Respecting the fact that cam models are people too

[Shaun__]

I completely agree that a model's relationship status is completely irrelevant. So much so, that I don't even see the point of having the 'relationship status' field on the profile.

If a model is in a relationship, then she's not likely to let a member stick his willy in her.
If a model is single but claims to be in a relationship, it's probably because she doesn't want members trying to "save her" and is not likely to let a member stick his willy in her.
If a model has left that field blank, it's probably because she feels that members don't need to know whether she's in a relationship or not (because... they don't) and she's not likely to let a member stick his willy in her.
If a model is in a relationship but claims to be single, then she's probably weary of losing out on tips from guys who only tip models they think might one day fuck them; and while she's happy to let those guys think they might one day get to fuck her... she's probably not actually gonna let them stick their willy in her.
If a model is genuinely single, I guess there's that teeny, tiny slither of a possibility that she might get to know a member and decide they're not a complete dick and maybe, possibly, concievably she might meet them one day and potentially let them stick their willy in her, but really... it's statistically unlikely.

So... from this we can conclude that whatever a model's relationship status happens to be at any given time, it's always a safe bet that she's not going to let you stick your willy in her. Therefore, we can also conclude that a model's relationship status is all but completely irrelevant. That's like, basic math, yeah? :thumbleft:

So what you're saying is that members aren't likely to have the chance to stick their willy in a model? :lol:

I'm glad someone picked up on that. I was worried I might have been a bit too ambiguous :-D

What about hand jobs? Those are still possible right?

 

[Ann_Sulu]

I remember being dumb my first night. Though I was with a guy, I thought "bet I'd probably make more if I was single" I did. I also immediately changed my status to involved after my first shift. Granted it was my first night, and there are always more people then, due to the new model tag, but my PMs and chat were chalk-full of idiots asking to be my internet boyfriend/meetup/if we were together you wouldn't have to do this. I still get those guys, but it's not near as bad. What can I say? It is good to be honest, at least for your sanity (unless you are single, then I might recommend making up someone lol).

 

[VeronicaChaos]

Men are pigs, you know, and we didn't come to MFC looking for someone to "respect". There was no link to MFC on the website of the Simone de Beauvoir Institute for Women's Studies, the last time I looked.

OK, I'm sorry, I tried to ignore this and I just couldn't. Last time I checked, you don't go cherry picking where you choose to respect people. You don't go out into the world and go "Hmm, I feel like respecting some people today! Let's go to the library!" or "Nah, not feeling like being respectful. PORN." You should respect EVERYONE, because respect is a basic human concept, and there is no such thing as someone who (defined by their occupation) deserves more or less of it. If someone can't respect a girl on a camsite because he isn't specifically looking for someone to respect, they should really reevaluate the way they treat people and view women. I feel like it's a "nicer" way of saying "A man wants to marry a virgin and fuck a whore" in telling women not to be whores because men won't respect them.

Also, I truly believe that if a man doesn't respect the women on camsites he CHOOSE to go to, he can't respect himself.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

So... from this we can conclude that whatever a model's relationship status happens to be at any given time, it's always a safe bet that she's not going to let you stick your willy in her. Therefore, we can also conclude that a model's relationship status is all but completely irrelevant. That's like, basic math, yeah?

Does anyone else find the word "willy" really amusing? The word "willy" always makes me think of them whilst floppy, and you know, flapping about like a silly willy! the idea of someone trying to put a floppy willy inside a woman just gives me the giggles!

What about hand jobs? Those are still possible right?

Mmmm hand jobs.... well I guess technically then the girls hands would be wrapped around your willy, so your willy would be in her hand, so technically "in" her

Also, I truly believe that if a man doesn't respect the women on camsites he CHOOSE to go to, he can't respect himself.

God I believe this so much. This is something I've believed about so many things similar even before I started camming. I think it's the same with other things, like not respecting an ex. Unless that ex at the end say beat the shit into you/raped you/did something really horrible I think if you don't respect them then if you spent all that time with someone you don't respect, then you have no respect for yourself. We can make bad decisions and go the wrong way, but I believe the choices in life deserve respect. If someone has chosen to go to a camgirl, or a prostitute in their free time, they don't have to necessarily respect them as respect should be earned to a point, but they should not disrespect them. If respect doesn't grow with knowledge and experience, wtf are they doing there?

 

[mynameisbob84]

What about hand jobs? Those are still possible right?

I hope so

 

[Anonymous]

Does anyone else find the word "willy" really amusing?

Every time I see/hear the word 'willy', I think of that kids movie Free Willy, and then I think of that Michael Jackson song "Will You Be There" which is on the soundtrack. LOL.

Free your willy!

 

[wjr3]

Just want to clarify, I would never tell a member how to spend his/her tokens. The point I was trying to make was simply, a model's relationship status is irrelevant.

Wow, did this thread go off in a direction I didn't anticipate!

Sorry, Savannah. I didn't mean to get you in the middle of anything here.

The personal relationship status of the models I've met was always irrelevant to me, even when they shared details with me. Yet in all cases I wished for them a happy and satisfying relationship status. A positive and supportive relationship, if they were involved. Finding someone special, if they were looking. Enjoying their social time with friends and family, if they weren't looking.

The least we can do is treat models properly when they are doing their job on cam, plus recognize them as fellow human beings when they are away from the camera even if we have no direct connection to that part of their life. That's all I was trying to say in my initial post.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

I hope models don't think all members are simps or looking for relationships. A guy can be in a perfectly healthy relationship and still want to go to mfc. I don't care about a models relationship status at all. A models real life relationships have no effect on her ability to be sexy, entertaining, and fun to watch on cam. I didn't really understand at first why guys in the lounge were shittin on the models that fucked Ron Jeremy. I can understand not wanting to associate with that type of person in real life but why do these dudes even care about what the models do off cam. You can still respect and find enjoyment from models that make choices off cam you might not agree with. The lounges are a great resource but man it's tough to read some of the shit there. Always try to hide all chat right away now while thinking of some old dudes quote "Battle not with monsters, lest ye become a monster, and if you gaze into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you".

 

[DahliaDee]

Going back to the original poster - THANK YOU. If all the guys who browsed our rooms were more like you, camsites would be much more fun.