Obsessed tippers&friendly weirdos

[AudriTwo]

Dafuq is the OP complaining about?

1. Decent/big tippers that get obsessed with model.
You hate customers who like you and tip you?

2. Creepy weirdos that join cam-sites for "making new friends" or "just chatting".
Ignore or block them?

1. Just because a person tips you large amounts, doesn't give them a free pass to be inappropriate. At some point a cammodel deals with this type of member. And yes, most of us hate this because it's awkward.

2. Op is complaining how it's annoying people join paysites to just hang out and no intention on spending.

 

[Pro-Brono]

Dafuq is the OP complaining about?

1. Decent/big tippers that get obsessed with model.
You hate customers who like you and tip you?

2. Creepy weirdos that join cam-sites for "making new friends" or "just chatting".
Ignore or block them?

She has The Curse of Osh Kosh. Notice how her extreme lack of self awareness is matched only by her resentment and bitterness. Classic Kosh. All too common in the life of some camgirls. Notice how she tries to speak for the crowd and the deception of trying to be helpful. Textbook Kosh. Absolutely awesome to see The Industry and The Queen trying to cure her from the dreaded curse before it can infect others. Notice how they choose to speak for themselves? Confidence from believing in what they say. While never infected I'm sure both have seen countless peers with a bad case of The Kosh.

 

[DJ_Pioneer]

She has The Curse of Osh Kosh. Notice how her extreme lack of self awareness is matched only by her resentment and bitterness. Classic Kosh. All too common in the life of some camgirls. Notice how she tries to speak for the crowd and the deception of trying to be helpful. Textbook Kosh. Absolutely awesome to see The Industry and The Queen trying to cure her from the dreaded curse before it can infect others. Notice how they choose to speak for themselves? Confidence from believing in what they say. While never infected I'm sure both have seen countless peers with a bad case of The Kosh.

What a load of tosh.

 

[Emberblaze]

*sniffs air*

 

[AudriTwo]

She has The Curse of Osh Kosh. Notice how her extreme lack of self awareness is matched only by her resentment and bitterness. Classic Kosh. All too common in the life of some camgirls. Notice how she tries to speak for the crowd and the deception of trying to be helpful. Textbook Kosh. Absolutely awesome to see The Industry and The Queen trying to cure her from the dreaded curse before it can infect others. Notice how they choose to speak for themselves? Confidence from believing in what they say. While never infected I'm sure both have seen countless peers with a bad case of The Kosh.

Osh Kosh B'Gosh

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Hey I don't know about all that. Barring a few outlier jabs, the majority of the replies here have been perfectly civil. Keep it that way, shall we?

 

[ViviDoll]

there are some guys who thinks that i am their irl girlfriend just because i am nice and polite with them... and write me non stop on snapchat.. i delete them ban their accounts then they go up with new accounts. huh

 

[SaffronBurke]

She has The Curse of Osh Kosh. Notice how her extreme lack of self awareness is matched only by her resentment and bitterness. Classic Kosh. All too common in the life of some camgirls. Notice how she tries to speak for the crowd and the deception of trying to be helpful. Textbook Kosh. Absolutely awesome to see The Industry and The Queen trying to cure her from the dreaded curse before it can infect others. Notice how they choose to speak for themselves? Confidence from believing in what they say. While never infected I'm sure both have seen countless peers with a bad case of The Kosh.

I'm so lost. What does a model's attitude on cam have to do with children's overalls?

 

[Protocosmo]

To members: What do you think? What's the perfect combination of erotic&funny&non-nude stuff in percentage (approximately) for you so you keep interested in a model?

I've had a kind of strange time of it. Fairly early in my time visiting MFC, I became a regular visitor to two different models who both were at the very end of their "erotic" carriers. So, I became hooked to their chat just as they switched to being non-nude and almost completely non-erotic. I'd spend my cam budget in those rooms primarily because, well, I liked visiting them and tipping is how you keep that going. It seriously made me wonder what I was doing on MFC any more. But I stuck with them because I really did enjoy being in their online company.
Personally, I think my ideal would be a primarily non-erotic/nude chat with rare but special public shows and the sexy goodness mostly being done in privates, groups or club shows. This is just for me but the rarity or exclusiveness is more likely to keep me wanting more.

 

[Protocosmo]

Any experienced model won't even let this shit start, let alone allow it to carry on.

I know someone who initiated an off cam relationship with me which was not something I expected or wanted to happen but was still welcome. Years later, it's still ongoing but there have been times where the friend/customer and friend/provider relationship has gotten uncomfortably muddled.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

I know someone who initiated an off cam relationship with me which was not something I expected or wanted to happen but was still welcome. Years later, it's still ongoing but there have been times where the friend/customer and friend/provider relationship has gotten uncomfortably muddled.

Right, anyway the point of my reply was that any experienced model can tell if a member is specifically befriending them to try to get free "stuff" (even just attention) out of it. So that doesn't really sound like the same thing. Know what I mean?

 

[Protocosmo]

Right, anyway the point of my reply was that any experienced model can tell if a member is specifically befriending them to try to get free "stuff" (even just attention) out of it. So that doesn't really sound like the same thing. Know what I mean?

Yeah, I got ya. Though it was mostly me thinking if it's really the best idea for either side.

 

[THE MOLLIE MARIE]

Yeah, I got ya. Though it was mostly me thinking if it's really the best idea for either side.

Got it! Yeah I'm inclined to think that it's not, for me anyway. I like to keep work life and personal life pretty separate though.

 

[CraftyCate]

But it's still my job. If I wanted to find new friends, I'd join another site, not a cam-site. Cam-sites are based on financial "support". I thought it was quite clear. But not for him, I guess.
I bet, he thought something like, "You're my friend now so there's no need for me to pay anymore".

As a new model I feel like I've been putting a lot of effort into my regulars who like me for more than erotic content since they are the ones keeping me afloat right now. But I am just starting to experience this aspect of them thinking it is more than a business relationship. What are some good ways to let regulars know that in the end, this is strictly a business relationship.

 

[AudriTwo]

As a new model I feel like I've been putting a lot of effort into my regulars who like me for more than erotic content since they are the ones keeping me afloat right now. But I am just starting to experience this aspect of them thinking it is more than a business relationship. What are some good ways to let regulars know that in the end, this is strictly a business relationship.

You are gonna learn that regulars come and go. Even though it's good to cater to your regular audience but you also want to focus on customer conversion at the sametime. To keep those relationships lasting it's best to have a clear boundaries and stick to them. If you don't want any lines to be blurred, don't allow it. You can't stop someone from catching feels for you, but it won't really get weird and push for nonbusiness relationships.

 

[Astrid_squirts420]

there are some guys who thinks that i am their irl girlfriend just because i am nice and polite with them... and write me non stop on snapchat.. i delete them ban their accounts then they go up with new accounts. huh

This has been my experience also. Only once so far, though. It was sad bc I enjoyed him at first and he was a great tipper and even mod for a few shows. But he became OBSESSED after a few weeks and I had to end it all together.

 

[JigglesJane]

This has been my experience also. Only once so far, though. It was sad bc I enjoyed him at first and he was a great tipper and even mod for a few shows. But he became OBSESSED after a few weeks and I had to end it all together.

I have had to distance myself from regulars like this. Which really sucks, because they are cool before they start acting like obsessive boyfriends. Can't have a private show without these guys getting butthurt. Can't get attention from other members without these guys deciding you've replaced them. They try to play it off as a joke, but are they really joking? Because it's not funny the first time, the seventh time, the hundredth time. It's annoying and the only response to that is no response, trust me. Eventually, they stop tipping you.

The good regulars will be excited for you to get that money and show off and have fun. They'll never get shitty with you and act pathetic if you give someone else your time. Often they will send you tips while you're in another private show, and take you to a private show the very next time they see you. The good regulars understand the boundaries of a friendly transactional relationship, and will keep within those lines.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

I have had to distance myself from regulars like this. Which really sucks, because they are cool before they start acting like obsessive boyfriends. Can't have a private show without these guys getting butthurt. Can't get attention from other members without these guys deciding you've replaced them. They try to play it off as a joke, but are they really joking? Because it's not funny the first time, the seventh time, the hundredth time. It's annoying and the only response to that is no response, trust me. Eventually, they stop tipping you.

The good regulars will be excited for you to get that money and show off and have fun. They'll never get shitty with you and act pathetic if you give someone else your time. Often they will send you tips while you're in another private show, and take you to a private show the very next time they see you. The good regulars understand the boundaries of a friendly transactional relationship, and will keep within those lines.

As a member, it's pretty sad to see people act that way and become resentful towards the model. I agree with your last paragraph, mostly. I'm one who won't tip during a model's private with someone else. Reason for it is that I look at it as their time together, and I want her to focus on the private. Not for her to get distracted, or feel like she needs to thank me during it. Instead, I'll do a "Welcome back" tip. I've really cut back on my TPvt times as well for reasons posted elsewhere. Instead, I'm happy to tip in the chat room. Though, that will vary as to if I tip publicly visible, or ninja.

But, agreed on knowing the boundaries of such a relationship is important for both model and member.

 

[Pro-Brono]

Hey I don't know about all that. Barring a few outlier jabs, the majority of the replies here have been perfectly civil. Keep it that way, shall we?

I felt that I sugar coated it just perfectly for even the most sensitive here. Didn't even throw a feint.

there are some guys who thinks that i am their irl girlfriend just because i am nice and polite with them... and write me non stop on snapchat.. i delete them ban their accounts then they go up with new accounts. huh

My congratulations! You have successfully arrived at The Internet. You may notice all kinds of wacky people pretending to be things that they clearly are not.

 

[Emberblaze]

*sniffs air*

 

[Mfcalana]

Your post reminded me of some creep I had all over me not so long ago...Problem is he came across as the number 1 type but didn't tip. It started with "Im not here for the sex", "youre so different than the other models"
Then it turned into something else a few days later when he saw I wasn't biting as much as he wished I had. In the same conversation, he told me he wants me to see him like a friend, like an older brother almost. 15 minutes later he was telling me how he would just love to hold me against a wall and do things to me.
Clumsy or seeking for someone to work with his incest fetish?

There's good people that are genuinely also just wanting to chat. I have some like that. It's when the needy and poor me poor me comments start coming out that its a red flag, but not everyone who starts with big tips for nothing in return or say they are not here for sex turns like that. You really need to give a chance to everyone and know the red flags.

I think specific types of people will attract those people more than others too. If I do attract those it wont last long. within a couple days they will know that shit doesn't work with me. Im very direct and probably loose business over it. I think some models are overly careful because they are scared to miss an opportunity and are not direct enough, which makes the losers think they can keep going.

 

[Astrid_squirts420]

I have had to distance myself from regulars like this. Which really sucks, because they are cool before they start acting like obsessive boyfriends. Can't have a private show without these guys getting butthurt. Can't get attention from other members without these guys deciding you've replaced them. They try to play it off as a joke, but are they really joking? Because it's not funny the first time, the seventh time, the hundredth time. It's annoying and the only response to that is no response, trust me. Eventually, they stop tipping you.

The good regulars will be excited for you to get that money and show off and have fun. They'll never get shitty with you and act pathetic if you give someone else your time. Often they will send you tips while you're in another private show, and take you to a private show the very next time they see you. The good regulars understand the boundaries of a friendly transactional relationship, and will keep within those lines.

Yes!! Just like you described.
At first it was fine but eventually he started getting so jealous. If someone else was tipping and I would be flirting he would have to jump in and "tip over them" he could not stand it if he wasnt top tipper or if I went private with someone else. Really drives people out of the room when they see me having to focus so much attention on one person and that they basically control the room.
I honestly had to tell him a few times to back it off or slow down tipping ro give other people a chance to jump in and for me to build a following outside of just him!
After a few weeks he just messaged me so much on snap and started being so controlling in the shows and really even trying to manipulate me into feeling bad for him. I tried to discuss it with him nicely but he just got all crazy and depressed and even threatened to hurt himself.
I am way to empathatic and I know I probably led him on, but wtf it's a damn porn site and my JOB is to flirt and play into his fantasy. Idk it is hard to find the balance and not feel bad for him. But honestly he was ruining it for me.

 

[Deleted member 37064]

At first it was fine but eventually he started getting so jealous. If someone else was tipping and I would be flirting he would have to jump in and "tip over them" he could not stand it if he wasnt top tipper or if I went private with someone else. Really drives people out of the room when they see me having to focus so much attention on one person and that they basically control the room.

I had another member do this with a model we're both regulars in. He was getting pissy when I'd tip more than him, and then he'd get flippant with the model because she would flirt with me and then turn around and be super sweet to her again once she showed him some attention. He also got really mad once I out tipped him on her MFC Share goal, and made a few comments in the room about it. Reminds me of someone with very serious control issues, and who's most likely violent. Just a bad situation overall.

One of the many reasons why I've decided to silent ninja tip models more frequently now. I'll still openly tip on occasion so it's seen I'm tipping, as well as try and get a few others to follow suit. But, I've found it's easier to just do my silent ninja tips (except for share, can't silent tip even though can hide from the room) and avoids many problems.

 

[Mfcalana]

Yes!! Just like you described.
At first it was fine but eventually he started getting so jealous. If someone else was tipping and I would be flirting he would have to jump in and "tip over them" he could not stand it if he wasnt top tipper or if I went private with someone else. Really drives people out of the room when they see me having to focus so much attention on one person and that they basically control the room.
I honestly had to tell him a few times to back it off or slow down tipping ro give other people a chance to jump in and for me to build a following outside of just him!
After a few weeks he just messaged me so much on snap and started being so controlling in the shows and really even trying to manipulate me into feeling bad for him. I tried to discuss it with him nicely but he just got all crazy and depressed and even threatened to hurt himself.
I am way to empathatic and I know I probably led him on, but wtf it's a damn porn site and my JOB is to flirt and play into his fantasy. Idk it is hard to find the balance and not feel bad for him. But honestly he was ruining it for me.

If someone on MFC would threatened to hurt themselves cause of me I would so tell them to get fucked. I actually did once already. I know I sound mean and would never be like that if someone told me they wanted to hurt themselves cause something in their lives is not going well. I have been there for people more times than I can count, but because of me? Especially if there was never any promises made from your part of fulfilling whatever else it is he wants. I have no pity for people using suicide to manipulate. You try to make me feel guilty cause I don’t want to be with you? Yeah nah get out of my life and if you wanna come back the price will be 4x for you, just to make sure you clearly remember this is my job.

 

[Mfcalana]

I had another member do this with a model we're both regulars in. He was getting pissy when I'd tip more than him, and then he'd get flippant with the model because she would flirt with me and then turn around and be super sweet to her again once she showed him some attention. He also got really mad once I out tipped him on her MFC Share goal, and made a few comments in the room about it. Reminds me of someone with very serious control issues, and who's most likely violent. Just a bad situation overall.

One of the many reasons why I've decided to silent ninja tip models more frequently now. I'll still openly tip on occasion so it's seen I'm tipping, as well as try and get a few others to follow suit. But, I've found it's easier to just do my silent ninja tips (except for share, can't silent tip even though can hide from the room) and avoids many problems.

I wonder if it’s the guy I’m thinking of lol. He was doing it to another model and telling me the story as if he wasn’t guilty of anything and didn’t understand why she told him not to come back in her public room. I told him he was a dick for trying to ruin her business. He had a rant about people in my room tipping many single token tips and I just got so mad at him! Money is money why would you discourage people from tipping, regardless of the amount?

 

[Deleted member 37064]

I wonder if it’s the guy I’m thinking of lol. He was doing it to another model and telling me the story as if he wasn’t guilty of anything and didn’t understand why she told him not to come back in her public room. I told him he was a dick for trying to ruin her business. He had a rant about people in my room tipping many single token tips and I just got so mad at him! Money is money why would you discourage people from tipping, regardless of the amount?

I'm not sure if it would be the same person. Seems like there's so many out there like that. In a sense, I can see his point regarding one token tips if they flood the chat and drown out anything a model says. It's a little annoying to me. But, not enough to rant about it. I'm more happy that they're tipping! Same with privates, I've had a couple of models apologize to me that they didn't get much time to spend with me. I explain to them that it's not a worry, privates are part of their business and I'm happy to see them when I can.

 

[AudriTwo]

I felt that I sugar coated it just perfectly for even the most sensitive here. Didn't even throw a feint.



My congratulations! You have successfully arrived at The Internet. You may notice all kinds of wacky people pretending to be things that they clearly are not.

Well I'm not gonna sugar coat this, youz a cunt.

 

[JGenius]

As a member, I really enjoyed some talking but never came with words like "I'm not like the other.. I'm not here for sex".
In my case was still here just I stopped before. In real life when i meet a girl and I want to have sex with her I'll try to bring a conversation with a lot of dynamic to instore the sexual tension before we kissed and maybe have sex.

I was making the same with some models but the fact I didn't want to see her naked was just because I know that I'd just watch without touch a little bit frustrating. But my mind was full of fantasies after

I ask once or twice to a model to get naked because there was the "She's gorgeous she's pretty and she's ok about being naked so let's go" but it was exceptions. Anyway a sexual tension was espected even if we talked about random stuff

More generally I know there is a lot of jaded guys who enjoy doing this just for the experience.

The worst member I've seen, are the ones who are asslicking with some "Hello did you vote for her? You only think she's cute, she's amazing wonderful....Dude be respectful"

I was one an obsessed freak with a model and thanks god comming everyday freeloading thanks god I recovered my mind right on time before making some big bullshit like love declaration or jealousy. But truely I don't think any obsessed members are truelly believeing in a love story.

 

[Mfcalana]

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The worst member I've seen, are the ones who are asslicking with some "Hello did you vote for her? You only think she's cute, she's amazing wonderful....Dude be respectful"

The worst member you’ve seen? Really? I don’t know what you think is wrong with regulars trying to help their favorite model.
I have members that say things like that once in a while when they see the room is slow and it makes me smile and i appreciate it because I know it’s sincere. Not quite like people entering the room and within 2 seconds saying “wow you’re like the most beautiful sexy incredible woman I have seen in my life!”.
So I don’t know how you could call your quote ass licking and especially calling it “the worst” lol.

 

[Deleted member 36060]

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I have members that say things like that once in a while when they see the room is slow and it makes me smile and i appreciate it because I know it’s sincere.
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So I don’t know how you could call your quote ass licking and especially calling it “the worst” lol.

I usually just say... Oh shit, I better vote. I almost forgot how to. It usually gets a haha from the regulars and the broadcaster in any room I frequent.