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So I have cammed in the past when I had my own place and had nothing to worry about. I stopped camming for a while, then I decided it would be a wonderful idea to move back in with my mom... I've gotten back into the desire to cam again but now I'm not very well off. I barely have my own room, we are wall to wall. Also the wifi is horribly slow. I don't know where to go from here. I can barely afford my bills and sure as hell can't move out right now.

I am curious if anyone has a story similar to mine. Anyone start at their parents and have to find a way out on their own so that they could cam in peace? How did you start from the bottom and get to a point where you could handle bills again?

I'm even thinking about finding a hotel to stay at for a while but I feel that's dangerous and slightly dramatic. So I'm just curious to hear you story. :)

Thanks ladies! :h:
 
I stumbled upon it while researching an online friend. Kinda strange coincidence but I'm happy thus far! /Now I just need to find a cam partner..... :arghh:
 
I live with my parents and am a single parent as well, so basically I have to cam when nobody is home and when my child is asleep. So far, getting online when my mother and child are not home is working out great. She was home for a month from having a hysterectomy though and I had to take a break, but I got online for a few hours yesterday and slipped back into it with ease. I am a little worried one day my mom will figure it out, but honestly I don't think she will say much.
 
I first got interested in sex work when I followed an artist on tumblr who I found out was a phone sex worker. Her stories of how her job worked really interested me, so I did some research and decided to try it out for myself. Phone sex wasn't really my thing, and I dropped off the radar for a while, got a vanilla corporate job that barely covered my portion of rent. When my roomie and best friend lost her job I decided to get back into it, but this time tried camming. It feels a lot more comfortable to me.
 
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@MeowMix I share a really similar situation actually. As of right now, the only way I could cam is if my mom + siblings aren't around, when my siblings are too busy doing something in the place, or when I'm alone. Recently I have been camming with another girl at the place she would stay at but we soon plan on moving in together so that we can cam comfortably. Aside from camming I also sell photosets and videos that add up to your earnings.
 
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I began to cam after watching a documentary on tv about webcam girls. My partner and I discussed how it would be a good way that I could work from home in my own time and earn money. We browsed around for popular cam sites and stumbled upon Chaturbate. I have been working for about a year now ..on and off as I still struggle to get new followers but I really enjoy what I do and have spoke with a great bunch of people.
 
I started camming after a long talk with some friends, about this kind of activity.I am still new to it and trying to figure out some things, but i hope it will be ok in the end, because i like camming.
 
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My boyfriend started jokingly talking about camming to me after we had been dating for awhile... It was one of his main ways to get off. He would ask me "would you ever do that?" And I would balk at him and say "are you joking! Never!" Then he showed me the HBO doc featuring Emma and Eddie Lovett and I was like ooooooooh maybe I CAN do that. It's been a year of camming on and off but Ive been getting more serious about making the good money recently!
 
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I was 18 and tired of asking my mom for money so I made an account on one of those website with jobs and applied to some of them but noone contacted me back . I knew about camming since a while,is really popular in my country , most of the girls go to special studios for this but I wanted to do it from home so I made a chaturbate account and that was it :D
 
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When I started camming, I was using the SHITTEST laptop ever, && I had Clearwire internet, so I basically had a dial up connection, that would go out like everytime you sneezed basically.... I had also just gotten married, && my in-laws were staying with us... IN A ONE BEDROOM apartment, sleeping in my living room. We were also all sharing ONE bathroom. It made my life HELL. He worked graveyard at the time, so I would just sign on around 11 pm/midnight && cam sometime til 6 am usually.

I basically never really talked on cam, or I would whisper, because the bathroom was directly outside our bedroom door, && the walls were paper thin, plus they were sleeping on our couch/in the living room, which was just outside my bedroom door.

It can be super tricky, but it CAN be done! Consistancy is key in this kind of thing, as much as you can make it, for that kind of thing, to build up a fanbase. Also, might be a fun kind of thing to mention you have roommates/parents that don't know what you do, so you can kind of make it a game out of shhhh, otherwise I'll get caught && play off the "thrill" in that? I have a few people that will tip lots, or high to try to make me squeal when I'm on cam cause I get so happy/excited, lol. They also like it, cause I can't be really loud usually when I cam lol.
 
I am 20 years old and I am a college student. I am also an independent student, so I don't have parents to help pay for my tuition or books. I also live on my own with room mates in a student apartment. It is really hard to go online because I share a room currently with someone and she gets home at inconvenient hours. I got into camming because my best friend (thats a guy) told me about MFC and he said I would make a really good model on there. I've always have been interested in camming, since I used to do similar stuff for my boyfriend on skype (its nice knowing i get paid for my efforts). Being a new model on here, I really enjoy it so far. It's a nice community and it is really nice to talk to people that are generally interested in my hobbies and aspirations. :)
 
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My friend who was running a dungeon told me about Adultwork and showed me how to cam. I went to her dungeon to cam and as soon as I made enough money I would hole up in a hotel and do webathons. I had previous experience in escorting and various other parts of the sex industry. Atm I mostly chat but if I can I cam away from home
 
I found out about camming from my ex bf who is/was a model on chaterbate. i became a single parent and wanted a way to work from home (i was living with my parents as well when i first started) i found this forum and read EVERYTHING after i got verified. I feel like that really gave me a leg up because i went in prepared and knew what to expect. If you have terrible internet and need to get started then i suggest you start making videos and putting them on clips4sale. You won't need the web to record and your crappy connection won't be such a big deal if you are just using it to upload stuff. then whenever you do get off your feet and start camming you will already have a ton of content wich is really helpful.
 
So I have cammed in the past when I had my own place and had nothing to worry about. I stopped camming for a while, then I decided it would be a wonderful idea to move back in with my mom... I've gotten back into the desire to cam again but now I'm not very well off. I barely have my own room, we are wall to wall. Also the wifi is horribly slow.
@MeowMix Which ISP do you have?
 
I have a very similar problem, i live with my mom and brother, and camming used to be easier when she would work and he went to school but now that he has dropped out and she's lost her job i find it very difficult to cam. l'm still looking for solutions myself and its reassuring to know someone else is in my position
 
I worked for the university in a few labs making minimum wage. I walked there and back everyday (it was 2.5 miles each way up and down hill in the blistering heat and snow). I was working maximum a uni student is allowed, was living off of one pack of noodles a day with only an egg dropped in a few times a month for very special occasions. I was doing full time in courses and had to decide which bills to pay that month based off delinquency. I was exhausted from not eating and expending so much physical and mental energy. I don't know how I kept my grades up without eating.

I just got tired of being hungry. I put in my 2 weeks, took off a month, used $500 of my student loan refunds to invest in a basic laptop, webcam and 2 lights. I finally gathered the courage and hit stream one day and the rest is history. My fridge is always packed now and bills always paid on time. I've gained 15 lbs and am at a healthy weight finally. :)

You can do it too!! If you can I would start off doing clips and save the money from that to move out again. :) If you are comfortable doing fetishes that would totally be a great route to take since you don't have to be loud with moaning and groaning, the payout is higher per vid, and they are easier. Plus there's no set prime time you have to shoot them so they provide great flexibility.

Best of luck!!!
 
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I began to cam after watching a documentary on tv about webcam girls. My partner and I discussed how it would be a good way that I could work from home in my own time and earn money. We browsed around for popular cam sites and stumbled upon Chaturbate. I have been working for about a year now ..on and off as I still struggle to get new followers but I really enjoy what I do and have spoke with a great bunch of people.

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Hi.. I love that you and I are so very sweet!
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I had a really slow start XD I wanted some extra cash, so I started selling my panties, then I moved on to taking kik sessions before I got a job in insulation. After I lost that job (and had done all of the research I could on camming), I said 'to hell with it!' and started on SM. Things were really slow at first, and it was hard to manage the burnout while I was trying to pay my bills, but I eventually kinda found my way XD
 
These post are amazing, it's great to see how different people could have similar situations, i'm a college student, i work as an after school tutor for the nearby elementary school, for 3 hours 4 days a week, i own my own apartment few blocks away from my school, the rent is 700 plus my phone bill and all, my parents help out a lot but o'm 23 years old and i really want to be independent, i just couldn't do it.. i try getting another job but all the jobs were not willing to work around my classes schedule, i heard about camming while on craigslist looking for a job, and i started to research it and the rest was history, the next week i used my two weeks paycheck to buy a Logitech webcam , currently i'm only on chaturbate (Badj3u) but i'm thinking of joining other sites too because i haven't been lucky on there yet, sometimes i get between 8-100 viewers only and to get them to tip is war, i mean I've on been on there for 4 days now, so i guess it will take time, i created a twitter account because i figure i needed to create a fan base and get noticed,am following more people then they are following my but it's OK, i won't give up.... what i observe the most about camming is CONFIDENCE, AS A CAMGIRL YOU HAVE TO BE CONFIDENT which i am so i won't give up too quick... i know eventually the attention will come.... and the fan base will grow until then, am just here eating a bowl .99 cent bowl of noodles (which is all i can afford right now because i used my paycheck to buy the logitech webcam) while trying to create a nice profile with graphic and emoticons and all on chaturbate (even though i'm totally lost and i don't know what i'm doing, i will keep playing around with it and researching till i figure it out. i know nothing good comes easily so i will have to work hard and harder to make this work..... it's was great reading everyone's post :joyful::h:
 
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Since live streaming sounds a bit more difficult to do, how about selling vids and clips as Madison stated above? A lot of girls make great income with clips. There are endless categories and not all of them are sexually related. Literally everything can be a fetish. Drinking soda & burping, putting on socks, ignoring the camera are just a touch of ideas. It can definitely help make income without being live on cam.

Can you cam on days when mom is not home?I have done hotel stays before and I didn't run into any issues. Getting a hotel is not dramatic or excessive at all. Book the cheapest you can go without setting yourself up in a dangerous area. It can be costly depending on how many days you stay, but if you really are determined to maximize those hours away from home, it can be a great alternative place to cam and make the real money.

Would your wifi slowness be fixed with an external wifi extender? Is your internet slow, or could it be that your room is not getting a good signal? I have installed acoustic panel mats in my cam room for extra sound drowning at Home Depot that come 6 for $30 :) You can play around with them as wall art.

Maybe you can use the silence/having to be quiet as an advantage while broadcasting. Kind of like a "sneaking to be on cam, so I have to be quiet" and really play into that, "oh no, I'm being a naughty girl, I can be caught right now!"

I am grateful that I have always been in living situations by myself or with roommates that understood my job as a cam girl, so I can't really relate, but I hope I was able to help you out a bit :)
 
Mine is a little lame. Basically my boyfriend and I were renting 2 rooms from my mothers ex boyfriend, and this guy is literally bipolar, I don't know. He got mad at me for not coming to MY dads girlfriends sons birthday party (weird ik) and then basically flipped out on my boyfriend who had no idea it existed. My boyfriend stood up for himself, and that was it. He kicked us out. Kind of.

At that moment I went into a severe state of anxiety because we had to find a place to live. So I guess one day I stumbled upon selling underwear and I was like "OH my god that is fucking amazing!" It never worked. I could never find a site that didn't charge me. So we ended up moving out into an apartment using all of our money so I scrambled to find SOMETHING to do. Then I thought "Maybe I could be a phone sex operator or something?" But I'm so shy. I looked all over the internet on how to see if I can talk to men for money. Stumbled upon extra lunch money and my girl fund. That worked for a while but it felt so degrading and like I was selling myself short because i'd make like 20 dollars for a video I'd spend hours making.

So then I saw cam girls being advertised, checked out my free cams and fell in love with it. I watched for about a month and a half, hours every day. Then finally signed up for Chaturbate and while it was fun it didn't last very well for me. Now I'm in a predicament where I'd love to cam on streamate because I do so well there, but I have no privacy due to living in a shitty apartment and my neighbors are loud as hell. My boyfriend works literally every day for at least 8 hours a day so it's the perfect timing for us, just... this apartment is so loud.
 
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