JickyJuly said:
There is a big difference between celebrating the *natural* contours of the female body, and condemning those who feel the desire to change their shape. The IBTC does the former and not the latter.
Yes. Women in our country have the right to have new boobies installed (and if it floats their boat why not?). BUT the idea that admiring and promoting those who choose not to have their A cups turned into domes is somehow a "bad attitude" is way off base.
Jason's attitude toward women, their bodies AND their personalities is wonderful. One need only talk to him for a few minutes to see that very clearly. :twocents-02cents:
LacieLaPlante said:
AmberCutie said:
AlexLady said:
Alright... due to the site's attitude I request to no longer have photos of me here.
Thanks everyone.
What is the site's attitude?
Anti breast implant is the attitude I think Alex is referring to.. I know you didn't want to get into it but I didn't want people thinking it was something against Jason, because I don't /think/ that is the reason, but you can correct me.
Alright, ok, I'll speak my opinion.
Here's the page of the site that offends me.
For the past few decades, society taught us that bigger was better (in the bustal region). Magazines like Playboy flaunted silicone bunnies who were airbrushed within an inch of their celluloid lives. Girls were taunted in school, with bullies saying they were members of The Itty Bitty Titty Committee if they couldn’t fill out a non-pushup bra as well as the girls who blossomed like…well, like Blossom herself blossomed.
Boob jobs are still very popular. There’s even a website where people can contribute to a lady’s booby fund in exchange for…seeing her small natural boobies!! Think about that… “Please take this money to get a boob job. Oh? I’d love to see pics of your beautiful, natural little boobies while we wait for you to reach your goal!”
It’s about self-esteem, and no one can talk a woman out of getting a boob job once she wants it. Because it isn’t about the compliments; it’s about the way she feels about herself.
So that’s where we come in. A revolution in thinking. It’s already started, by the way. On the popular camgirl site, MyFreeCams.com, 6 out of the top 10 in May were members of The IBTC (and 3 of them were in the top 4!). This month, the #1, #3 and #5 spots were all held by bona fide members of The IBTC. The people are speaking! Less Is More!
It’s time to reclaim that “less is more” adage, when it comes to boobies. Natural beauty trumps plastic Barbie dolls anyday, and we all know it. Everyone is beautiful in his/her own way, so it’s up to all of us at The IBTC to prove that the ladies we support are perfect just the way they are!
JickyJuly, yes, the site does speak lowly of girls who mod thier breasts while speaking highly of those who don't. In fact, just look at the green area of the quote. He calls girls who mod their bodies "plastic barbie dolls." Personally, being comparied to a barbie is one of the greatest insults. Besides, several girls on the site have tattoos... and -ALL- of them shaved their armpits. That's not natural either, yet, if someone does those "unnatural' things to their breasts... their barbies.
I just believe that IF there was a real community--an official IBTC site--it should be about loving and accepting your body (both before and after decorating it)... NOT about being better than because you didn't mod/decorate it.
In the red area he speaks lowly about other sites he's probably never been a member of. On MyFreeImplants people "donate" because they like us and support us in our decision to modify our breasts. In fact, breast implants are one of those mods most people condemn, such as Jason implies to. You can see just how hated breast implants are all over the internet. Call them domes if you'd like, but I'll call you uneducated about how they happen to -drop- after healing, not after the one week to three month picture you can google.
MyFreeImplants is the one place women can find people who'd help them reach there goals of this body mod.
Jason claims that people donate to see their natural breasts as if it's the only thing they'd ever desire, when in truth, their "donations" are like the people on MFC who tip because they support you in being a cam girl who shares herself--sexually and otherwise--not just because they want a flash! WTF. You girls know people who do the majority of donations don't just do it for a flash from some random girl. Jason however isn't a cam girl, so he doesn't know that. He's making an assumption just the same as "Wow you got a 2k tip! He must want you to shove your fist up your ass! DO EET NOW BB." rather than knowing that the guy who tip ped 2k thought "You want breast implants? Ok, here's cash for it. You rock. Keep it up. I want to spend more time with you and I support you in your goals!" The only difference is that tips on MFC go in our pockets to go to what we need/want, but tips on MyFreeImplant girls on that site are required to spend the money on one breast implants. That doesn't mean that people donate to us just to see "naturally small" titties, but obviously, they supported us. This is probably only something a true cam-girl-lover or cam girl will understand. Obviously, Jason thinks tips are just to see tits.
Most girls on that MyFreeImplants by the way are completely non-nude. So yeah, he's just talking shit. I mean, why else would he mention another site so negitively? Shouldn't he be about pride in ones own body, rather than about being -more justified- than some other site? Nah, Jason disagrees. He thinks this site supports his ideal "natural" un-modified boobs which is the only way to not be some barbie doll.
Sure, in the blue area he tries to hint that it's about how a woman feels about herself... but if the site really was about pride, wouldn't it have more than two sentances about that?
He sees data that says "less is more" to people, but personally, I'd be that those girls in the top 20 are there because of their personalities, not because of their small breasts. Does having small breasts mean you have more of a personality though? Fuck no. They're -THEMSELVES- that's why people love them. Trust me, I was in the top 20 with my small breasts, in fact, I was the first BDSM girl up there--and it wasn't because I said "tip 10k bb I show u tny titts!"
I'm not a member of the "Girls who mod themselves/have naturally big breasts have less of a personality and no reason to get tipped besides boobs. I'm better than them because my breasts are natural" club, aka the IBTC.
I know that girls who are part of this site don't think that, but that's what this site says to me.
I don't care if it's about boobs or not, but if you think someone who mods themselves loves themselves more than those who don't or that you have a right to speak poorly of themselves for decorating the home their spirit lives in, I will not be a part of it. Fuck that. I love me, I don't hate others, therefore, I'm not part of the IBTC.
If this site really was about how people are "Everyone is beautiful in his/her own way" it wouldn't speak so poorly of people being beautify in the way they wanted to be. Obviously, it didn't say "YOU AREN'T PRETTY IN YOUR OWN WAY, AFTER ALL, YOU GOT A TATTOO. THEREFORE YOU AREN'T NATURAL AND YOUR TATTOO CAN'T BE YOUR OWN WAY OF SHOWING YOUR BEAUTY."
Until this site is about pride in ones body rather than all that other shit, I will -NOT- be appart of it. If you want to post pictures of my breasts, regardless if they are "small" or not, post the in the "Boobies" thread. Not in the "hate on body modification" thread. Thanks.
Overall: He has some good thoughts, but until he can filter his love for girls who are proud living in their bodies from his thoughts of hate against girls who mod their bodies (as if it implies that they hate themselves and are plastic barbie dolls who are worth less as a person than "natural" girls,) I will not be a part of this at all.
Edit: Just so you know, I was drunk in writing this (as usual when I post a thread like this,) so I may not have conveyed what I meant to say overall. Either way, you can ignore this post and go back to posting girls with small breasts as if they belong in a IBTC. I only mean to say I don't belong in --this-- IBTC because I personally feel it's full of hate and shit.