I'm Getting Implants

[Nordling]

:-D When opinions are asked for, opinions will come, but opinions ON those opinions are valid too.

So, no, I don't agree with the opinion that "since you asked for opinions, you can't trash my opinion!" That's just silly.

:twocents-02cents:

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

Ya know, sometimes a boob job is just a boob job.

You buy stuff in life you like.
Not to make people like you.

 

[Nordling]

Ya know, sometimes a boob job is just a boob job.

You buy stuff in life you like.
Not to make people like you.

Well said. And that's kind of what the OP said.

 

[Keithy]

So since we don't agree with you we must be uneducated on the matter? And it makes me a troll that likes to bring people down?Sweet logic lady

I had this nice little response typed up, but then I deleted it because....

1. I do not feed trolls.
2. I do not feed trolls.
3. I do not feed trolls.
4. I do not feed trolls.

Posts like this make trolls lawl. Because you still got into it and wrote a response and then deleted it. Wasting your time. Then you posted about deleting it. You basically admitted to rage quiting and then claimed you rage quit because you don't feed trolls all the while you're feeding the trolls. QQ more, your tears are delicious.

 

[PunkInDrublic]

So since we don't agree with you we must be uneducated on the matter? And it makes me a troll that likes to bring people down?Sweet logic lady

I had this nice little response typed up, but then I deleted it because....

Because you'd rather just call me a troll four times for not having the same opinion as you? Well alright

 

[AshaSnow]

So since we don't agree with you we must be uneducated on the matter? And it makes me a troll that likes to bring people down?Sweet logic lady

I had this nice little response typed up, but then I deleted it because....

1. I do not feed trolls.
2. I do not feed trolls.
3. I do not feed trolls.
4. I do not feed trolls.

Posts like this make trolls lawl. Because you still got into it and wrote a response and then deleted it. Wasting your time. Then you posted about deleting it. You basically admitted to rage quiting and then claimed you rage quit because you don't feed trolls all the while you're feeding the trolls. QQ more, your tears are delicious.

I agree that my tears are delicious -- I've tasted them many times. Salty goodness, nom nom

 

[AshaSnow]

I really don't believe Punk is a troll, he just doesn't agree with the opinions of the two girls in this thread arguing about boob jobs. And a reminder: this thread was made for opinions.

Punk is douchey, hence I call troll. Maybe not all douches are trolls, but all trolls are douches. It's not like anything he said was said in a respectable inoffensive polite manner.

 

[Jupiter551]

I agree that my tears are delicious -- I've tasted them many times. Salty goodness, nom nom

You're adorable Asha (no matter what crazy opinion you have :whistle: ) and I suspect your tears could heal the sick :mrgreen:

 

[PunkInDrublic]

Punk is douchey

Word? I disagree with your opinion but see no need to insult you or call you a troll over it, wouldn't be a polite or respectable manner for me to just insult people that share different views as mine, some would probably find that offensive.

 

[AlexLady]

Stop getting upset over her opinion of you dumbass. You're being hypocritical.

 

[countrysquirter]

The relationship I have with breast implants is one of resentment. For years and years now I've been embarrassed of my boobs because, since they are large and heavy, they aren't perky. Even when I was 18 or 19 years old, they weren't perky. They are natural and hang as such.

Why have I been embarrassed, you ask, since this seems a natural thing? Because of the impact that breast implants have had on society. I've seen boobs 2 ways: Small and perky or Large and perky because they're enhanced. That's what most people in our era are used to seeing. You don't see a whole lot of nude models or porn stars (or anyone who you'd see naked in the media) with non-perky boobs (I hate the word "saggy" so I'm avoiding it here.) All my life, I've felt like the oddball because my tits don't sit all high and pretty on my chest. I've worn painfully strict bras in order to try and fit in, but that doesn't help much once I'm naked.

In the last 20 years, breast implants and plastic surgery has come a long way, and has grown increasingly popular, and I believe it has a lot to do with the fact that perky tits are what's accepted and what's the norm. So many girls are feeling the need to enhance theirs just to be "normal." It's really awful, if you ask me. The epidemic is just going to grow worse as the implants and surgery continue to develop and become easier and more accessible and a higher percentage of women go through with it. Girls who are like me will continue to become more and more the minority and feel ashamed about the way they look.

oooo. I can relate. NOw, I do not have overly large breasts.. just a c cup. But being "older" and having had two kids, I have the sag. When I started on MFC 3 weeks ago, I was super self conscious about them. I DID have somebody come in my room and call them "old saggy boobs" my very first night. I was mortified. I had been considering getting a breast implant simply for the the "perky" factor. (HATED the way they dangled when I got in doggy position) Its now three weeks later and I get 99% compliments on them with maybe the odd "saggy" comment and I feel MUCH better about them and have learned to accept them for what they are. I wish I could say the same about my belly though..heheh.

As for Alex, CONGRATS.. I am also on the side of "what makes a person happy" is what matters and I am looking forward to hearing about the process if you feel like sharing, as I am sure in a few more years I may consider it again depending on how I age.

 

[QueenMeadow]

Why have I been embarrassed, you ask, since this seems a natural thing? Because of the impact that breast implants have had on society. I've seen boobs 2 ways: Small and perky or Large and perky because they're enhanced. That's what most people in our era are used to seeing. You don't see a whole lot of nude models or porn stars (or anyone who you'd see naked in the media) with non-perky boobs (I hate the word "saggy" so I'm avoiding it here.) All my life, I've felt like the oddball because my tits don't sit all high and pretty on my chest. I've worn painfully strict bras in order to try and fit in, but that doesn't help much once I'm naked.

oooo. I can relate. NOw, I do not have overly large breasts.. just a c cup. But being "older" and having had two kids, I have the sag. When I started on MFC 3 weeks ago, I was super self conscious about them. I DID have somebody come in my room and call them "old saggy boobs" my very first night. I was mortified. I had been considering getting a breast implant simply for the the "perky" factor. (HATED the way they dangled when I got in doggy position) Its now three weeks later and I get 99% compliments on them with maybe the odd "saggy" comment and I feel MUCH better about them and have learned to accept them for what they are. I wish I could say the same about my belly though..heheh.

I agree with these. I had cute perky (girls said it hung a little weird, but at least they were perky!) titties till I got heavy, and had D's. Now that I am back to B and not so perky, I have felt very uncomfortable with my deflated munchkins but have resisted a small lift because most people I have spoken too (no doctors, just friends) say that I may have to get a implant cuz of the small B size.
I could never handle big titties and I admire anyone that can. Good luck on everyone's boobies!

As for me, I will continue to thrust my titties out and my shoulders back to fool the masses into believing I got perky nips. :dance:

 

[Zoomer]

That's what -psychiatrists- are for, dude, not cosmetic surgery. Traumatic experience or not, you need to -be mentally sane- before you get surgery. She's physically healthy by the time she'd get implants, so it's over. She's safe now. She made it. Sure it sucked, but come on; everyone has bad stuff happen to them. I'm sure a lot of people on this forum have had near death experiences and scars to show for it.

I simply think of the after affects of cancer like I do any other scar. If seeing it reminds you of it and puts you in a downwards spiral, or if you're ashamed of having lived through whatever gave you the scar and feel ugly either in general when people stare at you, yeah; I won't agree that you should get cosmetic surgery. I'll tell you to get help. It's not that you should flaunt your scars, but you shouldn't have to cover them up in shame, fear, memories, or because of other people's eyes.

Once you have a healthy perspective of your physical state, and you get your cosmetic surgery, then you'd be like any other mentally healthy person getting the cosmetic surgery. That's why it's no better or worse; because the surgery is still the same. Your past is just that: the past. Once you're over it, it's no better or worse.

When I say "over it" I don't mean that they have to forget it ever happened and carry on in their marry life, but to return to a healthy mental state. You can't get implants and make the past go away, or make yourself healthy if you're not already.


I never used cancer as a reason to justify that implants are a good thing, I just was arguing against the idea that it's "more acceptable" for someone with a "different" body to get implants vs someone who has a more average appearance.


Yeah, I'm listening, but that doesn't mean I won't say anything back.

And you Amber, haha, I normally write out the username if it's any other Amber. Eh... sorry to include you in the middle of such a heated thread, but I don't have any other examples that show what I'm trying to say.

They're safe from cancer, yes. BUT - i'd point out the motivations behind the operation as being why people see it as more acceptable. "Acceptable" is a strange term to use - it's open to interpretation - and so I always interpret it either as a societal norm, or a way to judge who's motivation is better (since boob jobs have wide acceptance, and since both result in boob jobs, i'd say societal norm isn't really relevant!). So, purely basing "acceptable" as motivational...

Motivation of having breast reconstruction surgery (implants): To be normal.
Your motivation to have breast implants: To have bigger, or better shaped, norks

Now when looking at motivations, acceptable becomes sympathetic to their reasons. Deserving. Understandable. Justifiable... list can go on. However, I should point out that I am English, and how "acceptable" the reason for implants is would have a huge impact when you have the NHS.

The lady requiring breast reconstruction surgery could most likely get the implants on the NHS - in other words, paid for by the tax payer. You, on the other hand, could not. So acceptable has a different meaning in the UK - I imagine the majority would be happy for the reconstruction surgery to be NHS funded, whereas yours...never

So acceptable to me means motivations for getting them - to me, the reconstruction surgery is far far more deserving of having implants paid for on the NHS It'd be interesting to know whether Health Insurance in the U.S. would likewise pay for her implants (know nothing about U.S. Health Insurance)

However, as said, you want to fill your fun bags with the fake fun juice - go for it You're paying, you can do what you like.

Look forward to seeing before/after pictures - for purely educational reasons of course :whistle: (so I can update my heuristic as to how to spot with 99.9% accuracy fake boobies! :lol: :lol: ).

 

[AshaSnow]

Health insurance doesn't pay for cosmetic surgery for the sake of cosmetic surgery, but I'm sure plenty of plans cover reconstructive surgery.

 

[Bocefish]

According to Alex, there is no such thing as breast reconstruction surgery. :whistle:

There's a difference between "cosmetic" and "reconstructive" surgery. Cosmetic is never necessary, and reconstruction restores function to the tissue. Having implants, for whatever reason, doesn't give it any necessary function.

 

[AlexLady]

Your motivation to have breast implants: To have bigger, or better shaped, norks

Nope. Nice job not reading what's been said a thousand times in this topic already.

 

[Bocefish]

So... you're getting breast implants, but it's not breast enhancement... it's a body modification?

 

[AlexLady]

Yep.

 

[Jupiter551]

So... you're getting breast implants, but it's not breast enhancement... it's a body modification?

Without biting my head off....what the hell is the difference?

If you just want to modify and aren't concerned about enhancing what's there fuck, get a wi-fi hotspot in one and an espresso machine in the other. That would be modification.

Getting artificial breast implants on the other hand, is absolutely literally enhancing what is there.

 

[hotbike0077]

"Your body is a temple, but how long can you live in the same house before you redecorate?" - Unknown

Do what you want. So long as YOUR happy with it, everyone else should be.

Absophukinglutly!

 

[AlexLady]

So... you're getting breast implants, but it's not breast enhancement... it's a body modification?

Without biting my head off....what the hell is the difference?

If you just want to modify and aren't concerned about enhancing what's there fuck, get a wi-fi hotspot in one and an espresso machine in the other. That would be modification.

Getting artificial breast implants on the other hand, is absolutely literally enhancing what is there.

I could never explain the difference to someone who doesn't know the difference, Jupiter. It's why I've compared them to tattoos. Only some people can even see the differences between a body mod--such as a tattoo or implants--and an "enhancement," because only some people understand what a body mod is in the first place. Even then, body mods have different types to even the people who get mods.


Enhancing? So now you believe that breast implants make boobs "enhanced?" Enhanced means better. You've made it clear that no matter how "natural" it looks, that you don't think it's better. Obviously breast implants are no more of an "enhancement" to me than it is to you. It's just: I don't think one is better than the other, regardless of how it starts out. One is just modified, the other is non-modified.

So if you don't think they're enhanced, and I don't think they're enhanced, why do I have to explain to you why they're not "enhanced?"

Unless... you think breast implants make boobs better?*

*drunk post

 

[Anonymous]

Is it wrong for someone who has DD to want them smaller? I hate being a big breasted woman. I wish I had smaller boobs. Id be happy with a B or C. I never asked for DD.....

 

[Jupiter551]

So... you're getting breast implants, but it's not breast enhancement... it's a body modification?

Without biting my head off....what the hell is the difference?

If you just want to modify and aren't concerned about enhancing what's there fuck, get a wi-fi hotspot in one and an espresso machine in the other. That would be modification.

Getting artificial breast implants on the other hand, is absolutely literally enhancing what is there.

I could never explain the difference to someone who doesn't know the difference, Jupiter. It's why I've compared them to tattoos. Only some people can even see the differences between a body mod--such as a tattoo or implants--and an "enhancement," because only some people understand what a body mod is in the first place. Even then, body mods have different types to even the people who get mods.


Enhancing? So now you believe that breast implants make boobs "enhanced?" Enhanced means better. You've made it clear that no matter how "natural" it looks, that you don't think it's better. Obviously breast implants are no more of an "enhancement" to me than it is to you. It's just: I don't think one is better than the other, regardless of how it starts out. One is just modified, the other is non-modified.

So if you don't think they're enhanced, and I don't think they're enhanced, why do I have to explain to you why they're not "enhanced?"

Unless... you think breast implants make boobs better?*

*drunk post

I'm not arrogant enough to think the definition depends on what *I* think of the boobs...the procedure is commonly called breast enhancement, I guess because the women who get it done for aesthetic reasons believe they are in fact enhancing their boobs, if I think it makes boobs worse should I go around calling it "breast destruction" or something? Heh.

I'm sure it's no accident that they want to label a lucrative cosmetic surgery with such positive terms as "enhancement" or "augmentation", prostheses is far more neutral.

Is it wrong for someone who has DD to want them smaller? I hate being a big breasted woman. I wish I had smaller boobs. Id be happy with a B or C. I never asked for DD.....

Yes Cassana, that's like a rich person saying they didn't ask to be born rich.

Getting a breast reduction is like destiny giving you a fabulous gift...and in return you spit in destiny's eye.

 

[AmyLemon]

Not that I disagree, but holy shit, who would want to look like they have their skin peeled back & two coconut shells stuff under their titty flesh/fat??? Who would look at an set of before & after pics & pick THAT type of fake breast out? Ick. >_>

This is why I decided to not get implants in the end. I did the research, took my time, found a wise surgeon and was fully committed to the project but ultimately they're not for me at this time in my life.

I was in the market for a very natural looking pair of new titties and my very seasoned and reasonable surgeon walked me through the process and assured me that without a breast lift I would wind up with "igloos protruding from your bony torso that wouldn't fool anyone" (we're Canadian so he actually did use the "IGLOO" analogy lol).

The breast lift was too much of a commitment, I could handle a subtle crease scar but the notion of having my nipples removed and a vertical scar running down to the crease doesn't jive. The extreme nature of that type of surgery coupled with an underlying genetic condition that effects my collagen development would potentially spell disaster. I would have wound up mangled by scars and running a good risk of having bright purple racing stripes (stretch marks) resulting from my skin not being able to handle the weight of the implants. Not a recipe for camwhore success.

So... No new boobs for Amy.
And that's OK because like Alex and so many of the other ladies on the forum my choice to get implants wasn't tied in with my self-esteem and was entirely based on my desire to wear tanktops and sun dresses without bras during our brief Canadian summers.
It had nothing to do with my "cam career" aside from the fact that as a camgirl I can write them off for tax purposes (something that I likely won't be able to do at any other time in my life presuming I'm not going to be a camwhore well into until retirement age but you never know)

When I announced to my room that I was getting new bewbs they had a unanimous shit-fit (hatemail and threats of 'never visiting my room again/never tip you again' included), and now that I'm not getting the procedure many are under the impression they "won" by virtue of their screams of , "nooooooooooo waaaaah sadface" and threats of rejection.

Their opinions on the topic however were irrelevant to me from the beginning and they can happydance all they want. A forum post debating the topic was not something I would have had the psychological fortitude to entertain, the topic was too polarizing and my interest in everyones opinion was non-existent.

I wanted bigger and "perkier" tittays BECAUSE I love my boobs as they are and the only way I could love them more is if there was MORE of them to love

Surgery wasn't for me because I would have come out with FrankenTits but I'm VERY pro implants for those who want 'em. The rumor that I'm not getting new tits because I've had an enlightening moment and now embrace my body the way it is is a goddamn lie lol, if I could I would and hellzyeah Alex you should too.

And I probably still WILL, someday, after the rigors of gravity and childbirth run their course and the only man who has to gaze upon my scars is a baby-daddy who would love them regardless and the other soccer moms who will admire my perky braless frankentits hidden beneath by adorable tanktop during our brief canadian summers.

 

[Teagz]

Is it wrong for someone who has DD to want them smaller? I hate being a big breasted woman. I wish I had smaller boobs. Id be happy with a B or C. I never asked for DD.....

Yes Cassana, that's like a rich person saying they didn't ask to be born rich.

Getting a breast reduction is like destiny giving you a fabulous gift...and in return you spit in destiny's eye.

No, it certainly ISN'T wrong. It's your body and you should do what you'd like. Big boobs aren't for everyone. Just as some girls with small breasts are allowed to want/get implants, girls who don't like they're large breasts are allowed to want/get a reduction. It's not spitting in destiny's eye, its what your comfortable with for your body.

 

[QueenMeadow]

Is it wrong for someone who has DD to want them smaller? I hate being a big breasted woman. I wish I had smaller boobs. Id be happy with a B or C. I never asked for DD.....

No. It is not wrong.
Big boobies give a strain on your back. If you don't want to deal with that, I don't see why you have to, JUST because you were given them by nature.
I think tying it into a rich person saying they don't want to be rich is ...well... stupid.

If you are rich and don't want to be, it is not an issue to do what you have to do. A rich person shouldn't feel like they are OBLIGATED to be rich, just because they were born to it. They can go out on their own, start their own life, give their money to charity. I don't see how this is wrong.

Hence, if you are big boobed, and don't want it, give it away. Don't let other people guilt you into it because Nature fucking gave it to you.

Nature gave me brunette hair, and I fucking dyed that sucker red. Am I in the wrong? I'm gonna go spit in my momma's eye.

 

[Zoomer]

Your motivation to have breast implants: To have bigger, or better shaped, norks

Nope. Nice job not reading what's been said a thousand times in this topic already.

Oh yes, sorry, it's because of your love for Science and modifications

I forgot that "I love science and i love changing me" has such a very different impact upon the entire post - oh wait, it makes no difference.

The way you focus upon that single aspect you can correct, whilst ignoring the points I brought up - directly relevant to what your entire thread is about... speaks volumes.
You appear to entirely ignore it - and instead just attack.

As I said first time, this entire thread appears nothing more than an attention trip
You've got an ego, you've decided you'd challenge people very aggressively in the thread under the guise of "I'd really like to know", and obviously enjoy trying to smack down all points with your blase attitude - or ignore those you either can't, or were actually relevant to what you claimed to be the point of the thread.

I repeat again, you aren't interested in people's opinions

Ciao.

 

[AlexLady]

So if I just let you guys talk over your beliefs and obsessions with breasts and don't respond to every point of all of your threads, I'm ignoring you, but if I do reply I'm just attacking you. I'm the one who is having an attention trip while you're the one who feels ignored. Right. You know, you can ignore me and this topic all you want and I wouldn't be like "y u no post rply to me?!"

XD


And yeah, I'm sure that large breasts can be a pain in many ways to some women, and see nothing wrong with them getting rid of that pain. It's not instantly cosmetic at that point, if they're doing it to stop pain and all, so looking at it just as a change of appearance doesn't work; that's just as likely a side effect as it is a desired result.

 

[Paulie Walnuts]

Getting a breast reduction is like destiny giving you a fabulous gift...and in return you spit in destiny's eye.

No offense but that has to be the most stupid thing I've read all day.
Unless you were joking.
In which case, nevermind.
:lol:

 

[Jupiter551]

Getting a breast reduction is like destiny giving you a fabulous gift...and in return you spit in destiny's eye.

No offense but that has to be the most stupid thing I've read all day.
Unless you were joking.
In which case, nevermind.
:lol:

Yeah it was a joke, but then girls were all like :cussing: ain10: :angry-cussingblack:

Then again as old Geoff said - "Many a man may say full sooth in game and play"; as a natural boob lover I can't help but think it a tragedy when someone with great boobs like Cassana wants to deepsix them.