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Rosa_1347

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Is there any where else like mfc that will garentee users that will pay for flashes and such.

i have to fight to get tips as modivation to get nude on cam and for whatever reason they won't tip unless your flashing up in front of cam for free... seems a little stupid.. i don't like to show off unless i'm getting paid for it. am i wrong for that?
 
When camming there is no way to guarantee anyone is going to pay you at all. People pay you on their own whim, and there's NO way you can say "Hey, you owe me tokens". I mean, you can, it just really doesn't sound or look good to a group of people you're trying to entertain. The only thing you can guarantee on a cam site is what is on your contract and how you respond to situations. You can guarantee that users pay for flashes by not flashing them until they pay. If they demand you flash them anyway, you can ban them. You don't have to deal with rude, entitled members by placating them.

You do NOT have to get naked on cam if members are not paying for it. You do NOT have to get naked on cam at all if you're uncomfortable with it. No, you are not wrong for wanting to be paid for your nudity. No one should expect that they are owed your nudity any more than you should expect that you're owed their tokens. People most often pay you when they're entertained, or when they see a show coming (via countdowns) that they really like. However, a LOT of the time with camming even the people who are entertained won't pay you. It happens.
 
Nudity will have practically nothing to do with your success as a model. At any given point in time there are going to be 10+ girls naked in free chat. Look at some of the more successful models to see how they do things. You getting naked is only going to matter if you have engaged with your room and they want to see you naked, but getting to the point where people will tip you for things like shots, or crosswords, or blackjack, or whatever you do to entertain your room is entirely up to you.
 
At any given moment, there will be hundreds of naked girls, not just 10+. :lol: There will always be other models who are far more beautiful or hot who are totally naked and doing everything for free. It is up to you as to what the cost will be for what you do, and then it's all chance from there.

Do not let the trolls get to you, the ban button is there for a reason. :)
 
Was having a discussion in a lounge last night with a member who claimed there was no sense to the camscore system (no argument there) and that the girls he thinks are most attractive should clearly be on top of the earnings. Most of the very beautiful low camscore Euro girls he was linking were engaging members with their bodies, nude or lingerie, speaking little and meaningfully conversing even less...and members would get off and leave of course.

They're attracting members who don't care for smalltalk, like what they see, and may be perfectly satisfied with what they see - and feel no compulsion to tip further. If the model was talkative she'd attract members who want to engage with her intellectually (and in my experience more likely to tip "just because" or independently of their sexual stamina and immediate interest which is obviously limited), but she doesn't, she attracts the type of member who is happy with what they see.

What kind of members do you attract?
 
If success in camming is measured by tokens/income generated, it really does not necessarily have to do with nudity or sexuality. For some models it may have a lot to do with nudity and their willingness to get off in public. And, sexuallity will almost always be part of the equation, but not necessarily be the most important part. Often new models think their willingness to get nude and preform sexual acts is the sure path to success - they are most often disappointed and confused when this is not the case.

It is my opinion that most tipping members at MFC are not motivated mostly by sexual drive, but rather by the desire to be in a lady's company. With out going into some deep convoluted, and prolly wrong or incomplete description of this most common (IMhO) member, I will just say he is lonely. This loneliness can be for all sorts of reasons, and just as likely to be self imposed as anything. He is going to stay and tip where he feels some connection with the model. This connection can be of a purely sexual nature, or it can be because she is extremely good at entertaining in a classical sense, though you don't see a lot of top notch juggling or magic acts at cam sites. The connection can also be because the model engages the member in ways of female companionship - they flirt - seem to care about the same things - share a sense of humour - share a sense of outrage - he feels like they could be friends, or are friends. (It's this last sense of connection that is apt to be the strongest, and is most likely to become a problem when the lines blur, and a member loses prospective.)

Probably the connection a tipping member feels with a model is a combination of all these things and more, but it is the connection that motivates tipping, not nudity or what sex acts the model is willing to do. The way to learn more than anyone can tell you here is to spend some time in other model's rooms. The most successful model ever will not connect with everyone, or even most everyone, but what all successful models will have in common is that they have found a way to engage/connect and/or entertain tipping members.
 
Perhaps you might try a private-based site instead? Private-based sites are more oriented around getting paid-by-the-minute for shows (and/or only performing for people who have tipped in to a group show -- you can do countdown style shows this way as well), and a bit less oriented around entertaining people for tips.

There's still never any guarantee that people will tip you or take you into shows, though.
 
LoL.. Whoda thunk it..... Guys coming to a cam site for intellectual conversation ? The mental image I get when I think of PT&A and a intellectual convo just strikes me as a funny combination..... Yet, I'm one of them and see it in the vast majority of the rooms that aren't just dildo riders and freeloader wankers. This isn't saying anyones a member of MENSA but the convo is more than the "hi BB, take me pvt" crap.
As said already, it is the connection and how you engage the members that will determine your success @ MFC. I know lots of NN or semi-nude girls that cover the success spectrum from hi to low. Almost without fail, the higher ranked ones are active, fun and engaging everyone that isn't petrified to say hi to her. I frequently visit the bottom CS# rooms and sometimes it comes to "what am I doing wrong" inquiries. 'Presentation' is major. Even if you are laying in bed all day, your appearance needs to be decent and not bedhead and last nights makeup. Many times girls are frozen in one position, look bored/depressed or mad @the world, smoking constantly and look like they will not give you the time of day unless you toss them $1 or more. ... yup, exit stage left. I've also found the music is a big factor as to whom you attract. The older guys tend to sit and play in the more classic rock rooms while it seems the younger chat-a-lot non-tippers go for more hiphop type or thug music as I have heard it called..... just generalities and my personal observations, nothing is ever written in stone in Camland.
Good luck.
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LoL.. Whoda thunk it..... Guys coming to a cam site for intellectual conversation ? The mental image I get when I think of PT&A and a intellectual convo just strikes me as a funny combination..... Yet, I'm one of them and see it in the vast majority of the rooms that aren't just dildo riders and freeloader wankers. This isn't saying anyones a member of MENSA but the convo is more than the "hi BB, take me pvt" crap.
As said already, it is the connection and how you engage the members that will determine your success @ MFC. I know lots of NN or semi-nude girls that cover the success spectrum from hi to low. Almost without fail, the higher ranked ones are active, fun and engaging everyone that isn't petrified to say hi to her. I frequently visit the bottom CS# rooms and sometimes it comes to "what am I doing wrong" inquiries. 'Presentation' is major. Even if you are laying in bed all day, your appearance needs to be decent and not bedhead and last nights makeup. Many times girls are frozen in one position, look bored/depressed or mad @the world, smoking constantly and look like they will not give you the time of day unless you toss them $1 or more. ... yup, exit stage left. I've also found the music is a big factor as to whom you attract. The older guys tend to sit and play in the more classic rock rooms while it seems the younger chat-a-lot non-tippers go for more hiphop type or thug music as I have heard it called..... just generalities and my personal observations, nothing is ever written in stone in Camland.
Good luck.
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I had a good idea of what to expect, i've wanted to do this sense i turned 18 but up untill now i had so many limitations it was impossible to do, i just have a hubby that gets me and knows who i am and what i like and loves that i'm bold about it.

i'm plus sized, so i do what i can, i have two toys but only one can be used because the other needs batteries, i have a limited wardrobe, and i'm working on getting sexy underwear and bra's i only have two atm. i'm starting from the bottom up.

i take two showers a day to look my best, new makeup for both my shows, brush my hair and two different outfits. i'm actually quite addicted to it. its the only social time i have actually, the rest of my time i spend with my hubby and son. i don't have any friends where i live atm, they are all an hour away, so i rather enjoy getting on and chatting.

i just... i'm myself, i don't want to fake being something i'm not, i love role play, i like dressing up, i love cosplay and role play but i'm running into the issue of people thinking i'm desprate for tokens because when i'm begged to show my boobs or puss i reject them and say not without reaching my goals. then i get users lecturing me. its not as fun the last couple of days.

My cam score stinks and i don't know the proper range for things yet but this weekend i'm working on my albums to offer for some tokens. my hubby is on board to let me exploit myself for a good album and i really really want to do outdoor nudes out on our wooded property. i just need the opportunity.

long story shorter, i just rely on the tips for props. i'm working on my room so it looks fun and i'm going to be getting a webcam asap. just mainly doing it for the social aspect but i'm not going to give it all up for free. guess i just gotta stick with it huh?
 
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