From one member's perpesctive (that being me and solely based on my experiences and opinioin) this is how I view privates.
First of all, I RARELY take a model to private. But when I do, it is a model that I have spent quite a bit of time with in public chat, one that I have pm priveleges with (and yes I consider pm a privelege, not a right, no matter how much I've tipped) and one that I have a rapport with.
When the time comes for a private session, we both know what to expect. I know what she is and is not comfortable doing, she knows what my particular desires are.
I would NEVER try to go private with a model without getting to know her a little bit, much less my first time in the room.
On the flip side, and I'm sure most members have had simiar experiences, if I am in a room for the first time and the model is shilling for privates just because I had the decency to say hi, then I'm gone. Granted, this only happens with low ranking models with little room traffic, but you get the point.
First of all, I RARELY take a model to private. But when I do, it is a model that I have spent quite a bit of time with in public chat, one that I have pm priveleges with (and yes I consider pm a privelege, not a right, no matter how much I've tipped) and one that I have a rapport with.
When the time comes for a private session, we both know what to expect. I know what she is and is not comfortable doing, she knows what my particular desires are.
I would NEVER try to go private with a model without getting to know her a little bit, much less my first time in the room.
On the flip side, and I'm sure most members have had simiar experiences, if I am in a room for the first time and the model is shilling for privates just because I had the decency to say hi, then I'm gone. Granted, this only happens with low ranking models with little room traffic, but you get the point.