I'm Getting Implants

[JickyJuly]

I think everyone should do what they want as long as they're informed and know what they're getting into. That said, I was really sad when my mom got massive boobage installed for her 44th birthday. I guess I took it personally since we have pretty much the same body shape. She attributed her sagging bust to my birth, but that happened 25 years earlier. :liar:

My fear would be the feeling that something is stuck under my skin and wanting it out. Have any of you had acrylic nails and felt like they are suffocating you? That happens to me, and it would be brutal in breast form. Hehe.

The only way that I, personally, would have anything chesticle wise done would be post-baby. That way, if parts of my body were blown out in the birth process, I'd have new boobies to play with at least. Not that I'm making babies, but it never hurts to have a plan.

Excited to see your new bod when you roll it out Alex! (as I'm sure everyone will be). :thumbleft:

 

[luvsyou]

I'm a huge breast fan.....big or small. From my perspective natural or fake it doesn't matter. However, I hate bad boob jobs.

I also like some hang in boobs.

Do what you want to do Alex. I think you would look marvelous after a good boob job. Just don't get something like ee boobs on your small frame.

Just my personal opinion.

 

[Jupiter551]

I remember one model...was it NikkiAlana? seemed to have some problems with her new boobs

I know at least 2 off the top of my head.

To be fair - I told you that was a stupid place to get them put.
You look much better now without headboobs.

:lol:

 

[AlexLady]

From what I'm seeing thus far, the female side of this debate is that wimmenz look at their bewbz as just another fashion accessory.


If that's all they are... by all means pay to conform to whatever the current ideal of beauty is.

If you love your own bewbz and their sensitivity, why risk it?

They're boobs, not a fashion accessory. Hell, I was planning this to happen after I quit camming - but I'm not having to quit in the foreseeable future anymore. As for why I'd change something I'd already love, see my first post.

Do you really want to risk that kind of surgery purely for something like tires you have to rotate every so often just for vanity?

I love a woman's breast because it is a sexual pleasure we both enjoy stimulating.

When or if a woman's breast loses that natural erotic feeling from sexual, sensual, erotic stimulation... then fashionable cleavage is all they're good for.

I know there are risks, but most all of the problems that are even slightly likely, are fixable. Sure, I could lose sensation - but it's not like I'm having them go in through the nipple or anything.

Do what you want to do Alex. I think you would look marvelous after a good boob job. Just don't get something like ee boobs on your small frame.

Nah, I won't go too big.

Neglecting the whole issue of my preferences (and I think you and the OP both look great now) - 'hard as rocks' - can be a result of capsular contraction.

Basically - you're putting something in the body that is not naturally there - and different peoples bodies react differently.
A 'capsule' forms around the wound - which has all sorts of poorly understood things going on in the capsule wall.
In some women, this capsule becomes hard and contracts, making the implant rigid - though it's not actually changed the implant - it's the tissue around it.

If I was considering getting implants (which at the moment seems vanishingly unlikely), I'd be waiting till there was good hard data on comparisons of post-surgery complications at least 3 years out.

(where complications include cosmetic ones, rather than just leakages and other implant failures)

Them going hard is one of those things that can easily be fixed. It's scar tissue, or like you said a capsule. Everyone will scar, just some scar worse than others. Either way, if it does happen, it can be corrected. Breast implants have come a long way already, and the 90's gave them a bad name. That's one of the reasons so many people are against it - because they think Shrek came out last year.

I'm very pro-choice like Fluf.. err.... KarmelKiss said.

But.

The grass is ALWAYS greener.

You (or anyone currently hoping to get boobs) are focusing on the excitement of having bigger assets and a new body. All I can think about when imagining getting a boob job, are the risks involved and the possible health issues afterward. Sure, with a good surgeon, they may turn out fantastic, but you never know how your body will react to having something foreign stuffed into it. I've heard so many horror stories about things popping, leaking, not dropping, never getting soft, ripping, bodies rejecting the implants, and having to either fix or remove the implants to rectify the problems. Multiple, painful, expensive surgeries to fix something that was not broken to begin with.

It's fucking scary.

I know how scary it can be, but I'm not really afraid. I'm not really focused on the results (other than making sure they're done well,) I'm focusing on the breast modification itself. It's hard to explain to someone who isn't pro-piercings/tattoos/scarification/all that stuff. Sure, I'll do this very carefully and won't rush it, and make sure I have a very good surgeon (not just one who's board certified, but one who's certified in breast augmentation.)

i used to be very anti plastic surgery from a "feminist" point of view... but feminism is about choice ive realized as ive gotten older and if your choice is to get fake boobies then im sure youll look hot. i feel like a lot of men say they dont like implants and ive discussed getting my breasts done with my lover and at first he was vehemently against it but when he got over the whole stigma of it he said that he does enjoy my breasts now but if i had bigger ones hed find it sexy too. ive thought alot about getting mine done. i carry alot of weight in my ass and thighs and almost none in my breasts or waist. i would simply like to be more proportionate and feel more confident. the sensitivity thing scares me and as i plan on being a mom someday the breastfeeding thing does too. but some women dont have very much sensitivity in their breasts to begin with so its not an issue for them. if breast play does not play a large role in your sexual enjoyment than it would seem an easier choice to make.
i personally think the stigma for fake breasts is unnecessary. its all about personal decision of cons vs pros. i think you may have a a few disappointed people but really, thats their problem not yours and youll probably have a lot of people who embrace it and find it dead sexy.

Hah, I wish more feminists were like you. The radical ones freak me out and make me kind of sexist >_>

I really do think you're right about it being a stigma. I'm sure that once any girl's breast implants drop and fluff, so long as they don't have major issues (fixable, again,) then no one would notice unless she went too big or went with saline. If they do notice, then they're a bit too picky and fixated with one part of my body. If that one detail of that one part pushes them away from me, then they're the ones who make breasts into an object to judge; not me.

As for how it'd affect my sex life, even if they lost some sensitivity, it wouldn't. My sex life is so awesome, it'd be awesome even without my ass or cunt, let alone my boobs.

Besides, I'm kind of a nudest and all pro-women-being-topless because honest, as awesome and sexy as any part of the body can be on anyone, I don't think breasts have any more to do with sex than shoulders.


I'm sure some people out there think that admiring science and body modification is the wrong reason to get implants, but the truth is; it's not wrong, they just don't get it.

 

[Runts]

Alex, I don't know you very well...but I've perved in your room enough and read enough of your posts on here to say this -- I never, in a million years, would have guessed that you wanted implants (or you either Asha, for that matter). Your current breast size was part of your charm for me...but maybe that's just me.

However, it's your body. Do what you will. That's your call.

I think the broader issue is this: Why do women think that they need bigger boobs? (I'm not trying to get in your head Alex [or Asha's or anyone else's] but instead I'm trying to look at the wider issues which may be feeding into this trend.) Is the reason women want bigger boobs because they want to look like the women who are supposed to be beautiful as portrayed in the media? (That one really doesn't work since some of the most beautiful women in the world, according to People and the like, have small-to-average-sized boobs. But even then, all of their pictures and videos are retouched...so who knows what they really look like. Maybe the ones we think have big tits don't and the ones we think have small tits don't. It's all an illusion.) Is it that porn is overrun with women with huge fake knockers, thus training men to like them and women to think that men like them? (I think this one is closer to what is really going on. I'm sure there's a study somewhere that shows a direct and statistically valid positive correlation between porn consumption and the number of breast implant surgeries.) Is it that women from pretty much any time and any society are subject to great scrutiny when it comes to their bodies, which thus encourages them to alter their bodies to fit better what is acceptable in that time and society? (This also makes sense to me...and it dovetails nicely with the previous two. And this is not a Western/developed nation phenomenon...just look at the neck rings in sub-Saharan Africa, foot-binding a generation ago in China, whalebone corsets in Victorian England, etc, etc.) Is it that certain sectors of our society prey on the body-consciousness of women? (Absolutely! Drive around L.A. sometime and look at the billboards that are clearly aimed at women -- boob jobs, lap bands, etc, etc.)

All in all, whatever excuse any woman makes to alter her natural body is something that she is going to have to live with...for the rest of her life. Decisions like these are serious and should be made soberly and with utmost caution. Besides there are health issues to consider: breast augmentation surgery can be very dangerous and women who have had breast implants are more likely to get cancer and heart disease and are more likely to suffer from low self-esteem, depression, and even suicide. Again, a decision with these sorts of correlated issues needs to be taken very, very seriously.

Once all these things are weighed and a woman chooses to get breast implants, then kudos to her. I'll support her decision. I just want women to think about why they are making the decision and what the ramifications of the decision actually are.

 

[LadyLuna]

Alex,

I know you have thought about this long and hard, and it is not an impulsive decision. I have never liked fake boobs, and am terrified that something might go wrong. I think you would look AWESOME with B-cups, but I also suspect they might grow naturally... just get a little more fat into your diet. Not enough for your stomach to be touched, but it will help them grow naturally.

That said, if you want to get them by going fake, then go for it. I will still have the same crush on you, because that's always been more about how intelligent your posts here are, and how fun your room is, than what you look like.

 

[bawksy]

I'm going to agree on the B cups, disagree on them ever growing naturally. Alex already has some sexy hips, and it's my guess that if she was going to gain weight, it would go to her hips and butt before her tits.

I'm not usually a fan of implants, but I think Alex would look great with Bs. Just please for the love of all things holy, don't pull a DaniMerie or something.

 

[Muddkipps]

I have, unfortunately, only had the pleasure of perving on you once, Alex, and tweeting at you a couple times- something I regret more every time I'm at work and see that you're jumping on MFC. That said, it should be obvious I won't claim to know you or your body exceptionally well, and can address this in a way that isn't necessarily refracted through the scope of "OMG YOU'LL LOOK SO AWESOME," or "your tits are fiiiine, stop wanting to change them!"

You seem to want to be doing this as a form of body mod, rather than for self-esteem (which you seem to have loads of), aesthetics (which you don't need help in [rawr]), or on a whim. You seem, as far as I can tell, to be a wickedly cunning, sexy individual who knows what she wants. You seem to want to enlarge your bust more as a personal expression of who you are and of your own, god-like control over your life, which I applaud. My own personal tastes tend to be for smaller breasts, as I'm actually irrationally afraid of larger ones smothering me in my sleep, but as a fan of piercing, tattooing, and the like, I think that the spirit of your breast enlargement is acceptable.

I've seen images of people with rings in their backs, tied closed with wire to cinch their waists, of men enlarging their urethra to insert things, and people who scar themselves for art. Getting bigger breasts simply because you wish to change yourself for the sake of changing yourself is minor. And PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD DON'T, LIKE, GET THEM WITH BIG HOLES IN THEM OR SOMETHING. SOME OF THAT BMEZINE SHIT IS GROOOOSS.

Sincerely,
The Muddiest of Kips.

 

[AlexLady]

Lol yeah, fat would go to my ass, besides, I'm working hard to build muscle and run fast right now. This isn't my first time exercising heavily (in American standards) and I don't plan to stop. Sure, my ass is "fatty" but it's pretty awesome. It's grown two inches with muscle since I started working out A side effect of that is though that I won't gain much body fat. Even then, my body has never been the fat storing type (woman in my family are always skinny until they hit their 50's)
But yeah, I'm probably going to go for B's, it's what I've been leaning towards, I won't really know until I try on sizers. I'm not trying to "match my ass" or anything for people who think there's a proper ratio or anything.

Luna.

I think you get it Muddkipps


As for the bigger picture, who knows. That part of the world and woman who adore media like gods don't affect me.

 

[AluraCurvyBBW]

I think alex that u are super fuckin sexy. Ur giggle and personality and spunk is what I love. So bewbs..new bewbs.. I'm still pervin when I can. I appreciate ur build, as well as ambers as well as candice (not sure if she's on this forum).I like the models I like for who they are..

Example.. someone with a great body, but no spark leaves me cold.I need personality dammit

 

[AlexLady]

Nowadays, plastic surgeons can perform natural breast enhancement with fat from your own body, which is about the only way I will ever fully endorse enhancement for a woman that is not disfigured for some reason.

Wait, why is it ok for disfigured women to get implants? You're convinced it's "vain" for someone most girls to get implants, but what's so special about mis one tit?

 

[tightlockup]

Do what you want, it's your body. I hope you'll keep spanking yourself in public

 

[LailaBaise]

Nowadays, plastic surgeons can perform natural breast enhancement with fat from your own body, which is about the only way I will ever fully endorse enhancement for a woman that is not disfigured for some reason.

Wait, why is it ok for disfigured women to get implants? You're convinced it's "vain" for someone most girls to get implants, but what's so special about mis one tit?

Does this particular example of gobshite extend to any kind of reconstructive surgery, or are you just using flippant remarks like this to re enforce to all of us how much of a fuck you don't actually give about fake tits or real tits and that you're just doing it for the shits and giggles and because you're so hardcore? I am offended by your comments concerning 'miss one tit'. You might as well say why the hell should that guy with really bad burns get skin grafts, its just as vain as the woman who was forced to have her breasts surgically removed or she would quite possibly die, to try and reclaim a little of her sense of femininity after surviving such a horrendous disease as cancer by having breast implants?

 

[Bocefish]

Nowadays, plastic surgeons can perform natural breast enhancement with fat from your own body, which is about the only way I will ever fully endorse enhancement for a woman that is not disfigured for some reason.

Wait, why is it ok for disfigured women to get implants? You're convinced it's "vain" for someone most girls to get implants, but what's so special about mis one tit?

I was referencing women that have had mastectomy surgery or some other disfiguring ailment. Like Fluffy, I also think it's a pretty thoughtless and crude comment to make. If you've ever known or have seen how breast cancer survivors look and feel after having one or both bewbz removed, you'd understand better.

 

[AlexLady]

A skin graft is different, those are usually done when you need skin that's elastic or just need skin in general because the rest was ripped off or melted. I'm talking just breast implants. -Cosmetic- surgery.

So someone was born with one tit, or lost a tit. Now she's all insecure and self conscious. I simply don't see how that insecurity over -vanity- is no different than the insecurity of the type of women who hate their bodies for having small tits, or no tits for that matter from birth. Some can blame genetics, others blame accidents. It's still vain.

 

[SatanJonez]

A skin graft is different, those are usually done when you need skin that's elastic or just need skin in general because the rest was ripped off or melted. I'm talking just breast implants. -Cosmetic- surgery.

So someone was born with one tit, or lost a tit. Now she's all insecure and self conscious. I simply don't see how that insecurity over -vanity- is no different than the insecurity of the type of women who hate their bodies for having small tits, or no tits for that matter from birth. Some can blame genetics, others blame accidents. It's still vain.

I think it's only seen as vain for one reason: if you're born malformed (at least by the standards of "proper" society) or have a tragic situation happen, you get pity. If you're just not happy with your body, it seems to be seen as very selfish. You're supposed to "love" what you were born with if it's considered "normal". Kind of a weird double standard in my opinion, but whatever.

Again, you've done your research, you're not gonna get HUGE, ridiculous looking tits & you're well above the legal age. Go for it, be safe & enjoy your new boobies when you get them. :thumbleft:

 

[Bocefish]

There is a a huge difference between a woman that lost her breasts due to cancer and is now horribly scarred that wants implants or reconstructive surgery in order to feel more feminine again and a woman that just wants to fill out a dress better, at least in my opinion. I've seen far too many women ruin a perfectly beautiful, natural set of boobies for frankentits. I'm not a fan of fake tit-tays for several reasons, but if it makes a woman feel better, then go for it.

 

[AlexLady]

It doesn't matter if she lost something "naturally" or if she never had it. It's still vain. There's a difference between "cosmetic" and "reconstructive" surgery. Cosmetic is never necessary, and reconstruction restores function to the tissue. Having implants, for whatever reason, doesn't give it any necessary function.

Frankie's right, it's just pity.

Of course, I'm probably seen as an asshole for pointing out that breast implants on a cancer pation shouldn't be any more "acceptable" than on anyone else.

 

[Bocefish]

It doesn't matter if she lost something "naturally" or if she never had it. It's still vain. There's a difference between "cosmetic" and "reconstructive" surgery. Cosmetic is never necessary, and reconstruction restores function to the tissue. Having implants, for whatever reason, doesn't give it any necessary function.

Breast reconstruction is a type of surgery for women who have had a breast removed (mastectomy). The surgery rebuilds the breast so that it is about the same size and shape as it was before. The nipple and the darker area around the nipple (areola) can also be added. Most women who have had a mastectomy can have reconstruction. Women who have had only the part of the breast around the cancer removed (lumpectomy) may not need reconstruction. Breast reconstruction is done by a plastic surgeon.

Types of breast reconstruction:

Several types of operations can be done to reconstruct your breast. You can have a newly shaped breast with the use of a breast implant, your own tissue flap, or a combination of the two. (A tissue flap is a section of your own skin, fat, and muscle which is moved from your tummy, back, or other area of your body to the chest area.)

http://www.cancer.org/acs/groups/cid/documents/webcontent/002992-pdf.pdf

 

[TheRavenGirl]

A few things I've been wanting to say for days:

Guys, I don't care how good you are at distinguishing real boobs from fake, you canNOT tell 99.9% of the time. Any guy who says they don't like fake boobs makes me giggle. In this day and age it's probable that every man who feels the need to say that has admired fake boobs that they thought were real. Feel free to be against the reasons that some ladies decide to get surgery, but don't pretend not to enjoy the finished product. Most fake boobs are done to look natural. And most do. Botched boob jobs are sad, yes - and they definitely stand out when you think of the pros and cons of surgically altering your body, but they aren't the norm.

Tl;dr version: Everyone has admired fake boobs that they thought were real. Fake boobs can rock just as much as natural tits.

Also, Alex is right. Whether by accident, illness, or genetics, getting any type of plastic surgery is vain. Is vanity bad? No. It powers a healthy portion of our society. It's a natural thing. Society's view of physical perfection will always alter the way we present our bodies. It's the reason woman wear makeup, why most men have short hair, why fashion exists, and why plastic surgery is an ever increasing industry.

 

[Bocefish]

A few things I've been wanting to say for days:

Guys, I don't care how good you are at distinguishing real boobs from fake, you canNOT tell 99.9% of the time. Any guy who says they don't like fake boobs makes me giggle. In this day and age it's probable that every man who feels the need to say that has admired fake boobs that they thought were real.

Glad you voiced your opinion. :thumbleft:

Being temporarily fooled on occasion is one thing, but will stand by my original statement. I've also said on this forum who's jiffy boobs I thought were among the best on MFC that I've seen. There is no way to 100% artificially replicate the real deal, yet, but KristyLive's come very close in my humble opinion.

Vanity is indeed everywhere in our culture. It's the depths of fakeness aspired to I that don't particularly like. Please understand I'm not anti jiffy boobs, just not a big fan. I was totally shocked that TJHeart got implants because I thought her breasts were amazingly beautiful in their natural state.

We all have our own tastes and opinions... which is a good thing.

 

[TheRavenGirl]

Glad you voiced your opinion. :thumbleft:

Being temporarily fooled on occasion is one thing, but will stand by my original statement. I've also said on this forum who's jiffy boobs I thought were among the best on MFC that I've seen. There is no way to artificially replicate the real deal, but KristyLive's come very close in my humble opinion.

Vanity is indeed everywhere in our culture. It's the depths of fakeness aspired to I that don't particularly like. Please understand I'm not anti jiffy boobs, just not a big fan. I was totally shocked that TJHeart got implants because I thought her breasts were amazingly beautiful in their natural state.

We all have our own tastes and opinions... which is a good thing.

Of course! I just have a very hard time believing that anyone can distinguish real boobs from fake with that sort of accuracy. Even if you know all the markers to look for, you're just not going to always be able to tell.

What "depths of fakeness" are you referring too? I mean, what is "fake"? Is makeup fake? How about push up bras? Hair extensions? False Eyelashes? Coloured contacts? What makes boobs any different? Imagine how much money a woman spends on cosmetics in her lifetime. I'm willing to bet that amount far exceeds the cost of a boob job. Add to that the months (if not years) of her life that she spends applying it and I'd call that a bigger commitment than fake tits. Where is the line? It's all done for the same reason: vanity.

 

[AlexLady]

Eh, pretty much everything is fake if you want to go to those details. Natural is living in a rock.



Anyways, I'm not hating on cancer patients or anything, it's just, I really get annoyed by people who think it's more "acceptable" for some women to get implants (or men,) than others. It just has no logic to it. That's all. I'm not evil, I swear.

 

[Bocefish]

I really get annoyed by people who think it's more "acceptable" for some women to get implants (or men,) than others. It just has no logic to it. That's all. I'm not evil, I swear.

You ask for feedback... then get annoyed by it? Boo fucking hoo. What's really fucking annoying is when people blurt out crap that is wrong, yet try to pass it off as fact.

 

[Jupiter551]

Of course! I just have a very hard time believing that anyone can distinguish real boobs from fake with that sort of accuracy. Even if you know all the markers to look for, you're just not going to always be able to tell.

Yeah maybe not 99.9% but certainly 9/10. I actually don't think fake boobs are constructed to look like real boobs, even good ones, because a lot of women simply don't like the shape of real boobs, in fact I'm pretty convinced that's exactly why a lot of women get fake ones - because real boobs, even 20 year old boobs, are at least partly shaped by gravity - and lots of women don't want that, they want perky, high-nippled boobs that are going to sit there prettily without moving much and look as good naked as they do in a push-up bra.

They also don't move the same - at all. The most obvious example is of course when a woman lays on her back and boobs (that are large enough and real) will squish out to the sides - they flow, any way they move because they don't have a big bag in them moving as a single object lol. You can talk about all the great leaps forward in cosmetic surgery as much as you like, it doesn't change the fact that the material inside is different and as a result it moves differently.

Not that any of this even matters so much, but it's pretty hard to prove a point without having an opportunity to demonstrate lol. Pick 10, 20 whatever random models and I'll spot real and fake lol. I don't guarantee I'll be right 100% of the time but I'll bet 9/10 at least.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

If you guys are in love with what you "think" are real boobs then go tip those titties.

I think there are more chicks on here with "jiffy boobs" that make tons of money BECAUSE of their choice to get them.

Shit its like pulling teeth to get a tip for my real C cups. The moral of the story is if you don't fucking like it don't look at it.

Alex, I love your personality and body and adding some tits or not I will still watch. Don't let a bunch of dudes sway your opinions ever! Shit, dudes are the reason we feel the need to be unnaturally attractive super-women all the time.

Men rule the world so they think their opinions count everywhere, silly men :lol:
Those that hold the vagina hold the power.

 

[Jupiter551]

If you guys are in love with what you "think" are real boobs then go tip those titties.

Why is it necessary to insult us? Because you think it's so inconcievable that we can tell the difference between real and fake ones? An idiot could spot the difference a mile away.

 

[Lydia_Deetz]

If you guys are in love with what you "think" are real boobs then go tip those titties.

Why is it necessary to insult us? Because you think it's so inconcievable that we can tell the difference between real and fake ones? An idiot could spot the difference a mile away.

Um, I dont see the insult here

My only point was you guys seem to really think you know all there is to know about spotting real vs fake tits according to an online test :roll:

I don't sugar coat what I say, and I stand by my opinion. I am not saying you can not spot a majority of fake tits but come on really? You guys are talking like you went to the "university of Fake Tittie Spotters."

 

[Jupiter551]

Um, I dont see the insult here

My only point was you guys seem to really think you know all there is to know about spotting real vs fake tits according to an online test :roll:

I don't sugar coat what I say, and I stand by my opinion. I am not saying you can not spot a majority of fake tits but come on really? You guys are talking like you went to the "university of Fake Tittie Spotters."

Lol because no matter what we say, you're convinced we can't spot cosmetic surgery. Which to me is in itself weird - I have a fetish for large, natural boobs...why the hell would I not be able to spot them lol.

It seems perfectly natural that guys who love boobs would notice details about them that other people...women for example...might miss about each others boobs.

Similarly, I can't tell a Valentino dress from across a room but I'm never really surprised that some women can. You tend to notice shit you're into, and when you do it actively for years you get pretty darn good at it.

 

[Bocefish]

:thumbleft: Jup

I dunno why it is sooooo hard to believe some guys can spot fake boobies with near 100% accuracy. When you are passionate about something, you tend to get very good at it over time. Have I mentioned that I love boobs before?

How can a woman spot a knock-off prada purse almost immediately? Because she knows what to look for. It's really that simple. I don't have a clue what a prada purse even looks like other than it resembles a purse.

As far as the comparison between a woman that had a mastectomy and a woman that wants bigger bewbz goes... I'll just say the following and leave it at that: How can you have a feeling of loss for something you never had to begin with?

I'll say it AGAIN... if getting implants makes you happy, then go for it. It's your body.

I love all bewbz... some just have to grow on me more than others. :mrgreen: