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I don't really wanna gag on my dildo.
It's not comfortable, I don't like it. I'm sure there are plenty of other beautiful ladies who are willing to do it for you but I can't, and I'm not good at faking it.
 
I think many of the "Let's see how deep you can go/how many fingers you can fit/how wide can you spread it, etc." requests are idiotic. What ever happened to just being happy with seeing a hot girl having fun on cam?

And these guys who treat tokens like they're Scooby snacks or Klondike bars. :woops: *singing* What would ya do-ooh-ooh for these 10 tokens? :lol:

This is not a circus show. I'm not gonna see how many fingers I can fit into my pussy...I'm not gonna gag on a dildo just because you've seen porn stars gagging on cocks...and I'm not gonna do anal play on cam just because y'all insist "I don't know what I'm missing."

I swear, when one guy brings up the topic of anal, that's when you get 5 other guys in the room bugging you about trying it. "No anal? Why not?" Sorry, I'm perfectly happy with the good 'ole dick-in-pussy play. If 'NO ANAL' is the deal-breaker for you, kindly click on 'Next Model'.
 
Nah, I'd really rather not:

watch your cam for free in public
see your dick
see that stupid sex emote you just posted
see that stupid "just tipped x" emote you just posted
go in pvt for 1 minute because I "must need the tokens sooo badly"
fake it because you're too poor to go for 6 minutes.
 
Hate when they act like we have to win them over. I realize my job is to entertain you and I should be trying to entice you. But let me do it my way. If you don't like it, move on.

Another one of my pet peeves, and this is definitely in the top 3 - "Do blankity blank bb then I take you private".
Or even worse - "you have to show more skin" or "you have to dance if you want tips"

DON'T TELL ME HOW TO RUN MY FUCKING SHOW!

In all honesty, I've noticed that the men who say "just do your thing baby, have fun. I want to watch you play" stay the longest, tip more, are nicer, rate, comment, and speak english.
 
No i dont wanna give you a skype show immediately cause youre telling me youll buy me something from my wishlist, and you wont do a giftcard cause you like getting presents for girls instead. Thats great you like getting girls presents, but if you want that deal you have to wait till its in my hands. Dont wanna wait, use a giftcard. And the more you beg me to say YES, the more i know all youre going to do is cancel the order the second were done.

No i dont wanna give you a Military Discount.
Now i know lots of guys are military, and actually i would love to give the real ones discounts as i appreciate what they do, however the second i put that public i have 50 guys coming at me saying they are too. The process i would do to make sure they are actually in our Military would be so extensive it would drive me insane. It would include webcam chatting while theyre in uniform holding their ID and a series of Simon Sez actions lol. Sorry guys. I love our military but its just not gonna happen.
 
Kristin Paige said:
Hate when they act like we have to win them over. I realize my job is to entertain you and I should be trying to entice you. But let me do it my way. If you don't like it, move on.

Another one of my pet peeves, and this is definitely in the top 3 - "Do blankity blank bb then I take you private".
Or even worse - "you have to show more skin" or "you have to dance if you want tips"

DON'T TELL ME HOW TO RUN MY FUCKING SHOW!

In all honesty, I've noticed that the men who say "just do your thing baby, have fun. I want to watch you play" stay the longest, tip more, are nicer, rate, comment, and speak english.


THIS!

I dont wanna constantly be teasing to get you ready for a show. "Get me hard baby, show me what youre gonna do in private, a little more bb." Im already freaking naked, dancing around, flashing you goods on others peoples tips, telling about the show. What the hell else do you want but the actual show to happen? Every time i have ever done a "lil more" it never stops. You want more, more, more. All for free of course. Tips = Show. Period. You know how this works, dont pretend you dont. And youre not gonna trick me into otherwise.
 
Teagan_Chase said:
No i dont wanna give you a Military Discount.

I've never been asked to give a Military Discount, thank God. This is going to make me sound really bad but I don't care. I've seen too many videos of "soldiers who are fighting for our country" throwing puppies off a cliff, torturing and humiliating people, and picking on innocent children to risk providing discounted services to any of them. I know there are good soldiers and I appreciate them. But how are we to know who the assholes are and who are the TRUE heros? Sad that those videos ruined it for the majority of military men. There's a lot of assholes in this world, but not all of them are getting credit for being such amazing men, like they are.

Also - I am not on call. Stop bugging me at 7am asking me what I'm wearing and trying to get a show.
 
Kristin Paige said:
Teagan_Chase said:
No i dont wanna give you a Military Discount.

I've never been asked to give a Military Discount, thank God. This is going to make me sound really bad but I don't care. I've seen too many videos of "soldiers who are fighting for our country" throwing puppies off a cliff, torturing and humiliating people, and picking on innocent children to risk providing discounted services to any of them. I know there are good soldiers and I appreciate them. But how are we to know who the assholes are and who are the TRUE heros? Sad that those videos ruined it for the majority of military men. There's a lot of assholes in this world, but not all of them are getting credit for being such amazing men, like they are.

Also - I am not on call. Stop bugging me at 7am asking me what I'm wearing and trying to get a show.
The bad ones are the ones who ask cam models for a "military discount." :) :) Makes it easy. lol
 
Nordling said:
Kristin Paige said:
Teagan_Chase said:
No i dont wanna give you a Military Discount.

I've never been asked to give a Military Discount, thank God. This is going to make me sound really bad but I don't care. I've seen too many videos of "soldiers who are fighting for our country" throwing puppies off a cliff, torturing and humiliating people, and picking on innocent children to risk providing discounted services to any of them. I know there are good soldiers and I appreciate them. But how are we to know who the assholes are and who are the TRUE heros? Sad that those videos ruined it for the majority of military men. There's a lot of assholes in this world, but not all of them are getting credit for being such amazing men, like they are.

Also - I am not on call. Stop bugging me at 7am asking me what I'm wearing and trying to get a show.
The bad ones are the ones who ask cam models for a "military discount." :) :) Makes it easy. lol


Yesterday i got repeatedly bugged by someone telling me over and over he would place the order, and wanted the show right then. I explained to him how it worked and giftcard was the only way. He then repeatedly told me he was in the military and had a code of conduct. WTF?? Code of Conduct, really? You can barely speak english which was fishy enough, but im not stupid. If you wanted a show bad enough you would get the giftcard dear, and be happy too. And i know your Code has nothing to do with scamming camgirls lol.
And i have several friends who were in or are currently in the military. I know the bad ones are far less than the good so i would never mind giving them one, but honestly its just not possible in the cam world to do. :(
 
LOL I've been ripped apart and publically bashed on twitter and other sites for "hating US soldiers"...when in reality I'm just really blunt to the guys in the military who come in expecting freebies. Its embarassing on their part to act like protecting their nation should garner them perks like free porn...what ever happened to doing the job simply to do something good? Its actually pretty funny though, they're always like "I protect you and your family" and I always have to say "actually you don't, I'm Canadian" :lol: I don't see firefighters, surgeons, paramedics or police officers trolling for discounts like guys in the military do..and they save lives on a daily basis. What makes these military men so arrogant and egotistical?
 
There's definitely a sense of entitlement (rightly or wrongly) with the military doods. I've lost count of the number of times I've seen one of them announce their arrival in a girl's room with "I'm in the military, bb". Not "hello" or "how are you today?" or "hi, my name is..." but "I'm in the military". Like that defines who they are and it's important for the model to know that right off the bat, so she doesn't charge them the same rate for sexy services that she would someone who introduces themselves with "hello".
 
I live in a military city and I can tell you that it's probably because IRL girls around here throw themselves at anybody in uniform. It's really pathetic. I can't go to a bar here because the army fucked up the guy/girl ratio in the area so there are like 5 guys for every girl, and they all expect you to be oh so impressed that they're in the army and what rank they are, and most girls are, but it annoys the piss outta me.
 
I've had one guy who was in the military. It was interesting. He apologized because his credit cards were in the us, and said that he wanted a video, and would be able to pay me in a couple weeks. I did the video, and after I received payment, he received the video. It took another couple weeks for him to get back to me again.

I've come across two types of "I'm in the military" people. The ones who want you to give them either freebies or a discount, and the ones that want you to promise that you'll wait for them to come home so they can go out with you when they get off duty. I always have to question how many of them are legit.

I have seen guys who claim to be firefighters. Few of them seem to expect freebies, they usually just want some company, and someone to be impressed with them. Which I'm perfectly willing to give both of those to them.
 
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Jessi said:
Am I weird for feeling really uncomfortable when a guy comes into my room and sayss "Hi babe/baby/hunny" ? I really dont wanna be called petnames by strangers.
Yeah, even as a member, THIS is a pet peeve of mine. Not just because it's presumptuous, but because terms of endearment should only be used between people who really have a special relationship already. Furthermore, I think the reason a lot of guys use them is as a form of diminution, the feeling of superiority all too many men feel toward women.
 
Nordling said:
the feeling of superiority all too many men feel toward women.

I will never understand why women feel superior to men. After all, men have a higher faculty of reasoning (usually!) and (usually!) have it easier to develop muscles and fighting capabilities.

I will never understand why men feel superior to women. After all, women have the ability to carry children, and have a much better gift for teaching (usually!) and empathy (usually!), as well as higher pain tolerance (usually!).

Let's all dispense with the superior feelings and recognize that each sex has unique gifts, and without both sexes the human race would die!

NOTE: not implying that you have feelings of superiority. I'm well aware that you were just pointing something out.
 
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LadyLuna said:
Nordling said:
the feeling of superiority all too many men feel toward women.

I will never understand why women feel superior to men. After all, men have a higher faculty of reasoning (usually!) and (usually!) have it easier to develop muscles and fighting capabilities.

I will never understand why men feel superior to women. After all, women have the ability to carry children, and have a much better gift for teaching (usually!) and empathy (usually!), as well as higher pain tolerance (usually!).

Let's all dispense with the superior feelings and recognize that each sex has unique gifts, and without both sexes the human race would die!

NOTE: not implying that you have feelings of superiority. I'm well aware that you were just pointing something out.
Yeah, men generally become more muscularly massive because of hormones but I think you yourself prove that women are just as capable as men with regard to reasoning. The common belief that men are "smarter" is more of a cultural phenomenon than any gender-based superiority. Most women are taught from early childhood that they are not good at math or incapable of thinking logically; this has a suppressing quality that may be difficult but not impossible to break out of. Same with men who are taught what their "role" is in life because of this and that. Other than brute strength, it just ain't so, IMHO.
 
SpexyAshleigh said:
LOL I've been ripped apart and publically bashed on twitter and other sites for "hating US soldiers"...when in reality I'm just really blunt to the guys in the military who come in expecting freebies. Its embarassing on their part to act like protecting their nation should garner them perks like free porn...what ever happened to doing the job simply to do something good? Its actually pretty funny though, they're always like "I protect you and your family" and I always have to say "actually you don't, I'm Canadian" :lol: I don't see firefighters, surgeons, paramedics or police officers trolling for discounts like guys in the military do..and they save lives on a daily basis. What makes these military men so arrogant and egotistical?


The ones who pop in and are just all "Hey im in the military" im willing to bet really arent. Just like the one i encountered the other day. The true ones ive come across and my friends who are/were military never act that way. Nor do they expect or demand freebies.
And actually where im at Firefighters, cops, etc get discounts here. Free coffee, discounted meals, stuff like that. And they go to places they know give them discounts. I dont see it any differently than seniors going to places they know give them discounts. On the other side of it though i dont know of anywhere that gives doctors discounts, or teachers for that matter. I could go into it all day.
Yeah ive been with my friends out when they were in uniform and seen the girls throwing themselves at them. It is just sad. I guess that can go to anybodies head if they let it.
Ive never had anyone claim to be any profession and expect something for free, but i have been asked for discounts before. I tell them theres no way to prove they are who they say they are on the interweb and leave it at that. I do always give a thank you though if they are really serving.
Im very military friendly having so many close friends and family serve. Plus a brother in law firefighter, and several cop friends too. Just my experience.
 
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Nordling said:
Yeah, men generally become more muscularly massive because of hormones but I think you yourself prove that women are just as capable as men with regard to reasoning. The common belief that men are "smarter" is more of a cultural phenomenon than any gender-based superiority. Most women are taught from early childhood that they are not good at math or incapable of thinking logically; this has a suppressing quality that may be difficult but not impossible to break out of. Same with men who are taught what their "role" is in life because of this and that. Other than brute strength, it just ain't so, IMHO.

I was more referring to many studies that prove men's brains and women's brains work differently, and so are good at different things. Just unsure how to word what the actual difference is. x.x

On the other side of it though i dont know of anywhere that gives doctors discounts, or teachers for that matter. I could go into it all day.

I wouldn't be surprised if nowhere offers doctors discounts cause they figure all doctors are highly paid, and therefore rich enough to pay full price (which is NOT true, since many of them have a shitton of student loans to pay off...)

However, for teachers, most book stores will give discounts on any book the teacher will use in a lesson. Barnes and Noble, for example, present your teacher card and you get a 20% discount on certain books. Also, some of the stores that sell educational toys give teacher discounts.
 
OOh yeah i forgot id see signs at Borders when they were still open for teachers discounts. I guess thats something :)
 
LadyLuna said:
Nordling said:
Yeah, men generally become more muscularly massive because of hormones but I think you yourself prove that women are just as capable as men with regard to reasoning. The common belief that men are "smarter" is more of a cultural phenomenon than any gender-based superiority. Most women are taught from early childhood that they are not good at math or incapable of thinking logically; this has a suppressing quality that may be difficult but not impossible to break out of. Same with men who are taught what their "role" is in life because of this and that. Other than brute strength, it just ain't so, IMHO.

I was more referring to many studies that prove men's brains and women's brains work differently, and so are good at different things. Just unsure how to word what the actual difference is. x.x

On the other side of it though i dont know of anywhere that gives doctors discounts, or teachers for that matter. I could go into it all day.

I wouldn't be surprised if nowhere offers doctors discounts cause they figure all doctors are highly paid, and therefore rich enough to pay full price (which is NOT true, since many of them have a shitton of student loans to pay off...)

However, for teachers, most book stores will give discounts on any book the teacher will use in a lesson. Barnes and Noble, for example, present your teacher card and you get a 20% discount on certain books. Also, some of the stores that sell educational toys give teacher discounts.
I won't say psychology is bunk, but I have a tendency to take such studies with a grain of salt. The problem is, it's difficult to get hard evidence to work with when prognosticating about differences between people, and time and again we find researchers who fudge figures unconsciously in favor of their own biases. Read The Mismeasure of Man by Stephan Jay Gould for some good examples. I do agree that individuals brains work differently, but how much of this is genetic and how much is environment? Part of it may also be ascribed to differences people have with regard to what they're interested in.
 
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Teagan_Chase said:
Nature vs Nuture vs Interests ??
:) Well, maybe not on the same level, but how well we perform at various tasks is definitely affected by how much we want to do the task. lol The interests themselves, I'd say are more nurture than nature, but I'm only guessing.
 
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Nordling said:
Teagan_Chase said:
Nature vs Nuture vs Interests ??
:) Well, maybe not on the same level, but how well we perform at various tasks is definitely affected by how much we want to do the task. lol The interests themselves, I'd say are more nurture than nature, but I'm only guessing.


I know i put a hell of a lot more effort into things i enjoy than ones i dont. Plus i learn things quicker when i enjoy them than when i dont too.
 
Kristin Paige said:
Nordling said:
:lol: Has anyone ever said in a private something kindred to: "Ohhh bb, while I'm fapping to you I'm thinking of [some other model." I think that would be funny...and sad.

Not another model, but one guy was so obsessed with his girlfriend that he gave me the impression that he sleeps with her dead body after butchering her to make her love him. He repeated over and over through the whole show "my girlfriend's name is Nicole. I am Timmy. Say it!"
OMG I remember this one guy, he said when he first saw me, I looked so mush like his step sister that he had to double take because he thought I was her for a second. I responded with the "LOL" and he didn't say anything more about it. He hung out in my room for about an hour or so, socializing with everyone... then he asked to go prv. I accepted the request... oh my gawd! Out of no where he was immediately trying to get me go go along with his "fucking the step sister fantasy role play". GROSS!!!
 
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Jessi said:
Am I weird for feeling really uncomfortable when a guy comes into my room and sayss "Hi babe/baby/hunny" ? I really dont wanna be called petnames by strangers.
I'm just curious, as a regular of your room - is there any particular pet names you dislike? - or is it simply the fact that an approach like that from a stranger is presumptuous and possibly degrading?

I do try to address you as Jessi, but I realize I do sometimes call you by other things (e.g. when I said 'sleep tight, my love'). If this bothers you at all, I'd gladly stop.
 
I don't really wanna know your whole life story and career. Especially if you're in the military because I'm an army brat and the sister of a freshly enlisted soldier. It makes me feel weird and uncomfortable, plus it gives me the impression that you're just fibbin for attention and a pat on the back. :?
 
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I don't want to watch your cam to see your supposed 12" schlong.
I don't want to call you. I already said no the first 5 times, do you really think that tries 6-11 are going to get you a different response?
I know I have a unique voice and I'm glad you love it, but I'm not gonna moan for you in free chat because you want to get off.
I don't want you to presume that I do this because I'm fat and would have no self-esteem otherwise.
I don't want you to tell me you don't have tokens. If you don't, that's cool. Don't beg. Converse, be cool. Shut up about how you won't have tokens for such a long time and blah, blah. I stopped reading what you wrote 10 minutes ago, dude. Sorry.
I don't want to describe how I lost my virginity.
I don't want to try to get caught because that turns you on. That would be a career-ending & very stupid move on my part.
No dude, you can't have my videos at a discounted rate. For anything. They're cheap. Pay the 150 tokens and go fap to 'em.
I don't want to dance for you. I don't like to dance unless I'm drunk. No, I don't want to get drunk.
I don't want to spend all night consoling you in PM because you had a bad day. I can't make money if I spend all night giving you virtual hugs and ignoring my chat. Don't get all butt-hurt about it when I don't respond fast enough.
No, I don't want to show you x, y, or z just because you ordered me to. I'm not your bitch.
No, I don't want to dye my hair back to dark brown because you don't like blonde highlights. Get the fuck over yourself.

Camming is the best job that I have ever had, but it can be SO frustrating.
 
AllisonWilder said:
I don't want to describe how I lost my virginity.
That, so much that!!!
 
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