At the risk of drawing this out further, I feel like I need to clarify a few things.
1. I'm not attempting to make a moral argument about anything. Erragal made a claim about where a certain moral judgments came from (that ViruSphere has now also sort of made), namely that having a problem with a spouse using porn comes from insecurity or low self-esteem. I attempted to argue that this view is not always correct, and that judgments about porn being immoral or unacceptable can come from other factors. I AM NOT saying that porn is immoral, nor am I saying people who believe porn is immoral or wrong are correct in that belief. I'm only saying something about where their disapproval comes from.
2. I'm not making a religious statement or argument at all. I chose to use Christianity as an example of why someone might find porn immoral with it being about insecurity or self-esteem, because it seemed like an obvious case. Perhaps I should have instead pointed to that group of feminist philosophers who, without any relation to their religious beliefs, have come to the conclusion that pornography has a negative effect on society, and therefore think porn immoral. (Again, to be clear, I'm not making this argument, nor do I agree with it, it's only an example of why someone might find porn immoral without it being about insecurity or self-esteem).
3. I didn't intend to start any kind of religious debate, nor do I think this topic the appropriate place to do so. As it is, I feel like I kind of accidentally took Lily's serious and important topic off the rails, and I'm sorry for that. In an attempt to be on-topic, I will summarize by saying that I don't think camming, in and of itself, is immoral. Perhaps I'll expand on that a bit, but not in this post.
