I find it admirable as well that Nightman stands firmly by his relationship, and in this context I don't think it matters what other people do.
My relationship is (I imagine) vastly different from Nightman's, and as my relationship has become normative for me, reading that he won't view cams as a sign of fealty to his partner was actually jarring.
I do want to say, however, that if a complete black-out of other people is important to your relationship, earning money by masturbating for other people's pleasure may put an excessive amount of strain on your relationship.
if you are going to cut out watching cameras, that includes phone calls, and I know if my partner was the monogamous type, some things members type while in private chat would be seen as upsetting.
In addition, creating a personal bond is highly important to many of our jobs; I would be making probably ten times less than I am now if I refused to connect to my clients (even on Streamate). There are an infinite amount of ways for members to try to connect to you, and many of them are important to explore for earning potential.
Anywho. This isn't saying it's a bad idea; if it's what you and your partner want, it is in fact a good idea. It does seem like a difficult feat to accomplish, however.
