UncleThursday said:
Moral of the story, ensure you know the model will do the Skype show. If it isn't going to be right away, make sure you set up a time that you both agree on. If she doesn't show, only give her a few reminders when you see her. If it still never happens, take your tokens elsewhere.
This.
I am not always up for doing skype shows. Just like I don't do privates very often, and I prefer privates to skypes. The few times I do offer skypes/am up for them I will immediately message regulars, and then will do the show instantly.
If someone tips for a show I never promised to do, and never wanted to do it puts me in a really awkward position. I don't want to do the show, end of. I'm not in the mood at the point of tip and because I haven't agreed to it I feel pressured.
What I then don't appreciate is consistent nagging for it. I cannot refund the member, so the only thing I can do is the skype. I've been having problems with my implant which means I actually physically cannot have sex/do shows most of the time. Having someone then pressure you/try and treat you like you owe them a show where you take off your clothes and masturbate when you can't currently even masturbate on your own is pretty upsetting. Jesus, someone acting like you owe them taking your clothes off and masturbating when you never agreed to it is NOT a way to make me want to take clothes off.
I think with skypes and privates it's the same as sex, you need to get consent. Tipping x amount doesn't mean you get sex(in skype), just like taking a girl out for a meal and spending loads of money doesn't mean you get sex.
Even if the girl were a prostitute, you'd still have to get her consent first.
In situations where people nag me/make me feel uncomfortable about skype it becomes something I dread doing. I've stopped doing or advertising skypes for this reason even though with everyone else I've actually really enjoyed them and have always done the shows paid for in a prompt fashion. In fact, this member is sadly the only person who has felt like I'm not fulfilling my end of the bargain. Which I think is also unfair as he doesn't count the 5/6 hours worth of skype chat time I gave him for free as I didn't get naked, or the skype show I then gave him because I came first.
I think if you agree to and promise a show before someone tips and they haven't pressured you/been a bit dickish about receiving the show then putting it off is shitty. Unfortunately now all I can think of about skype is those hours I've been resorted to tears at 4am my time because I won't do a show immediately because I want to go to bed.
About video/pic sets, I will say, as a model you will advertise the most explicit part of it, if in Lily's case her photo set had had any form of nudity in it, it
would have been mentioned. Say if I'm doing anal in group, I'm going to let people know about it before so more people join. If I'm not, well I won't mention anal, if someone went into group they could hardly get really angry I'm not doing it. Just like if I'm going to do a cumshow, I say I'm doing a cumshow, I don't say "I'm going to be naked". Making an assumption/having an over active imagination is not the models fault.