None of them would make me stay. I'm there for the girl - the girl attracts me
The drink/smoking/coffee whatever would have zero impact upon that decision. If she was miserable and drinking, i'd be out of there. If she's happy and funny and drinking, I'll still leave if I don't like her or get "the vibe" (no other way to describe it) or I may stay as long as I like the girl.
Likewise, I won't tip her to drink. She can drink if she wants to, but I'm not going to tip her to drink
So the only "definite" action from that list would be drugs - I'd leave.
So, non of them really matter - it's all to do with the girl. If she wants to smoke or drink, then it won't change anything
The drink/smoking/coffee whatever would have zero impact upon that decision. If she was miserable and drinking, i'd be out of there. If she's happy and funny and drinking, I'll still leave if I don't like her or get "the vibe" (no other way to describe it) or I may stay as long as I like the girl.
Likewise, I won't tip her to drink. She can drink if she wants to, but I'm not going to tip her to drink
So the only "definite" action from that list would be drugs - I'd leave.
So, non of them really matter - it's all to do with the girl. If she wants to smoke or drink, then it won't change anything