orgasms

[Just Me]

That guy looks underage, which is weird/disturbing enough.

Anyway, porn should not be used as a "how-to" of what real sex is like with a real partner. Some things, maybe, but not overall.

I think this really needs to be emphasized more. I think a lot of cognitive dissonance has come about due to men and women's exposure, over exposure in many cases, to porn and trying to carry that over to real life relationships or being disappointed in their partners because they do not measure up to the porn ideal.

 

[jessie125]

I've been a dedicated masturbation enthusiast for as long as I can remember, but I do feel like a fap ninja now after becoming a cam model - I can cum anytime, anywhere, pretty much on command

I can only imagine that with a partner, I would also be even more orgasmic than ever before.

 

[LadyLuna]

That guy looks underage, which is weird/disturbing enough.

Anyway, porn should not be used as a "how-to" of what real sex is like with a real partner. Some things, maybe, but not overall.

I think this really needs to be emphasized more. I think a lot of cognitive dissonance has come about due to men and women's exposure, over exposure in many cases, to porn and trying to carry that over to real life relationships or being disappointed in their partners because they do not measure up to the porn ideal.

That video should be required for everyone. EVERYONE.

 

[PinkiePixi]

Orgasms for me are mostly a mental thing. Solo - sometimes I can get off within a couple of minutes, sometimes it takes closer to 15. Sometimes I can cum a bajillion times, sometimes even after ages with my hitachi I cant cum at all. With a partner Ive always had a much harder time getting off, because it comes down to being relaxed, comfortable, and shutting off the endless chatter in my mind - and thats more difficult for me when Im with someone. If I do manage to cum with a partner (Ive only probably managed that a maximum of a couple dozen times ever) it almost always requires me being incredibly turned on already, and then at least 20-40 minutes of attention. Camming has slightly improved my odds though because its greatly improved my confidence, but its still not an easy task for a partner to complete. When they do, the orgasms are much stronger and the after effects tend to linger longer than when Im solo.

Its rare and difficult for me to get off from just penetration, but its faaaaaaaaaar more likely when Im solo. Same with squirting, no partner has ever been able to make me do it. No matter what though, it always feels good. Even if I cant cum, or squirt, or relax completely, its still enjoyable.

 

[Angel_evilone]

Orgasms come very easy for me, I can have one just thinking about something that turns me on, By kissing my body, Touching me in different ways, or just by talking to me. Of course I have my best orgasms with my hubby in person but sometime I really need more then just hitting my good spots to really feel satisfied. I need to passion and touch to really please me.