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though : I've been banned without having time to say 1 word in a room... just the time to read the (long) bio finishing with '25 tokens to park there ^^'
I am sorry to hear that. Although as a model I try to ban for solid reasons, I won't lie, there have been times that I have likely made mistakes, so I am sure that other models do too.
I try to get off cam (in general; I am on a few month hiatus rn from live streaming), these days, before I am too tired to think clearly. However, in the past I would stay on too long, and make decisions on banning, that after some reflection and sleep, seemed unfair to me. The problem is, it's impossible for me to remember who's who on my ban list, and unban. So if I have done that, I am sure others have too.
For me, on high troll nights, I get paranoid, and am quick to think someone I've already been having an issue with, has returned under a different name. And I am sure that there have been times, that I have been convinced of that, but been mistaken. So I am definitely not saying that all bans, by every model, are 100% justified, every single time. Mistakes are really easy to make, especially when tired, or when you are a new cam model. I would say I stayed new status, for several years, because I have never done it full time 40 hours a week consistently, just clips 40 hours.
I know on SM, if there is a quiet night, the trolls take full advantage and harass the shit out of the models. On nights like that, it's easy to take things other people say wrongly, and assume they meant something, that they did not. Especially if a bunch of Turd Hats and Ass Waffles have been doing it all night long. I think I said this before, in another thread, but that is why written communications are so tricky. None of us have the frame of reference of body language, voice tone, voice inflection, or anything to go off of, so it's kind of a wild crapshoot. Unless you get into a prolonged and direct conversation about it, which takes forever. I feel like this is something that current generations have to learn to navigate, than past generations, (who never had as much access to fast electronic communication), had to figure out. So I think a lot can get lost in these interactions, which is unfortunate. Lol, novel over. I'm very focused on communications, I wish I would have majored in that. I'm probably pointing out obvious stuff here, but anyway, you never know.
Anyways
@DoD404 whoever banned you, probably saved you some money and grief anyways, especially if they were in a bad mood
Also, sidenote, if a model uses a lot of oil, and has a touchpad it's also easy to press wrong buttons, that happens all of the time too. It's very frustrating. Don't take any post-oil show bans as genuine bans.
ETA; I meant Ass Hats and Turd Waffles lol, not Turd Hats and Ass Waffles