In love with a webcam girl

[cheeks]

yes and i appreciate your honesty and I consider all possibilities, but I'm pretty clueless now.

I tipped her about 500/800 (I don't remember) tokens in the first two months I met her.
she makes about 1000 tokens or more every day.
she said multiple times she doesn't want my tokens.

she do admit though that she try's the 'in love' or "I like" method on guys to get tokens.

 

[Just Me]

yes and i appreciate your honesty and I consider all possibilities, but I'm pretty clueless now.

I tipped her about 500/800 (I don't remember) tokens in the first two months I met her.
she makes about 1000 tokens or more every day.
she said multiple times she doesn't want my tokens.

she do admit though that she try's the 'in love' or "I like" method on guys to get tokens.

Sadly, if you have tipped her at all and she admits to using the "in love" lie to get tokens, her motives are suspect. Even if you think the amount you tipped was negligible compared to what she makes.

You say she has said multiple times that she doesn't want your tokens. Why would it even come up multiple times if it was not an issue?

We are only getting your side of the story in this, and you have not been totally honest in your posts here. You even said in your original post "Before you ask, there is no tokens/money involved in our friendship" but you say you tipped her in your last post. We all tend to sugar coat our posts and present ourselves in the best light when asking questions like these, but I notice a distinct lessening of what you think she feels for you as you have posted more. If you think she does not have the same feelings, you are probably right. Go with your gut.

 

[Sevrin]

Oh, just go ahead and go see her. You'll find out if there was anything, and if there isn't, you will still have sweet memories of a lot of good times online. What is the ABSOLUTE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN? Right. Nothing that bad. You're young and so is she. You might have found someone for life, and if not, you'll get over it. Neither of you is going to do yourself in if this doesn't work out, and if you don't, you'll always wonder what if.

Either that, or stay off MFC for a few months and find stuff to distract yourself, preferably something in meatspace that will get you away from your computer.

 

[Bocefish]

I'm pretty clueless now.

This isn't Dear Amber :naughty:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/dearabby_form.html

 

[Jupiter551]

yes and i appreciate your honesty and I consider all possibilities, but I'm pretty clueless now.

I tipped her about 500/800 (I don't remember) tokens in the first two months I met her.
she makes about 1000 tokens or more every day.
she said multiple times she doesn't want my tokens.

she do admit though that she try's the 'in love' or "I like" method on guys to get tokens.

FFS just ask her if she wants to meet.
If she says yes then she's interested. If she says no you can move on.

Simple. Done. Do it. Thanks.

 

[cheeks]

she said not now. The rest is more personal.
thanks for the input all.
I'm not breaking up the contact though, but I'm gonna (try) so forget my feelings.

 

[Jupiter551]

she said not now. The rest is more personal.
thanks for the input all.
I'm not breaking up the contact though, but I'm gonna (try) so forget my feelings.

Better not forget about them, instead recognise them for what they are - lust, infatuation, admiration. Not love.

 

[Just Me]

she said not now. The rest is more personal.
thanks for the input all.
I'm not breaking up the contact though, but I'm gonna (try) so forget my feelings.

You will have a difficult time trying to forget your feelings if you keep in contact. If you can just be friends that is great, but when one person has more feelings for the other it is usually doomed.

 

[maskpull]

You are very lucky cheers, when you and her are both in Europe. You can afford to arrange to meet her. I don't think why you don't go to meet her asap. I am also falling in love with a Romanian cam girl. But I am from an undeveloped country in Asia, and I even don't have enough money to buy a flight ticket to go Romanian to find her there. I don't have any specific information of her, just only know she is in Bucharest. But I have a crazy hope, and every night I dream about it, I will save money in many years to be able to apply for a university in Bucharest , and then try my best to have a job there. Because I really want to meet her in real, to pursuit her. So look again what you have, you have her skype, her address, her love. Let do what your heart want!

 

[Azhrarn]

"Love" for a cam girl can often just be "addiction" in disguise. If it's not something that's going to go somewhere for you and you only want that, I'd suggest breaking off the contact and trying to get over the addiction as soon as possible. People don't realize it, but sometimes having so much time and attention taken up by someone prevents us from finding something or someone better. You've got to free up your time and emotional ties in order to find what you're actually looking for.

To AmberCutie: I read over this reply, and the only thing I found wrong with it was the word "sometimes," so I took the liberty of correcting that for you!

To the OP: I did my best to make sense of your initial post and follow-up posts, but I can't. It doesn't seem like you've been entirely honest in your account. You also sound very conflicted and confused. For example, if you both live in Europe, what exactly is the great difficulty in meeting? I also don't understand how you jump from thinking about a first meeting to relocating. That's a pretty huge leap. But it's also part of the process, in time. When two people first meet they always have their own lives; that's where compromise comes in. Just how many relationships have either of you been in?

But to cut to the chase, my best guess, putting the best spin on this possible, is that neither of you really wants a real relationship. I think, for whatever reasons, you're both happy with an online imitation. Sorry to be so blunt, but as AmberCutie points out, when you're both investing so much time and energy into an online relationship, it is going to prevent you from finding and pursuing real life relationships - which of course are much harder and much scarier. But on the positive side, it also sounds as if each of you is at least somewhat aware of this, that you're using the online friendship as an excuse to not pursue real world relationships.

:twocents-02cents:

 

[NoelleBright]

This thread is 3 years old you guys...

 

[Azhrarn]

This thread is 3 years old you guys...

wtf? O_O

maskpull must be bored and trolling, using his first post to gravedig a 3 year old thread...

 

[maskpull]

This thread is 3 years old you guys...

wtf? O_O

maskpull must be bored and trolling, using his first post to gravedig a 3 year old thread...

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

 

[KylieJacobs]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

 

[maskpull]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

 

[AerynShade]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

If she says something like, "Hey I really like you and want to get to know you offline. This is my phone number/name/email/skype. Let's chat sometime, no tokens required."
But probably, she doesn't. Just do a forum search for "scammed by a Romanian camgirl". It happens ALL THE TIME.

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

Currently giving you a blowjob is a good clue. Otherwise dunno.

 

[mynameisbob84]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

If you find yourself in her bed with your penis in her mouth, there's a good chance she likes you. Until then (or at least until she's asked to meet up and told you to stop tipping) it's probably best to assume that at most, she just thinks of you as an online friend.

EDIT: Jerry beat me to it :?

 

[JerryBoBerry]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

If you find yourself in her bed with your penis in her mouth, there's a good chance she likes you. Until then (or at least until she's asked to meet up and told you to stop tipping) it's probably best to assume that at most, she just thinks of you as an online friend.

Beat ya to it.


Edit: and now I'm chuckling at this.

 

[BooyaaS]

You are very lucky cheers, when you and her are both in Europe. You can afford to arrange to meet her. I don't think why you don't go to meet her asap. I am also falling in love with a Romanian cam girl. But I am from an undeveloped country in Asia, and I even don't have enough money to buy a flight ticket to go Romanian to find her there. I don't have any specific information of her, just only know she is in Bucharest. But I have a crazy hope, and every night I dream about it, I will save money in many years to be able to apply for a university in Bucharest , and then try my best to have a job there. Because I really want to meet her in real, to pursuit her. So look again what you have, you have her skype, her address, her love. Let do what your heart want!

Fantasist basic members :lol:

 

[maskpull]

Just little curious, why many Romanian girl work at studio instead of their own room

 

[MrRodry]

The search feature is your friend. We had some topics about this subject and about the "I'm going to Romania to meet the love of my life" subject.

Life of a webcam model in a romanian studio!

Why so many Romanian / Colombian girls

Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ?

Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ? part2

Should I visit a cam girl from Romania ? part3

Are all Romanian Cam Girls trust worthy –Worth Helping

 

[LilyMarie]

Sorry, I didn't recognize this thread is 3 years old, I just found it accidentally, and most important is I am falling love with a Romanian girl, but I don't know how can I find her in real, love but untouched like a heartbeat

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.

If you have to ask that, she probably doesn't "really like you". Has she told you that she wants contact to you outside of the camsite? Has she said she wants to get to know you? If not, then the answer is no.

And you're talking about wanting to save money for years so that you can move from an Asian country to Bucharest, to try and find a woman who's probably not romantically interested in you at all, and who probably doesn't want to be stalked by a camsite member. You can see that this is completely crazy, right?

 

[Sansa]

Just little curious, why many Romanian girl work at studio instead of their own room

Some of them can't afford their own computers, webcams, and internet connections so they go through studios which can provide all of that plus a room for them to work.

In addition, some girls choose to work in studios because it makes them seem like they are going out to work during the day and coming back home at night. If they live with anyone else, especially family, camming could be difficult for them to do at home (and back to the first point, if they even have a personal computer).

The Romanian Leu (their currency) is much weaker than pounds, dollars, and euros, so even though a studio might be taking a portion of what they make, whatever they've earned is likely to take them further than other jobs. The minimum wage in Romania is around 5.8 Leu/hour which is currently around $1.50 USD. So as you can see, if someone from Romania can get a job where stronger currencies are the source of their income, even though they're making less than non-studio models per token, they have the chance to make a lot more money than they would otherwise.

 

[maskpull]

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.[/quote]
How do you know if a cam girl really like you.[/quote]
If you have to ask that, she probably doesn't "really like you". Has she told you that she wants contact to you outside of the camsite? Has she said she wants to get to know you? If not, then the answer is no.

And you're talking about wanting to save money for years so that you can move from an Asian country to Bucharest, to try and find a woman who's probably not romantically interested in you at all, and who probably doesn't want to be stalked by a camsite member. You can see that this is completely crazy, right?[/quote]
She always said she never make friend online, it's only her job. I see that. I never tip her or make private show. But she still often give message through her cam site, she even give me a fan membership free. How can I make her believe I want to be her real friend.

 

[maskpull]

It's probably not a good idea to look for her in real life unless she specifically invites you.

How do you know if a cam girl really like you.[/quote]
If you have to ask that, she probably doesn't "really like you". Has she told you that she wants contact to you outside of the camsite? Has she said she wants to get to know you? If not, then the answer is no.

And you're talking about wanting to save money for years so that you can move from an Asian country to Bucharest, to try and find a woman who's probably not romantically interested in you at all, and who probably doesn't want to be stalked by a camsite member. You can see that this is completely crazy, right?[/quote]
She always said she never make friend online, it's only her job. I see that. I never tip her or make private show. But she still often give message through her cam site, she even give me a fan membership free. How can I make her believe I want to be her real friend.[/quote]

 

[Jupiter551]

Just BE her friend. If she wants more and you want more it'll happen. If not, it won't. Probably it won't, probably it's in your head. Even if she thinks she feels something, the brutal truth is it's probably in her head too. People make fantasies of each other, when you desire someone your imagination fills in the blanks very flatteringly.

There are just way better ways to meet someone.

 

[maskpull]

Another curious question, I know cam-girls work base on programs that are provided by their web site. But I wonder if they can work through their smart phone, not for show but only send message to their customer.

 

[KayleePond]

Another curious question, I know cam-girls work base on programs that are provided by their web site. But I wonder if they can work through their smart phone, not for show but only send message to their customer.

Yeah, I would say that most models use all kinds of apps and things to keep in touch with members outside of cam sites, often on their phones! Most models have Twitter and email accounts and lots have things like Snapchat, KIK, Vine, Instagram, Tumblr, and other texting apps and games and stuff.

 

[maskpull]

Another curious question, I know cam-girls work base on programs that are provided by their web site. But I wonder if they can work through their smart phone, not for show but only send message to their customer.

Yeah, I would say that most models use all kinds of apps and things to keep in touch with members outside of cam sites, often on their phones! Most models have Twitter and email accounts and lots have things like Snapchat, KIK, Vine, Instagram, Tumblr, and other texting apps and games and stuff.

No, I saw it in my customer mail at cam site that she work, not a different site type But she said she is in hospital. So I wonder if that is exactly she sent me the message.