orgasms

[pg240]

When you get seriously good at masturbating to orgasm, is it easier or more difficult to achieve orgasm with a partner?

 

[JerryBoBerry]

When you get seriously good at masturbating to orgasm, is it easier or more difficult to achieve orgasm with a partner?

My first thought after reading this was....Don't you know? :lol:

 

[pg240]

When you get seriously good at masturbating to orgasm, is it easier or more difficult to achieve orgasm with a partner?

My first thought after reading this was....Don't you know? :lol:

I know for me, and I suspect for others. But everyone is a bit different. And, of course, now I' m more than just a little bit embarrassed! Thanks for that!

 

[Gen]

I find it easier to achieve alone (I can do it much more quickly, I'm like The Flash!), but my orgasms are always better when a partner gives them to me.

 

[Jillybean]

I find it easier to achieve alone (I can do it much more quickly, I'm like The Flash!), but my orgasms are always better when a partner gives them to me.

Agreeing with Gen 100%!

 

[Reina Lynn]

I find it easier to achieve alone (I can do it much more quickly, I'm like The Flash!), but my orgasms are always better when a partner gives them to me.

Another camgirl in agreement with Gen.

Of course, I'm only with a partner (who is a good friend) once or twice a year. Otherwise, I'm all by my lonesome, so I don't have much experience with partner play. I can say that since I've started camming and having numerous orgasms a day, my sex drive has mega-increased, and I really look forward to having sex with someone other than myself.

 

[xSALTx]

I find it easier to achieve alone (I can do it much more quickly, I'm like The Flash!), but my orgasms are always better when a partner gives them to me.

Another camgirl in agreement with Gen.

Of course, I'm only with a partner (who is a good friend) once or twice a year. Otherwise, I'm all by my lonesome, so I don't have much experience with partner play. I can say that since I've started camming and having numerous orgasms a day, my sex drive has mega-increased, and I really look forward to having sex with someone other than myself.

Also agreed! I think it is because we know what we want, when we want and how we want it. With a partner, there may be miscommunication or they may want to implement there own ideas. Plus they are competing with my 15+ years of self manipulation... :lol:
I usually have to help the situation along with a partner anyhow. Unless they tease me within an inch of my life, then they can be the conductor of earth shattering, bell ringing-ly, epic orgasms. But for 80 percent of the time I am in charge of tolling the bell myself. Let freedom ring... :handgestures-salute:

 

[HotAndScottish]

I haven't had sex in almost a year and masturbate daily. I even have an fmachine now. Sex with a man will never be the same. I've always had difficulty orgasming with a partner so this won't be anything new, but I expect it'll be much much harder now.

 

[missmeowmixx]

I actually don't find that it makes a real difference for me. I can jizz mostly every time regardless of if I'm doing it on my own or with my huz. Easiest when I'm reallyreally alone though, as opposed to on cam or with him.

The only real difference is if it's someone other than Mr. Meow because then there's more of a mental block/nervousness or whatever, and they don't know me as well, then it's much harder.

I haven't found a real serious difference except that I like my vibrators a lot more than I used to, haha. Or rather, I never even owned one before I started camming.

 

[Jessi]

I was never able to climax for 18 years until I finally bought a vibrator. Now I can cum in a couple minutes, but I still can't do it myself. My current partner is the only person who has ever been able to get me off and it usually takes 20-40 minutes hahah. The orgasm is shorter and more intense, sometimes almost painfully so. But I LOVE using a vibrator during sex, its probably the greatest thing ever.

TL;DR my masturbatory habits have no affect on my sex life/pleasure with a partner.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

It's the same for me. I have always been able to have multiple orgasms in short periods of time. By myself, or with a partner.

 

[pg240]

It's the same for me. I have always been able to have multiple orgasms in short periods of time. By myself, or with a partner.

You're missed, Megan. I need to make a visit to Streamate!

 

[Rose]

It's like comparing apples to oranges for me. I can make myself orgasm solo in about a minute, but that doesn't make sex any easier/harder or more/less fun.

 

[KylieJacobs]

I definitely find it easier!

Usually when I can't have an orgasm, it's a mental thing. I'm thinking too much about other things, worried that I can't go off, worried I'm going to squirt and make a mess again, or I think I'm going to go off...then I mess it up.

So, when I have lots of orgasms from masturbating, I know that I can easily go off by myself, which makes it easier with a partner. If that makes any sense at all. haha

Oh, it also boosts my libido, which just makes me want to have more orgasms!

 

[VeeValencia]

I have to agree with Gen up there. I find that even though I can have an orgasm a lot faster by myself, the orgasms with a partner are much better. Another thing is that when I cum on my own I'm done for quite some time. It's like my body's way of saying "Alright Vee, now you have shit to do. Go do life." I can have multiple orgasms with a partner with no problem.

 

[SinSeraTea]

Meh. Orgasms. There was a time in my life I wondered if I should identify as asexual. Which is ironic.

I started camwork with a vibrator but found that I wore myself out a lot with it, since getting tired of that, I just use my fingers.

The best orgasms I have are during sex, with my fingers. I like my digits but I have to be turned on first, having a fellow human there to make the experience sexier helps immensely. That said, I don't generally let anyone else give me an orgasm.

Maybe a hitachi is in my future. I hear good things and I think the larger head would help me not wear out my poor pleasure button.

 

[Always_Tim]

Also, don't be afraid to use a vibrator while having sex with a partner. I know my sex life became a lot better when I introduced toys into my bedroom.

 

[Alexandra Cole]

Easier. Dramatically easier.

 

[pg240]

Easier. Dramatically easier.

Absolutely blown away by your sensational avatar!

 

[LadyLuna]

I'm going with "too many variables"...

Sometimes I find it really easy to cum on my own and nearly impossible to cum with partner.
Sometimes I find it nearly impossible to cum on my own and really easy to cum with partner.
Sometimes I find it really easy to cum no matter what and/or who is involved.
Sometimes I find it nearly impossible to cum no matter what and/or who is involved.

Variables which affect it-
*health
*menstrual cycle
*stress levels
*exhaustion/energy levels
*environmental factors (squeaky beds are WAY too distracting)
*mood
*current frequency of play

Any one of those factors could make it impossible to cum despite me being horny out of my mind, or make it really easy to cum despite me not feeling very horny at all. One thing is sure, frequent masturbation has allowed me to stick a finger in my pussy and tell within thirty seconds if I'll need a toy to get off, and if so, which one will work best, with an estimated 85% accuracy rate.

 

[RubyDimples]

Meh. Orgasms. There was a time in my life I wondered if I should identify as asexual. Which is ironic.

I started camwork with a vibrator but found that I wore myself out a lot with it, since getting tired of that, I just use my fingers.

The best orgasms I have are during sex, with my fingers. I like my digits but I have to be turned on first, having a fellow human there to make the experience sexier helps immensely. That said, I don't generally let anyone else give me an orgasm.

Maybe a hitachi is in my future. I hear good things and I think the larger head would help me not wear out my poor pleasure button.

I have been using the hitachi for sometime now and all I can say is WOW. But don't be surprised if you don't cum other ways.....be prepared for MULTIPLE ORGASMS...oh my goodness gracious. :whistle:

 

[Sevrin]

 

[PlayboyMegan]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

 

[SexySteph]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

Medically speaking though, the majority of females require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

So... Do not ignore the clit. lol

 

[JerryBoBerry]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

And one can achieve it through brushing her teeth. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: (seriously)


1:53 into the video. http://www.ted.com/talks/mary_roach_10_things_you_didn_t_know_about_orgasm.html

 

[PlayboyMegan]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

Medically speaking though, the majority of females require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

So... Do not ignore the clit. lol

Really? I thought it more 50/50

 

[SexySteph]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

Medically speaking though, the majority of females require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

So... Do not ignore the clit. lol

Really? I thought it more 50/50

According to my human sexuality class it's closer to about 90/10 (this is according to Kinsey&Johnson who did some of the most extensive sexual studies of any other group). That's not to say most women don't enjoy penetration, just that only about 10% can get off without any clitoral stimulation at all.

 

[PlayboyMegan]

All vaginas are different. Some girls have to have clit stimulation to orgasm, some don't.

Medically speaking though, the majority of females require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm.

So... Do not ignore the clit. lol

Really? I thought it more 50/50

According to my human sexuality class it's closer to about 90/10 (this is according to Kinsey&Johnson who did some of the most extensive sexual studies of any other group). That's not to say most women don't enjoy penetration, just that only about 10% can get off without any clitoral stimulation at all.

I had no idea I was so special!

 

[All_Mina]

That guy looks underage, which is weird/disturbing enough.

Anyway, porn should not be used as a "how-to" of what real sex is like with a real partner. Some things, maybe, but not overall.

 

[Alex_Birch_BBW]

I have always had a very awkward relationship with orgasms. I started masturbating when I was young, but I needed to be in the shower, with the showerhead. A partner never made me orgasm until someone gave me a hitachi to use. I came, and then quickly bought myself one.

Now, I only can orgasm with the hitachi. I get seriously pleasure through other means, but I just don't achieve orgasm, even though I can sometimes still climax.

(odd story- the only deviation to this was once someone was stroking a certain part of my back, and I orgasmed! totally unexpected)

I can orgasm multiple times once I get started, and it can almost be painful. On cam I need to be careful not to say "ouch"

TLDR: Even my masturbating to orgasm is tough, even though I'm getting much better thanks to camming. With a partner it is even more difficult.