streamate recently clarified what isn't allowed. daddy was included in the discussion. they said context is everything. as long as you don't use it alongside underage of incest (or implied) you are golden.
That's a good point, I noticed that there's usually no tipping when my cats show up on cam (although sometimes I do get a small tip with a note saying something about them, or someone telling me about their pets), but on the other hand it's a good conversation starter, most people who have pets enjoy talking about them, so I like when they come to me when it's slow and I'm trying to start the chat going.But I love animals and sometimes find them so fascinating that I get distracted from my intended purpose and watch them
One model that I used to visit regularly had 2 Husky pups and they were such fun and so playful, it really was great to watch but the tipping dried up as a result.
Absolutely, I let them stay in the room out of frame if I'm doing a quick flash, but I always make them leave the room if I'm about to do something more explicit.
Yes, that distinction is a good point and I think it wouldn't bother me as long as there is nothing sexual happening. I only came across this in the last few weeks, so I didn't make that distinction yet. It's just a feeling from me and shouldn't motivate anyone to change anything. But I thought I write about it because the great thing about this thread is that we can find out thought processes of the "other side", models or members. I surely helped me to understand some problems, conflicts etc. I wouldn't understand otherwise.
But as long as there is context there is interpretation and interpretations differ. In my opinion language creates reality. Its not the only thing that does but it creates a big part of it. So a tag like "daddy" might in some cases open the gate to a horrendous option. But that might be overthinking it. Still, something bothers me about it. But I think you are right comparing that to "baby"
I wonder if they ever found a mummy with a mummified boner.
Understood. Just curious and I'm debating about posting this as a possible question on the forum. Since I'm looking at getting some of my favorite models a gift/s for the holidays, should I just ask the model what they want or is there something out there that, well being a beautiful lady, I can get a lady that she would love to have, whether on the wish list or not? In my case, it's more like a thank you note for lots of great private shows. Worse case scenario, I'm just going to ask the model what she or the guy, because I pay for private shows with both, what he/she would like and be reasonable. Other thoughts? Thanks for responding in the past and if you respond to this great, but if not, that's fine too. Just curious. Have a good day/night and be safe whenever you read this.It was more of the "Models have to decide on the wishlist what will work to increase sales and what will be a reasonable tax deduction (or not)" part of your post. Again, not everything on a wishlist has to be camming-related, and something that benefits viewers. We can treat ourselves with something nice. I don't have the Nintendo DS anymore, but when I bought it the last thing I was thinking about was pleasing men. LOL. I wanted to play Mario Party DS.
Thank you so much for the responses. Good to know for future reference. Yes, I want to make certain the model receives the gift in a safe and discreet way, and last but certainly not least, I want to make certain the model receives a majority of any money I send them, since they're the ones doing the work. BTW, nice new photo. Have a good day/night and be safe whenever you read/see this message.
By this I mean that I have read that some Colombian *parents* call their children mami and papi as endearments.
We can only hope lol!
Hope all is well. I donate things I don't use to my local goodwill and/or thrift store to give back to my community, and I'm always amazed at all of the great stuff I see whenever I visit. Shop wherever you like to shop and pay for whatever you need, but pay the bare minimum, no more no less. As long as you're happy, it's all good.
I have to comment on this one. If you are being told you are not tipping enough, you must be asking for something. I hate when guys tip 1 token 25 times and think that'll get them an anal show. Or they say, "I'll keep tipping if you do xxx".
I saw 2 female models (they were young) They were doing a lesbian show, quite well. But every time they got a tip, they stopped to see how much it was. Then guys stopped tipping and they stopped the show. Someone told them we are confused. We don't tip you stop, we tip you and you stop to look. It was funny, they couldn't help themselves.
I deleted most of my Russian friends. Partly because they have bad attitudes. But mainly because they frequently asked me to do cam 2 cam. I thought they were trying to hack into my computer, it was just odd how often they asked. I try to stay off their pages and I would never download one of their videos.
They do, but the one Colombian model I mentioned this to as part of the day to day conversation knew this wouldn't fly in all cultures. She spoke and wrote pretty good english though, so she had probably already done some quality checking of whatever came out of the translator. Spanish has a lot of words and terms that defy the mechanics of simple online translations. "Te quiero" and "te amo" springs to mind ...
I actually agree with both of you on this. I pay for private shows myself, but I never tip a model if more than one person is in the cam room, or pops in when I'm chatting with a model before a private show. Normally I just respectfully ask the female or male model if they're ready to go private and if not I wait, not too long, before they say they're ready for a private show, and then I click the button and away we go for loads of fun. When I'm broadcasting, my rule is if one person is tipping gold, others have to tip gold as well. Otherwise, gold tipper stays, and non-gold tippers get kicked out. When nobody is tipping, either we chat or we don't. I make this rule clear to everybody before I kick them out, so they don't come back and cry like a little bitch, and ask why didn't you tell me that/say anything before you kicked me out of the cam room. Just sharing my opinion.
