SoTxBob said:
LoL.. Whoda thunk it..... Guys coming to a cam site for intellectual conversation ? The mental image I get when I think of PT&A and a intellectual convo just strikes me as a funny combination..... Yet, I'm one of them and see it in the vast majority of the rooms that aren't just dildo riders and freeloader wankers. This isn't saying anyones a member of MENSA but the convo is more than the "hi BB, take me pvt" crap.
As said already, it is the connection and how you engage the members that will determine your success @ MFC. I know lots of NN or semi-nude girls that cover the success spectrum from hi to low. Almost without fail, the higher ranked ones are active, fun and engaging everyone that isn't petrified to say hi to her. I frequently visit the bottom CS# rooms and sometimes it comes to "what am I doing wrong" inquiries. 'Presentation' is major. Even if you are laying in bed all day, your appearance needs to be decent and not bedhead and last nights makeup. Many times girls are frozen in one position, look bored/depressed or mad @the world, smoking constantly and look like they will not give you the time of day unless you toss them $1 or more. ... yup, exit stage left. I've also found the music is a big factor as to whom you attract. The older guys tend to sit and play in the more classic rock rooms while it seems the younger chat-a-lot non-tippers go for more hiphop type or thug music as I have heard it called..... just generalities and my personal observations, nothing is ever written in stone in Camland.
Good luck. :twocents-02cents: :hello2:
I had a good idea of what to expect, i've wanted to do this sense i turned 18 but up untill now i had so many limitations it was impossible to do, i just have a hubby that gets me and knows who i am and what i like and loves that i'm bold about it.
i'm plus sized, so i do what i can, i have two toys but only one can be used because the other needs batteries, i have a limited wardrobe, and i'm working on getting sexy underwear and bra's i only have two atm. i'm starting from the bottom up.
i take two showers a day to look my best, new makeup for both my shows, brush my hair and two different outfits. i'm actually quite addicted to it. its the only social time i have actually, the rest of my time i spend with my hubby and son. i don't have any friends where i live atm, they are all an hour away, so i rather enjoy getting on and chatting.
i just... i'm myself, i don't want to fake being something i'm not, i love role play, i like dressing up, i love cosplay and role play but i'm running into the issue of people thinking i'm desprate for tokens because when i'm begged to show my boobs or puss i reject them and say not without reaching my goals. then i get users lecturing me. its not as fun the last couple of days.
My cam score stinks and i don't know the proper range for things yet but this weekend i'm working on my albums to offer for some tokens. my hubby is on board to let me exploit myself for a good album and i really really want to do outdoor nudes out on our wooded property. i just need the opportunity.
long story shorter, i just rely on the tips for props. i'm working on my room so it looks fun and i'm going to be getting a webcam asap. just mainly doing it for the social aspect but i'm not going to give it all up for free. guess i just gotta stick with it huh?