MMF, MFF and more!

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So the new girl and I have quickly found out that we would both be up for trying out threesomes and foursomes. I'm straight, but I've got no problem with another guy helping fulfill one of her fantasies of being fucked by two at once, and like most guys I look forward to the MFF sessions most. lol

Am wondering about others experiences with this as well as tips and tricks.

For instance, I've heard that DP isn't as easy as some make it seem, so that one I need to get figured out as I know she is looking forward to that for sure.

 

[Just_mark__]

DP is weird mate, ur balls touch the other guys balls. They do, me and a mate came up with a beer mat between them solution.

It really helps if you don't mind that you will touch another guys sweaty body coz it isn't like porn, you don't have long enough dicks to do it at a distance.

Point of safety (other than STD's) Don't go from arse to pussy or arse to mouth. That's for the pro's who have had 20 enemas before the shoot.

Sense of humour all round though and it's wicked fun.

 

[Jebbaz]

It's even more fun when you're ok with guy oral. When its dark you never know who is sucking your dick.

 

[Jupiter551]

DP is weird mate, ur balls touch the other guys balls. They do, me and a mate came up with a beer mat between them solution.

It really helps if you don't mind that you will touch another guys sweaty body coz it isn't like porn, you don't have long enough dicks to do it at a distance.

porn guys in group scenes end up touching each other unintentionally all the time....I've always figured they just get used to it/ignore it or find other work. 2 (or more) males, 1 female...it's gonna be inevitable.

I always cringe a little when the chick is blowing/jerking two guys and it's time for the money shot and the one guy misses and gets the other guy's leg or something...or those double bjs where the two dicks are in the chick's mouth at once ukeleft:

Instant boner-killer for me, tad too much bromance I guess - to each their own though.

 

[SirLes]

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

 

[Jebbaz]

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

:handgestures-salute: :thumbleft:

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

WINNING!!!!!! :thumbleft:

 

[Jupiter551]

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

Like anything in sex, it's all down to personal preference and what you/your partner(s) are comfortable with.

 

[NaomiRose]

Warning: LONG post ahead! Hehehe.

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

WIIIIIIIIIIIIN!!!!!!!!!! You are awesome SirLes. Reading your post got me horny... Haha. I love men that are actually comfortable enough in their sexuality to try these kinds of things, or at least not be totally freaked out at the idea of a MMF threesome! Oh, not to mention the fact that I get totally WET at guy on guy action. I love it! Serious. For serious. Oh yes. Umm, yes... I'm getting carried away now...

Back to toc! Congrats also, to you, for being comfortable enough in your sexuality to explore this with your partner! You wouldn't believe how many guys are not cool with this (my man and I actually have a pretty hard time finding another guy to participate!).

Having said that, I have had MANY MMF threesomes... They are my FAV. Hahaha. What can I say? I love having two men to myself. That and getting fucked while sucking cock at the same time is absolutely FABULOUS. I think most women (straight or bi) would love it if they would just relax and not worry about it making them a slut or something. Most (straight or bi) women love to suck cock. Most women love to get taken behind in doggy style position. Combining these things is heaven! Lol. You can also get a really good rhythm going if the three of you jive well together (which you should, if you are having a threesome). I have had MMF threesomes that were totally straight (no sexual contact between the men) and also ones that involved the men having sexual contact with each other (pretty much all oral). Both are totally sexy.

Now, as for tips and tricks... Well my first tip, which I give to everyone regarding ANY group sex is to be OPEN, HONEST and COMMUNICATIVE. You shouldn't be engaging in group sex with people you don't trust, aren't comfortable with or can't even talk to about it. If you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it. Now, having said that, it doesn't have to be some huge negotiation! And it doesn't even have to be planned. BUT it is always best if the subject has been brought up before, you all know each other's feelings on it and you can all comfortably chat about it (this not only sets the stage for a healthy, fun threesome but ensures you'll be able to have no awkwardness afterwards). Furthermore, it is very important that you and your partner have discussed the idea together in great depth. You both want to make sure you are totally into it and you need to share with each other if there's anything that could happen that would make the other person uncomfortable. Some people have rules. Find out if you think you should have some! My man and I have only one rule, the other guy can't cum inside of me, and that's only because on the off chance I got pregnant, I wouldn't want to question the paternity (the man I am with now is the man I plan to have babies with, so if I got pregnant I would want to keep it).

Hmm... What else? I feel like I could go on for days. Hahaha. Let's move on to DP for now, because I know you asked about that. In my experience, it is NOT anywhere near as easy as the pornos make it seem! It depends on a lot of factors though. It will depend on how tight she is. It will also depend on how used to anal play she is. It also depends on your dick sizes. If you are both large, you'll have a pretty hard time. If you are both average, you'll have an easier time. You get the idea. The smaller cock should probably go in her ass. But that's personal preference. Another thing it depends on is how much work up you have done! If you are going to try for a DP, make sure she has had A LOT of anal play. Definitely some anal sex with whoever is planning to go in her ass (side note, getting fucked in the ass by one guy while another is under you eating you out, is fantastic).

I have achieved DP, but it took us a long time. Hahaha. We had a friend we were doing pretty regular threesomes with (like once a month) and it wasn't until our like... 5th threesome or something that we finally achieved it. Now, I'm a pretty tight girl, haven't had too much anal sex and also my man has a large penis. I couldn't handle it for long. But the next time we did it, it was easier and I could handle it longer. It just kept getting better. The last time we did it, I actually came with them both inside of me, it was fucking awesome. I was riding my man, and the other guy went into my ass from behind. They were both pretty much stationary and I just grinded on both their cocks until I came nice and hard. It was fucking intense! Our goal is to actually have a threeway orgasm. I think we could achieve it, because we are all communicative with each other and a girl cumming is sexy and I clench my muscles as I cum!

Anyway, the key is to go slow... Work her up and talk to her the whole time. Also, be comfortable with your parts potentially touching his (mostly balls I think) and listen to what someone up their said about not doing ass to pussy. Bad, bad idea! As for ass to mouth, everyone has different opinions, but I've done it plenty of times and never had anything terrible happen to me. (And no, I don't have 20 enemas before hand, not even one.) What literature I did find on it, said that it wasn't really a big deal, anything you could catch you already have... Because it's coming from your own ass, lol. Still, bad bacteria can be down there. It's a personal choice. Like I said, never had a problem.

As for actually setting up the threesome, there are tons of different ways to go about it. I always go with friends. But you can try and meet people or put up on ad on craigslist. Just make sure you get to know them a bit first and trust your intuition. If they seem like a trustworthy and stable person, go for it. Just make sure to use condoms! If it's a friend, talk about the condom thing, but you can probably fore-go condoms if everyone's clean. Any friends I have sex with have gotten tested recently and I always confirm that before engaging in non-protected sex. I think with someone I just met, even if I got a great vibe off them (which is the only way I'd have sex with them), I would still use a condom... Cause you just never know! Oh,and alcohol is a great way to loosen everyone up a bit (no pun intended, haha okay I totally intended it). But being totally wasted won't end up in a good threesome! You should be able to do it totally sober. Alcohol just helps with nerves a bit... But if it's something you couldn't do sober, you shouldn't be doing it.

Umm, I think I've already gone on forever and ever... And I am kind of drawing a blank as to what else to add. I am more than happy to answer ANY questions you have. I'm well versed when it comes to group sex, lol. I have had tons of MMF threesomes, FFM threesomes, two foursomes, a fivesome and an orgy (it was six people). And as you can see, I am completely open and have no problem sharing my experiences, nor giving details. Hell, I want EVERYONE to enjoy happy, healthy sex! And I think if group sex gets you turned on at all, you should try it out!

P.S. As long as you can be comfortable with balls in your face, one of you sixty-nining with her (her on top) and the other fucking her doggy style at the same time is also an amazing position for her.

P. P. S. Double facial is a great way to end if she's into that! Hahaha... Ahhh... Sigh.. *fond memories*

Mmm, god damn! It has been well over 7 months since my last two guy threesome. I want one again! Hahaha.

 

[AedanRayne]

I would love to try it and good luck to you in your endeavors to do it. I feel though that contact with the other male is inevitable and you should be aware of that, even open up to it. Hell I'm safe enough in my sexual beliefs that to touch, suck or even fuck another man while my female partner was present wouldn't scar me for life. Women turn me on, simple as that, men don't. My lady asking me to suck or fuck another man or be fucked or sucked by them while she gets off on it, hell yeah. After all, isn't that what I will be asking for when the FFM 3some comes around. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. It's just sex man, good, clean, fun sex.
Failing that, why not try a tranny. Best of both worlds, I have only ever been with one but would easily get together with another, oh and if that makes me gay or weird in any way then so be it.
In the end, who really cares. As long as no-one gets hurt and a good time is had.

I YOU I love a man who is comfortable with his sexuality.

 

[Jupiter551]

I don't disagree with anything anyone has said in the slightest except...is it implied that a man is only comfortably with his sexuality if he's turned on by having sexual contact with another man?

I consider myself completely comfortable with my sexuality (if I wasn't I'd probly not be engaging in this debate) but the thought of rubbing genitals with another man turns me off, and I'm far from homophobic.

I don't think that in itself makes me innately a latent, repressed gay man lol. If being gay isn't a matter of "choice" (ie, what turns you on turns you on), then neither is being hetero.

 

[NaomiRose]

I don't believe that a man is only comfortable with his sexuality if he's turned on by sexual contact with another man. I believe he's comfortable with his sexuality if he can even discuss these types of things - even a hetero threesome with another man (which a lot of men get uncomfortable with). I think if you are worried it makes you "gay," then you are obviously uncomfortable with your sexuality because you question it. I think if a man can't even discuss having sex with another man there, he's probably uncomfortable with his sexuality. I mean, how many men want a two girl threesome? And they expect females to be cool with this sort of thing. It's the same idea. I'm not saying a guy even has to be turned on by it, but just like you pointed out, you are obviously comfortable with your sexuality if you can even engage in this debate.

I just feel like a real overreaction (going to the point of pretending to puke) about even having another man present probably signifies that you are not comfortable with your sexuality. I'm not saying you would have to engage in these sorts of activities in order to be comfortable, but you should be able to talk about them without having some dramatic reaction, like a lot of guys do. To me it just shows you aren't comfortable with it because you are unsure about where you stand on the sexuality spectrum. Furthermore, I think most people need to just chill out and realize it really doesn't matter where you are on that spectrum. And believe me, sexuality is a spectrum. It's not black and white. The sexiest men are the ones that are confident in who they are, including their sexuality - even if they are completely hetero, they shouldn't have a problem discussing sex that they aren't into. To each their own.

 

[SamCamNxtDoor]

This has always been a fantasy of mine but I've just never had an opportunity to do it. Hubby is cool with it, too, it's just something we'd like to do with the right person and that person hasn't presented himself yet! I want to be able to trust the 3rd and have it it really be enjoyable and sensual for everyone. We joined a swingers group in the area but with our schedule haven't even had a chance to go to a party at all yet. Hopefully, one of these days.

DP in porn is one of the things that gets me off uber fast-- but I really doubt I could actually do it. Unless I can find a dude with a really, really small penis. :lol: I think just the idea of the whole thing is so erotic to me, so "taboo' [you know, to the mainstream]. My inner little Catholic school girl can't resist something like that!

 

[Jupiter551]

I just feel like a real overreaction (going to the point of pretending to puke) about even having another man present probably signifies that you are not comfortable with your sexuality.

Well I specifically referred to two penises cuddling each other in a chick's mouth at the same time when I did the puke emote lol...aka genital to genital sexual contact. Having another man present is an entirely different scenario - in context I personally wouldn't have any particular problem with another guy being present or participating in group sex, I was simply saying that to me, personally, something like that happening in the middle of sex would be akin to a glass of iced water being thrown on my crotch - I'd be turned right off.

I know women who say they're grossed out by the thought of being with another chick, and I've never once thought it was from being uncomfortable about their sexuality, just their preference.

I don't think I've ever seen anyone on these forums deliberately disparage another's sexual preferences, on the other hand surely it's okay to say if something really turns you off?

Saying a straight guy must be uncomfortable with his sexuality because the thought of rubbing genitals with another man turns him off is the same as assuming that gay guys are actually latently heterosexual and just scared of vaginas.

 

[Eva_ChangeN]

Very interesting convo, and I can understand about not wanting your peen to touch another, yet being in sexual acts with a female. I don't think its more or less courageous or comfort when debating turn ons and turn offs. Being comfortable means that you know what you like and that you can experience those things and not feel odd, to me anyways. My hubby is the same way. He is comfortable about talking about a MMF but he is adamant about not having his junk touch another guys UNLESS its accidental or DP. Just sayin

 

[NaomiRose]

Jupiter -

While what I said could obviously be applied to you (since you did a puking emote), if you read my sentence I was pointing out that having a major overreaction to having another man even present probably signifies you aren't comfortable with your sexuality. Going to the point of pretending to puke was just an example - not necessarily specific to you.

As you pointed out, you were talking about your cock touching another man's, which would turn you off. Of course it's okay to say if something really turns you off! To each their own. I, do, however, think it might almost be a bit offensive or over the top to go to the point of saying it makes you want to puke. I would find it rude if someone came up to me and said, "You're a webcam model? God, that makes me want to puke!" That's a bit worse and more disrespectful than simply saying, "Oh I see. Well that's just not for me."

... was simply saying that to me, personally, something like that happening in the middle of sex would be akin to a glass of iced water being thrown on my crotch - I'd be turned right off.

^ This, in fact, is a much better way of saying what you wanted to say, rather than puking.

Saying a straight guy must be uncomfortable with his sexuality because the thought of rubbing genitals with another man turns him off...

^ This is never what I said (if you even read the sentence of mine you personally quoted, you can see that)... And I certainly never meant to imply such a thing. I truly apologize if I came off that way. I was merely stating my opinion (which I realize could be wrong) that if a man is uncomfortable even talking about these sorts of things, or acknowledging they exist or that other people are into it, he's probably not comfortable with his sexuality. I never said he for sure was uncomfortable with his sexuality, or even that I was right. I realize I could be totally wrong. It's just my feelings.

Everyone has their own preference! I simply believe men that can't even discuss these sorts of things are probably uncomfortable with their sexuality (wow, I feel like a parrot, lol). And in addition, I think some people need to open their minds a little and not look down on others who are into things that are "not of the norm." You don't need to be into it, but you should be able to acknowledge and discuss it just like you would any other subject.

 

[Jupiter551]

Jupiter -

While what I said could obviously be applied to you (since you did a puking emote), if you read my sentence I was pointing out that having a major overreaction to having another man even present probably signifies you aren't comfortable with your sexuality. Going to the point of pretending to puke was just an example - not necessarily specific to you.

As you pointed out, you were talking about your cock touching another man's, which would turn you off. Of course it's okay to say if something really turns you off! To each their own. I, do, however, think it might almost be a bit offensive or over the top to go to the point of saying it makes you want to puke. I would find it rude if someone came up to me and said, "You're a webcam model? God, that makes me want to puke!" That's a bit worse and more disrespectful than simply saying, "Oh I see. Well that's just not for me."

... was simply saying that to me, personally, something like that happening in the middle of sex would be akin to a glass of iced water being thrown on my crotch - I'd be turned right off.

^ This, in fact, is a much better way of saying what you wanted to say, rather than puking.

Saying a straight guy must be uncomfortable with his sexuality because the thought of rubbing genitals with another man turns him off...

^ This is never what I said (if you even read the sentence of mine you personally quoted, you can see that)... And I certainly never meant to imply such a thing. I truly apologize if I came off that way. I was merely stating my opinion (which I realize could be wrong) that if a man is uncomfortable even talking about these sorts of things, or acknowledging they exist or that other people are into it, he's probably not comfortable with his sexuality. I never said he for sure was uncomfortable with his sexuality, or even that I was right. I realize I could be totally wrong. It's just my feelings.

Everyone has their own preference! I simply believe men that can't even discuss these sorts of things are probably uncomfortable with their sexuality (wow, I feel like a parrot, lol). And in addition, I think some people need to open their minds a little and not look down on others who are into things that are "not of the norm." You don't need to be into it, but you should be able to acknowledge and discuss it just like you would any other subject.

Yeah it's okay Naomi, looking back at it -it was all very simple I think just at the time I had a bee in my bonnet about wanting to make a stand for "straight-rights" lol. :text-freedom:

Let's just all have a drink ccasion5:

 

[NaomiRose]

Hahaha cool Jupiter!

It's all good.

And yes, let's all just have a drink!! Hmm...