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new2cam said:
What?? Mai kow jai [I don't understand] what your saying.

Lol. Of course you don't. :lol:
 

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TheFluffsta said:
Busting out with the mai kow jai and then being kind enough to translate it for us (in brackets) is one of the funniest things I've seen all day. And I've only been up about 40 minutes. :lol:


I thought the EXACT same thing and I have been up for 20 mins. hahahahahhaa. :lol:
 
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TheNightman said:
Nordling said:
TheNightman said:
My view on the whole thing is that if you're watching members cams only if you think they're attractive or nice or anything, you can't seriously tell me that there's not a little bit of you that is thinking about that person as they masturbate.

I spoke to my partner about this and she agreed, and as such does not watch member cams.
She doesn't watch because she's afraid she'll "think" about them? Or she doesn't watch because she doesn't want you to worry that she's "thinking" about them? Or....?

She doesn't watch because she feels watching isn't worlds apart from cheating. If you're happy with what you have, why would you want to watch someone else?

In the same respect, I don't watch porn.

Because clearly watching some anonymous naked stranger thousands of miles away over the internet is exactly the same as sneaking around and having sex with someone.

And while you are sitting there all puritanical, trying not to "cheat" on her by refusing to look at any depiction of a naked girl, she's naked and fingering herself on cam in front of hundreds of guys who are jacking off and jizzing like firehoses.

Am I the only one who thinks this relationship that seems a bit odd?

I"m just a bit curious, what do you do when she's on cam, read the Bible and think pure thoughts?
 
lexmark402003 said:
TheNightman said:
Nordling said:
TheNightman said:
My view on the whole thing is that if you're watching members cams only if you think they're attractive or nice or anything, you can't seriously tell me that there's not a little bit of you that is thinking about that person as they masturbate.

I spoke to my partner about this and she agreed, and as such does not watch member cams.
She doesn't watch because she's afraid she'll "think" about them? Or she doesn't watch because she doesn't want you to worry that she's "thinking" about them? Or....?

She doesn't watch because she feels watching isn't worlds apart from cheating. If you're happy with what you have, why would you want to watch someone else?

In the same respect, I don't watch porn.

Because clearly watching some anonymous naked stranger thousands of miles away over the internet is exactly the same as sneaking around and having sex with someone.

And while you are sitting there all puritanical, trying not to "cheat" on her by refusing to look at any depiction of a naked girl, she's naked and fingering herself on cam in front of hundreds of guys who are jacking off and jizzing like firehoses.

Am I the only one who thinks this relationship that seems a bit odd?

I"m just a bit curious, what do you do when she's on cam, read the Bible and think pure thoughts?

Dang, I thought that's what she did while she was on cam...
 
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To anyone confused, new2cam is the same person as supportave husband, who started this thread, which gets pretty weird over the 3 pages. The TL;DR of that thread is that we women get the feeling that husband is kinda a jerk for pushing his woman into camming. I imagine that he started a new screenname and changed his voice to be the female since he was getting some less than favorable comments in that thread after he called us Amerikan Feminazi Bitches. :mrgreen:

I would suppose the reason new2cam asked if its OK that she gets turned on watching other dicks, is because mr. husband here is actually worried that it'll be an issue for HIM while she is camming. This is just my opinion and assumption, though, so take it for what it's worth.
 
AmberCutie said:
I would suppose the reason new2cam asked if its OK that she gets turned on watching other dicks, is because mr. husband here is actually worried that it'll be an issue for HIM while she is camming. This is just my opinion and assumption, though, so take it for what it's worth.

If I had a wife I would hope she got turned on by dicks, since I have one. She can also be turned on by women too, but I would feel silly if I had accidentally married a lesbian.
 
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lexmark402003 said:
TheNightman said:
Nordling said:
TheNightman said:
My view on the whole thing is that if you're watching members cams only if you think they're attractive or nice or anything, you can't seriously tell me that there's not a little bit of you that is thinking about that person as they masturbate.

I spoke to my partner about this and she agreed, and as such does not watch member cams.
She doesn't watch because she's afraid she'll "think" about them? Or she doesn't watch because she doesn't want you to worry that she's "thinking" about them? Or....?

She doesn't watch because she feels watching isn't worlds apart from cheating. If you're happy with what you have, why would you want to watch someone else?

In the same respect, I don't watch porn.

Because clearly watching some anonymous naked stranger thousands of miles away over the internet is exactly the same as sneaking around and having sex with someone.

And while you are sitting there all puritanical, trying not to "cheat" on her by refusing to look at any depiction of a naked girl, she's naked and fingering herself on cam in front of hundreds of guys who are jacking off and jizzing like firehoses.

Am I the only one who thinks this relationship that seems a bit odd?

I"m just a bit curious, what do you do when she's on cam, read the Bible and think pure thoughts?
I get that Nightman's relationship may not be your first choice, but it doesn't make it bad. I think he's actually a hell of a good guy for focusing so much on staying within his relationship's boundaries and trying to keep things strong. Do I think it will be easy? Sure don't. In fact, honestly, I don't even 'get' his relationship, but I still admire his conviction.

I have a lot of seemingly arbitrary rules in my relationship as to what I can and cannot do sexually, and while they would probably seem ridiculous if I posted them, they are important to me and my partners, and I would never violate them.
 
lexmark402003 said:
Because clearly watching some anonymous naked stranger thousands of miles away over the internet is exactly the same as sneaking around and having sex with someone.

And while you are sitting there all puritanical, trying not to "cheat" on her by refusing to look at any depiction of a naked girl, she's naked and fingering herself on cam in front of hundreds of guys who are jacking off and jizzing like firehoses.

Am I the only one who thinks this relationship that seems a bit odd?

I"m just a bit curious, what do you do when she's on cam, read the Bible and think pure thoughts?

I masturbate while she watches and then she gets off cam and we fuck.
 
There's a big difference between doing this as a job and doing it because she gets off knowing guys watch her on cam. As a job there's nothing wrong with it, if she met the guys and were talking to them outside of her camsite then i am sure it would be an issue.

Just because she does that for a job and he doesn't watch other people doesn't mean that there's anything weird going on. The point is that YOU don't have to understand what's going on because HE does and apparently so does his significant other.

I don't see why people get so in a huff about how other people live their lives. You live your life how you want to and he will live his how he wants. As long as they are happy and both agree on the ongoings, it's no one else's business to try to pick it apart.
 
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ShelterLight said:
Not all they guys are even interested in showing their cam though, lots of privates will go by without them ever wanting to show, and many don't have webcams.

The one time I had my cam on during a private, I just felt so stupid. I have no idea how male models do it.

New to camming/MFC and for the life of me I cannot understand how or why guys could expect a girl would want to watch them crank it? It's inconceivable to me to ask a Model to view my cam and if she asked I don't know if I would say yes for at least another month (trying to get back in shape) LOL.
 
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Beach_Love said:
New to camming/MFC and for the life of me I cannot understand how or why guys could expect a girl would want to watch them crank it? It's inconceivable to me to ask a Model to view my cam and if she asked I don't know if I would say yes for at least another month (trying to get back in shape) LOL.
It's easy - they don't know much or anything about female sexuality, so they believe that seeing a penis gets a woman going the way that seeing a pussy gets a man going. I'm sure lots of guys are actually thinking they're able to make a model horny/hornier by showing her their dick because they don't know any better because either they don't have much experience, or the women in their life haven't been honest with them.

Men get aroused by visuals much faster than women. This is something that some men know, but unfortunately, a whole lot are oblivious to it. In my eyes, my guy is one of the hottest creatures I know, but jerking off in front of me is like #37 on the list of things he can do to make me horny.
 
LilyMarie said:
Beach_Love said:
New to camming/MFC and for the life of me I cannot understand how or why guys could expect a girl would want to watch them crank it? It's inconceivable to me to ask a Model to view my cam and if she asked I don't know if I would say yes for at least another month (trying to get back in shape) LOL.
It's easy - they don't know much or anything about female sexuality, so they believe that seeing a penis gets a woman going the way that seeing a pussy gets a man going. Men get aroused from visuals much faster than women. This is something that some men know, but unfortunately, a whole lot are oblivious to it.
'Female Sexuality' isn't some all encompassing movement or mentality, by the way. Individual females have varying opinions on this subject. You know your sexuality and I know mine. I love watching guys beat off all over my dirty slut face. :whistle: :shifty:
 
mynameisbob84 said:
So... do I keep it in my pants or whip it out at the first available opportunity? I'm recieving conflicting information, bbs :?
Better to test the waters before you whip anything out! Me, I love it, others, not so much.
 
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TheFluffsta said:
mynameisbob84 said:
So... do I keep it in my pants or whip it out at the first available opportunity? I'm recieving conflicting information, bbs :?
Better to test the waters before you whip anything out! Me, I love it, others, not so much.

Dip the tip into the water before splashing about with my cock out. Got it :thumbleft:
 
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AllisonWilder said:
Watching a guy who is watching porn or just jerking off to his thoughts/fantasies doesn't do it for me. Watching a guy jerking off because he's watching me is something I love. :twocents-02cents:
I have a mad fantasy about three hot bi-sexual gentlemen standing over me and giving me a huge load on my face and tits...and then other stuff happens; key part being they are all bi. :p

e.ta: they're perfect gents!
 
TheFluffsta said:
LilyMarie said:
Beach_Love said:
New to camming/MFC and for the life of me I cannot understand how or why guys could expect a girl would want to watch them crank it? It's inconceivable to me to ask a Model to view my cam and if she asked I don't know if I would say yes for at least another month (trying to get back in shape) LOL.
It's easy - they don't know much or anything about female sexuality, so they believe that seeing a penis gets a woman going the way that seeing a pussy gets a man going. Men get aroused from visuals much faster than women. This is something that some men know, but unfortunately, a whole lot are oblivious to it.
'Female Sexuality' isn't some all encompassing movement or mentality, by the way. Individual females have varying opinions on this subject. You know your sexuality and I know mine. I love watching guys beat off all over my dirty slut face. :whistle: :shifty:
That's true of course :) Every girl is different...
I'm just saying lots of guys can get super hard just looking at primary/secondary female sex organs. That's why they think 'I like looking at her nether regions, I'm sure she'd like to look at my disco stick! That'll make her as horny as I am!' and then they decide to take some action and go 'wanna look at my hard cock on cam bb'.
For many (not all!) women it takes more than seeing a dick on cam to get aroused... pretty sure there have been studies about this ^^ :geek: But yeah, I suppose that's where the 'misunderstandings' come from.
 
Okay, quick recap as I understand it: OP is believed to be a guy who posted an odd and probably trolly thread a ways back (thanks Amber, being new, I had no clue what everyone was reacting to). Someone else posted a presumably legit description of his situation, which got presumably sincere responses.

Information received: Most women are not excited to see random dicks. (me neither) Some women are excited to see random dicks in certain sexy situations, varying by woman and situation, and this is more likely if the dick is not, in fact, so random, but part of someone they like/are attracted to (not a great shock either).

As a male, it's generally expected that I am visually stimulated. This is somewhat true, but there's more to it than that. In the same way most of the women here aren't impressed by just seeing someone's dick on cam, just seeing female body parts doesn't do a lot for me, even though I may notice that they are nicely-shaped body parts. It helps a lot to see a face to connect things with -- it gives more of a sense of "personness." Even more, it helps if I can get an idea of the personality and the "way" a woman has about her. This is what makes interactive camming (and to some extent video) more compelling than just seeing explicit pictures. I have no idea why some members post random porn .gifs in the chat feed while there's an actual woman on the cam (Okay, I have an idea, but it's just that they're infantile jerkoffs) -- if that's more interesting to them, why are they in the room? Don't even get me started on the spurting penis emotes. :woops:

Just as a quick example, I recently saw a new (to me) model, who only showed a little skin and only for a short while at a time. That alone would have been ho-hum, but the way she moved, the look on her face, her voice, and her personality had me glued to my monitor until she signed off. There are differences in how men and women are stimulated, absolutely, but maybe there are some similarities too. ;)

By the way, when I clicked on this topic I thought it was something entirely different. I thought it referred to models' opinions of members, which would be much more interesting to me. No doubt it's been touched on a lot in various other topics, but still, that sounds fascinating.
 
Disco Stick LOL. For me the realization came the first (and Last) time I hooked up a video cam to a TV to see what it looked like when I was "rubbing one out".

And while I admit I love to gawk at a girl's naked body and lady parts, at the same time I agree w/ HarmlessSquirrel in that soemtimes it's the little things a girl does that blows my mind. I visited a friends room last night and what I will remember most is how FUKN sexy she is when she adjusts her stockings.
 
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ShelterLight said:
Not all they guys are even interested in showing their cam though, lots of privates will go by without them ever wanting to show, and many don't have webcams.

The one time I had my cam on during a private, I just felt so stupid. I have no idea how male models do it.

I'm a male model on a couple of sites and i'm a member on MFC.... on MFC i have few friend models with whom i play on cam....just for fun...i love it.....
For me playing on cam is not the difficult part of this job, the difficult part is that my customer are only boys......and i'm a straight boy......
I have lots of fun with girl models....
 
HarmlessSquirrel said:
By the way, when I clicked on this topic I thought it was something entirely different. I thought it referred to models' opinions of members, which would be much more interesting to me. No doubt it's been touched on a lot in various other topics, but still, that sounds fascinating.

Me too both times I looked at this thread! You should start another thread in ask a model about that (I mean of course we'll all answer that we think you're sad wankers with small dicks ;) ). Might be an interesting thead.
 
Isabella_deL said:
HarmlessSquirrel said:
By the way, when I clicked on this topic I thought it was something entirely different. I thought it referred to models' opinions of members, which would be much more interesting to me. No doubt it's been touched on a lot in various other topics, but still, that sounds fascinating.

Me too both times I looked at this thread! You should start another thread in ask a model about that (I mean of course we'll all answer that we think you're sad wankers with small dicks ;) ). Might be an interesting thead.


but all the models said to me that's so big.......... :crybaby: :crybaby: :crybaby: :crybaby:

just kidding :lol:
 
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