I don't care. She ain't dating me no matter what, so why should it matter?
I think some guys might have a mental block around looking at another man's 'property' sexually. It's not about whether or not he could potentially date her, it's about her being some one else's. That's my thoughts at least. Also, if a camgirl's relationship status changes is there really an appropriate time or way to bring it up?
Ultimately, it's not REALLY anyone's business but her own. I don't even know if half the girls I have class with every day are in relationships.
I assume this is the reason more people don't be honest and say they're single and date - because it might be taken as an "invitation" to some members to initiate an awkward situation.CharlieSays said:I'm single, but I date. And I tell my room exactly that. I would tell MFC folks if it got serious enough that I wanted to move in with someone, but I would want to avoid the personal questions as long as possible. I think maybe because we share so much of our sexuality online it's nice to have some things that are just yours.
Maybe I should have a pretend boyfriend though, because I did get asked on two IRL dates from MFC people recently. I could call him Bob in your honor.
JJasione said:A lot of the time they'd ask tons of questions, make inappropriate comments about how they could satisfy me better,
JJasione said:I get the "how are you single??" thing in my room a lot too and I don't know how to answer.
Isabella_deL said:JJasione said:A lot of the time they'd ask tons of questions, make inappropriate comments about how they could satisfy me better,
This one always makes me laugh.
Aurora said:Bob, I just have to say you're probably my favorite ACF poster so far. If only I could rate and admire more than once...
It's not about whether or not he could potentially date her, it's about her being some one else's.
Bocefish said:SexyStephXS said:Also, many men do seem to feel there is ownership in relationships "I'd never LET my girlfriend/wife do this." "How does your bf feel about you doing this?" "Does your boyfriend let you do this?" etc. It's kinda like when in a bar a woman tells a man she's not interested and he ignores it but if a man comes up and says something that implies this woman is dating him it changes things.
I think some guys might have a mental block around looking at another man's 'property' sexually. It's not about whether or not he could potentially date her, it's about her being some one else's. That's my thoughts at least. Also, if a camgirl's relationship status changes is there really an appropriate time or way to bring it up?
I believe there is some ownership in a serious relationship, which is why I shared the way my model friend put it. She said "I'm married but have permission to play online as much as I want."
That should dissolve any guilt or apprehension a member may have. If it doesn't, then said member is on the wrong site.
It's also nice to know that what I previously thought was an innocent honest compliment saying "your husband is a lucky man" is apparently no longer welcomed.
angiejet said:Bocefish said:SexyStephXS said:Also, many men do seem to feel there is ownership in relationships "I'd never LET my girlfriend/wife do this." "How does your bf feel about you doing this?" "Does your boyfriend let you do this?" etc. It's kinda like when in a bar a woman tells a man she's not interested and he ignores it but if a man comes up and says something that implies this woman is dating him it changes things.
I think some guys might have a mental block around looking at another man's 'property' sexually. It's not about whether or not he could potentially date her, it's about her being some one else's. That's my thoughts at least. Also, if a camgirl's relationship status changes is there really an appropriate time or way to bring it up?
I believe there is some ownership in a serious relationship, which is why I shared the way my model friend put it. She said "I'm married but have permission to play online as much as I want."
That should dissolve any guilt or apprehension a member may have. If it doesn't, then said member is on the wrong site.
The "permission" thing makes me gag a bit. If she's dating someone who is explicitly fine with sex work, then she's there's a chance that that is one of the qualities that makes them a good match. It's a partnership. I cam, and I'm in a serious relationship with someone who respects sex work, me, and my choices. I don't have "permission" do it, it is what I've chosen to do as an autonomous person.
Bocefish said:angiejet said:Bocefish said:SexyStephXS said:Also, many men do seem to feel there is ownership in relationships "I'd never LET my girlfriend/wife do this." "How does your bf feel about you doing this?" "Does your boyfriend let you do this?" etc. It's kinda like when in a bar a woman tells a man she's not interested and he ignores it but if a man comes up and says something that implies this woman is dating him it changes things.
I think some guys might have a mental block around looking at another man's 'property' sexually. It's not about whether or not he could potentially date her, it's about her being some one else's. That's my thoughts at least. Also, if a camgirl's relationship status changes is there really an appropriate time or way to bring it up?
I believe there is some ownership in a serious relationship, which is why I shared the way my model friend put it. She said "I'm married but have permission to play online as much as I want."
That should dissolve any guilt or apprehension a member may have. If it doesn't, then said member is on the wrong site.
The "permission" thing makes me gag a bit. If she's dating someone who is explicitly fine with sex work, then she's there's a chance that that is one of the qualities that makes them a good match. It's a partnership. I cam, and I'm in a serious relationship with someone who respects sex work, me, and my choices. I don't have "permission" do it, it is what I've chosen to do as an autonomous person.
She's not dating him, they're married. The permission thing is just the way she phrased it, which is pretty clever in my opinion considering she's mostly camming for men. She's a smart, entrepreneurial, strong minded, independent woman. They're a team, he films her videos and helps out where and when he can so you shouldn't assume things or put that much weight on a single word, or 'gag a bit' without knowing more about it.
LilyEvans said:This has been mentioned, but there are members who are explicitly against watching models who are in relationships. I can kind of understand why-- even though webcam shows are about fantasy, the fantasy can be kinda ruined when in the back of your head you know a model is going home with another man when she signs off. And anyway, since the fact that a model is in a relationship is inconsequential, it's just as unimportant if she lies about being single, isn't it?
mutantdonut said:LilyEvans said:This has been mentioned, but there are members who are explicitly against watching models who are in relationships. I can kind of understand why-- even though webcam shows are about fantasy, the fantasy can be kinda ruined when in the back of your head you know a model is going home with another man when she signs off. And anyway, since the fact that a model is in a relationship is inconsequential, it's just as unimportant if she lies about being single, isn't it?
I guess it comes down to a "don't ask, don't tell" policy for certain models, and "don't know, don't wanna know" for certain members. If a naive member is to automatically assume that every cam model is single, then
sv89 said:Couldn't it legally be considered fraud if a cam model was telling people that she was single when in fact she wasn't so they would tip her more. I know that just saying your single when your not on dating sites is enough for you to be sued and there no money is involved.
NoelleBright said:sv89 said:Couldn't it legally be considered fraud if a cam model was telling people that she was single when in fact she wasn't so they would tip her more. I know that just saying your single when your not on dating sites is enough for you to be sued and there no money is involved.
LOL do you even live on planet Earth?