Private Shows

[Rose]

As a member, it doesn't bother me as long as she's not purposefully getting naked slowly to waste time.

As a model, I make a point to strip and tease as I say hello and ask what exactly they want if it's not already established. I don't get completely naked until about 2 minutes into the show but I make sure that the member likes what they see and is enjoying the strip and build up. I find it helps me get ready for playtime and helps me feel sexier too.

 

[AlexLady]

It isn't exactly a myth.

"Nudity is customary in private shows so if the model does not feel comfortable with nudity she is required to tell the member within the first minute of the show."



It's one thing if I'm taking you private for shits and giggles, but if you have comfort issues and need three minutes to take off your bra, I'm going to find a model who is more suited for my needs and call you a scammer if you lured me into thinking you actually had self confidence.



I think on MFC the whole teasing/talking routine is more for public chat to get the private in the first place.

 

[BullFrogBlues]

I agree with Alex.

What happens in a private is worked out prior to it via PM. If the member wants a chat and strip, all the well, but it has to be decided before the actual private.

I have been in a private gone wrong where a model after agreeing in PM what was to happen spent about 3 minutes chatting and not moving at all before I ended the private. Asked MFC for a refund and got 1 minute back and was scolded by adminkatie for not ending the private after 1 minute. This model missed out on a potential 1k tokens and much more in the future for her obvious delaying tactics. BTW I have seen her in my private gallery several times since and she has never moved from her free chat position and pose, I am guessing she never "gets down to it" and lives off the 200 token privates gathered from unsuspecting members before they quit.

Anyway I stopped doing privates ages ago and just spend my tokens in free chat or groups. Privates lost their appeal after the first few months. I am one of those members who don't look at MFC for sexual release, but more social interaction.

 

[Bocefish]

Just for general info purposes... the MFC rules did at one time state that models had to get naked within the first minute. That changed when there was a bunch of non nude models making a stink.

 

[AlexLady]

Yep, but if you're not going to get naked the first minute, you should say so within that minute. Otherwise I'll leave and rate you one star for trying to manipulate me for the sake of tokens. Sure, 60 isn't much to some people; but no one likes to be deceived.

If 60 isn't much to you, you should still knowledge it might be a lot to your audience.




It's one thing if you say "I won't go private unless you have at least 600 tokens for the show," or if you say "I won't get naked until 300 tokens," but not saying anything and fidgeting with your bra just to squeeze as many tokens out of me as possible is just wrong. The same thing gave Shyteen a bad name for a reason

 

[AlexLady]

Waiting for them to respond? What? Their hands are on their dick, or covered with lube.


You can easily decline privates if you need 30 seconds to ask what they're in the mood for, and once you know, have him redo the private request.

 

[AlexLady]

Ah ok. Then the following doesn't apply to you but to the poll;


Most privates are for sexual reasons, unless decided on before hand. The difference between a token whore and a girl who asks for tokens, is one is devious, fueled with greed, and doesn't deliver... the other is the opposite.

Any model who doesn't get naked, or doesn't say she'll get naked within the first minute comes accost as a token-whore-bitch who's doing everything she can to squeeze tokens out of someone. That's why it's an issue.




Plus, if I went to MFC and said "She didn't get naked after a minute so I ended the private and want a refund," they'll refund me. The rule may not be written that way, but it's enforced that way.



Also, just so you know CammiStar; until the whole post about your privates and how you like to run them, the "you" was in reference to whoever I'd take private and wouldn't get naked in the first minute. Sorry if you took it as an attack.

 

[AlexLady]

Yeah, I know it can take more than 60 seconds to get a toy in you without hurting yourself, but it doesn't take 60 seconds to get naked. Taking longer than that comes accost as "squeezing" even if it's not intended that way.



In the end, we all love models with personality who like to chat; but no model who cares about her ratings would assume he took her private for that. Almost all guys will talk about that prior to taking her private.



And haha, yeah; I think we all are automatically defensive here since it's such an aggressive environment most of the time.

 

[AlexLady]

Oh yeah; if you both came then it's a success. I'm saying if you had to end the private after a minute because she was deceptive by not getting naked (toys of course, would have came later,) it's wise to rate her one star to warn others.

 

[Deathdoll]

I get a lot of people who don't say anything thing to me at all and take me pvt. It bothers me because well it's obviously rude, but I'll so take that private because I am not in the position to say no to even a 1 token private.

If that happens I try to ask, some times they wont say anything so I'll just start getting naked, some times with that they leave right after I get my panties off.

I had one amazing reg that took me pvt for 3000 tokens a while back and he just wanted to chat. So nice. :x

 

[PlayboyMegan]

I'm usually naked from public chat already. But I like to suck on my finger for about 30sec-1min before hand sometimes. Then I start slowly playing with myself, then faster.
I once started getting right to it, when the guy asked me to stop and tease him first. He said that was his favorite part. So now I just ask right when they get in the room, "Hey babe, do you have anything special you'd like to see?" That way I know. If I do have clothes on, I start stripping while they answer, so I'm not just sitting there and waiting. If I'm naked, I just gentle feel my body and move it all sexy while he answers.
I prefer a little tease. It's not to get more money, it's really not. It's because it makes me feel sexy and confident before I start masturbating.

 

[nzhere]

I made an agreement with a model to take her pvt and stated that I didn't have all that many tokens so could she please get undressed and get on with it once the pvt got started. She did agree to this..

I gave her fair chance but after some 3 minutes of watching her pretend to untie her bra which just for some reason was tied in the most rediculous bow knott. I closed it

:angry4:

scammed

Got no response from MFC for my request for token refund even with pm chat archive where she made the agreement.

200 wasted tokens..

Mind you she missed out on 1300 more :lol:

 

[Toriharrisonx]

I made an agreement with a model to take her pvt and stated that I didn't have all that many tokens so could she please get undressed and get on with it once the pvt got started. She did agree to this..

I gave her fair chance but after some 3 minutes of watching her pretend to untie her bra which just for some reason was tied in the most rediculous bow knott. I closed it

:angry4:

scammed

Got no response from MFC for my request for token refund even with pm chat archive where she made the agreement.

200 wasted tokens..

Mind you she missed out on 1300 more :lol:

lol if i had 1500 tks why the hell did u expect her to be naked b4? hmmmmmmmmmmmm

 

[AlexLady]

^ A perfect example of why members hide their token count.

 

[alexa7]

My personality is more sensual and caring not just in your face sex show. When I am in private I always greet the member, thank them for stealing me away, and ask them what they would love to see me do for them. During the time I am undressing and teasing. Privates for me are different for me on mfc than any other site since mfc involves alot more interaction and connection. I don't really pay too much attention to the token counter because my focus needs to be on the person. Although I do get right down to business because I am showing you parts of me that were not seen out in public chat, I will not accept commands as soon as you enter the room. When I say hello do not reply with "naked". I will take it upon myself to exit the private. My private time is full on sexytime, being commanded does not make me feel sexy it makes me feel degraded.

Yes there are time waster models, just like there are time waster members. We are cautious of being scammed just like you guys are. you have to realize what its like for us to go to private get undressed all fast to have you gone after 20 tokens. There is a fine line, and guys its up to you to know if a girl is wasting your time.

 

[GemmaMarie]

I am usually naked within the first minute... If I wasn't already naked I go straight to teasing, & getting to it.

But I also NEVER go to private anymore without chatting with the member before hand and knowing what he wants. I was tired of getting taken private by people who then demand something I didn't do, they'd get angry and leave, it was a waste of their tokens, & killed my room buzz. Lose/Lose for both of us. OR the guys who'd go for 20 secs to get me naked, & leave. So I just decided it was best to always chat with them & know what they want before we go. It helps, IMO.

 

[BettyBallistic]

I'm glad that I ran across this thread. I'm still not entirely sure what the standard protocol for how privates are supposed to go down is, so it's nice to hear what members like and what other girls do. When I first started, I would get pulled into private and (probably awkwardly) take all my clothes off and get into it right away for fear of losing the private because I'm screwing around. I actually had a guy tell me to slow down and relax a little once. I still don't like to waste my guys' time and tokens, but now I do like to ask them if they have any requests and not just pull my panties off and jam a toy in there in a rush. I do agree with Alex that much of the talking and teasing happens in public, so there's no reason to prolong it to squeeze tokens out of the guys. If they enjoy you and what you're doing for them, they will spend the tokens on their own.

 

[Wilfy84]

Naked in a minute! :snooty: As a man who likes to take things a bit slower and build it up I'm actually disappointed when I go to private and girls immediately rip off their clothes! A sexy striptease is much more fun in my eyes and it leaves a lot more to the imagination :drool:

 

[LaceyRoyce]

In my experience as a model that caters to a number of fetishes ...

Everyone wants something different.

I had a 3800 token private last night just to chat/tease.

I have a guy who wants my ass PRELUBED before we start *rolls eyes*

I often have to get certain items (heels/outfits/toys/spankers/clamps/gags whatever) that I just cannot store EVERYTHING in one place.

So i do not ever take a private without discussing it first. I turn it down if they request, and hit PM and send them my standard line:

"Hi! I'd love to go private with you right now but I wanted to check a few things first! People all want different types of shows in private - what would you like to see from me? I also just wanted to make sure that you're willin to spend 200 tokens on this private"

I'll get replies that run the gambit
"um just enjoy yourself!" (ok in that case.. im gonna slowly strip and enjoy myself... cum.. etc)
"anal bb dp?" *grabs toys*
"do you PEE BB?" "no sorry but I can squirt sometimes!"
"Can you fuck your high heels?" - "yup let me get them!"
"I want you to dominate me" - "ok what do you like/dislike when a woman dominates you? What turns you on?"

These conversations usually don't take long. I type fast, but its usually a total of 2-6 lines of chat before I have a good idea of what they want. I clear up most misunderstandings this way.

The ONLY exception to the 'discuss first' rule is if its a regular guy who wants the same type of thing every time.

My 2c.

Members: I encourage you to communicate with the model to make the most out of your money! The fellow above me would simply need to say in a PM "i'd love if you teased me and went slow.... " and It would be done!

Models: I encourage you to communicate with your members! It helps them feel like you care about what they want!

I also know that some girls have a different image/crowd and that 'doing their own thing' is what they do. I'm not suggesting you all become clones of me. But I do think making it clear that thats what you do in private is important. Even if its something on your profile "In private I like to take my time.. tease and seduce... and I do my own thing and play the way I want to! I love to share this intimate time with you! Please have at least x tokens so we can make the most of our time together"

 

[Wilfy84]

Members: I encourage you to communicate with the model to make the most out of your money! The fellow above me would simply need to say in a PM "i'd love if you teased me and went slow.... " and It would be done!

I usually do, sometimes it's just programmed into them to take them off quickly - must be down to this 1 minute myth! But they can put them back on quick enough to start over again :-D

 

[Wilfy84]

I agree with the part above about the commands. Group shows are the worst for that I find.

I normally try to be a bit more subtle and create the scene for the model to follow instead of telling her exactly what to do. I find that she normally likes to then show me what she enjoys as well which I love as I'm certain she has a better idea at what makes her tick than us guys do!

 

[LadyLuna]

If a guy didn't tell me what he wanted before the private started, then I feel it's his fault if it takes the first minute to get that far.

My private usually goes like this:

30 seconds- verify that the member is actually viewing the private. If I don't get an answer from the member within 80 tokens, I close the private down. This is because I've had too many glitches in the past where the member couldn't see anything, and not always was it mfc's fault either. (once, the member's computer crashed right when the private started... but MFC didn't recognize until 2 mins into the private that he wasn't there)

30 seconds- start slowly stripping while I ask the member what he wants me to see.

No, I don't get naked within the first minute, unless he's real quick about the orders. Even then, I'll take that minute to get naked, because if I don't, I won't feel sexy and will be unable to perform.

 

[FrecklesXxX]

I agree with the part above about the commands. Group shows are the worst for that I find.

I normally try to be a bit more subtle and create the scene for the model to follow instead of telling her exactly what to do. I find that she normally likes to then show me what she enjoys as well which I love as I'm certain she has a better idea at what makes her tick than us guys do!

I concur; one of the sexiest parts of priv shows is seeing how each woman pleasures herself differently. On the model's end it is always nice to find out what a member likes beforehand so nobody is wasting their time as Lolli has already put so well, and I think collaboration is the best way to proceed with a private. Just like the intimacy and the giving/receiving of having sex IRL. Having said that, during Dom/sub shows I really like being bossed around and it is such a turn on when the member takes control

 

[DownundaDani]

As a member I prefer the model to be naked in the first minute, I'm in the pvt cos she enticed me, I don't need more enticement once I'm there.

As a model, I am naked and have asked if they want anything special within 10 to 20 seconds. I have always hated the token counter, and sometimes even rush guys out afterwards when they want to chat :shock:

I do a lot of teasing and half stripping in public chat, once in pvt I want to get to the action, I'm usually ready for masturbating at anytime while on cam.

All of this depends on prior conversations with the member of course.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

a lot of girls are answering as members.

I'm just curious - I use a member account to tip but never take girls private. How many of the models on here take models private? What is the motivation for you?
(Sexual gratifcation, companionship, to cheer a friend up/model whose having a bad day etc?)

 

[FrecklesXxX]

all of the above! :-D when i can afford it :crybaby:

 

[LadyLuna]

I've never taken a model private, though that's mostly been because I never have that many tokens. (Not willing to with the 200 token package, which is all I've ever been able to get before)

 

[Sia Green]

My personality is more sensual and caring not just in your face sex show. When I am in private I always greet the member, thank them for stealing me away, and ask them what they would love to see me do for them. During the time I am undressing and teasing. Privates for me are different for me on mfc than any other site since mfc involves alot more interaction and connection. I don't really pay too much attention to the token counter because my focus needs to be on the person. Although I do get right down to business because I am showing you parts of me that were not seen out in public chat, I will not accept commands as soon as you enter the room. When I say hello do not reply with "naked". I will take it upon myself to exit the private. My private time is full on sexytime, being commanded does not make me feel sexy it makes me feel degraded.

Yes there are time waster models, just like there are time waster members. We are cautious of being scammed just like you guys are. you have to realize what its like for us to go to private get undressed all fast to have you gone after 20 tokens. There is a fine line, and guys its up to you to know if a girl is wasting your time.

If I could hug you I would. This post 100% to infinity and beyond. Thank you Alexa.

 

[ComicOzzie]

What are these "private shows" of which you speak?

:lol:

 

[FrecklesXxX]

What are these "private shows" of which you speak?

:lol:

i think it has something to do with not being in the same room as 300+ guys all fapping at once. :romance-threesome: