Prenup

[bob]

I don't think I'd be willing to sign one. My S/O should know that I am not greedy and would never take what's not mine. It's just not in my character and he should know that. I think planning for a divorce before you're even married does doom it.

you just got even sexier :whistle:

 

[Teagan]

Me and FH have discussed this and plan to write one up before we tie the knot. We both know neither one of us is greedy sons of bitches, but we know shit happens, people change, and situations can get ruthless. We aren't doing it to doom us, we're doing it cause we know what happens when people split.
His parents are divorced and his mom takes his dad to the cleaners every month. She's remarried. but he pays child support and his mom doesn't give one red cent to the kid. She keeps it and spends it on herself. So instead he has to take the kid to go get things like new clothes, etc. It's awful.
Also his ex wife is a horrible terrible person. Was she when they married?? Of course not. But she turned into that. She took family items, the dog, every thing he couldn't fit in a suitcase, and disappeared. She got rid of the dog, pawned his shit, used his credit every where she could, and just made his life terrible. She only just a few months ago let it be known where she was so a divorce could be followed through on. I guess she figured she got out of him all she could.
Cut to now and we're together and happy of course. Would i ever do that to anyone, never, but you better believe he wants to protect himself. He stated clearly it's not gonna be about money, but items we have we want to make sure it's known as ours before hand. Xbox his, computer mine, TV his, bed mine. We're doing it like this cause on paper i could claim well i bought the TV so it's mine. It was a gift though to him, but me putting it down on paper ensures to him I wont do that. I have no issues with a prenup. I think it's smart in certain situations.

 

[LadyLuna]

We're doing it like this cause on paper i could claim well i bought the TV so it's mine. It was a gift though to him,

This reminds me of a fight my roommate and I had over the ps2 when we were discussing if we broke up.

"You bought it, therefore, it's yours."
"I bought it for you, therefore, it's yours."
"But I can get another one so easy!"
"But all the games are yours anyway, and I never use it!"

:lol:

However, I'm thinking, I would want it written down, who gets what stuff. Cause, we either have that fight or the other one:

"I bought it, so it's mine!"
"But you gave it to me!"
"But you can get it so easy"
"But I'm the one who's using it!"

 

[southsamurai]

We're doing it like this cause on paper i could claim well i bought the TV so it's mine. It was a gift though to him,

This reminds me of a fight my roommate and I had over the ps2 when we were discussing if we broke up.

"You bought it, therefore, it's yours."
"I bought it for you, therefore, it's yours."
"But I can get another one so easy!"
"But all the games are yours anyway, and I never use it!"

:lol:

However, I'm thinking, I would want it written down, who gets what stuff. Cause, we either have that fight or the other one:

"I bought it, so it's mine!"
"But you gave it to me!"
"But you can get it so easy"
"But I'm the one who's using it!"

i once had a very similar argument with an ex... about a vibrator. ill let you imagine which of us was taking which side of the argument