Ladies: what are your top dating deal breakers?

[ThePrincessLuxy]

If he snaps and is rude to the waiter/waitress.
If he does not like animals.
If he does not enjoy food.
If he does not enjoy asian food.
If he does not enjoy asian culture.
If he is a bigot.

 

[Dafnie]

-Is always late
-Cheap/stingy (example: walks 30 blocks instead of taking a bus)
-Doesn't change his bed sheets often/doesn't flush the toilet/messy and unorganized
-Bad hygiene and bad teeth
-Snores
-Says racist jokes, rape jokes, sexist jokes
-Selfish in bed/doesn't know well the female anatomy
-Lacks empathy and communication skills/is socially inept
-Has a bad temper, stubborn. doesn't want to admit that he's sometimes wrong
-Only wants casual sex without having an emotional connection
-Is resentful/passive aggressive
-Rude to employees/animals
-Dedicates his whole life to gaming

I would say religious but I almost never meet religious people so..

 

[Amelia Liddell]

-if he's not a feminist i don't even waste my time
-a dick to wait staff (seems a lot of girls are saying this, 'cause it's the worst!)
-has douchey friends. if he keeps company that are dicks it makes me think that he must be a dick when i'm not around
-anger issues. everyone gets mad sometimes but i don't like angry people
-if he takes himself too seriously. i like someone i can relax with and watch cartoons and roll around in bed with.
-republicans. lol no ty. i need someone who has a liberal viewpoint similar to mine
-he has to be 420 friendly, or at least cool with me smoking
-he has to have a good sense of humor! i love to laugh and fuck around so i dont want to hang out with a wet blanket lol
-i'm more of a homebody, so if he's the kind of guy who has to go out every night of the week it might not work out

it's cool seeing everyones different answers

 

[JoleneBrody]

- you only want to eat at chain restaurants when we travel

I feel like this is really important

 

[yummybrownfox]

-Selfish in bed

Yes. I stopped hooking up with this guy recently for THAT reason. Too self-absorbed.

 

[VeronicaChaos]

-always negative
-doesn't have a sense of humor
-politically correct (I need someone who can make offensive jokes with me)
-no ambition (not necessarily with job, but life in general)
-hardcore drug addiction
-boring
-bad in bed
-stupid
-no chemistry

Usually it's the last one that breaks it.

 

[dilligaf0]

-always negative
-doesn't have a sense of humor
-politically correct (I need someone who can make offensive jokes with me)
-no ambition (not necessarily with job, but life in general)
-hardcore drug addiction
-boring
-bad in bed
-stupid
-no chemistry

Usually it's the last one that breaks it.

I still have my chemistry set from high school.
Does that count?

 

[Empress Mika]

I think I'm a weirdo ^_^;

1. My dream guy has to be intelligent. Like, really, really intelligent. I want to talk philosophy, look up to him and learn as much as possible from an endless mind.
2. My dream guy has to strive to be even more intelligent via always learning something else, preferably with me.
3. My dream guy has to be a gamer, anime fan and Kdrama fan and not like to leave the house much for leisure.
4. My dream guy has to put me first because I'd put him first. And be super, super nice.

Anything outside of this are usually deal breakers for me, haha.

 

[NerdieBirdie]

Oh I am excited to see so many other people who hate children and are repulsed by the thought of children. I feel very at home in this thread.

 

[DuoShi]

Don't be mad at me for not being a lady and posting my "deal breakers".

Drinks alcohol
Smokes / Drug use
Not "religious" (I like to be with someone who has the same belief system as I)
Super duper dirty (Ma was a "neat freak". Me? Not so much)
Has no interest in any of my hobbies (Other than sharing my beliefs, I'd like to be with someone I can have fun with daily)
Worries too much (I'm mostly care-free, so I'd rather not be with someone who is too much of "worry wart". A little bit of worrying never hurts.)

 

[SaffronBurke]

Uses pet names instead of my actual damn name that I have for a fucking reason (actually, I just dislike this in general)
Romantic, mushy, etc. It's just not my thing.
Can't cook
Doesn't like anything I cook
Doesn't like trying new food
Always stressed
Not cool with my job
Racist, homophobic, or misogynist
No passion or ambition for anything
Thinks that they're above or better than others

 

[fandango]

I'm not a girl but here are mine.

Not up for trying new things (this is my number 1 dealbreaker)
Someone manipulative or controlling.
Someone who likes to plan every second of every day ages in advance, never willing to do things on the spur of the moment. (A little planning and a general life plan is good. Just not military level planning of every day down to the tiniest detail)
Dirtyness or bad hygeine
General shitty attitude to life or other people
Doesn't want kids,I come from a big family and I'd like to have one of my own someday. (seems this is quite an unpopular trait from this thread )

Thats about all I can think of.

 

[SoniaSilk]

My dealbreakers

- Rude or disrespectful to anyone (bigots included).
- Bad listeners.
- Bad hygiene.
- Bad in bed.

You might think I'm easy to please... Mainly 'cause I have no gender restrictions at all.... But try to find this creature and you'll see how picky I am.

 

[Guy]

My dealbreakers

- Rude or disrespectful to anyone (bigots included).
- Bad listeners.
- Bad hygiene.
- Bad in bed.

You might think I'm easy to please... Mainly 'cause I have no gender restrictions at all.... But try to find this creature and you'll see how picky I am.

Have you ever had a date that was bad in bed?

 

[Guy]

Oh I am excited to see so many other people who hate children and are repulsed by the thought of children. I feel very at home in this thread.

I hate little kids they are maddening as hell!

 

[NoelleBright]

-PICKY EATERS, my number one annoyance.
-Energy vampires/"parrots" (someone who doesn't really have much in the way of their own personality or interests, so they mimic yours thinking it will impress you in some way) It's like talking into an echo chamber. I spend every day of my life with myself, I REALLY don't want to be dating myself too.
-Wants kids. I actually don't mind too much if they already have them so long as they aren't absolute terrors, I just won't be having any of my own.
-Dislikes animals.
-No sense of humor/takes themselves too seriously.
-Idiots.

 

[TacoBelle]

Have you ever had a date that was bad in bed?

Obviously she has since she knows that it's one of her deal breakers. Since you started another thread with this exact question, I'm sure she would have answered there if she felt it was pertinent to do so.

 

[Guy]

Obviously she has since she knows that it's one of her deal breakers. Since you started another thread with this exact question, I'm sure she would have answered there if she felt it was pertinent to do so.

How would I know whether or not she viewed the the other thread? She may also just have a good idea of what bad in bed would be like.

 

[TacoBelle]

How would I know whether or not she viewed the the other thread? She may also just have a good idea of what bad in bed would be like.

"Bad in bed" is subjective. It's different for each person. One girl may appreciate a guy who sticks his whole tongue in her vagina and hate when a guy licks her clit, while another girl may think that your tongue should ONLY be on her clit and nowhere else. One girl may like you to pound your dick into her vagina hard and fast jackhammer style while others might hate that and want you to only stick half in and slowly pump in and out. THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL LEARN WHAT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER WILL LIKE IS TO ASK HER.

 

[Guy]

"Bad in bed" is subjective. It's different for each person. One girl may appreciate a guy who sticks his whole tongue in her vagina and hate when a guy licks her clit, while another girl may think that your tongue should ONLY be on her clit and nowhere else. One girl may like you to pound your dick into her vagina hard and fast jackhammer style while others might hate that and want you to only stick half in and slowly pump in and out. THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL LEARN WHAT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER WILL LIKE IS TO ASK HER.

She still could have an idea of what she would not want her date to do with her in bed.

 

[SoniaSilk]

"Bad in bed" is subjective. It's different for each person. One girl may appreciate a guy who sticks his whole tongue in her vagina and hate when a guy licks her clit, while another girl may think that your tongue should ONLY be on her clit and nowhere else. One girl may like you to pound your dick into her vagina hard and fast jackhammer style while others might hate that and want you to only stick half in and slowly pump in and out. THE ONLY WAY YOU WILL LEARN WHAT YOUR FUTURE PARTNER WILL LIKE IS TO ASK HER.

I've already had some bad in bed dates, of course. =)

 

[SaffronBurke]

Another major one is having a drastically different sex drive than me. My husband would happily go three months without sex, whereas three days without is a little much for me.

Additionally, if the other person NEVER initiates sex and I always have to. Super annoying, story of my life.