I vaguely recall sticking a vibrator in Jon's ass while we were having the drunkest sex I've ever had. So drunk that I forgot I even did that until about 5 minutes ago. And we did it on New Year's Eve. That was the first time I stuck anything more than a finger (which in 5 years has happened like...3 times). I don't think it really does much for him, but apparently when I'm trashed out of my mind it's fun. Damn I was drunk.
The guy I was with before him was kind of creepily into anal -- like talked about wanting to get our black friend who did indeed have a huge cock to fuck him while he fucked me. Yea totally not into that. Maybe that's part of the reason he so adamantly liked having anal sex with me (kind of guilted me into trying it). He was way too sexually submissive for me too (along with addicted to porn). Bleh. Jon's great because he's comfortable in his sexuality (he has made out with our bi male friend on a dare before and we played co-ed kissing games in a pool once, and he has nothing against gayness -- he just fails the "balls test" aka he thinks of balls and it definitely does not turn him on lol) and he's dominant.
As far as me....hell I've put everything from a plastic cigar tube to mardi gras beads in my ass. Medium sized butt plugs, normal sized vibrators and dildos....It's really the most fun to do double penetration. I feel unfulfilled without something in both holes ya know? Maybe I'm just greedy