Hey!
So, i've been in MFC for sort of 4 months now. Lately i've been very consistent in my schedules, have a good cam (logitech c920), lighting, i donthave thebest room but ive done mybest for it to look nice, im talkative, i tease ... all the basics i've made sure i have all those covered.. still.. i can barely have 5 members at the same time in my room. So i was thinking it might be me, but it seems strange to me that two of my regs (who are great guys btw) have tellmeseveral times they find weird my room is so empty and that i have rough times (bcause it is even when im doing a show). And one of them told me once they thought i was too nice maybe, the other one said that my personality was great and that i shouldnt change that. But still thats on my head.
But how do u do when even playing, dancing, teasing and talking u have an empty and quite room? I cant think what is that that im doing do wrong. ... Sometime i actually let anyone pmme bcause its so lonely there that after talking to myself, singing and dancing for half hour i get bored. Is that a bad thing?shouldi never leave pm for free?, it might be that im too nice? too sweet?
So there are like 1000 questions in my head i havent been able to answer.. could it be that im colombian? (i have a US vpn address and i speak english good, but someone also said to me itmight be that people has some stereotypes images stucked on their heads about SA girls).
am i too nice? (should i be more cold?)
if it's only a matter of patience... does eerycam girl goes through this? and hw u girls were able to overthrough those times? (more than 2 or 3 weeks, not only abad day). and how long does it take?
it is also weird to me that things that used to work for me like 3 months ago dont work anymore. (like joi.. which i did a lot, now i barely have 1 in a whole day; or selling videos).
BTW: i know there are thousands of threads about lighting, tpoic ideas, and all that stuff to make things a bit better. I have checked those (almost all lol). But trust me.. i have played twister and hve different other games, i use twitter, and instagram, i have sexy lotion oil shows (when we have reached the goal). .. so the main question here is actually .. am i serously too nice? also.. could something be wrong with my settings on MFC or my laptop that dont help megetting new people? AND could it be bcause im South American?
Im srry it turned so long. I wanted to make it the short story..
... When things will get better i will also let u know all the details And.... Thank you!
So, i've been in MFC for sort of 4 months now. Lately i've been very consistent in my schedules, have a good cam (logitech c920), lighting, i donthave thebest room but ive done mybest for it to look nice, im talkative, i tease ... all the basics i've made sure i have all those covered.. still.. i can barely have 5 members at the same time in my room. So i was thinking it might be me, but it seems strange to me that two of my regs (who are great guys btw) have tellmeseveral times they find weird my room is so empty and that i have rough times (bcause it is even when im doing a show). And one of them told me once they thought i was too nice maybe, the other one said that my personality was great and that i shouldnt change that. But still thats on my head.
But how do u do when even playing, dancing, teasing and talking u have an empty and quite room? I cant think what is that that im doing do wrong. ... Sometime i actually let anyone pmme bcause its so lonely there that after talking to myself, singing and dancing for half hour i get bored. Is that a bad thing?shouldi never leave pm for free?, it might be that im too nice? too sweet?
So there are like 1000 questions in my head i havent been able to answer.. could it be that im colombian? (i have a US vpn address and i speak english good, but someone also said to me itmight be that people has some stereotypes images stucked on their heads about SA girls).
am i too nice? (should i be more cold?)
if it's only a matter of patience... does eerycam girl goes through this? and hw u girls were able to overthrough those times? (more than 2 or 3 weeks, not only abad day). and how long does it take?
it is also weird to me that things that used to work for me like 3 months ago dont work anymore. (like joi.. which i did a lot, now i barely have 1 in a whole day; or selling videos).
BTW: i know there are thousands of threads about lighting, tpoic ideas, and all that stuff to make things a bit better. I have checked those (almost all lol). But trust me.. i have played twister and hve different other games, i use twitter, and instagram, i have sexy lotion oil shows (when we have reached the goal). .. so the main question here is actually .. am i serously too nice? also.. could something be wrong with my settings on MFC or my laptop that dont help megetting new people? AND could it be bcause im South American?
Im srry it turned so long. I wanted to make it the short story..
... When things will get better i will also let u know all the details And.... Thank you!
