Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ? part2

[Anonymous]

First of all I would like to thank AmberCutie for creating this forum because as I said has been a reality check for me.
And its probably the only forum that people can relate to in terms of web camming business from the prespective of a model as well as the members.
So hats off for your effort AmberCutie.

On the other hand don't understand why my previous topic http://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewtopic.php?f=15&t=10507 was locked.
It is the first time I posted a topic on any forum and I didn't do it because of fun I truly did it because I needed some advice.
I strongly beleive camming is one the best business prospects in the 21st century because it is a safe version of "cheating" from your sofa at home.
That is if you have a relationship. If you ask me it is the same thing as the real one in terms of morality but you don't have physical contact.

I also beleive my case is not the only one and that many members out there can relate to this topic. It may notbe a model from Romania but the location
is not important. I also beleive it is an addiction. Just like gambling or drugs.
I need a "shot" of this sweet words and if its a good looking cam model giving it to me, even better.
If my topic is bad PR for camming business I do undestand. But you can not simply call someone stupid just because he admits with out a hair on his tongue
what is happening to him. You of course have every right to lock my post because all in all it is your forum.

I have been to mfc in your room "AmberCutie" have tipped you also and found you very professional and congratulate you on that. You don't take bullshit.
I have found this also among 90% of other cam models. I take it as an entertainment.

But not with the girl I was talking in my previous (locked) post. I truly belive I have a special thing going on with her as fucked up it may sound to all of you.
If she didn't work in a studio (which are run 50% legitimately and 50% run by Romanian mafia) and did work at home as a cam girl I would meet this girl already.
I don't know in what kind of studio she works in. The reason she doesn't work at home is (so she says) that she is not good with computers and tha it the studio
she can work multiple camsites (up to 8) at the same time which woul be hard at home if youre not good with computers.
This is and only becuse of this I posted my previous topic to find out if someone has an idea if it can be dangerous
thing to visit such a model in terms of safety and not in terms of morality. I am not single so please don't give me that morality crap because I already know that it WRONG to do it.

I am asking miss AmberCutie if she can unlock my previos post to get some suggestions from other people and if not at least if you leave this one alive.

Thank you!

 

[AllisonWilder]

I would think that once you're put in time-out mode by the moderator, you kind of let things lie as they are for a while and not come back on a new account. Apparently I'm alone in this thought.

 

[Anonymous]

If thats the case I apologise but how could I know this?

 

[ScarletVixen]

It's not bad PR(since you've said yourself that it's YOUR idea, not the Models), I'm fairly sure Amber locked your thread and put you in time out because you were given TONS of advice and pretty much ignored it all. People did tell you that it was morally wrong, but also told you that it was UNSAFE. That you WILL be SCAMMED, since you admit that this woman scams people openly. You already know it's dangerous, you know it's foolish and although you claim to have had a 'reality check' so far, you haven't shown it because your decision hasn't changed.

You don't actually WANT advice, you just want someone to *understand you* and tell you to go for it, so that you can push your valid, lingering doubts out of your head and feel like it was someone elses idea.

You have been given good advice - don't do it, at the very least INSIST on getting your money back first to see if you have already been scammed. That's where you should start.

Also, you're a fucking douchebag.

 

[Shaun__]

I still think people like him come here to post this stuff, because of some fetish. He is probably furiously masturbating with every reply. Even if I am wrong he deserves to get scammed by a crooked model for being a jerk.

 

[Anonymous]

I still think people like him come here to post this stuff, because of some fetish. He is probably furiously masturbating with every reply. Even if I am wrong he deserves to get scammed by a crooked model for being a jerk.

Jesus Christ...furiosly masturbating...a fetish? I take this topic seriously but common )))))) You gotta be joking with this.

 

[Shaun__]

I still think people like him come here to post this stuff, because of some fetish. He is probably furiously masturbating with every reply. Even if I am wrong he deserves to get scammed by a crooked model for being a jerk.

Jesus Christ...furiosly masturbating...a fetish? I take this topic seriously but common )))))) You gotta be joking with this.

Not joking, I think I am making you all hot right now BB.

 

[Anonymous]

It's not bad PR(since you've said yourself that it's YOUR idea, not the Models), I'm fairly sure Amber locked your thread and put you in time out because you were given TONS of advice and pretty much ignored it all. People did tell you that it was morally wrong, but also told you that it was UNSAFE. That you WILL be SCAMMED, since you admit that this woman scams people openly. You already know it's dangerous, you know it's foolish and although you claim to have had a 'reality check' so far, you haven't shown it because your decision hasn't changed.

You don't actually WANT advice, you just want someone to *understand you* and tell you to go for it, so that you can push your valid, lingering doubts out of your head and feel like it was someone elses idea.

You have been given good advice - don't do it, at the very least INSIST on getting your money back first to see if you have already been scammed. That's where you should start.

Also, you're a fucking douchebag.

It has changed my opinion becuse I think 99% of people were against my idea. And it is not MY idea only it was idea of BOTH of us.
I would also like to know if you gave your "really good members" a chance to visit you, how many of them would decline this option?

 

[Anonymous]

I still think people like him come here to post this stuff, because of some fetish. He is probably furiously masturbating with every reply. Even if I am wrong he deserves to get scammed by a crooked model for being a jerk.

Jesus Christ...furiosly masturbating...a fetish? I take this topic seriously but common )))))) You gotta be joking with this.

Not joking, I think I am making you all hot right now BB.

I thought I was the crazy one here.

 

[ScarletVixen]

It's not bad PR(since you've said yourself that it's YOUR idea, not the Models), I'm fairly sure Amber locked your thread and put you in time out because you were given TONS of advice and pretty much ignored it all. People did tell you that it was morally wrong, but also told you that it was UNSAFE. That you WILL be SCAMMED, since you admit that this woman scams people openly. You already know it's dangerous, you know it's foolish and although you claim to have had a 'reality check' so far, you haven't shown it because your decision hasn't changed.

You don't actually WANT advice, you just want someone to *understand you* and tell you to go for it, so that you can push your valid, lingering doubts out of your head and feel like it was someone elses idea.

You have been given good advice - don't do it, at the very least INSIST on getting your money back first to see if you have already been scammed. That's where you should start.

Also, you're a fucking douchebag.

It has changed my opinion becuse I think 99% of people were against my idea. And it is not MY idea only it was idea of BOTH of us.
I would also like to know if you gave your "really good members" a chance to visit you, how many of them would decline this option?

Apparently your grasp of english wasn't doing you any favors, in a previous post in the now-locked thread you implied that it was mainly you wanting it, not an equal decision/idea.

As far as my really good members visiting me, that's a silly question, but... Anyone that *I* would consider a really good online member/friend would know me well enough and respect me enough to know I wouldn't be comfortable with meeting in real life, so, yes, they would likely decline. There's a good chance your idea of someones 'really good member' is different from the reality of an ACTUAL really good member from a models point of view

 

[HiGirlsRHot]

I thought I was the crazy one here.

Shaun went to Romania to visit a model he fell in love with. Before he went he was a perfectly normal chap, and after he went ...see what happened. :lol:

 

[Jupiter551]

I thought I was the crazy one here.

Shaun went to Romania to visit a model he fell in love with. Before he went he was a perfectly normal chap, and after he went ...see what happened. :lol:

MauveNovaIVXX is Romanian?? Anyway I think he won the raffle but she asked him not to go regardless

 

[sweetiebatman]

In my experience, topics get locked for two reasons, either the conversation has been done to death with no sign of a resolution or acceptance, or its in danger of going wildly off topic

You were given an absolute SHITLOAD of good advice, which you seemed to agree with but ignore anyway and carried on digging yourself a deeper hole

you say 99% of the reaction was negative, it was definatly 100% you are just mixing up people being slightly nicer with thier words

The BOTTOM LINE on this is if you care at all more for your "wife" and kids over a known scammer in another country you will drop this pathetic little fantasy!

 

[AnaVictoriaXO]

 

[mynameisbob84]

Hahaaaaaaa! Amazing! :-D

So, to surmise the past two days...

"Hi, I don't think I should meet this Romanian model I met on the internet but I kinda really want to even though I'm married with two kids. What should I do?"

"Don't do it"
"Definitely don't do it"
"It's a terrible idea"
"Don't do it"
"Nope. Not even a little bit"

"I'll probably do it anyway though"

"Right, this thread's ran its course. I'm locking it"

"Hey, why was my thread locked. Anyway, same question again, guys. I didn't like the answers I got yesterday and would like some different ones, please...."

*insert collection of facepalm gifs here, yeah?*

 

[Evvie]

There's no point posting in this because this thread will get locked again, but I woke up two hours early today so oh well.

The folks here are correct, good sir.

You have already made up your mind.

You see camming as an outlet for cheating on your wife - cool beans. Many of the models here would be more than horrified if they found out their partner was going to Romania to see a sex worker. On the other hand, it doesn't seem to be a big deal to you, because --

You have already made up your mind.

You are going to go to Romania to screw, fuck, and throw loads of money at a sex worker. You will do it regardless of the consequences to your family and your future; you are going to go to Romania and have a tryst with a prostitute.

You don't really care about studios or her scamming you, because every time someone says, "bad idea, bro," you say, "no it's not I'm going anyway," because (ready?)

You have already made up your mind.

What you really, really want though, is validation. You want us to say you will be safe. You want us to say that no, a big bad studio is not going to hurt you. You want us to say that you will not be kidnapped and taken away Taken style and made in to a sex slave.

Would I go to Romania to have sex with a prostitute I knew online? Well heck, sounds fun to me (and for anyone stuck up on terminology, yes, she is a prostitute. She is going to have sex with him in exchange for money and continued financial support online). Is it a wise idea? Will it end with someone getting Hep C? Doesn't matter --

You've already made up your mind.

So, go make your travel plans, go to Europe, hump your lady and try not to get gore-murdered Hostel style. Then come home to your failing marriage and spend all your time on the Internet trying to figure out how to have sex with more prostitutes out of the country.

[As a last piece of advice, and I mean this seriously, you should consider visiting escort services within your country instead. It will likely be much cheaper and easier to lie about until you get a divorce]

 

[bob]

If thats the case I apologise but how could I know this?

it's pretty much common sense.....which is not one of your strenghts....
you really need to take a lesson from this.....it's showing you just how selfish and thoughtless you can be.....you came here with a sincere concern.....you were given the sincere advice of almost everyone who posted...none of it made a difference to you.....

this second thread now just feels like you stroking yourself, without any sense of satisfaction.

my guess is that if you follow this silly obsession of yours, it'll end up feeling exactly the same to you.

wakeup

 

[Anonymous]

Hmmmm...Would like to thank everyone of you for trying to help me out.
It is a stupid idea I admit.
If 99% of people are saying it is a bad idea then it probably really is.
I like to live on the edge, I allways have, but this is a little more serious I agree.
Donno what I am gonna do...but for sure I am gonna wait at least to see if she gives me back the money.
If she doesn't...I'm definitely not going cause then it is 100% she is trying to scam me.
If she does give it back...then its a different story.

Wouldn't like anyone to take this the wrong way. I am really grateful for all your suggestions
but its not really easy for me to say OK. No fucking problem...I'm just gonna throw away 2.5 years of nights
and days I spent with somebody that I beleived was a really good friend of mine...while she was actually scamming me all the time.
I just can't beleive that a cam-model would persist for so long even though its her job.
Cause we were in contact...better say it like this...I donno when we weren't in contact.
Phone, SMS, WEB, Whatsapp, Yahoo, Email...basicly all the time. And I really need to end this...one way or another...cause I am neglecting my family.

But thx again to all of you.
I really mean this.

 

[AmberCutie]

The fact you had to create a 2nd account in order to post should have given you a clue that I suspended your other account. I made it so you could NOT post on your original username, because you post DUMB SHIT, and you need to READ what people were saying.

I am trying to cut the stupidity on the forum, you're lending way too much of it.

If you insist on continuing to post, I'll just go ahead and ban you.

You don't listen.

We don't respect you because of this fact (and well, the fact you're going to be unfaithful and dishonest to your woman and children).

You add NOTHING positive to this forum, other than a person for us to unleash our rage posts at. You've turned yourself into a target dummy.

Given the fact that I had a heapload of thanks on my last post in your other thread, calling you STUPID and locking it, I'd say I'm not alone.

 

[AmberCutie]

If you think I was calling you STUPID just for posting the original question, you're even dumber than I originally thought. Way to go!

 

[Evvie]

[it turns me on when Amber uses her adminpowers]