but they can also be honest, friendly, jovial businesswomen. Perhaps some time away will help you feel less jaded towards the aspect?

He made that up cause he's a self declared troll. Quite bored with him already to tell the truth.
https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=1605#p603973
 
I_Am_Iris said:
I'm sorry that you had so much trouble with the model in your post
Thank you for your thoughts. As I read what you have written, a portrait of an honest, caring individual emerges. This is no surprise; I have learned to expect such things from you.

Now I shan't be running myself ragged the rest of the day trying to correct every misconception and slight that my post may have caused, but on this point I quoted, I feel honour-bound to speak up. My trouble was not with the model. I reiterate: not the model.

From the time she logs on until the time she logs off, she is a class act. She starts her shows dressed like a lady, does a nice long excruciating slow tease, and doesn't stop until raunchy-filthy-screaming-squirting whore is in the rear view mirror; frankly, it doesn't get much better than that imo. I have no problems with her. For her, there is only veneration.

My problem is with the asshat with the Napoleon complex who ruined her for me. I wish I could get past it, but it doesn't look like I am going to. I hope the son of a bitch prolapses so bad he trips over his own gallbladder.

Here was the first post I made mention of this performer. https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewt ... 15&t=20369
I honestly did not care about the video. Videos are easy to come by, and even easier to make if you are so inclined. I do not care about the tips I gave her. In spite of the way things now stand, I wish I could have given her more.

Reliving this has caused that sour taste in my mouth to morph into full blown grief. If you would be so kind as to excuse me, I think I'll go spend the next little while sobbing into my pillow.
 
Music in profiles. I wouldn't say it's the MOST annoying thing, but I like to read model's profiles while simultaneously in their room, or in another model's room, and if a soundtrack starts blaring up every time I open it I'm not going to read it. Not to mention most of the music that goes into profiles are like hideous .midi files from the 1990s. It reminds me of geocities websites where people used to have automatic music playing.
 
Alcon said:
Music in profiles. I wouldn't say it's the MOST annoying thing, but I like to read model's profiles while simultaneously in their room, or in another model's room, and if a soundtrack starts blaring up every time I open it I'm not going to read it. Not to mention most of the music that goes into profiles are like hideous .midi files from the 1990s. It reminds me of geocities websites where people used to have automatic music playing.

Most of the time it's Youtube autoplays in the comments section. Thankfully depending on your preference of browsers there are extensions to prevent youtube videos from autoplaying.
 
hontom said:
Most of the time it's Youtube autoplays in the comments section. Thankfully depending on your preference of browsers there are extensions to prevent youtube videos from autoplaying.

Wonder if there is an extension to prevent tiled backgrounds? Or one that forces text to be displayed in a color that is readable?
 
justjoinedtopost said:
hontom said:
Most of the time it's Youtube autoplays in the comments section. Thankfully depending on your preference of browsers there are extensions to prevent youtube videos from autoplaying.

Wonder if there is an extension to prevent tiled backgrounds? Or one that forces text to be displayed in a color that is readable?

You could force a CSS style sheet. But that requires a much greater amount of technical skills to pull off then installing a plugin.
 
VeronicaChaos said:
LilyEvans said:
VeronicaChaos said:
I'm not going to lie, when I saw the "erotic magic" section on c4s I was fully expecting topless magic tricks, maybe a ping pong show.

I was pretty disappointed.

Sounds like you need to spearhead a new category!
They already added a puppet category for me that I have yet to upload to....so......

I suck. :lol:

Sorry to back-quote from a few weeks ago now- but I am 100% down to do topless magic tricks. I don't ping-pong very well, but I have "Magic Rings" and ring-on-string routines engrained into my memory LOL.
and as far as the original post itself goes-

I wouldn't say it's the most annoying thing, but certainly something I as a viewer would prefer not hearing a whole lot of- is slurs being thrown about. I get that A) that can be part of a humiliation thing I may have stumbled into and that's all well and consensual with the person(s) involved- B) a part of that person's vernacular that is suited to some kind of cultural acceptance (eh?) - but I've heard/seen people dropping racial slurs and British cigarettes a few times, and sometimes via twitter/instagram when I'm scrolling through whatever cam related tags I'm scrolling through for the night- but it's just really bad form on or off site. I'm pretty quick to unfollow people who are obviously consistent with their blatant disregard for common decency, but obviously as forgiving as possible for random slip ups and less obvious PC slurs that we're all trying to stop using.

My two cents, anyways hahaha.
 
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I think the most annoying thing that a model could do is getting in other model's room with a premium account that sounds like her model account and try to "get along" with people from her chat and PM them to visit her.
 
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