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Comments like this are the main reason I signed up here. I get a kick out of listening to things from the other side of the keyboard. It's genuinely been helpful to me.
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Comments like this are the main reason I signed up here. I get a kick out of listening to things from the other side of the keyboard. It's genuinely been helpful to me.
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Right now it's like watching a slow motion car crash. Maybe another $150 last night. It's become a people watching thing for me now. I can totally see it ending in tears.
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Yeah, it's weird. I'm rarely horny or looking for a wank when I log on. I usually sign in to see and chat with my "friends". But I always feel obligated to tip and they're very good at keeping the conversation going.
Ultimately the guy is a grown adult but it's still hard to watch. I mean, he might have that level of disposable income but I think it's always right to be a little bit concerned when someone is spaffing so much money so quickly on a cam site. Not my place to say anything of course.
And there is tipping and then there is tipping.
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you never know what his deal is though. Maybe lives with his parents and has no expenses, maybe doesn't have other hobbies or go out much so this is his primary use for disposable income, maybe a trust fund kid, there are a million possibilities
Or he could be charging his cards up to the limit - that take is also possible. If he disappears as fast as he came maybe that is why
There are a million possibilities. I'm not querying his funding source as much as I am questioning whether it's a good idea to spend that much so fast, regardless of whether he has the disposable income. If he was an experienced camsite user then I wouldn't think twice but by his own admission he hadn't seen a camsite until a fortnight ago.
Like I said, not my place to say anything because that's a minefield. I'm treating it as a mini-documentary playing out in real time in front of my eyes.
Just because it’s a lot of money to you doesn’t mean it’s a lot of money to other people.
I don’t think this counts in this thread, since I’d say for a member who visits a model every singe day she’s online and actually compensates her for her time, this is a pretty normal amount.
Almost seems like you’re hoping he will crash and burn, have serious buyer’s remorse and stop tipping. How kind of you.
Marceline, I know you dislike me so that kind of puts a different slant on your response.
I'd doubt that this is a normal amount for members to be spending on a camsite on a weekly basis only two weeks into their first ever cam site experience. If we were talking about a gambling site and responsible spending then I doubt I'd be getting any kickback.
Do I want the model to get as much money as possible? Yes of course. Do I want to see a guy who I've grown to quite like put himself in financial dire straits? Of course not. Cam sites are intoxicating places when you first join and I know from personal experience that I overspent (I even posted about it here). Surely most models would rather have members whose spending was sustainable rather than rooking themselves and having to live with the consequences (including not being able to afford to come back month after month).
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Oh shut up already. You're so insecure and so concerned about other members tipping "YOUR" favorite model, when you should be HAPPY SHES GETTING SHIT TONS OF MONEY instead!! You are trying to make it look like you are happy for her but in all tbe post ls you make about her and about members joining her room its very clear that you are in fact NOT.
Just because you can't fucking afford shit doesn't mean other people shouldn't tip as much as they want.
I have members spending anywhere from 80-300$ per SHOW and when I was online every single day, it was that amount EVERY.SINGLE.DAY. Some of them, over a year now!
If you was a regular of mine and by chance voiced this shit to me you'd be banned in an instant.
Wtf is your deal dude. Get over it.
that's not really your concern though. And what is a normal amount to spend if it brings the guy joy?
I can't understand people who own boats and horses because both are very expensive to keep and maintain. But it is not for me to decide how people should spend their money. I have a friend who spends a very high percentage of his disposable income on his sneaker collection, most of which he doesn't wear. That seems a little crazy to me but he loves it so more power to him
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I own a horse and it's a money eating machine
wouldn't give her up even if I ended up homeless though! To each their own loloh, 100%.I own a horse and it's a money eating machine
The horse owners (and boat owners) I know it brings them incredible joy and is worth every cent. I was just commenting on how different people choose to spend their money and how another may not understand it - but they also don't need to
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And then you have me...
I love tipping my favorite models when they're talking just to suprised them (and also to annoy them
).I love to "tip and run" just to let them know that I like her and that I want their show to be great.
I love when my favorites models are so busy they didn't even have the time to see me because it's the sign of a earning more.
I love when some of my closest models have a "king" tipping more than I can affort in a year. I will probably thanks the user and make some advertising about her other products...
When I like a model, I want the model to be able to work without my tipping because I want the model to earn enough to live... As insane as it could be, I'm happy for people who have a lot money.
And I also have some users who became good pals too. Some of them earn in a week what some could only dream to earn on a month. And, yes, they give huge tips. Each one has his own life situation.
P.S. : Byt the way Lexi, I understand that you don't like when people get on their high horse (I'm not sure if the meaning is the same in French and in English, but...
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Yeah I know what you meant. Even my immediate family is like ??? You'd rather skip meals than not have a horse??? And I'm like... ye, duuuh
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HermesPonyo
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And I'll make the same choice...
But we don't find a way to ride our bunnies.
That could be also a good way to avoid accident to start riding rabbits... (I'm joking ! Don't hit me I'm not even here!
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You have a pre-conceived notion of me and my motives and I get that. I haven't helped myself with previous posts.
If the guy sticks around tipping like this forever then I'll be delighted because I actually have a more fun chat with him than I've ever had with any other member in the past. But he's a young, enthusiatic guy and I'm an old head and it's natural for me to look at things with a slightly concerned eye when I see a 20 year old kid throwing money around like sweets within 2 weeks of signing up to his first cam site.
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HermesPonyo
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Sometimes, you just have to stop and get away from the computer...
Please, I don't have anything against you as I don't really care, but stop digging.
I am posting this as a gentle suggestion.
You should not look at other guys on a platform like this in any way whatsoever.
The more I read from you, the more I think that camsites are not good for you.
Even if your concerns would be justified (I think they arent, it is all anonymous and noone else's business) how would you help this guy?
He has to learn by his own experience.
To be honest...you look like being jealous as f.ck.
I think that most guys have their favorite model(s) but why should one talk about them all the time in any damn conversation?
I have one fav as well but honestly who cares? And who cares about where she comes from, how old she is, how much she earns or her family? Or if I have her mobile number, her private insta or whatever?
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I dislike you because you’re a hypocrite, first and foremost. One of your first posts here was about having an “addiction” to cam sites and the model you still talk about on a daily basis here, and asking for advice. Yet, you’ve straight up insulted other members who have posted stuff similar to what you’ve posted.
Sure, the rest of us here don’t coddle members that come here who are disillusioned. It could be seen as “harsh” to people not used to getting blunt responses, but unless whoever posted isn’t outright rude first, we generally aren’t insulting them right out the gate. But, you do. Even though you’ve whined in the past over the criticism some of your posts have gotten. Criticism I’ve always seen as fair.
You’ve made yourself out to be like a knight in shining armor to a model who you initially had a ton of issues with, by your own admission. You’ve talked about her and the dynamic between the two of you ad nauseam. I can only speak for myself, but it’s annoying. It’s annoying how you act like you’re this benevolent guy only looking out for her best interests, when you’ve made it clear how jealous and insecure you get anytime someone with more money than you enters the picture. It’s annoying how you’ve pointed out that because she’s a studio model in a lower socioeconomic situation than yourself, your money goes farther with her than it would other models. It seems like you’re taking advantage of that fact, so you continue taking up her time even when you’re not tipping for the day (again, by your own admission) because you know that she can’t ban someone who does tip her on the weekends.
But still, I’d say the same thing to anyone else who posted what you posted. Just yesterday I posted in another thread unrelated to you about how I don’t understand why members will sit in a room and analyze other tippers spending habits. Your posts here about that member was worded in a way that made it seem like you were hoping he’d “end up in tears” over what he spent. You’ve made other posts about members spending more money than what you spend on your favorite model, and they all reek of insecurity. I think it’s unhealthy and that spending time in a model’s room should be a healthy and fun pastime, something I’ve been pretty consistent on in the years I’ve been posting here.
We don’t know his situation. $100 dollars a day could easily be disposable money to some people. He clearly hasn’t said anything to indicate he’s spending beyond his means, so that wouldn’t be a cause for concern, whether that spending is on cam models or gambling. I’ve worked in a casino. I’ve had to take classes for my previous job on responsible gaming and how to indicate when a person is addicted and when to cut them off. Spending a hundred or so a day on gambling, whether they’re young and new to the casino or not, wouldn’t be any sort of cause for concern. The main thing we were taught in that class was to pay attention to if they were saying stuff along the lines of “I’ve had to take out a mortgage on my house because of this”, “If I don’t win I won’t be able to pay my bills this month”, etc. And even if he was spending beyond his means, that’s none of your business as another tipper, and your posts here make it seem like you’d find that more amusing than anything rather than having any sort of concern for the guy.
And even as models, it’s not our responsibility to manage what a member spends. Even if someone says “I’m spending too much”, we don’t know if they’re being honest or if it’s a part of their fetish. We could go back and forth about the ethical and moral dilemmas a situation like that poses, but in the end, everyone on a camsite is an adult. As an adult, it’s their own responsibility to manage their funds properly. It’s certainly not the responsibility or business of another member in the same room.
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This is also something for which I was interested in the models' perspective. A common request I see is guys asking to C2C and tip high for it. I always imagine the girls get a close up of "it" and only desire for the camera to go off as soon as possible.
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Our only desire is to get tips one way or another if it takes opening a cam and hiding it with my own to get money I most certainly will... can keep 20 open this way
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I wonder if you ever read what you post or do you just type,post and forget about so you then can contradict yourself 5 min later?
That was a rhetorical q.
CallMeMaria
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It would probably be better wording to just say "I really enjoyed your show/video/etc".
Omg yes! I get so many "couples" or people who claim their wives are watching with them. I will say, however, that I do believe 20% of these users probably are a couple and they are pretty pleasant.
My addition :
The cashapp/apple pay/venmo beggars that inquire every time if you can accept payment through there (and risk your room getting flagged)!
Several popular models on CB are constantly saying people can venmo/cashapp/apple pay/pp for videos. They seem to get around the ban hammer by expressing it is for video sales, not a live show. Kind of breaks my brain.
#20 something: members who judge and are critical of other members spending habits. Fucking mind your business.
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