Hate to resurrect this and please ignore it but the latest is
They spend all their time offline talking to each other, exchanging photos, talking making plans for meeting her family and getting married.
She is extremely jealous and needs to know where he is every minute in case there are other women with him.
If he doesn't answer her messages quickly enough or has his phone off she gets frantic.
He tried testing how real her feelings were a few times and tried to break up a few times but she was so upset and whatever she says stops him getting away.
Its strange to me since they have free and paid sessions.
At the moment he is planning a flight in two months.
I'm very concerned that he is being fooled by the best but the things she says, the messages and the intimacy is very real. He's met and talked to family online and over WhatsApp. They follow and talk on each others social media feeds.
The lines are too blurry for me. She could be the world's best scammer or she could be for real. I met her too and she seems like the nicest person in the world and hard to believe she could be scammer or blackmailer.
Title of the thread still stands. Who knows what will happen next.
She is just paranoid he may be spending his money on other models - that's my guess. She isn't jealous at all, just the prospect of HER not getting his money. Obviously they met on a cam site, so she has that thought of "he is doing this with another woman" so SHE also thinks he is playing her, telling all the models how much he loves them and wishes to marry them etc. It works both ways it seems - and I know this from a bit of experience myself, luckily 1) I had no money to be giving her, and 2) I met other, kinder models who made me realise what was happening so it enabled me to help get away haha.
But that's what would always be happening to me too, similar to your friend. The lady in question for me was from Ukraine. She showed me lots of personal stuff (I spoke with her child, saw him, saw every part of her life - or so it seemed). But then EVERY DAY it was the blatantly obvious things such as her saying "give me money". No "Hello" or anything else, simply a message on Skype in Russian saying "give me money". I used to fool myself by thinking "aww she has it really rough and she has a child, I will give her something if/when I can". Many times too, I'd give her SOME money as a way to help her get SOME food, to help her just for a few days or a week. Sometimes "only" £25, but it was really money I couldn't afford to give but I did it anyway (maybe for lots of people that isn't much but I have never had money, so to me it's a lot - I appreciate the value of money a lot). And 99% of the time I would give that amount, if we was on Skype chatting (video) she'd have a disgusted look on a face, but the greedy kind. Then she would hang up on me and say shit like "I thought you loved me this is all you give me". She knew all about my life and finances, and the fact I was out of work etc but she was ALWAYS wanting more and more from me. AND she was doing this with another few guys, except she would always say to me how she would pretend to be in love with them to get the money and she'd even be all "gross, they are 50 or 60, I don't love them I just want their money". To most this would ring alarm bells, but it was her reassuring me by saying that, that it was real between me and her.
Like I say, I luckily met a few other models who also spoke to me on messenger, skype etc but would never ask me for anything but was always kind because they were genuinely nice, friendly people who just wanted someone to chat to. They always said how they would not want love, meet etc etc so as weird as it sounds, (one particular woman) made me see exactly how much of a dumb fuck I was (without me even mentioning that other gold digger).
There is so much more bullshit to my story but I won't go too into it, the above is the headlines you need to know.
But if she ever asks him for money: I'd always be very careful. Does she ask him lots? Does she expect him to be giving her money (slow days and lively days of her getting tips)? How does she react if he can't give her any tokens/money? Are her family really her family and not just people part of a studio/con ?
Edit:
Just to add for my part of the story. I did block her from everywhere. I deleted everything on phone, PC and FULLY removed them (including address from email, phone etc) And it was genuinely hard but because I had deleted/blocked EVERYTHING completely, I had no way "back" to her other than going to her room to talk to her. Which I never did and never will. Best decision. I advise your friend to truly analyse the entire situation. If he has anything remotely close to my experience, I'd say steer clear
