model shows no face , but on a small page she shows it

[theo5000]

hello, i need some advice or an idea why you do it this way. I have been following a model for about a year
and occasionally have fun with her in private shows. She doesn't show her face and that was fine with me at first. Two months ago I discovered her by chance on another site where she does private shows and also public shows with her face. Thereupon I spoke to her that I was a bit confused and also a bit angry. I only got evasive answers and she got a little angry. Because I was apparently the first to discover it. Since then she no longer shows her face on the other side or only in exclusive shows. I also asked for a show but she doesn't want to
go into it. I don't understand how a model can live or work in such 2 worlds. Any ideas? And yes, I think it's a shame although she has said several times in the past that she doesn't show her face.

thanks

 

[Ozzie_]

hello, i need some advice or an idea why you do it this way. I have been following a model for about a year
and occasionally have fun with her in private shows. She doesn't show her face and that was fine with me at first. Two months ago I discovered her by chance on another site where she does private shows and also public shows with her face. Thereupon I spoke to her that I was a bit confused and also a bit angry. I only got evasive answers and she got a little angry. Because I was apparently the first to discover it. Since then she no longer shows her face on the other side or only in exclusive shows. I also asked for a show but she doesn't want to
go into it. I don't understand how a model can live or work in such 2 worlds. Any ideas? And yes, I think it's a shame although she has said several times in the past that she doesn't show her face.

thanks

Yeah it seems odd to me but I find what many people do to be very odd, so that means nothing (I am also aware that others probably find me odd . . . or worse)

Let me ask you this: Did you enjoy your interactions without her face before you "discovered" her other "persona" (it seems that you did) ? If so, then you have no real cause for complaint.

I'd say just move on to someone else, you seem to have soured whatever rapport you may have established with this model. But do not pester any other model(s) about their shows or personas, just enjoy them. Cam sites are supposed to be fun.

 

[Wuggie]

hello, i need some advice or an idea why you do it this way. I have been following a model for about a year
and occasionally have fun with her in private shows. She doesn't show her face and that was fine with me at first. Two months ago I discovered her by chance on another site where she does private shows and also public shows with her face. Thereupon I spoke to her that I was a bit confused and also a bit angry. I only got evasive answers and she got a little angry. Because I was apparently the first to discover it. Since then she no longer shows her face on the other side or only in exclusive shows. I also asked for a show but she doesn't want to
go into it. I don't understand how a model can live or work in such 2 worlds. Any ideas? And yes, I think it's a shame although she has said several times in the past that she doesn't show her face.

thanks

The short answer; If you do not like the interactions anymore, move on, it's up to the model what she feels comfortable with, with whom..


The longer Answer;

Some models do not like to show their face at all on the bigger sites, at all! (I know one of them and she also shows it on a smaller site) they will show it to select few on the bigger sites in private messages or in exclusive shows, it's their choice! just because you have spend a lot of time and maybe money on the girl, it does not give you any right to see her face, it's all up to her what she's comfortable with..

it's not two different world, it's two different areas of the same world, some people do not feel comfortable with going shirtless through the city, but are comfortable with it at the beach.. to me, this is the same thing.. if you have lost the joy of visiting the model, simply move on to someone else! I have said it so many times on this forum now, this is supposed to be a good spare time activitiy for you, do what brings you joy and doesn't hurt anyone else!

 

[cbhours]

Maybe the site she shows her face on doesn't have images saved often by third parties.

 

[theo5000]

thank you guys for your tips and opinions. Yes, I enjoyed the shows even without a face. But as I said she is a sweet girl so a show with her face would be amazing. But it's just not meant to be. I agree it's her choice. I've never known a model who makes such a difference. The small side is Xlove. But even there there is always the danger that private shows are shared. That's why I didn't understand it.

thank you very much and best regards
theo

 

[Nigerian Prince]

There could be a variety of reasons. Perhaps she charges differently on both sites or maybe she realized that on one site she could get away with not showing her face and decided to lower her risk. She could also just simply be catering to people who like a bit of mystery. Ultimately the reason doesn't matter. On the platform you watch her on she presents herself as a no face model and you have been happy with that experience for a year, why get mad now?

 

[MarieElise]

hello, i need some advice or an idea why you do it this way. I have been following a model for about a year
and occasionally have fun with her in private shows. She doesn't show her face and that was fine with me at first. Two months ago I discovered her by chance on another site where she does private shows and also public shows with her face. Thereupon I spoke to her that I was a bit confused and also a bit angry. I only got evasive answers and she got a little angry. Because I was apparently the first to discover it. Since then she no longer shows her face on the other side or only in exclusive shows. I also asked for a show but she doesn't want to
go into it. I don't understand how a model can live or work in such 2 worlds. Any ideas? And yes, I think it's a shame although she has said several times in the past that she doesn't show her face.

thanks

The model doesn't need to justify her choices to you. You sound like an over needy, over attached creeper. Sorry, but why the fuck would this be any of your business or even matter to you? To the point where you're angry at a stranger, and stalking them online, bringing up weird shit? Clearly you made the model very uncomfortable with your little detective forray. I'd block you faster than fast for that weird shit! Move on. Model is better off without you. Fucking Ewww!

 

[theo5000]

The model doesn't need to justify her choices to you. You sound like an over needy, over attached creeper. Sorry, but why the fuck would this be any of your business or even matter to you? To the point where you're angry at a stranger, and stalking them online, bringing up weird shit? Clearly you made the model very uncomfortable with your little detective forray. I'd block you faster than fast for that weird shit! Move on. Model is better off without you. Fucking Ewww!

You can also say that normally and somewhat respectfully - you don't even know me! Block yourself

 

[Highlander884]

I don't see the fucking problem. Sure mention that u saw her face on another site and see what she says but I don't see the point of why u r angry.
Quite frankly I think she has a right to be pissed off with u if u going to tell her you r angry about it.

 

[yummybrownfox]

hello, i need some advice or an idea why you do it this way. I have been following a model for about a year
and occasionally have fun with her in private shows. She doesn't show her face and that was fine with me at first. Two months ago I discovered her by chance on another site where she does private shows and also public shows with her face. Thereupon I spoke to her that I was a bit confused and also a bit angry. I only got evasive answers and she got a little angry. Because I was apparently the first to discover it. Since then she no longer shows her face on the other side or only in exclusive shows. I also asked for a show but she doesn't want to
go into it. I don't understand how a model can live or work in such 2 worlds. Any ideas? And yes, I think it's a shame although she has said several times in the past that she doesn't show her face.

thanks

Why are you asking us to be mind readers and tell you why the model chose to do things that way?

If you hadn’t gotten angry at her, she might have even continued showing her face on that other site…and might have been given you a show with her face shown.

Also, you guys don’t HAVE to follow us on every single site we’re on. It’s just unnecessary, and if you’re gonna be doing all that, fine…but don’t give us grief because you don’t like the way we do things differently on the other site(s). That’s why your ass should’ve just stayed put on the first site.

 

[theo5000]

I don't see the fucking problem. Sure mention that u saw her face on another site and see what she says but I don't see the point of why u r angry.
Quite frankly I think she has a right to be pissed off with u if u going to tell her you r angry about it.

at that point i was a bit confused/annoyed because we had discussed the subject of her face several times in the past and we had talked about why she didn't show it so i was a bit confused. But as the ladies and gentlemen rightly say, it was my mistake. hindsight often makes you smarter

 

[MarieElise]

You can also say that normally and somewhat respectfully - you don't even know me! Block yourself

Naw dawg naw, I don't like creepy entitled men. They don't deserve my respect. You harassed a stranger online, at their place of work. Obviously making her super uncomfy. So in my book you're scum. Not gonna coddle you, or sugar coat it, or say it behind your back. But then word it different or diplomatic to your face.

There's enough of that kind of male entitlement and bullying that goes on this world. You get what you deserve Doofy Every model here has been harassed at some point by an angry weird dumbass,like this. And it feels great to tell you like it is. Take it or stuff it People who deserve my respect get it. People who harass other sex workers don't. Fucking deal. You don't like my language - I don't care.

 

[theo5000]

Naw dawg naw, I don't like creepy entitled men. They don't deserve my respect. You harassed a stranger online, at their place of work. Obviously making her super uncomfy. So in my book you're scum. Not gonna coddle you, or sugar coat it, or say it behind your back. But then word it different or diplomatic to your face.

There's enough of that kind of male entitlement and bullying that goes on this world. You get what you deserve Doofy Every model here has been harassed at some point by an angry weird dumbass,like this. And it feels great to tell you like it is. Take it or stuff it People who deserve my respect get it. People who harass other sex workers don't. Fucking deal. You don't like my language - I don't care.

Then we agree, I won't stoop to your level. Take care of your work and your life. Lol

 

[SuperPookie]

Certain sites have everything automatically posted on other sites such as Chaturbate so if where you saw her is a site like that than it is understandable she doesn't show her face there if privacy is a major issue. XLoveCam is very French oriented so if the model in question isn't French that might be it. Honestly though if it bothers you a lot just find someone else to do shows with. At this point it sounds like you both might be making each uncomfortable and that's no fun for either of you.

 

[cbhours]

Seems kind of obvious why he would be a bit upset about the situation.

Another thing to keep in mind is that models aren't allowed to discuss other sites on cam platforms so if the only form of contact is via the cam site she wouldn't have been allowed to tell you anyway.

 

[RuthStrawberryblonde]

For me and I suspect other models may be the same, as a sex worker it can feel intrusive and patronising to be questioned about why you choose to show or not show. Generally a performer will have made decisions based on each site, each platform having considered a variety of factors. Having to explain this and sometimes without providing sensitive personal information can be very difficult.

Also bear in mind at any time she may have others pushing the same or other questions and boundaries. This can feel like aggression or certainly pressure, can be very upsetting.

 

[MaryCorner]

Without much thought, I can already come up with so many reasons as the fingers on my hands... And, yet, none of them is your damn business.

 

[Slapstick]

Generally a performer will have made decisions based on each site, each platform having considered a variety of factors. Having to explain this and sometimes without providing sensitive personal information can be very difficult.

This.

I know a model that is non-nude and shows nothing above the waist on CB, shows her face and some minor nudity on OF, and has a PornHub channel with full frontal nudity and masturbation videos with her and her dildos. Same model, three different sites with three totally different experiences. But ask her to cross over and show more on CB and she will show you how much she loves her ban-hammer.

 

[MarieElise]

Seems kind of obvious why he would be a bit upset about the situation

No it doesn't. Nobody agrees with him being upset about it at all. He was on one platform and got what he paid for on that platform. Models aren't allowed to talk about what they do on other platforms.

He made a post on a public forum saying he was angry about that fact. He has no reason and no right to be angry. If he has an issue he could have quietly followed her and interacted with her on the other platform. But instead he gets angry about it, and puts her on the spot. It's prime shitty, understanding, unsupportive, and unempathetic behavior. Not to mention different clients get different stuff. Clients I'm more comfy get stuff, than clients I'm less comfy with don't have a access to. Meet the concept of tiers. Other models might be the same. Doesn't need to be justified or explained. She's not his gf or wife, she's a public performer.

Not to mention he gets pompous and righteous about it when I tell him off for it. He clearly made her very uncomfy. And deserved a yelling off I've had guys make drama for me on forums before over nothing, and I've appreciated the other model members who have the pussy balls and solidarity to bitch them out for it.

 

[theo5000]

No it doesn't. Nobody agrees with him being upset about it at all. He was on one platform and got what he paid for on that platform. Models aren't allowed to talk about what they do on other platforms.

He made a post on a public forum saying he was angry about that fact. He has no reason and no right to be angry. If he has an issue he could have quietly followed her and interacted with her on the other platform. But instead he gets angry about it, and puts her on the spot. It's prime shitty, understanding, unsupportive, and unempathetic behavior. Not to mention different clients get different stuff. Clients I'm more comfy get stuff, than clients I'm less comfy with don't have a access to. Meet the concept of tiers. Other models might be the same. Doesn't need to be justified or explained. She's not his gf or wife, she's a public performer.

Not to mention he gets pompous and righteous about it when I tell him off for it. He clearly made her very uncomfy. And deserved a yelling off I've had guys make drama for me on forums before over nothing, and I've appreciated the other model members who have the pussy balls and solidarity to bitch them out for it.

Girl, we've sorted it out now. Amen. We'll meet in church on Sunday. Had also added the whole thing in the second post that it was a mistake. But that doesn't seem to be the case with you. I wish you lots of tokens and keep your chin up. I love you too

 

[MarieElise]

Girl, we've sorted it out now. Amen. We'll meet in church on Sunday. Had also added the whole thing in the second post that it was a mistake. But that doesn't seem to be the case with you. I wish you lots of tokens and keep your chin up. I love you too

No second post is available for me to see. If you see it great. But I see only one post from him in this thread. This forum site glitches when threads are busy, and there are often long delays in different posts being viewable. So quit with the assumptions. That's likely what got you in this in the first place. Making assumptions.

But yeah I'll see you in church alright.

Congratulations on having the humility to turn it around though /s. Passive aggressive twat. You owe her and me apologies now. I'll take mine in cash.

 

[cbhours]

No it doesn't. Nobody agrees with him being upset about it at all. He was on one platform and got what he paid for on that platform.

Just because people don't agree with him based on more extensive knowledge of the subject doesn't mean i don't understand the core principle behind why he was upset.

He found the situation unfair. Him getting what he paid for doesn't mean I can't see that he found the situation unfair, even if all her shows were free and he came and said the exact same thing i'd still realize he found the situation unfair.

 

[Vixxen81]

Just because people don't agree with him based on more extensive knowledge of the subject doesn't mean i don't understand the core principle behind why he was upset.

He found the situation unfair. Him getting what he paid for doesn't mean I can't see that he found the situation unfair, even if all her shows were free and he came and said the exact same thing i'd still realize he found the situation unfair.

PARDON ME YELLING AT THIS POST BUT THE ONLY FAIR THING IN LIFE IS A BLONDE HEADED CHILD.

It's not fair that he went searching for her, it's not fair that she had to deal with his confrontations, it's not FAIR that plenty of people who are deserving are not getting tipped, it's not FAIR that the highest tipper gets the most rewards, it's not FAIR that an ego gets hurt because he thinks he is OWED a woman, it is not FAIR that women cannot get abortions or hysterectomies or their tubes tied unless their husband says so or they are lying on a table bleeding to death and someone does something, it's not FAIR that men make the rules, it's not FAIR that women are smarter, more level headed and adept at change than men are BUT HERE WE FUCKING ARE. Listening to you guys get angry at women for having autonomy.

 

[MarieElise]

Not even comparable to the more serious issues we are facing, but it's also not fair that in the middle of a large city, in a giant grocery store, there isn't one single bar of glycerin soap! Yet the aisle is stacked with all this heavy duty man soap, that does nothing but give women UTIs and offset our Ph's. It's also not fair that we know literally next to nothing about PCOS, Endometriosis, and any other health condition that affects women and not men!

 

[cbhours]

PARDON ME YELLING AT THIS POST BUT THE ONLY FAIR THING IN LIFE IS A BLONDE HEADED CHILD.

It's not fair that he went searching for her, it's not fair that she had to deal with his confrontations, it's not FAIR that plenty of people who are deserving are not getting tipped, it's not FAIR that the highest tipper gets the most rewards, it's not FAIR that an ego gets hurt because he thinks he is OWED a woman, it is not FAIR that women cannot get abortions or hysterectomies or their tubes tied unless their husband says so or they are lying on a table bleeding to death and someone does something, it's not FAIR that men make the rules, it's not FAIR that women are smarter, more level headed and adept at change than men are BUT HERE WE FUCKING ARE. Listening to you guys get angry at women for having autonomy.

I didnt say it was justified just saying the core principle was obvious.

What did i miss about the hysterectomy and tubes tied part, is that in other countries or did i miss something new?

 

[cbhours]

there isn't one single bar of glycerin soap!

...i didnt even know that was a thing and i use glycerin pads, im going to go find some

 

[MarieElise]

...i didnt even know that was a thing and i use glycerin pads, im going to go find some

I have to special order Pheebo from brasil.
Which if anyone hasn't tried is the best unisex soap I've ever been lucky enough to get!
Sorry, total side tangent.
But most women can't use heavy perfumed man soaps that basically feel like sandpaper on your body.

 

[Vixxen81]

I didnt say it was justified just saying the core principle was obvious.

What did i miss about the hysterectomy and tubes tied part, is that in other countries or did i miss something new?

Does she get to be mad when he tips someone else? No. He shouldn't be mad that she did something for herself.

It's been known forever that doctors will not sterilize a woman in the United States unless her husband states that he does not want kids with her. Male and female doctors alike try to convince women they'll change their minds about kids and once you have it, "you'll love it til the end of time."

 

[Vixxen81]

I have to special order Pheebo from brasil.
Which if anyone hasn't tried is the best unisex soap I've ever been lucky enough to get!
Sorry, total side tangent.
But most women can't use heavy perfumed man soaps that basically feel like sandpaper on your body.

I found a really great tea tree oil soap. It's coconut oil and glycerin and tea tree oil. Keeps bugs off. Softens the skin. It's awesome for shaving too.

 

[MarieElise]

Does she get to be mad when he tips someone else? No. He shouldn't be mad that she did something for herself.

It's been known forever that doctors will not sterilize a woman in the United States unless her husband states that he does not want kids with her. Male and female doctors alike try to convince women they'll change their minds about kids and once you have it, "you'll love it til the end of time."

This is very true and completely unacceptable. Doctors will not give young women tubals who are single either, often times.
It's so unbelievably sexist.

Sidenote; Do you remember the name of said soap or the brand or anything?