Context is everything. It's dangerous to run around with strange ideas about blanket statements of anything. In this case, the use of N was clearly designed as a dismissive or hurtful insult, as they knew literally nothing about her other that what she looked like; as clear-cut a case of obvious racism as you could find. In this case, where she has complete control over her room and she needs to feel comfortable to do her job, I would suggest instant ban and ignore for life with no further thought put into it.This is a very narrow view imo.
Pick out a pet name for your woman. Baby, sugarbutt, sweetpuzzy, whatever she will allow. Now try to call women you don't know by that name. If they don't like it, then you shouldn't be able to call your SO that either? This doesn't wash.
If this refers to me, I was talking about myself, not other couples. I don't like gay sex means I don't like fucking women. And I don't care if anyone else does. Just not interested.
Unfortunately when people can hide behind a keyboard they feel it's ok to be ignorant. I learned very quick that MFC has its fair share of racist members. My first hour on cam i was called a nigger .. luckily I had an amazing room that helped and supported me from the beginning. I was told how to filter out certain words. Just go to Edit>Profile Settings>Wall Security>List of words to filter out .. and type in any words you feel are offensive.I get requests for ageplay or raceplay everyday unfortunately.
Unfortunately when people can hide behind a keyboard they feel it's ok to be ignorant. I learned very quick that MFC has its fair share of racist members. My first hour on cam i was called a nigger .. luckily I had an amazing room that helped and supported me from the beginning. I was told how to filter out certain words. Just go to Edit>Profile Settings>Wall Security>List of words to filter out .. and type in any words you feel are offensive.
Yes, as hateful as it may be, I would rather just see the word spelled out on my screen. That way, the proof is right there for MFC Model Support (for the screenshot I'll send them later), myself, and the members to see. And then when it's time for me to ban the prick from my room, everyone will know why, and it won't be "Wait, why did she ban that guy? Did I miss something?"If you filter certain words how does that work though? Does it just not show you the word, or the whole message, or anything from that member? I feel like if someone says something just kind of annoying I'd filter out those words, but for something genuinely offensive I'd want to know so I could ban/block/report that member
Unfortunately when people can hide behind a keyboard they feel it's ok to be ignorant. I learned very quick that MFC has its fair share of racist members. My first hour on cam i was called a nigger .. luckily I had an amazing room that helped and supported me from the beginning. I was told how to filter out certain words. Just go to Edit>Profile Settings>Wall Security>List of words to filter out .. and type in any words you feel are offensive.
I have had instances where people have talked about their "giant 10 inch black cock" but also had their cams on, which I will occasionally click on a cam out of boredom, to see what a person looks like, and close it 20 seconds later. These people are usually white. I can confirm that there are men on MFC who will claim to have "giant black cocks" and they are actually scrawny ass white dudes who aren't even naked. Not sure what they get out of it or what the situation is with that.
On the other hand, I have had black men, who are black, try to get me to say I want black cock or that I need to try black cock after me admitting I haven't had sex with a black man. There is no reason to this, I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19 and have been with the same guy the last 5 years. But anyways, it puts me in a weird position whenever someone is questioning whether or not I "need the black dick" or if I'd want their "big black cock." I always tell people, of any race, whenever this comes up, that I don't desire a penis based on the race of it. That a white person with a nice giant cock could be a serial killer, as could a black man. It seems in the camming world there is a portion of premium members who dismiss that a woman could ever desire a man for anything aside from the size and color of their dick. Honestly my attraction to someone, whether in real life or in camming, is rooted in who they are, not what color their dick is.
This is why I am happy I stopped doing cumshows and being sexual on MFC. It just keeps so many of these people out of my room and now my room is full of people like me, who want to chat, hang out, being slightly nude, and laugh. Not talk about whether or not their "footlong" would break my "precious white pussy."
That makes perfect sense .. it is under PROFILE settings after all. I logged in and added my real name to the list. Thanks for the suggestion and clearing up the confusion.Filtering words only affects what members can write on your profile, not in your chatroom. Say you add your real name to it (which is a wonderful suggestion to all of you fellow MFCers), anyone who writes your real name in a profile wall comment will have those words disappear after clicking submit. HOWEVER, if they write that same name in your chat, it WILL show up. There is no way to filter words in your chat, unfortunately. You just have to be quick with the ban/ignore. I just wanted to clarify this point so that no other models might misconstrue what the filtering feature does.
Has anyone else noticed/experienced racially-based requests like these?
How do I handle them when I think they are particularly hurtful/offensive?
Is there a rule about equality/harassment on MFC?
Does this happen on other sites as well (if you have experience with other sites?)
I just want to know how common this is so I can more adequately gauge how often I'll have to put up with this sort of uncomfortable thing?
That makes perfect sense .. it is under PROFILE settings after all. I logged in and added my real name to the list. Thanks for the suggestion and clearing up the confusion.
It's delicious and cheaper than grapes (which I also love!)...that's for sure! At my local grocery store, it's like $9 for one freakin' bag of grapes.Who doesn't like watermelon? It has a great water content and it's so refreshing on hot days.
It's delicious and cheaper than grapes (which I also love!)...that's for sure! At my local grocery store, it's like $9 for one freakin' bag of grapes.