Regarding members who get "too attached."

[camiliasilf]

i have had another long term loyal tell me that he needed a break from my room because of his unrealstic expectations with me and fantasy or something and he needed to clear his head for a while... what is it i do to make people like this

 

[LadyLuna]

I've had guys tell me that after a week O.O

Luckily, it hasn't yet been any big tippers. Mostly lost those when summer hit / economy crashed / I got a job off cam

x.x

 

[camiliasilf]

this one sent me toys and tips and i just loved his convo in my room...

but i have three thus far that i truly believe them when they say they love me... none of which i have led on... one still there. the one that just left never said it but how he left makes me wonder... and a third who avoided it for a long time then finally came out and said it (and he doesnt even do shows he just talks in a pm with me or trys torial up the room)

and i do realize that all camgirls must experience this... but it makes me wonder if i am doing something wrong that drives them to the point of having to leave

 

[DivSavel]

Re: A Question for the Ladies of the Cam

It's really bothersome if members "fall in love" with me. I'm down for being friends n all, but once they cross that line it totally freaks me out. I have one member who continues to tell me he's looking for work in my state. He actually suggested that he could move in with me weeks after we met. I told him this behavior does -NOT- fly with me. He lays off the 'meeting' talk for a little while, but the moment I'm nice to him he begins talking about how he's looking for work near me. Delusional?

This is why I don't give away my state.
I am incredibly afraid of such things. I've been stalked on both WoW and AO by guys who wanted a gamer girlfriend. Giving out too much information to people who may or may not choose to act like the aforementioned stalkers... Not comforting.

 

[Jebbaz]

I just dont get it.... I mean I love all my favorite models to death but you couldn't pay me enough to harass them in real life, thats just insane behavior.

 

[Keithy]

Man, I wish I had someone I could stalk
I mean, besides Amber that is.