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Hi guys !

This is my first year of token sites (started on Stripchat in November) and this month has been extremely bad for me. Hardly any users, no matter what I do, nobody chats, let alone tips. I suffer from panic attacks and since it is my main job, with every bad day I get more scared that I don't earn enough to pay my bills anymore. I have no idea why it suddenly "crashed" or what I'm doing wrong.To put it in numbers, I previously had at least 3,000 to 6,000 tokens almost every day (6,000 was a very good day then) now it's maybe 800 in 4 hours. This also makes my stripscore and my place among the models keep going downhill very fast and makes me nervous and sad and I feel like I’m not what the viewers want anymore and that I don’t give them a good enough show.

Some emotional support would be great right now :(
 
I am not on strip chat i am on Streamate. We all have good and bad days. Many hugs. Sometimes if affects the mood too much I would take a day off for personal time. Doing something that makes you feel good could help your mood get back to positive. Sex work has ebbs and flows and if this particular site isn’t going well perhaps try another or try something different? Sometimes just changing your cam set up a little can make a difference. I think best thing is doing what makes you feel good and then the customers see your genuine positive energy and attracted to that naturally. You could also watch other girls shows to get ideas what works and what doesn’t and even see how other ladies try to keep calm when they are also in a low money period.

many hugs i feel your uncertainty myself many times and try to ignore, shrug it off, distract, find something else to make me feel positive instead even if it’s silly like listening to cyndi lauper girls just wanna have fun.
 
I'm on CB and it's been slow for me too. I still have the random great stream, but they've been particularly rare recently. It's not me and it's not you. I know it feels like it and it's something that I also struggle with. However, summertime slump is a real thing that affects many different businesses, including sex work. It should pick up in a month or so. I know what it's like to struggle and worry about paying your bills, let alone having enough money for food. Join mturk. You can do work on there while you're camming when it's slow. Make some clips/pic sets. Try a different site and make use of the new tag. It's not helpful now, but when things start picking back up for you, make sure you save save save for when things aren't going so great. Hugs to you. You got this and you can persevere until things turn around.
 
Summer is always a slower time for me in general with everyone on vacation/holiday. That being said, don't put all your eggs in one basket. If it's slow and killing your moral, take some content and add to help boost your tokens. Add another site, splitcam, try something new, bright lingerie, fingerpaint lol, go outside if you can. Whatever you do, keep trying. Everyone has slumps and ya just gotta adapt. In the future, try to save as much as you can so the financial stress doesn't kill your mood.

I like to think of camming like fishing. Some days you will catch everything and it's fucking amazing. Other days the fish just won't bite. Do some self care, maybe have a good cry if you need to and go again. Try different lures for those fish!
 
It's most likely nothing you have or haven't done. If anything it's probably people have found a new 'flavour of the month' or trend. By this I mean maybe other models started doing something (such as streaming outdoors in public during summer) so now guys are drawn to that.
 
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Sorry this is happening; hopefully you can find something to cheer you up a bit.

From the other side of the glowing screen, all I can say is keep trying, and try not to take slow days too personally. You never know when you might catch the eye of some new tippers. I love the fishing analogy @Danigirl used. Even if it’s slow across the board for most models, there are still tippers out there browsing for great models they haven’t visited before.

And the summer thing is real, too, unfortunately. People are taking vacation. Kids are off school. Chances are, a lot of tippers’ day-to-day schedules are out of whack from June to September, as well as their expendable income budgets.
 
Hi guys !

This is my first year of token sites (started on Stripchat in November) and this month has been extremely bad for me. Hardly any users, no matter what I do, nobody chats, let alone tips. I suffer from panic attacks and since it is my main job, with every bad day I get more scared that I don't earn enough to pay my bills anymore. I have no idea why it suddenly "crashed" or what I'm doing wrong.To put it in numbers, I previously had at least 3,000 to 6,000 tokens almost every day (6,000 was a very good day then) now it's maybe 800 in 4 hours. This also makes my stripscore and my place among the models keep going downhill very fast and makes me nervous and sad and I feel like I’m not what the viewers want anymore and that I don’t give them a good enough show.

Some emotional support would be great right now :(
I have noticed the same thing SPECIFICALLY to Stripchat. They used to have huge marketing and traffic campaigns that brought in excellent traffic. I remember I asked a user how he found the site and he said it was a Snapchat clickable advertisement... I think they are recouping funds after this crazy $28 million USD soccer sponsorship. https://www.bettorsinsider.com/news...-inter-milan-soccer-in-28-million-shirt-offer
 
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Hi guys !

This is my first year of token sites (started on Stripchat in November) and this month has been extremely bad for me. Hardly any users, no matter what I do, nobody chats, let alone tips. I suffer from panic attacks and since it is my main job, with every bad day I get more scared that I don't earn enough to pay my bills anymore. I have no idea why it suddenly "crashed" or what I'm doing wrong.To put it in numbers, I previously had at least 3,000 to 6,000 tokens almost every day (6,000 was a very good day then) now it's maybe 800 in 4 hours. This also makes my stripscore and my place among the models keep going downhill very fast and makes me nervous and sad and I feel like I’m not what the viewers want anymore and that I don’t give them a good enough show.

Some emotional support would be great right now :(
Have you ever considered camming on a different site? I was on MFC for a few years full time then stopped full time camming when I got into porn and would then just hop on here and there. This did NOT work well for me (I had a lot of regulars who were used to my schedule). I joined Naked.com (I would not recommend as it's full of trolls but just as an example) and was actually able to make money consistently and daily from it. So it's the vibe of having a profile on another cam site and just hopping on there whenever it's slow for you on your original one. I've personally used and loved CamSoda for a few years now on the rare occasion I DO cam because it's SUPER user friendly and foolproof. They have a shitload of built in games and tip + countdown templates to pick and choose from as well as options to have a fan club, sell vids, etc.
 
Have you ever considered camming on a different site? I was on MFC for a few years full time then stopped full time camming when I got into porn and would then just hop on here and there. This did NOT work well for me (I had a lot of regulars who were used to my schedule). I joined Naked.com (I would not recommend as it's full of trolls but just as an example) and was actually able to make money consistently and daily from it. So it's the vibe of having a profile on another cam site and just hopping on there whenever it's slow for you on your original one. I've personally used and loved CamSoda for a few years now on the rare occasion I DO cam because it's SUPER user friendly and foolproof. They have a shitload of built in games and tip + countdown templates to pick and choose from as well as options to have a fan club, sell vids, etc.
To add (this is dependent on what you're comfortable with) selling content (even recorded cam shows) on sites like Manyvids and I Want Clips have ALSO been a god send because it's the vibe of filming/recording something once, then reselling it forever. You can also offer custom vids on these sites, sell panties, etc. Just another stream of passive revenue :)
 
I thank you for your advice. I'm already on chaturbate and stripchat, i think I couldn't manage more sites, especially since I have the impression that they only offer little traffic for german models. I’ve also have an OF with 1 Fan and it seems nobody is interested in my vids or photos so I currently have little motivation to produce new content.

The german webcam sites are also a joke, you get less than 25% plus chargebacks. The bad thing is, I've tried everything. I was naked, dressed, with a fucking machine and without ,but nothing seems to interest the members anymore. I also talked to myself, smiled , just so that people would at least chat. But there were only comments like “in” (the dildo) or I was sent 20 tokens for a footjob, although I don't even offer this and certainly not for so little. Or someone said to me that I’m always available, so that seems to be what they think about me.

I felt even worse and taken advantage of. I'm running out of ideas and I know you shouldn't do that, but if I look into other rooms and then see that it works there, just somehow not in my room, or I see tippers who were previously in my room ,who tell me how pretty and personable I am and how well I manage my room and and then throwing huge numbers elsewhere,i feel even more of a failure.I have the feeling these people use me to be entertained and then all the tips are given elsewhere. I have even been informed by members that a certain model always has members in their room who give a lot of tips but who were in my room before and told me all the time how great I am. I was somehow so embarrassed that I went offline.

I don't want to complain here, but where else can you be so open if not here.

I have now taken a few days off because it just burdens me too much to be under this pressure all the time.
 
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Sending hugs and positivity to you! Don't take bad periods of time personally, so don't let it affect your self-confidence. There are days and weeks when you traffic is pretty much similar to a graveyard. But bear in mind, that does not mean it will stay like that! Keep your head high and never lose faith, better days are coming... and if they are not coming, I would suggest turning towards another website. Do a little bit of research on each of them and choose the one that seems to suit your personality the best.

Also, OF is booming right now, so why not sell content as a side hustle to finance yourself even more?
 
Can 100% confirm as one of strips “celebrities” that it is dead right now. But it’s dead everywhere. End of summer means last minute vacations and no money in cam world.

have faith because winter is camgirl money months. Use this time to recoup , re energize, re organize and plan new shows
 
I think it's been slow on all the sites atm, which is unhelpful - sorry. Randomly, I did decide to put my prices up, and although it slowed down, i made the same amount because people were paying higher. I'm on CB though. Hope it picks up for you soon x
 
I'm thinking of putting a question at the beginning of each room topic from now on. Something simple to get some kind of conversation going, since smiling and saying hi makes these dudes run out the room like a frightened mouse. Like a "Would you rather...?" or "Which do you prefer?"-type question. If I can't get a "Hi" out of these people, maybe they'll at least type a response to that in the chat...and maybe it'll lead to some conversation. I don't know. Something's gotta change soon, and I'm tired of seeing premiums with 500+tokens visible sitting in my room refusing to say anything, and not tipping at all.

Last night was awful for me too. Didn't earn a single token, and the ONE chatter I had was a guy who's been freeloading for years (but always chats). I'm tired of wasting my time in free chat (Being all smiley and always moving to the music) with nothing to show for it...all the while having that very bright light shining on me, and wearing a wig that I cannot wait to take off the moment I log off.
 
That's actually a not bad idea. I dont think itll change much in regards of rude assholes but yeah it might help start conversations, just ofc avoid politics and religion.
 
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I'm thinking of putting a question at the beginning of each room topic from now on. Something simple to get some kind of conversation going, since smiling and saying hi makes these dudes run out the room like a frightened mouse. Like a "Would you rather...?" or "Which do you prefer?"-type question. If I can't get a "Hi" out of these people, maybe they'll at least type a response to that in the chat...and maybe it'll lead to some conversation. I don't know. Something's gotta change soon, and I'm tired of seeing premiums with 500+tokens visible sitting in my room refusing to say anything, and not tipping at all.

Last night was awful for me too. Didn't earn a single token, and the ONE chatter I had was a guy who's been freeloading for years (but always chats). I'm tired of wasting my time in free chat (Being all smiley and always moving to the music) with nothing to show for it...all the while having that very bright light shining on me, and wearing a wig that I cannot wait to take off the moment I log off.
I totally can relate about turning off the bright lights and wanting to wash off all the make up/put your hair up/take off the wig mood!!!!! I always suggest switching your hustle if after 2 hours it's not fruitful. Go film some clips. Make some advertising GIFs/logo images/update social channels. Update fan clubs. Create customer contact lists so you can reach out to your customers when you are totally ready to hang out. Drive traffic to you if there is no organic traffic when you are live.

I hope better shifts are ahead of you!!! *HUGS*
 
I'm tired of seeing premiums with 500+tokens visible sitting in my room refusing to say anything, and not tipping at all.

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This last week was the worst since I started to broadcast. A lot of dudes with pink and purple colors, and no one tipping, worst yet its they want free shows or are cheapskates :/.

I try to be calm, hope thing goes better this days :(. (Yestarday cannot broadcast too long, so only have a few tokens)

I think it's been slow on all the sites atm, which is unhelpful - sorry. Randomly, I did decide to put my prices up, and although it slowed down, i made the same amount because people were paying higher. I'm on CB though. Hope it picks up for you soon x

Last month I put my prices up, first weeks was wonderful :h: . But last week was the hell for me :(.

Can 100% confirm as one of strips “celebrities” that it is dead right now. But it’s dead everywhere. End of summer means last minute vacations and no money in cam world.

have faith because winter is camgirl money months. Use this time to recoup , re energize, re organize and plan new shows

Hope you're right :(. I start thinking that everyones starts to get bored with my shows :(.
 
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I'm thinking of putting a question at the beginning of each room topic from now on. Something simple to get some kind of conversation going, since smiling and saying hi makes these dudes run out the room like a frightened mouse. Like a "Would you rather...?" or "Which do you prefer?"-type question. If I can't get a "Hi" out of these people, maybe they'll at least type a response to that in the chat...and maybe it'll lead to some conversation. I don't know. Something's gotta change soon, and I'm tired of seeing premiums with 500+tokens visible sitting in my room refusing to say anything, and not tipping at all.

Last night was awful for me too. Didn't earn a single token, and the ONE chatter I had was a guy who's been freeloading for years (but always chats). I'm tired of wasting my time in free chat (Being all smiley and always moving to the music) with nothing to show for it...all the while having that very bright light shining on me, and wearing a wig that I cannot wait to take off the moment I log off.
My room is usually full of female models and barely any users. When there are users, aside from the usual "I totally want your cock in my mouth," I can barely get anyone to chat in my room. When I started camming about six months ago it was much better. I haven't made any tips in weeks.

I am a little shy talking and have a difficult time with conversation. I bookmarked a bunch of websites for conversation starters, "get to know you questions" and such, and used some as my room topic. Even tried playing "would you rather." Some of this worked when I first started, but now it's quiet. Also, having lurked in other guys rooms, it seems that there is very little interest in conversation compared to female cam rooms.
 
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My room is usually full of female models and barely any users. When there are users, aside from the usual "I totally want your cock in my mouth," I can barely get anyone to chat in my room. When I started camming about six months ago it was much better. I haven't made any tips in weeks.

I am a little shy talking and have a difficult time with conversation. I bookmarked a bunch of websites for conversation starters, "get to know you questions" and such, and used some as my room topic. Even tried playing "would you rather." Some of this worked when I first started, but now it's quiet. Also, having lurked in other guys rooms, it seems that there is very little interest in conversation compared to female cam rooms.

I tried my idea just now by putting "APPLE or PUMPKIN pie?" at the beginning of my topic. So far one guy said hi and answered (He said apple, which I 100% agree with!), and then tipped 10 tokens. Well...that's 10 tokens more than what I got last night.....
 
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