married/taken camgirls

[SofiaSweets]

My boyfriend actually "bro's around" with all my members in chat... They all seem to really like him and they all thank him for getting me on MFC in the first place

 

[Megaclit]

I really wish that models would be more honest about being in long-term relationships, just so that I don't have to constantly see the pathetic losers who constantly whine about how they want to hook up with the model and give her the time of her life. Snap out of it, dude!

LOL, it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. When I tell them about my husband they ask to talk to him, or they ask me why he's not okay with me meeting them, or why I can't just sneak out when he's not looking. Reminds me of years ago when I put an ad in the newspaper for a girl to occasionally cam with. I was specific. Must be female, must love wearing heels and lingerie. I got 1 response from a female and 700 responses from men. This is just what guys* do. "Can I come over?" "NO." "OMG but why? I really LIKE you." wtf?



*generalization.

 

[JickyJuly]

I really wish that models would be more honest about being in long-term relationships, just so that I don't have to constantly see the pathetic losers who constantly whine about how they want to hook up with the model and give her the time of her life. Snap out of it, dude!

LOL, it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. When I tell them about my husband they ask to talk to him, or they ask me why he's not okay with me meeting them, or why I can't just sneak out when he's not looking. Reminds me of years ago when I put an ad in the newspaper for a girl to occasionally cam with. I was specific. Must be female, must love wearing heels and lingerie. I got 1 response from a female and 700 responses from men. This is just what guys* do. "Can I come over?" "NO." "OMG but why? I really LIKE you." wtf?



*generalization.

*wanders off topic* I just wanted to say that you, Megaclit, are hilarious. Every post I've seen from you has made me smile and or giggle. :mrgreen:

 

[Megaclit]

I really wish that models would be more honest about being in long-term relationships, just so that I don't have to constantly see the pathetic losers who constantly whine about how they want to hook up with the model and give her the time of her life. Snap out of it, dude!

LOL, it doesn't make the slightest bit of difference. When I tell them about my husband they ask to talk to him, or they ask me why he's not okay with me meeting them, or why I can't just sneak out when he's not looking. Reminds me of years ago when I put an ad in the newspaper for a girl to occasionally cam with. I was specific. Must be female, must love wearing heels and lingerie. I got 1 response from a female and 700 responses from men. This is just what guys* do. "Can I come over?" "NO." "OMG but why? I really LIKE you." wtf?



*generalization.

*wanders off topic* I just wanted to say that you, Megaclit, are hilarious. Every post I've seen from you has made me smile and or giggle. :mrgreen:

LOL thanks for that. You have no idea how much that just made my day!!!

 

[Anonymous]

My regulars know that I'm in a long-term relationship, and I'm open about it to anyone who asks. My boyfriend gets raves and kudos all the time from my viewers. I get a lot of "your bf is a lucky man!" And then when I told them that it was his idea for me to cam in the first place, they all said they wanted to shake his hand.

 

[muh!]

I dont see why so many guys are even concerned about the single or not thing...
Its not a dating site ....
....as long as the girl doesn't talk about him constantly
....as long as theres no guy on cam
Then so what?

That doesn't mean you can't find a girl who seems to be that special one . Most places aren't 'a dating site', but people meet everywhere. I wouldn't have stayed on MFC for more than a week if I hadn't found the girl I ended up spending all of 2011 with. And I know I wouldn't have let myself get carried away if I knew she had a bf, or even was seeing guys regularly. If she starts dating I would of course be bummed, but I would never blame her. For my own sake I know I'd have to leave MFC, tho. Sad(?) but true.

If your point is that because MFC is not a dating site, guys should not EXPECT the models to be single, I agree with you completely.
Tbh, I guess I'd also agree that you shouldn't for a second think MFC can be a dating site. I'm slowly realizing that falling in love with this girl is probably the dumbest thing I've done my entire life . It's not over until you've lost, though, right? She's always just a 30h plane flight away :lol:

 

[Jessi]

I am a single camgirl, but I wasnt when I first started. Long, long ago; when I was working on LiveJasmin(ew) the people on that site would get really creepy/angry about it. On MFC, it was usually "Aww man, he's so lucky" . He's done a video with me recently (still close friends) and the attitude has not changed.

I feel like dating as a camgirl has presented some challenges for me (aside from crippling social awkwardness). Ive tried being up front about, but one dude turned major creepo/disrespectful in 2.5. I tried telling another guy after a while, and he felt hurt/deceived. Can't win

 

[Jupiter551]

I am a single camgirl, but I wasnt when I first started. Long, long ago; when I was working on LiveJasmin(ew) the people on that site would get really creepy/angry about it. On MFC, it was usually "Aww man, he's so lucky" . He's done a video with me recently (still close friends) and the attitude has not changed.

I feel like dating as a camgirl has presented some challenges for me (aside from crippling social awkwardness). Ive tried being up front about, but one dude turned major creepo/disrespectful in 2.5. I tried telling another guy after a while, and he felt hurt/deceived. Can't win

Yeah I think just be straight up about it and fuck the haters. If they find out or you try to be honest later, a small percentage (who may be good tippers) will get all pissy.

Different situation but...I had this friend at uni, she was hot, we had a couple classes together and would have coffee and chat after classes, flirt a very small amount. Then we started meeting up at uni outside of just after classes we took together - you know, we were friends. Except there was a slight amount of sexual tension, and it was enjoyable. This went on for 6 months and...oh yeah, I guess I'd never mentioned my girlfriend that I'd had since before I even met this girl. On the one hand I told myself well she just never entered the conversation, but the truth was I didn't want the flirting and sexual tension to stop even if (especially if) it wasn't going to go anywhere.

So anyway after like 6 months I somehow dropped "my girlfriend" into the conversation, and maybe it was coincidence but we basically never saw each other again lol. :dontknow:

 

[Jessi]

I am a single camgirl, but I wasnt when I first started. Long, long ago; when I was working on LiveJasmin(ew) the people on that site would get really creepy/angry about it. On MFC, it was usually "Aww man, he's so lucky" . He's done a video with me recently (still close friends) and the attitude has not changed.

I feel like dating as a camgirl has presented some challenges for me (aside from crippling social awkwardness). Ive tried being up front about, but one dude turned major creepo/disrespectful in 2.5. I tried telling another guy after a while, and he felt hurt/deceived. Can't win

Yeah I think just be straight up about it and fuck the haters. If they find out or you try to be honest later, a small percentage (who may be good tippers) will get all pissy.

Different situation but...I had this friend at uni, she was hot, we had a couple classes together and would have coffee and chat after classes, flirt a very small amount. Then we started meeting up at uni outside of just after classes we took together - you know, we were friends. Except there was a slight amount of sexual tension, and it was enjoyable. This went on for 6 months and...oh yeah, I guess I'd never mentioned my girlfriend that I'd had since before I even met this girl. On the one hand I told myself well she just never entered the conversation, but the truth was I didn't want the flirting and sexual tension to stop even if (especially if) it wasn't going to go anywhere.

So anyway after like 6 months I somehow dropped "my girlfriend" into the conversation, and maybe it was coincidence but we basically never saw each other again lol. :dontknow:

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That sucks Jup

I guess I should have clarified my post tho, the second paragraph refers to real-life guys I tried to date since becoming single, not online guys. It sort of made me realise that people are still really backwards/horrible to people who do adult work. He was sweet and gentlemanly and the conversation completely soured once he thought I was a "whore" and therefore a peice of meat. Creeper. :-x

 

[mynameisbob84]

He was sweet and gentlemanly and the conversation completely soured once he thought I was a "whore" and therefore a peice of meat. Creeper. :-x

If it's any consolation, he sounds like a poop

 

[Shaun__]

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That sucks Jup

I guess I should have clarified my post tho, the second paragraph refers to real-life guys I tried to date since becoming single, not online guys. It sort of made me realise that people are still really backwards/horrible to people who do adult work. He was sweet and gentlemanly and the conversation completely soured once he thought I was a "whore" and therefore a peice of meat. Creeper. :-x

I think the average man is like the average guest on MFC, and that is why you are having trouble. I personally always just considered cam modeling a job like any other, and I am sure their are other men who think the same as me out their who have some of the other things you like in your partners as well. I think you will find someone eventually if you do not give up.

 

[Jessi]

You guys are right, its better to find out if someone sucks before you go and start a relationship or something :thumbleft:

 

[mynameisbob84]

You guys are right, its better to find out if someone sucks before you go and start a relationship or something :thumbleft:

What you need is a questionnaire for potential suitors to fill out before you consider dating them. Mine looks like this:

1. Are you male?
2. Are we related?
3. Are you inherently and/or fundamentally evil?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions, it is my regret to inform you, we are not compatible.

Your questionnaire may be more in-depth than mine

 

[sweetiebatman]

In my opinion, Its only the slightly wierd clingy ones that will have a problem with this anyways, and lets be honest the less of them around the better for everyone :lol:

If you get that pissy about a some poor model in another state/country having a real relationship that has dashed your deluded dreams of romance then quite frankly you shouldn't be allowed access to the internet until you learn to interact with us sane folk in society!

 

[bawksy]

Or think it's totally awesome that I'm fucking a chick.

Yeah, I'm a member of that crowd.

 

[Rose]

You guys are right, its better to find out if someone sucks before you go and start a relationship or something :thumbleft:

What you need is a questionnaire for potential suitors to fill out before you consider dating them. Mine looks like this:

1. Are you male?
2. Are we related?
3. Are you inherently and/or fundamentally evil?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions, it is my regret to inform you, we are not compatible.

Your questionnaire may be more in-depth than mine

I think I may steal your questionnaire and how you call idiots "poop". Poop just sounds like a great name to start calling people I dislike. Lol and that questionnaire looks like it may be fairly effective.

 

[xxAmberxx]

I am in a long-term relationship and we are emgaged but we say that we are married because we feel that we pretty much are because we have been dating a year and 6 months and have been living together a year since september 2010 and this is the first time we live in our own place. He knows I am a cam girl and he trusts me though he doesn't like the fact that I am talking to guys so usually I cam when he goes to bed and he doesn't make a big deal about it then because I am not cutting out time with him to be on cam and that makes us both happy campers! Most of my members know about him and they say he is a lucky man

 

[mynameisbob84]

You guys are right, its better to find out if someone sucks before you go and start a relationship or something :thumbleft:

What you need is a questionnaire for potential suitors to fill out before you consider dating them. Mine looks like this:

1. Are you male?
2. Are we related?
3. Are you inherently and/or fundamentally evil?

If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions, it is my regret to inform you, we are not compatible.

Your questionnaire may be more in-depth than mine

I think I may steal your questionnaire and how you call idiots "poop". Poop just sounds like a great name to start calling people I dislike. Lol and that questionnaire looks like it may be fairly effective.

"Poop" (and its derivatives) is just such a great, versatile word...

"Shut up, you big poop!"
"It smells poopy in here"
"Oh poop, I stubbed my toe"
"I really need to poop"
"I just feel really poopy and need to be alone right now"
"That band are poop"
"What the poop are you talking about?"
"For poops sake!"
"She was just acting really poopy"
"What colour is your poop?"
"Now you're just taking the poop..."

:-D

 

[TashaDutch]

I have a boyfriend and I end up talking about him during my shows, I don't even mean too, but my regulars are always asking about our relationship, and once I get started I get all gushy...ha. No one has ever complained.

oh yeah the same thing happens to me! i'm not really sure if people mind.. but most get eother turned on by it.. and get really intrested in how i have sex with him and stuff like that...
i was single for most of my cam time.. and when i returned i just desided i was no longer single..
my room atracts alot of men that are not assuming i will ever have sex with them or meet them.. so i never got any negative responses