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No it didn't. Now you are both financially AND emotionally entangled in sex work. This is a very bad pace to be for a man with an admitted sex worker addiction, you didn't free yourself you ramped it up.
Actually I haven't spent much online. In the three months Ive been using these cam sites I have spent maybe a half of what I would spend on escorts and one night stands. And most was in the first month. The past 2 months I have not spent anything. I just talk to the one model on WhatsApp. Whatever this is, it is not healthy but it is better than escorts. At least I don't have to worry about having a woman with an adams apple showing up to a hotel. Its very awkward. I also don't have to worry about a cam model trying to steal numbers from my phone to blackmail me. I do need to stop whatever this is though. I know I have problems.
 
The surgery is possible, but the risk of complications are greater due to the pre-existing condition.
 
The great thing about being an adult is we get to make our own decisions. No one can make those decisions for us. People will always try to influence us or "save us" but as adults we decide in the end. If you are her friend you will give her advice, be there for her... But you cant force her to not get the surgery. If she feels that terrible about herself that she will choose a life threatening sugery to have a better self image then let her. You cant force people to love their bodies or see theirselves the way you do. Shes grown.. Let her make a grown decision. After a divorce people tend to be a little self destructive. Sometimes women need full on makeovers so they dont feel like they person they were before. You might not understand her mentality and need for the change but you cant force her to feel a different way.
 
The great thing about being an adult is we get to make our own decisions. No one can make those decisions for us. People will always try to influence us or "save us" but as adults we decide in the end. If you are her friend you will give her advice, be there for her... But you cant force her to not get the surgery. If she feels that terrible about herself that she will choose a life threatening sugery to have a better self image then let her. You cant force people to love their bodies or see theirselves the way you do. Shes grown.. Let her make a grown decision. After a divorce people tend to be a little self destructive. Sometimes women need full on makeovers so they dont feel like they person they were before. You might not understand her mentality and need for the change but you cant force her to feel a different way.
Thank you.
 
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Surgery with lupus can be done if she's well regulated, but that's up to her rheumatologist and physicians. Which I'm sure she's in constant contact with. I don't think she needs saving if she's in the hands of medical professionals.
The first plastic surgeon told her no, but the one abroad said he would do it. Her lupus is not in total control which is the problem. She is doing ok, but still taking lots of meds.
 
Yeah on this account.

Have the admin do and IP check. Im not lying, and I wouldn't embarrass myself on this site just for nothing. I really was looking for help. And I appreciate what I've been told. I know now, that there is nothing I can do. And I did take the first steps to try and get over it. I deleted my cam accounts. And I blocked her on whatsapp.
 
The first plastic surgeon told her no, but the one abroad said he would do it. Her lupus is not in total control which is the problem. She is doing ok, but still taking lots of meds.
Ah, abroad... yeah, I can see the worry. Since it's lupus she's probably on steroids, immunosuppressives, and/or anti-malarials. All of which can cause complications with anesthesia and healing (especially with the skin). Any good surgeon would say no if there are risks. I have been denied cosmetic surgery due to medical complications and it's hard to admit you have to wait/not do it. But what everyone else said is true, you can't control her. One thing you can do is offer support, not saying give her your blessings (not that she needs them), but I'm sure she is struggling with the decision herself. If she goes through with it and there are complications just be there for her. Right now the best you can do is try to educated her on the risks, but if she has already been denied by a surgeon chances are she already knows.
 
I was thinking the same.
A lot of white knight since 2-3 months. Hope there is not somebody who thinks that we're simply gullible
I was thinking the same.
A lot of white knight since 2-3 months. Hope there is not somebody who thinks that we're simply gullible
I very seriously doubt that. I cant imagine that someone would take the time to make multiple acounts and make up multiple "help im in love with a girl" threads. When you google "camgirl advice" amber cutie is one of the first websites to pop up. Sooo yea.
 
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I very seriously doubt that. I cant imagine that someone would take the time to make multiple acounts and make up multiple "help im in love with a girl" threads. When you google "camgirl advice" amber cutie is one of the first websites to pop up. Sooo yea.
Yes ACF is one of the first website but that's true that there is more "love with camgirl" around since 3 months.
I've been harassed 3 years ago after the person left town he tried to call me using a lot of fake account on Facebook, and calling me without reveal his phone number or using other people's phone.
This during one year until i've found a way to stop him.
I know somebody who was calling me without stop when i wasn't answering and was sending me a lot of messages asking me to answer he didn't care about wasting his time.
So generally i think that peoples with narcissic disorder, sociopath, or dealing with mental instability can have no limit
 
I deleted my cam accounts. And I blocked her on whatsapp.
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So generally i think that peoples with narcissic disorder, sociopath, or dealing with mental instability
We have definitely had our share of these sorts of people here at ACF, they become obsessed with getting around bans with multiple accounts to prove who knows what. Most times they slip up on one of the accounts and forget to change a detail and get caught, though. Sometimes it's fun to go all inspector gadget mode and figure 'em out. :D
 
Yes ther are plenty of sociopathic people that have nothing better to do than troll the internet. Sounds like an awfule lot of work to me. In this case it seems pointless. No one is being harrassed or stalked or bad mouthed. So what would be the point of creating a seperate account to gush about a cam girl? Creating an entire new persona and storyline with a whole new line of questions. Just seems pointless.
 

Well believe it or not, it really is my first time. I really appreciate all your help. Looking back at my post I do sound crazy, and Im sorry. I guess I needed this wake up call. Its just that I can't have a normal relationship, because of my job. Im always traveling to new job sites. 24 Days working and 6 days off if Im lucky. Ive tried in the past to have relationships, but they never work out because I can't be there. Now I know there is nothing I can do except move on. It was an interesting experience trying online chatting, but its too much drama. Maybe I just didn't meet the right models. I don't know why she gave me her WhatsApp or told me what she did, but whatever this relationship is it is not healthy. I really did block her, but well see how long that last. I used backpage again, and it was amazing. No emotional drama. Hopefully I just needed to get laid, and won't feel the need to unblock her. Thank you for your help. I actually enjoyed reading your post. You know they say, the person who knows how to laugh at himself will never cease to be amused. Btw I will probably try to check into rehab when I get the chance.
 
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Yes ther are plenty of sociopathic people that have nothing better to do than troll the internet. Sounds like an awfule lot of work to me. In this case it seems pointless. No one is being harrassed or stalked or bad mouthed. So what would be the point of creating a seperate account to gush about a cam girl? Creating an entire new persona and storyline with a whole new line of questions. Just seems pointless.
The goal of all of this? The need for attention.

But anyway people are innocent until we proof they are guilty.
 
The goal of all of this? The need for attention.

But anyway people are innocent until we proof they are guilty.
The goal of this was to try and get help. I was trying to get help for her, and you guys showed me I was the one who needed help. Its her life. She can get the surgery. I realized that I could never love her because to her Im just another tipper, and soon she will meet another.
 
The goal of this was to try and get help. I was trying to get help for her, and you guys showed me I was the one who needed help.
I wasn't talking about your post particularly.
I've no right to affirm you're a troll.
If you really needed help i'm glad you got it
 
I heard that each 5 token blast of an OhMyBod is so intense that it knocks 5 minutes off of a model's life expectancy. You might think it's cute to tip a wall of 5's while the model thrashes about and moans in melodramatic ecstasy. But it's not cute. It's murder.
 
Yes ther are plenty of sociopathic people that have nothing better to do than troll the internet. Sounds like an awfule lot of work to me. In this case it seems pointless. No one is being harrassed or stalked or bad mouthed. So what would be the point of creating a seperate account to gush about a cam girl? Creating an entire new persona and storyline with a whole new line of questions. Just seems pointless.
While I don't honestly think this is one of those situations, it has happened here multiple times in the past.
 
Well believe it or not, it really is my first time.
That's not the part I quoted. Nobody believes that we've convinced you to block her on whatsapp and delete your cam accounts.
 
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I was thinking the same.
A lot of white knight since 2-3 months. Hope there is not somebody who thinks that we're simply gullible
I just saw the other post you were talking about.
DP but didn't escort services on backpage get shut down?
No you just look in the Men seeking Women category. I was surprised too when I saw the censor, but it just moved. Any guys looking to try it, just be careful. Make sure they don't ask for money directly on the page. Also, a real escort's page would say that she will spend time with you (If she mentions sex, its a cop). Dont go to them ever, and don't call her directly to the hotel. Call them to a neutral location. Be careful if your going to try it, but I suggest you don't.
 
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That's not the part I quoted. Nobody believes that we've convinced you to block her on whatsapp and delete your cam accounts.
I did, because its so easy to make new accounts. Also, I haven't used the online account in some time. And I can always unblock her, I just hope that it doesn't come to that.
 
Yes ther are plenty of sociopathic people that have nothing better to do than troll the internet. Sounds like an awfule lot of work to me. In this case it seems pointless. No one is being harrassed or stalked or bad mouthed. So what would be the point of creating a seperate account to gush about a cam girl? Creating an entire new persona and storyline with a whole new line of questions. Just seems pointless.

It might seem pointless but some people get off on the attention, or the thought they are stirring up feelings in other people or whatever idk, but I'm never surprised anymore by the lengths people will go to over seemingly pointless things.


If I was wrong about you OP then I apologise its just the writing style in all these threads also feels exactly the same which is what made me think they could all be the same person.
 
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