Eh. I know there's several good responses to the original post here. I didn't know 'models have their own answers' is considered a good explanation, but thank you so much for the insight.
+ 'I'm creepy'. Eh?
+ 'I'm creepy'. Eh?
hornygods said:Eh. I know there's several good responses to the original post here. I didn't know 'models have their own answers' is considered a good explanation, but thank you so much for the insight.
+ 'I'm creepy'. Eh?
hornygods said:Eh. I know there's several good responses to the original post here. I didn't know 'models have their own answers' is considered a good explanation, but thank you so much for the insight.
+ 'I'm creepy'. Eh?
Uncomfortable' might be a little too general, but you're referencing two different periods. I made the model uncomfortable in a way that's very different to how the high-tipper made the room uncomfortable. One was just coming across as too attached, the other was harassing and flaming pretty much everyone else in the room. I'm the former.
Isabella_deL said:Now that Hornygods is banned and it's no longer about something personal, the topic of the thread is quite interesting!
It's weird how you can tell with some people that they're just a little off the loop. I have a few guys I've chatted to, and mostly you can almost instantly tell something isn't right. Usually they'll just say erratic random stuff that doesn't make any sense. Generally it's harmless and they're just a bit eccentric, but I still keep wary.
Pretty much every guy I've banned, it's been obvious why to me and everyone else in the room! But many don't understand why.
One that's almost even creepier is when you get someone who you used to talk to normally, but for whatever reason it doesn't work out/maybe there's a minor fall out and then they come back into your room like a month or two later and start going on about it/you in a really creepy manner! Instant ban!
Another one I will ban for is if someone continually complements me in a way that freaks me out! Had a guy doing it once, started fine, but kept going on about me being an angel, everyone else stopped talking, I didn't know what to say, felt a bit like running away, so I banned him. He couldn't understand why because from his point of view he was being sweet to me.
Honestly I have no idea how guys get banned from rooms, especially when they get personal about it afterwards!
But, here's a moron proof version of reasons most girls will ban/be annoyed.
1. Start insulting a girls work and what they do/make out they're cheap/stupid because of it. It amazes me how so many clearly moronic guys earning very little try claiming I'm stupid for what I do.
2. Insult the girls looks.
3. Spam the room.
4. Whine/generally be annoying without tipping.
5. Insult regulars/be disruptive
6. Freak the model out with weird behaviour. (If you're noticing the girls are getting freaked out by your language use, or you're getting banned seemingly for no reason, read through what you've written, think about the way you've said something. Don't obsess about it, just don't do it again. If you find you're obsessing, you also may have a problem and need to chill out.)
7. Saying anything personal about the model in public room
8. And well the obvious, begging without tipping etc
9. And yeah, talking about weird stuff like incest and pedophilia
10. Really imagine if you went up to a total stranger and said the things you're saying to a cam model and work out how it'd be received, many of those things aren't that different.
In life people should always think before they say stuff, and many guys lose that as soon as they're in a chatroom. Lots of guys act like banning is such a big deal! there are thousands and thousands of men going around mfcs, if you're a model and someone's annoying you/being idiotic, banning is just pressing a button, doesn't do anything to us if they're not tipping anyway, is more like swatting a fly.
There are much less guys though going around mfcs with lots of tokens, so yes, banning someone who's spending his tokens on you is a big deal, it'd take careful consideration.
victor0021 said:Oh I totally agree, i'm not putting any blame on the model for it playing out that way. It just the nature of MFC that someone with a social disorder can fall into a bad situation and not totally know what just happened. I'm one of the people that hangs out on MFC because of a social anxiety disorder. I'm prone to really bad panic attacks and it makes dating extremely difficult for me. MFC is an outlet where I can hang out with a beautiful, intelligent woman for a night and not have to worry about it beyond that. MFC has been a godsend for me and I've met a few people both models and members that I would consider good friend. MFC and my dysfunction go well together, for some people I don't think that is the case.
Whoa dude, I think I may have made a post nearly identical to this in another thread somewhere. Get outta my head!victor0021 said:From the members side. There is a group of members on MFC that hang out on MFC because they are socially awkward and struggle with interaction with women. Banning is kind of a big deal to them because it's not that they don't think about what to say, it's just that they think what they are saying is clever, funny, or helpful. Some of these guys get to a point where they think a model really likes them and he is really helping her, when in all actuality he is the cause of a lot of the "rough times". It's the nature of MFC that at first a model would be nice to these guys and they kind of latch on to that thinking things are going well. MFC is kind of set up for the socially awkward to go on thinking they are a great addition to the room until it all comes to a head and gets to be to much for the model and she has no choice but to ban him. I'm not saying models shouldn't ban the individual or in any way saying they are in the right, just trying to point out why banning can be considered a big deal on the members side.
I think I could handle 2... maybe 3 days max of this. Just reading your short description made my want to punch my computer.Kristin Paige said:Speaking of socially awkward, I just remembered another regular I used to have. I would have 200+ people in my chat room and he always thought I was talking to him, no matter what I said. I could say "Brittany, you have such a pretty pussy!" and he would be like "What? Kristin you're so silly, I don't have a pussy! x" (he always put an x at the end of his sentence). And then I would be like "sweetheart I wasn't talking to you" He would then spend 15 minutes apologizing. But it wasn't just me, he though EVERYONE in the room was talking to him and he was always so confused. It was like the worst case of selective hearing and reading I've ever seen. I did a c2c show with him once and he kept scratching his head, looking at his fingernails, then biting them - through the entire 15 minute show. It was gross, and so weird but that just proved to me that there was obviously something not right with him so I didn't want to be too mean. I wanted to ban him, but I felt really bad. I haven't talked to him in months and he still sends me a poem once every two days or so.
JoleneJolene said:I love to talk to people and socialize outside but it takes me a while to drop the "show" and let myself chill out. I'm known for making inappropriate jokes about killing hookers while dancing in the grocery store aisles, maybe it's derived from the heavy amounts of bullying I received as a kid but I guess it's me, considering our experiences growing up build the people we are I just accept that I am a socially awkward person.
Wow so that explains why you never respond to my greetings ;( lolComicOzzie said:bud9752 said:just from a premium's point of view, (MFC) for all the premium's in the room, there is an IGNORE function that you can use to ignore anything that the "asshat" says, you don't see what he is doing and you can enjoy the model without seeing the crap he is doing. You click on the persons name and when the popup window appears just click "Ignore User (ignore)" and POOF he is gone from your chat page. hope this helps any member having a problem and wanting to view a model without the hassle. :twocents-02cents:
I use this function all the time. The only downside is when the model is having a conversation with the ignored asshat, and I only hear one side of it. That can get very confusing because I don't know what it is she is responding to.
Don't suppose we could convince you to share some? :whistle:Kristin Paige said:I haven't talked to him in months and he still sends me a poem once every two days or so.
Sure, why not?Jupiter551 said:Don't suppose we could convince you to share some? :whistle:Kristin Paige said:I haven't talked to him in months and he still sends me a poem once every two days or so.