POLL: Do you like long sessions?

[Tia_Rae]

I am speaking in private or exclusive, since I'm guessing most gold shows aren't very long. How do you handle doing a session that's over 20 minutes? I'm pretty new to Streamate. I've had a few times where the guy has stayed in private for longer than 20 minutes, wanting me to basically masturbate the entirety of it. My hand starts to cramp, and sometimes I start sweating from all the work, lol. I keep going because I know it's racking up the dollars, but sometimes I feel like leaving, even though I don't. After a long session I usually take a break too since I don't feel like going right back into it again after.

How do others handle it? Do you enjoy it or persevere through for the money?

 

[SaffronBurke]

I enjoy longer sessions. It's super easy for me to have multiple orgasms, and when I masturbate on my own time, it's often for an hour or longer, as I keep telling myself "just one more orgasm.... No, that was wimpy, one more GOOD orgasm...."

I'll take a long session over the guys who leave just as I'm about to cum any day! It takes me about three minutes to get to my first orgasm, if someone can't last that long, don't bother taking me private, just buy a video instead.

It probably helps that I'm a lazy masturbator - I grind a vibe into my clit, with my dildo just wedged against my g-spot and jiggled occasionally. I've experimented with lots of different vibrators to find one that's powerful enough for me as well as being ergonomic, so I'm usually pretty comfy while fapping away.

 

[Lorelei]

I'm on MFC so this is less of an issue for me, but I do occasionally do privates—and I don't really take them *unless* they're going to be somewhat long. Half an hour minimum. I'd say I average around an hour, and prefer two- or three-hour sessions. I once did a six hour private, haha. If I do a long physically-intensive private, I'll often take the rest of the night off.

As for getting tired, it's best to remind folks that you're only human. A good guy will let you do things your way. There doesn't need to be a choice between enjoying yourself and persevering for the money!

I'm pretty sure you'll get a lot more answers on this thread if you post in Models Only. Consider getting model status, info is here: https://www.ambercutie.com/forums/viewt ... =24&t=1696.

Good luck!

 

[Ambers Troll]

Good question to ask Tia_Rae. I am one of those members who always does over 20 minutes for a private session, and as I don't have a favourite I tend to drift around seeing many different models. Longer private sessions allow a model to be her best, take her time, and I assume for most members is done out of respect not to make it hard on you.

The masturbation part, the 'hard work' part, usually comes for most in about 7 minute groupings. Developing the mood to even start masturbation can take another 7 minutes if we want something good. I think it is unrealistic for any member to assume that the model can and will even get excited in any session, we can only hope she will enjoy our company.

Most of the extra time is to allow the model to calm down, often cool down a bit. Some models use up all of that in masturbation even after we are satisified. Make sure you are not denying yourself this part of the session, sometimes we will even add more during such sessions.

Onto the question itself. You can can be honest with the member about anything making you uncomfortable (i.e. Hand cramping). There is also some things you can do to break up too much intensity/ hard work, just be cautious of your timing with these, you must be respectful of where the member is at too.
Trust you member, most of us want to see you having fun. When things go unexpectedly we wont leave you, sometimes it can make the session memorable.

 

[Tristyn]

I love (and prefer!) longer privates. How I spend the time really depends on the type of session it is, and on the person I'm playing with. I do a lot of Femdom sessions, so I really like to build the play up as we go. If I'm doing a cumshow, I can still pace it however I want to -- teasing, multiple orgasms, dirty talk, whatever I/we're in the mood for! And sometimes it's nice just to chat, too. I enjoy the chance to be playful/laugh/joke or have aftercare at the end of a session.

 

[SandyPanz]

I like both longer sessions and quickies, but I prefer to know which end of the pool we're jumping in! I think it's more easily satisfying when the artist knows what the commissioner wants...however with some, exploring rabbit holes without a map is the desire and I find that stimulating as well.

 

[LaceyRoyce]

I agree its really helpful to know.

If it's a long session, i pace myself. I tease a lot to start etc.

 

[Tia_Rae]

Thanks guys, this has inspired me to enjoy long sessions as well I guess I just have to pace myself and also use comfortable toys! And it looks as though some customers are considerate about it as well.

 

[1stclassfantasy]

I recently started camming and have experienced this. The session lasted about 45 minutes. I had 3 orgasm and couldn't go on. The client was great though! He understood and let me do my own thing. I think setting a pace that works for you is important. It would be great if I knew the timing upfront. I've noticed I get a lot more quickies than longer sessions. So I've been going in to privates with that mindset.

 

[SoTxBob]

Speaking from the members side, I pretty much let the girl decide on the session time. If I'm with one of my long time girls and we are in a longer one, I will compare it to sex you might have at home on the weekend. When you start, you warm up and take care of business. After that, relax, have a drink, go pee and then chat for a bit. When you feel ready, we hit it again...
I've met a few girls that seem like race horses out of the chute. click into pvt and bam! fingers /toys a whirrin' in a blurr. they cum and its like, 'ok what now?' for 2 of them that have since left the site, it was almost impossible to get them to take their time. they didnt correlate the time in pvt is more $ than a semi quiet room chat aspect.