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blackxrose said:
If you guys can't get the picture from I've already posted, he's very difficult. We've been best friends for the last 3+ years and I still can't figure out what acceptable presents are for him. If I still haven't gotten it after the first 2 years then I know it's not me lol. I'm about to just start calling around and seeing if there are any cheap strippers for hire around here.. :(
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blackxrose said:
If you guys can't get the picture from I've already posted, he's very difficult. We've been best friends for the last 3+ years and I still can't figure out what acceptable presents are for him. If I still haven't gotten it after the first 2 years then I know it's not me lol. I'm about to just start calling around and seeing if there are any cheap strippers for hire around here. :(
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Sounds to me like he is very easy to buy for, not very difficult.

He doesn't like presents and hates spending money, and doesn't like a big commotion being made over a silly, trite thing like a birthday. So you taken him out to dinner as already agreed upon, and you give some inexpensive "token" present ... perhaps something humorous and fun to play with. Perhaps just some boring clothing item you know he needs. (Or best of all, something for him which you know he won't use, but which you can enjoy using! haha .. like a bathrobe, t-shirt or box of chocolates. :lol: ) And don't feel guilty about it, because he really doesn't want any more than that. Anything more is not going to bring him happiness, it will just annoy him.

Maybe the difficulty is in accepting that he doesn't like presents or fusssed over? Maybe mixed with guilt about your being away to the funeral at that time?

But many adults, particularly men, just don't care about birthdays and gifts. For many it is awkward and unpleasant to be fussed over. So don't feel guilty. Go to the funeral and have a good time. (Not to be disrespectful to the dead, but funeral get togethers, if everyone is being straight up about it, are usually fun.) And I'd recommend letting the birthday be a simple, inexpensive commemorative event, which is all he wants. :twocents-02cents:
 
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Not to be rude, but he sounds like a bit of a stick in the mud lol. I thought if someone gives you a present, no matter what it is, you're to at least convincingly feign gratitude and happiness.

At the end of the day, I look at it like this - it's a present. If you do your best to find something perfect for a person and they don't appreciate it, well tough shit for them, it's the thought that counts, and getting upset over a present (unless it's a puppy/kitten/chimpanzee) is just terrible manners.
 
Jup you're right, he can be quite the stick in the mud but he's my stick in the mud. I think I'll take TheImmortalMrMuaaah's advice and get him a small box of candy as a 'present' to go with the receipt. He LOVES candy and is always sneaking some into our basket from next to the registers when we buy groceries. If I keep it simple then there's no way he can be upset over me spending money. (I'm not scared of his reaction, just know he'll bitch, moan, complain, gripe and whine until he gets his way. It's extremely annoying and makes me feel guilty.)
 
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sorry I'm late to this, the dinner and going commando would be a nice surprise, one way to let him know that you aren't wearing any undies tho, slip off to the bathroom and send him a naughty pic as he sits at the table. That's assuming that you and he text each other.

The x-box is always a gift for the back burner and the holidays are coming soon.
 
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sorry I'm late to this, the dinner and going commando would be a nice surprise, one way to let him know that you aren't wearing any undies tho, slip off to the bathroom and send him a naughty pic as he sits at the table. That's assuming that you and he text each other.

The x-box is always a gift for the back burner and the holidays are coming soon.
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He doesn't have a phone, but I guess I could call the restaraunt from our shared cell phone and have them page him. :p
 
Sevrin said:
blackxrose said:
He doesn't have a phone
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When I saw that I thought "Hey, that would make a nice present."
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The BIG reason why he doesn't have one, we don't want his parents to have another way to harass us. :) They're manipulative bullies and they would tear apart hell to get his number if we got another phone.

I ended up getting him about $30 worth of candy, cigarettes and soda and put it in a cute orange bag. He seemed quite pleased and we've got our plans set for dinner Wednesday if everything comes through. :)
 
BUy him the 360.

If he bitches, tell him you didnt really buy it for him, you bought it to help stimulate the economy.

If he keeps bitching, ask him why he hates America.

I feel your pain, I have a GF who actually will try to pay me for the gifts I buy her. It gets annoying after a while. It's some misplaced guilt on their part I guess.

If all else fails, suck his dick till he shuts the fuck up about the money.
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He LOVED the candy, cigarettes and soda I got him yesterday. He was more excited about the bag I bought to put it all in but he's happy with what he got and the price. We discussed the 360 option together and talked about how it would just sit unused in the corner until we could get a tv with a hook up that works for it. The plan is to save up and get a tv and 360 for Christmas as presents to ourselves. We're going to his favorite restaraunt tomorrow and he's seen the new dress and really likes it. He doesn't know about the savings deposit or that I'll be going commando though. I imagine it will go really well. :D I'll update tomorrow after dinner with all the juicy details. Thanks for all the advice from everyone who posted!
 
Just wanted to say dinner went really well. He went to the bank with me to transfer the money into savings and it made him really happy. :) We enjoyed a nice, upscale dinner of gourmet asian fushion cuisine. Halfway through dinner I told him I was commando and it made him smile. There was some jerk 9 year old kid running around and banging on the window next to us so I somewhat loudly stated that the next time he did it or when the waiter came by I was going to ask them to fix the issue. His parents were sitting right next to us so they clearly heard my comment and got extremely embarassed. When the kid came inside 5 minutes later the father took him into the bathroom and when they came out their whole table was very quiet and well behaved afterwards. :) So just a note to all of those adults and adults with children who dine at upscale restaraunts, do not interrupt my sexy date or I will humiliate you in front of the whole restaraunt. :D K, thanks.

Other than the brat, dinner went really well. Here's a couple pics of what we wore. Sadie was jealous so she jumped into the pictures with us.
 

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SirLes said:
Glad it all worked out so well for you and the xmas gift to yourselves is a fantastic idea, don't have to think about that one now.
I'm afraid though that we need photographic evidence of the going commando, after we diid help. :lol:
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That was posted to my twitter :)
 
So, I watched one of the vids today I bought from you and I couldn't help noticing your significant other appeared to be wearing these, and I did wonder if he had been subtly hinting at particular gift afterall :whistle:
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Nope, I had bought those for him before we moved in together because he didn't have any and my parents didn't want him sleeping over if he was going to be walking around in boxers. I got my dad a mountain dew pair as well. They ended up wearing them together and would have movie and beer nights. Lol. If I'd let him he'd live in those damn pants....Although speaking of presents he liked the deposit so much he asked if I could just do that every year from now on. :D
 
blackxrose said:
So just a note to all of those adults and adults with children who dine at upscale restaraunts, do not interrupt my sexy date or I will humiliate you in front of the whole restaraunt. :D K, thanks.
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I HATE all the 'feel good, non parenting parents' that let the kids run wild.
Maybe I'm just an ass :whistle: but I do the same as you do all the time no matter if its in a restaurant or store or what.
 
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